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EducationRe: UNIBEN Faithful by Mzflexydeeva(op): 12:32pm On Jan 07, 2015
What is this I hear about riot in unibenhuh?
RomanceRe: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by Mzflexydeeva(op): 11:48am On Jan 07, 2015
pweetixandy:
Ur right.
smiley
RomanceRe: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by Mzflexydeeva(op): 11:48am On Jan 07, 2015
iamord:
Nice tips tho! This I already know, and am choosy about my words especially when talking online for the first time, but even with all the format, we got some crazy girls.. That can chat with you for 30mins with k, kk, aiit, yea, nope, wat?.. I meanhuh
on this case I could say u've met "her" in a bad mood
RomanceRe: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by Mzflexydeeva(op): 11:01am On Jan 07, 2015
Aktor365:
100% true. Took me sometime to get this online approach to ladies, so I just laff wen I remember d good old days.

Recomemded 4 all guyz,tho.
that's d drill...... girls like "out of the box"
RomanceRe: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by Mzflexydeeva(op): 11:00am On Jan 07, 2015
vizkiz:
only bit*ches replies with "k" angry

that's a perfect turn off for any dude in his right senses
I personally dont c d difference........ I use kkk. I guess wen u get familiar with an individual it won't mata if it's ok, k or kkk
RomanceRe: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by Mzflexydeeva(op): 10:59am On Jan 07, 2015
dguyindcorner:
You are very correct, BUT...

EVEN IF YOU FOLLOW ALL THESE RULES YOU ONLY HAVE 40% OF BEEN SUCCESSFUL.

YOUR DP OR PICTURES SPEAK VOLUME, THAT ALONE TAKES 50%.

DON'T ASK ME FOR THE REMAINING 10%
hmmmmmmmmm! I think it's 60% of been successful as against 40......the way your conversation starts out goes a long way
RomanceRe: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by Mzflexydeeva(op): 10:43am On Jan 07, 2015
Kennywills7:
on point
grin
RomanceDon't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by Mzflexydeeva(op): 10:34am On Jan 07, 2015
Over the years I have heard this a lot and I have tried to understand the situation. The truth is, no lady likes a stereotype guy.


It is so common to find guys getting the monosyllabic response over instant messages because they always say the wrong things.
Before you attack to bite let me finish.


It is no longer news that we meet more people online today than we meet in person. A Lot of guys call it "forming" for others it's just "annoying attitude by ladies" but I say, know what to say and you can get the best out of a conversation.





How would you expect a lady you are chatting with to take you serious when the 1st time u chat her up all you can say is:



1. Who is dishuh That's a no no......
I know you'll say a lot of ladies do that but it's a no no for a guy for Christ sake she isn't going to wanna listen to you. If she's not giving out her name, don't take it the hard way. Some ladies prefer to be anonymous till they feel comfortable so just give it time.

2. Don't start up a conversation by asking " what do you do".
For heaven's sake, you wanna make friends not a business partner.

3. You only just met her online and you are already asking what are parents do for a living undecided haba now......

4. If you want her to totally loose interest please ask what her best food is or her hubby.... menh that's so 19th century.


5. If you are interested in her beyond friendship please never ask " what kindda guys she likes"
That's a signal for "complex"




There are lots of reasons ladies pay little or no attention to a guy the first time they chat but for the sake of a healthy conversation it's better to go with the flow. The first conversation should not always be an interview trust me lots of ladies hate that.





Best form of conversation:
Boy: hey what's up?
Girl: who are you?

Boy: got your number/ pin from......
Girl: k.... what do you want?


Boy: just wanna be friends if you don't mind..
Girl: K

Boy: my name is...... how are you doing and how is your day turning out? hope you are not busy and can chat...



No girl will ever turn down such polite approach as against the typical.....

Boy: hi
Girl: hi
Boy: can I meet you?
What do you do for a living?
Where are you based?......
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 9:49am On Jan 07, 2015
Good morning this morning DAY 7
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 2:57pm On Jan 06, 2015
BORING
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 2:57pm On Jan 06, 2015
opeyemy3939:
Good afternoon, dear!
how r u doing?
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 11:00am On Jan 06, 2015
Oildichotomy:
[color=#000066]Since I joined this conversation... No lady including the OP haven't taken interest in me.

This is not fair to the development of the African continent.

grin
Change and embrace me now before I change my mind especially my heart
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hahahahhhahahahahahahaha! Wat has d op donehuh
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 8:09am On Jan 06, 2015
Good morning this morning, day 6
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 8:08am On Jan 06, 2015
tojuboy:
hw?
when u fig out how, u r one step closer to solving it
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 5:10pm On Jan 05, 2015
tojuboy:
amen but it wont leave if sumone doesnt help me.
b4 one can help u have to make a conscious effort
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 5:09pm On Jan 05, 2015
illicit:
e kasan ma, hope u speak yoruba? Se ise n lo?
e kasan ooooo bawo ni? Se dada lo waa?
Ise wan be o jare
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 12:09pm On Jan 05, 2015
Good morning abi na good day
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 3:08am On Jan 05, 2015
Back to d normal stuff..... holiday is over tongue
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 12:46am On Jan 03, 2015
obyno10ten:
Check ur twitter
didn't c anything
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 7:06pm On Jan 02, 2015
obyno10ten:
Happy New Year
same to you
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 10:15am On Jan 02, 2015
So it's 2015..... it's day 2 and i'm already bored stiff. well let's just say I miss lipsrsealed
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 10:12am On Jan 02, 2015
smiley
Spectrahertz:
*enters with bowl of coco pops, sits in a corner, waits for her to notice* cheesy
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 10:11am On Jan 02, 2015
Dajugba:
smiley Hi! Happy New Year to everyone that comment here. I like to make new friends. Add Me on: 32223916. Mature minds only.
happy new year to u too....
EducationRe: UNIBEN Faithful by Mzflexydeeva(op): 9:57am On Jan 02, 2015
confistified:
. Where's my meat
inside freezer grin
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 5:17pm On Jan 01, 2015
frank043:
Happy new year dear Mzflexydeeva...I wish you JESUS!
thanks a lot
EducationRe: UNIBEN Faithful by Mzflexydeeva(op): 5:09pm On Jan 01, 2015
confistified:
Happy new year peeps
same to U
EducationRe: UNIBEN Faithful by Mzflexydeeva(op): 5:04pm On Jan 01, 2015
mesoade:
Uniben students na im get highest population for NL
y we no dey c dem here?
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 12:13am On Jan 01, 2015
Happy new yr, welcome to 2015
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 8:17pm On Dec 31, 2014
funarosho:
baby mi I day good ooo just dat I keep seing ur name in my dream
hahahahaha! Check well
EducationRe: UNIBEN Faithful by Mzflexydeeva(op): 11:55am On Dec 31, 2014
Ferdybaba:
mzflexydeeva how do u do?
am fyn & u?
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 11:45am On Dec 31, 2014
Good morning people: who is up for a chat?
EducationRe: UNIBEN Faithful by Mzflexydeeva(op): 3:29pm On Dec 30, 2014
obyno10ten:
are u up? Where are other uniben peeps?
my dear i no know ooooooooo..... them dey shame

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