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my friend who uses internet dating sites saw my boyfriend on one we have been together for 5 years and have 3 kids...we did separate for a few weeks and he said that's when he joined up but I also went through his emails and it seems he joined 6 different sites mainly the ones for casual fun...I checked his message some he wrote something but no pic and others he wrote profile up and added pics..he hasn't sent message but was that cos you have to pay to do so but if it was free who knows he may of messaged them .I packed his stuff and asked him to leave as I am very hurt and feel so betrayed..i asked why did he do it he said cos I hurt him in the past and he wanted to hurt me back which does not make any sense because if my friend didn't see him online I would never have known (what you don't know don't hurt you right)so how could that be a valid excuse then he said he was on there cos we broke up and I wasn't talking to him...we are meant to get married in September but I really am not sure if I could ever trust him again I feel so let down...also want to add when we decided to give things another go I asked him if he had anything to tell me and he said no he had not been in contact with any girls etc....he also denied he had been logging into the sites when one said on there online today and other said online within a week how can that be wrong .....so confused and do not know what to do sorry for the long essay