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interesting! where do we pick up the forms?

to Ok the marriage is one thing to do a traditional marriage is another, and yes most churches I know insist, some even ask on the wedding day and make the parents affirm to that on the microphone

Hmmmm - If I can't tell his (young(er)) age by looking @him, talking to him or just generally relating with him on a mental level then yes I will, otherwise i can't meet up

This matter is a bit confusing - considering that some traditional marriages are very pagan and some Christians have very pagan and fetish parents who would insist on every traditional rite-something that the christian life is totally against

Well I have read through a lot of opinions...
I believe that as our faces are different so also are our destinies
one thing I have come to learn is that a marriage that will last will usually involve two people looking at the same "direction" cos when you're both working towards the same direction with the same values you hardly have wahala... Love, maturity, independence, religion, tribe etc are important but become secondary with time...while some of us have made a lot of beautifull inputs it is still important for us to Know that GOD is the only one that can give gifts that add no sorrow...and if that gift my dear is a younger man...take it sister with thanks its better to marry a younger man and enjoy your  marriage than endure your marriage with an older man...After all it's you who will live with the man not the society who may not smile at your marrying a younger man..

Look up to God to give you a man not to your beliefs, thoughts or needs...