Ti aba ti dagba, a ma nyogun ja.

Hi, it is better for you to text message, e-mail, and send normal invitation cards. Not everybody can read, or have time to check their messages., but everybody will receive the invitation cards. Try also to call important people like elderly people, may be your pastors, your parents friends, your aunties, etc to show sign of respect for the elders.
God bless you and enjoy yourself.
Najayi.

Well, there is nothing bad in wearing aso ebi because, as for me, it signifies unity. It makes us all to flow together, and if l wear aso ebi with you, it will make me see you as part of me, even if we misunderstanding, it will make me settle with you quckly, cos l see you as part of me. I hate it if we start to borrow money to purchase aso ebi or have to starve the whole family of their rights 'cos l wanted to wear aso ebi. Please, think about that.

God bless.
Najayi.

Mukina, God bless you. As your days are, so your strenght shall be. Always remember that, one day we are going to meet the Lord, and everyday we wake up from our sleep, we draw closer to our graves and also to see the Lord. So, spend this glorious year pleasing your creator and you maker, because, not everybody live to see today, do not see it as just ordinary, but as a great priviledge.

Enjoy yourself and God bless you.
Najayi.

God bless you my fellow nairalanders, things are not easy as you've been told about abroad, even if you learn their language quickly. For you to settle down and get yourself together can take few months, it depends on those you settle down with. I will advise you to put your focus in Nigeria, use the 650,000 naira to start your own business, if you have it. If you are going to borrow it, you can still start something with it, and l believe by the help of God, something fulfilling will come out of it, instead of giving it to a travel agent. Things are not easy abroad as we find it easy in Nigeria, there is nothing free: you have to pray for everything. You can't live with people for so long, patapata, 3-6months might be the limit they can go mwith you, and you will be asked to go and look for you own house. You might have still be looking for job then, or just find one. Pls. think very well before you enter into it.

Love you,

Najayi.