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mrking3: [b][/b]the only thing that keeps distance relationship going is TRUST, commitment and communication. I've been in Distance Relationship with my partner for over SIX years now! And I've really had no reason to regret coz it works for us! Truth is you don't even need a third party's input on most of your relationship matters! Only you both can make it work! If you don't have mutual Trust for each other I don't see the need to remain in the relationship

sameer1212: gbam. ansa dis question bfore i coment.

MrCork: ...ermmm sweery...u never been to London..so pliss plis plis.. show respectto Londoners. ..its not our fault that no man wants u on Nairaland (no oofeinse)

okparaugo: Dear, ask him when he is gonna be around to see you again.

Have a heart to heart talk with him. Tell him your fears, that if they are real, somehow you ate gonna know. Tell him to.be sincere with you.

MrCork: ...u r a gold diggger...u muss never be trusssted & i dont want u..ever!!!

okparaugo: There are mid term breaks, SUG week and so on. Times when he could get 3 to 5 days off lectures.

November 2013 is to far to me, so he didn't come home to lagos after first semester exams ?

I can't handle such long periods without seeing my sweetheart..

MrCork: ...Migoma...madam, ok so u want to quit datin the guy coz he refuse to spend his school fees moiney on u....abi? so u r one of those university Gold diggers..abi? 10 outter 10 i bet u r dark skin...I lie??

...prooofs our point...dark skin females are never be trusssted!! (no oofeinse)

okparaugo: Sorry, my head is running wild.

I hate break ups

Harbosede02: Follow ur heart.....u jst av a doubting mind concerning d relationship,according to ur post,d relationship asn't given any sign of wantin to quit it,i think u sud think abt d positive outcome nt d negative outcome,then u sud as well be a lil bit more patient.
Datz all.

okparaugo: How are you gonna handle the break up. ?

Her : Boo, are cheating on me ?

Him: Why do you ask ?

Her: I mean, how do you keep body and soul together in school ?

Him: Sweet, body no be firewood.

Her: So my suspicion has been right ?

Him: I never said so, I self service.

Her: sobbing.. ( I want a break up )

Him: goes on his knees ( I can't live without you ).

Continues...

okparaugo: Right there in lag ?

It depends on how it happened.

Did your friend seduce him ?

okparaugo: And you don't wanna cheat on him.

Has there been any signs leading to your suspicion ?

Maybe an erratic manner he sometimes picks or avoids your calls certain times ?

okparaugo: She is suspicious of her boo.

As a relationship councillor, I need certain [b][/b]information to calm her nerves.

She is such a cute little girl.

Her heart needs guidance.. kinda

banega: Lool, sleep run comot for my eyes a bit immediately i read the bolded,. smh for you Ugochukwu!! What kinda silly question is this please?

KingTom: Ah pretty lady, frowning will only give you wrinkles oo . smile for me joor

Eyop: MzOma:

Long distance relationship to me is a farce. I have been in it for over 2 years(she resides in Abuja while myself in Lagos) and decided to call it quit when i wasn't getting all that i needed. It entails a lot and i don't think i can go into such relationship again. It's a 50:50 thing but though some people are getting involved in it and getting positive results though the chances are very slim. Your guy might be in the East doing his kwaja and you here in Lagos suffering emotional torture and at the end all your emotional torture turns out to be a bad investment.

If you have the power to carry on,you can go ahead but sincerely it doesn't really worth the trouble when you have numerous guys here in Lagos that you can build up a solid relationship with.

Cheers

okparaugo: He might be likely.

But you are just having a suspicion without substantial evidence.

It depends on the kind of guy he is. Are you virgins ?

KingTom: Comment

okparaugo: I'm the 19th one.

What are your fears?

Just the distance or you miss him a lot ?

Or you suspect him keeping another ?

banega: This night kwa? Would love to advise you.. But I can't type much right now.. Sowi!! sleep dey blow mee for here ... (Feeling real sleepy), Will modify this post tomorrow though!! Cheers •

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