I dont even know what 2 say to this but it is really shallow and small minded that ur parents would reject your spouse becos he/she is disabled. No condition is permanent. Circumstances could change ur parents physical state (God forbid) and what would they say?

They should be more concerned about the character, moral values, of ur spouse and how well he treats you and provides for you,

PERIOD!!

I personally think that a young woman should be settling down when she is 27yrs. anyone younger than 27yrs should be enjoying life to the fullness becos i know for a fact that when you get married, there r just somethings that u cannot indulge in anymore, JMHO

This is a very good topic and it is something that is affecting alot of people in naijas in the states. I graduated with a degree in Criminal Justice and wanted to be a lawyer. Infact this has been a dream of mine since I was a child. However after graduation, I found it very difficult to find a well paying job in my field. I also realized that most of the jobs in my field didn't need a degree. I was very disappointed becos i was made to believe that I would be making good money but i guess things haven't turned out the way I had hoped and was told they would be, not mentioning the student loans that you have to pay back in the states. Anyways sometimes you have to do what you gotta do, by taking a job in a different career field especially when you have a family to take care of.

I plan on changing careers and with God's help I can find a job that will pay for me to acquire mosre education, and provide the best for my family.