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RomanceRe: Woman Set To Marry Same Man Who Has Jilted Her At The Alter Thrice by MzHolly(op): 11:12pm On Jun 23, 2013
huh huh
passionate88: Holly molly.
CareerPoses No Woman Should Use At Work To Avoid Molestation by MzHolly(op): 10:49pm On Jun 23, 2013
cant post here due to the rules but check em out below
http://nairatunes..com/2013/06/bad-poses-women-should-never-try-at.html
RomanceWoman Set To Marry Same Man Who Has Jilted Her At The Alter Thrice by MzHolly(op):
This i must say is the most weird story of 'love' and patience i have ever read..
I still cant imagine while this 37yr old lady, who has been jilted 4 times by the same man, (her 67 year old fiance) 4 whole times, and she still hasn't given up on him. she hopes this fifth time, there would be an actual wedding....

The preparations for a perfect summer wedding had begun. One of London’s most opulent venues had been booked and the bridal gown - a strapless, ballerina-length silk confection from Elizabeth Emanuel - stood ready on its mannequin.

A stack of embossed invitations had been printed and 90 guests had marked the date in their diaries

The wedding of model Susan Sangster to actor Frank Mughan promised to be a magnificent occasion. The reception was to be at the Hurlingham Club, a grand neo-classical mansion beside the Thames at Fulham.

As the big day in August 2008 grew closer, Susan’s excitement increased: she’d waited until she was 37 to marry and was certain Frank - cultured, charming and 24 years her senior - would be a loving and dependable husband as well as a devoted dad to her son Luke, then six, from an earlier relationship
it gets more interesting.


But she’s never had a chance to find out because just as she was poised to address the invitations, Frank decided he did not want to get married after all - at least not yet. It was all too much, too soon, he said.

He suggested the wedding be downgraded to an engagement party. That way the glorious venue - for which they had paid £5,000 - would not be wasted.
Susan was understandably bereft. She and Frank had known each other for almost a year; the decision to tie the knot had not been a hasty one.

But she hid her disappointment, went along with his plan and steeled herself for the task of explaining to her family that the nuptials had been deferred.


‘I was acutely embarrassed and in floods of tears when I told my mum,’ recalls Susan. ‘But she said: “An engagement is a step forward, so don’t worry.” And Frank had apologised and reassured me that he loved me.I accepted it was a huge step for him. He was 61 and a bachelor who lived with his mother. This was his first marriage and he’d also be taking on the role of father to my son. So I was prepared to be patient. And, as he pointed out, we should do things in the right order, holding an engagement party first.’
Most women, she concedes, would be less forgiving. But Frank, she believed, was worth waiting for. Perversely, she still saw him as solid and dependable, and accepted his argument that they needed more time to organise the wedding.
I noticed him as he walked in,’ she says, ‘He’s 6ft 4in, well-built and very fit and muscular. When he spoke to me I was struck by his warm and cultured voice‘I was fascinated by him. He’s an excellent listener, amusing and emotionally supportive,’ says Susan, who was still smarting from the break-up of her relationship with Luke’s father, an eye surgeon. ‘The fact he’d been in movies did entice me. I thought he was a bit of a catch.’
Frank wasted no time in suggesting they meet again. The relationship flourished and, although initially disquieted by the age gap, Susan conceded that Frank looked much younger than his years.
He met her family, then whisked her off for a romantic weekend in Paris. An impartial observer could not have failed to believe he was madly in love with her. From the off, there was a tacit agreement that marriage would follow. Indeed, he bought her a diamond engagement ring, and talk turned to weddings.

‘It was an easy conversation - we both mentioned marrying at various times. In the end we said: “Let’s just do it!” ’ remembers Susan.

She began organising their wedding. ‘I saw an outfit for Luke. I bought my dress. Then his sister, Sharon, who’s a member of the Hurlingham Club, helped us get the room there. I thought, “Wow!” It was the perfect wedding venue.’
But just before the big event was finalised, Frank began to back-pedal. Hasty adjustments were made and a lavish engagement party replaced the wedding.



Susan was devastated, but it was not long before her thoughts turned again to tying the knot. She and Frank began scouting locations.
‘We were aiming for a wedding in the summer of 2009, and went to Chiswick House, a beautiful Palladian mansion that is set in glorious grounds,’ she recalls.


‘Frank was concerned about the expense. He suggested the two of us just fly to Las Vegas and marry in a little chapel there. But I was adamant: I wanted all my family to see me married.’

In the end, nature devised its own impediment to her plans: Susan discovered she was pregnant. She and Frank were overjoyed and Jake was born in June 2009.


But Frank seemingly seized the excuse of a new baby to halt the nuptials again. Meanwhile, he divided his time between Susan’s flat in Chiswick and the home he shared with his mother Norah, now 90, less than a mile away.

While many women would have viewed Frank’s absence at his mother’s as evidence of his reluctance to be a bridegroom, Susan, it seems, was wilfully blind.
She forged ahead with new wedding plans - this time at her local church, Our Lady of Grace and St Edward in Chiswick; as Luke was an altar boy there, she decided it was an ideal place to make her vows.




‘We went to meet the priest, Father Dwyer, to discuss dates,’ Susan recalls. ‘In all we met him three times. But Frank found a reason why every date he put forward was unsuitable.

‘First he wanted it to coincide with my birthday, then his. Finally, he said his mum was ill.
‘I said, quite reasonably I thought: “How do you know she’ll be ill on that date?” and he said it was because her health was generally poor.But she’d seemed quite hale and hearty at our engagement party. ‘I began to think there was absolutely no substance to his excuses.’

A more cynical person would doubtless have come to that conclusion sooner, but Susan insists Frank was, in every other way, an emotionally supportive and loving partner. He just seemed to have antipathy toward weddings.
Once again, she felt, ‘humiliated and embarrassed’ by his dithering. In the end, the date that had been earmarked for their wedding became Jake’s christening.



‘It was a farce, really,’ says Susan. ‘I’d said to my family: “We’re looking at this date.” Then it was changed to another date, then another. Then it wasn’t a wedding at all but a christening.
‘I was mortified by his constant shilly-shallying. He’d even emailed the priest directly with his excuses. Still - gullible as it now seems - I was prepared to keep indulging him.’
His excuses had started to wear me down,’ Susan admits. ‘My friends all told me I could do better.
After all, Frank didn’t even have a home of his own. They urged me to get rid of him, although my mother, who knows he is devoted to the children, has always been kindly disposed towards him and persuaded me to give him another chance.’

Hope triumphed over reason again, and within eight months the wedding plans were revived for a third time.


Neither Susan nor Frank was flush with cash. Indeed, Susan had sold her Elizabeth Emanuel wedding dress because they were short of money and a low-budget affair seemed to fit the bill.‘Frank suggested we get married at a little church in Notting Hill - St Francis of Assisi - where his father is buried,’ says Susan. ‘He said: “Let’s just make it a small affair - our families and a handful of friends - and do it around your birthday.” ’


She duly bought a wedding dress in a charity shop for £80 - a corseted cream number - and prepared for a pared-down, but intimate, event.



‘I even wrote to retail companies offering to work for for a couple of weeks in return for something - a bridesmaid’s dress, shoes, jewellery - for the wedding,’ she says.
But once again, unsurprisingly, Frank let her down.
On the day of their final appointment with the priest, he cancelled.
He said his mother was unwell, and I accept she was,’ says Susan. ‘But she was elderly. She was often unwell.’

This time, Susan’s patience had worn thin. In February this year she relocated to Bedford near her mother and siblings, and refused to sleep with Frank until he made a commitment.


He was angry, although my friends all congratulated me on seeing sense at last,’ she says.
But this April, she softened again, and gave him one final chance in circumstances that would be comical if they weren’t so pitiful.


She suggested he write to Don’t Tell The Bride, the BBC show in which the groom organises every detail of a surprise wedding in exchange for £12,000. It seemed an unorthodox but perfect solution to their troubles: Susan would get the wedding she wanted and the TV company would foot the bill. She even succeeded in persuading Frank to write to the BBC, putting forward a cogent case.


All that remained was to film an amateur video for the show in which the happy couple would speak about their hopes and aspirations for the big day. A date was duly arranged for Frank to go to Susan’s home in Bedford and make the film.


Susan dressed with care, put on make-up and set up her camera. Then she waited. And waited.
But Frank did not show up


‘Against my better judgment I agreed to write to Don’t Tell The Bride and I wasn’t unwilling to make the video,’ he protests. ‘But I just said to Susan: “Can’t we do it later?” ’


His response seems to sum it all up: endless procrastination.


He goes on: ‘I’ve said to her a dozen times: “Why don’t we fly to Las Vegas and get married quietly there?” But she wants a big, white catwalk wedding, and I’m not a wealthy man. I teach drama. I can’t afford it.

Does he, nonetheless, concede that he has let her down lamentably? ‘I may have wriggled out of getting married on a couple of occasions,’ he admits.
So we are left with an implacable would-be bride who says she won’t sleep with Frank until he commits, and a recalcitrant groom who protests, even now, that he adores her.



Will Susan ever get eternal bachelor Frank, 67 this month, down the aisle?



‘I’ve never said I won’t marry her,’ he protests. But that hardly seems an unequivocal declaration of his commitment to do so, does it?


Unbelievably, it would seem Susan may give him a fifth chance. ‘I know I’m naïve, but I believe I’ll get him to church one day,’ she insists.
We’ll just have to hope the delay will not prove interminable. Otherwise, having had four non-weddings, Susan might just get the funeral.
http://nairatunes..com/2013/06/woman-set-to-marry-same-man-who-jilted.html

SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Spain - Confederations Cup: (0 - 3) On 23rd June 2013 by MzHolly(f): 3:49pm On Jun 23, 2013
NIGERIA WILL LOSE BY 8 - 0
EntertainmentRe: 21 Pictures That Will Restore Your Faith In Humanity by MzHolly(f): 10:31pm On Jun 22, 2013
most of these cannot restore any faith as far as am concerned...saving sheep..what if u get drowned? mtcheew
Nairaland GeneralRe: Lu Zhi-hao - China's Fattest Boy by MzHolly(f): 1:21pm On Jun 21, 2013
see face
CelebritiesD Banj Acquires Suit Of Money From Okunoren Worth $25, 000 by MzHolly(op): 1:01pm On Jun 21, 2013
International superstar, entertainer and Oliver Twist crooner, Dapo Oyebanjo popularly known as D’banj is always breaking new grounds in terms of his wardrobe and clothing items. In a recent newspaper interview, he confirmed he wears the same wristwatch as American rapper Jay-Z, valued at $50,000.


He has been appointed as the Hennessy Artistry artiste for 2013 and also recently became the Goodwill ambassador for the Bank of Industry. D’banj has continued to rise in stardom despite his split from erstwhile partner and friend, Don Jazzy. He has continued to command huge sums of money in endorsements, appearances and performances thus still making him the highest earning Nigerian artiste of all time. His DKM concert being held on June 23rd 2013 at the Eko Hotel & Suites will feature International rapper, 2Chainz as well as another surprise guest.


This increasing earning power has also led to an increase in spending as D’banj just took delivery of what is known as the “Suit of Money”. Designed by Okunoren, Nigeria’s leading clothing brand, the Suit is made of actual One Hundred Dollar bills and cost a whopping $25,000, which is approximately N3.7 million. It was entirely sewn by hand in London but was then taken to Italy for the specialized Milanese buttonholes to be done at the same factory used by Tom Ford.

His new song titled Blame it on the Money”, featuring Snoop Lion and fellow Good Music act Big Sean goes further to emphasize his wealth where he states he is unapologetic for being rich, it is set to become one of the major anthems this summer.
http://nairatunes..com/2013/06/d-banj-acquires-suit-of-money-from.html
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Uruguay - Confederations Cup: (1 - 2) On 20th June 2013 by MzHolly(f): 12:13pm On Jun 20, 2013
lineal: huh
suarez super hatrick
Music/RadioRe: How Did Future Get Famous Sef? by MzHolly(op): 12:00pm On Jun 20, 2013
Rap maestro: That guy that did the chorus in Acehood's Bugatti?
yeah
Music/RadioRe: How Did Future Get Famous Sef? by MzHolly(op): 11:58am On Jun 20, 2013
Goldie20: I asked same question.. That dude suckssssssssssssss Lol.. but i like that turn on the light song tho.. wink
lool yeah. the only time else i liked him was on tapout
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Uruguay - Confederations Cup: (1 - 2) On 20th June 2013 by MzHolly(f): 10:08pm On Jun 19, 2013
angry
CelebritiesFunke Akindele Beats Up Nkem Owoh (osuofia) SHOCKING PICTURES! by MzHolly(op): 8:16pm On Jun 19, 2013
grin grin

Funke Akindele is seen thrashing actor Nkem Owoh on set of their new movie – Sherikoko Reloaded. Why did she beat the shit out of him. Find out when the movie premieres
more pics here http://nairatunes..com/2013/06/funke-akindele-beats-up-osuofia.html

Music/RadioHow Did Future Get Famous Sef? by MzHolly(op): 12:13am On Jun 17, 2013
One of the greatest mysteries of today is how Future got famous. I guess you can get famous by acting like you have down syndrome and talking into a broken auto tuner. All faith in humanity is lost.

future the dude in lil wayne..bittches love me and richgang's tapout
HealthNew Study Shows Men Are The Cause Of Menopause by MzHolly(op): 12:06am On Jun 17, 2013
Why do women go into menopause?

“The ovaries basically shut down,” explains West Penn Hospital OBGYN Dr. Emily Lebovitz. “Why exactly that occurs we don’t know.”

Around age 50, women end their reproductive years — an event called menopause. Hormones change, menstrual cycles stop, and natural childbearing is no longer a possibility.

Menopause could be nature’s way of matching motherhood to younger bodies.

“It’s certainly healthier for them to have children in their 20s, 30s, 40s, and then it becomes much more difficult,” Dr. Lebovitz continues.

But a Canadian researcher says it’s because of men, and because of competition.

Using computer modeling, he found competition among men of any age for younger mates left older females with less chance of reproducing.

He says the result is that genes favoring menopause got passed down through the generations, so that now it’s a normal part of the female genetic blueprint.

But there are problems with this theory.

“That’s an assumption that they made when they started their computer model, that men do like younger mates, and I don’t think you can make that assumption,” says Dr. Lebovitz.

What’s more, if menopause is genetically determined and influenced by the environment, you would expect that some women would not go through menopause, or with increased life expectancy, the length of fertility might proportionally lengthen. But that hasn’t been the case.

“We haven’t seen a change in the age of menopause in general. It’s somewhat preposterous to assume this has to do with men’s choices,” Dr. Lebovitz says. “Computer studies are difficult. Certainly population based studies can have more validity.”

Theories abound as to why women go into menopause, but the latest hypothesis being put forward suggests it may be men — or specifically their preference for younger mates —that has led to women's loss of fertility at a certain age.

Researchers at McMaster University believe that over tens of thousands of years, a lack of reproduction among older women has given rise to menopause as an unintended result of evolutionary natural selection.

Using computer modelling, the researchers found that over time, competition among men of all ages for younger mates left older females with much less chance of reproducing.

"We are saying somewhere along the line, men began to change their preference in mating," said evolutionary biologist Rama Singh, co-author of the study published in this week's issue of the journal PLOS Computational Biology.

"What we're saying is that menopause will occur if there is a preferential mating with younger women and older women are not reproducing," he said Thursday from Hamilton.

Singh said women would have had children when they were younger — from 15 to 30, based on the computer model.
Menopause an "age-related" disease, researcher says

Any genetic mutations that caused an end to fertility later in life would be passed down from generation to generation, he said.

And over time, an accumulation of such mutations harmful to female fertility ended up producing a menopausal period that became part of the overall human female genome, the hypothesis suggests.

"It's a very simple theory. What it does is it demystifies menopause. ... It becomes a simple age-related disease, if you can call it that," said Singh.

"That's just like all the mutations that affect our aging — white hair, weak muscles, this and that. These are mutations which affect fertility."

The researchers' hypothesis runs counter to prevailing theories about menopause, including the widely held "grandmother theory."
The grandmother theory

That theory suggests that women evolved to become infertile after a certain age to allow them to assist with rearing grandchildren, thus helping to promote survival of their children's offspring.

Kristen Hawkes, an anthropologist at the University of Utah in Salt Lake City, is among the leading proponents of the grandmother theory.
Other primates, such as chimpanzees, do not live as long as humans, but females of the species have a loss of fertility, or parturition, at similar ages to their human counterparts, she said. Female chimps rarely live beyond their child-bearing years, usually dying in their 30s or sometimes their 40s.

"The preference men have for young partners is a striking contrast with other primates," Hawkes said by email, noting that it's been well-documented that male chimpanzees prefer older females as mates.

"My guess about that has been it's a consequence of our life history — something selection would favour after — not before — our grandmothering life history evolved ... when women continue to be healthy and competent beyond their fertility."

Singh, however, doesn't believe the grandmother theory holds up from an evolutionary perspective.

"How do you evolve infertility? It is contrary to the whole notion of natural selection. Natural selection selects for fertility, for reproduction — not for stopping it," he said.

"This theory says if women were reproducing all along, and there were no preference against older women, women would be reproducing like men are for their whole lives."

Besides ending reproduction, menopause also affects a woman's health as hormonal changes increase the risk for such conditions as cardiovascular disease and osteoporosis, said Singh.

He hopes the new theory might spawn research into ways to prevent menopause, which would lengthen a woman's reproductive life while also helping to maintain better health as she ages.

"Until now, it has been something that you could not do anything about except (deal with) the symptoms."
http://www.cbc.ca/news/health/story/2013/06/14/hamilton-menopause-men.html?cmp=rss
CelebritiesPicture Of Tiwa Savage As A Kid by MzHolly(op): 8:12pm On Jun 15, 2013

EntertainmentWhat Is Wrong With This Picture? by MzHolly(op): 3:12pm On Jun 15, 2013

SportsRe: Brazil Vs Japan - Confederations Cup - (3 - 0) On 15th June 2013 by MzHolly(f): 2:54pm On Jun 15, 2013
i hope i see hot guys in the spectators stand, wanna see some packs
CelebritiesWho Rocked It Better, Ice Prince Or Cassie? by MzHolly(op): 12:50pm On Jun 15, 2013
According to Ice Prince, Cassie inspired his use of this cloth in his Aboki video, but who the cloth fit pass?

http://nairatunes..com/2013/06/who-rocked-it-better-ice-prince-or.html

CelebritiesRe: Video Of Davido As A 10 Year Old Kid by MzHolly(op): 10:51am On Jun 15, 2013
frontpage embarassed
CrimeMan Stabbed During Menage A Trois After He Refused To Change Positions by MzHolly(op):
http://nairatunes..com/2013/06/man-stabbed-during-3some-after-he.html
A menage a trois went horribly wrong last Friday when a North Dakota man stabbed a male friend after he refused to switch positions during a tryst with a female, according to court records.

Ashley Hunter, 33, has been charged with felony aggravated assault for allegedly stabbing Orlando Dewitt, 37, in the arm during the encounter.

Hunter, who met Dewitt in prison, invited three women over to his home in the 700 block of Fourth Street North in Fargo on Friday night.

The group, including Dewitt, then went drinking at the Windbreak Bar on 32nd Avenue South. After they returned home, Hunter joined Dewitt and one of the women in a sexual act.

When Hunter asked Dewitt to switch positions, he refused and the two men began arguing.

Hunter then reached into the couch and pulled out what Dewitt described to officers as a butcher knife 12 inches long and an inch wide.
The woman grabbed her clothing and ran into the bathroom with Dewitt, who left his clothes behind.

Hunter began banging on the door, telling him to get out of the house, at one point forcing the door open and splintering the wood.

Dewitt told police he ‘decided to run for the front door,’ and as he did so he said he felt the knife cut his arm. As he fled the house he grabbed the woman’s phone from the table and used it to call 911 from the alley.
While in the alley, he could hear Hunter yelling that he was going to kill him, and that he could get his clothing off the porch, Dewitt told investigators.

Court documents say police recovered a knife fitting Dewitt’s description from the draining board in the home's kitchen. They also found blood stains leading from the front door of the house to the alley.

Hunter was taken into custody Friday. He was charged Monday with a Class C felony charge of aggravated assault.

Hunter was booked into the Cass County jail in lieu of $5000 bail. He remains locked up in advance of a March 13 court appearance.

CareerRe: " Oga At The Top" Shem Obafaiye Excels in His Core Job by MzHolly(f): 12:25pm On Jun 14, 2013
why people de comment with .
CelebritiesRe: Video Of Davido As A 10 Year Old Kid by MzHolly(op): 10:04pm On Jun 13, 2013
leuelliot: Take a look at those cars parked there. factor in their year of production(even if bought tear rubber) was he 10 in 2004?
yup
EntertainmentRe: There Is A New Trend Amongst Gay Men . . . Getting 'EXTREME' Booty Implants(pic) by MzHolly(op): 8:50pm On Jun 13, 2013
hornipipe: This won't affect his waist??
dunno but he looks like half horse half semi nekkid hottie
FashionLadies, Would You Rock This Hairstyle? by MzHolly(op): 8:44pm On Jun 13, 2013
Carrottop grin

EntertainmentRe: There Is A New Trend Amongst Gay Men . . . Getting 'EXTREME' Booty Implants(pic) by MzHolly(op): 7:33pm On Jun 13, 2013
[quote author=Texas.Cowgirl]DOnt act like you aint enticed to touch[/quote]i wanna see him nekkid sef
CelebritiesVideo Of Davido As A 10 Year Old Kid by MzHolly(op):
Ok this was on the ocassion of his 10th birthday, dude looked so cute n chubby and he sounded intelligent not nowadays were he seems so scruffy angry


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YvNpXFxTuiI
EntertainmentThere Is A New Trend Amongst Gay Men . . . Getting 'EXTREME' Booty Implants(pic) by MzHolly(op):
Sayum dude got six packs with 50 inch ass....chale this guys arent smiling this days
http://nairatunes..com/2013/06/new-trend-amongst-gays-having-boob-and.html

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