₦airaland Forum

poiZon:
If u r are abused and insulted in ur place of work the first day, till the 10th month, will u resign?
U don't just pack and leave cos u r i have a toxic workplace, so is marriage, marriahe can never be bed of roses. They r some families that have everything yet no child, they still stick together hoping...
They r some that no joy interrms of money but they r pushing..
In marriage u try all possible avenues to see if it will work before throwing the towel.
I know its not always easy when things like this prop up, but as a man u need to explore all avenues before jumping into conclusion.
And the statement that one should forbid any woman raised by a single mom is not fact.
There r so many ladies out there who were raised by single mom and they are all doing well with their families.
When u pick the wrong person, even if dem born am and raised her in a cathedral, she go be a torn in the flesh for u.

victons:
Your last statement made sense though. But I've recently been with this girl that has a brother and both are currently being raised by their single mother.
Though she would tell me she's a feminist, I've tried to see her act awkward but she's gradually proving she's not the girl I'm expecting from her background.

Pecoleee345:
Why does the society see men hitting women as bad thing but women cursing and abusive as normal.

A woman who curses and abuses you will still have the nerve to ask you for money.

Am not a perfect man.....I have my flaws but I am careful with words because I no what bad words can do to people

Should a man be forced to stay with a woman who curses,abuse and threaten to get him arrested if he touch her despite you have never lay a finger on her in 3yrs of marriage.

People are telling me she doing it due to anger that she doesn't mean it......am told to avoid making her angry and is that possible.
She gets me angry most times but I just leave the house and go cool off...
I have tried to teach her the act of keeping quiet in moment of anger but she never learns


She permitted to rain curses and abuses on me because she a woman and am expected not to react because that how most women behave.

At this junction have made up my mind to divorce her.....I never wished for this but I can't take this ...... many people see this character of most women as normal (am told there power is in the mouth) but I can't.

Lastly men please avoid women raised by single mother they come with venom and naturally demage psychological...they will take revenge on you for there father sins.

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Enemyofdarkness:
I don't have a girlfriend, all because of naija girls palava. I never wished myself experiencing that painful shît called "LOVE" so once I feel like playing I will just call a "call - Girl". They full my dm, light skinned, dark skinned, big yansh, moderate yansh all full my dm. I spent 5k on runs girls everyday, I'm a cyber guy so that money is nothing to me cos I can pile up 5k in just an hour. Sad thing. This is becoming frequent, I've tried to fight this behavior but all to no avail. The spirit in me keeps telling me go, go get her you have the money. I need to stop this.
Please advise

chat2deen:
Source: http://www.naij.com/414219-asari-dokubo-issues-a-new-threat.html

Redoil:
All thanks to gej the hero of our time who in all honesty and humilty chose not to rig the election as it was been done by OBJ and tinubu so that nigeria will not divide. Yet the gworo chewing master and their perpetual slaves still voted him out. Cramjones ur gurlfriend berem has deactivated her account what about you old troll

cramjones:
Goodluck Jonathan has earned the dubious distinction of being the first president in Nigerian history to lose an election. In many ways, Jonathan was the architect of his own downfall. He made critical mistakes that turned the public and allies against him, and led them to gravitate towards the opposition. Here’s where it all went wrong:

1. Don’t cross the boss

When Nigeria emerged from 15 years of military rule in 1999, Jonathan’s Peoples Democratic party (PDP) was formed by wealthy retired generals to inherit power from the military. One of the godfathers was General Olusegun Obasanjo, who has governed Nigeria twice (between 1976-1979 and 1999-2007). Jonathan made the mistake of alienating Obasanjo; leading the general to write a public 18-page letter containing lacerating criticism of the president in December 2013. A party member likened Obasanjo’s hectoring of Jonathan to a father’s disappointment with his son.

Getting on the wrong side of Obasanjo is the political equivalent of crossing a mafia don
Rather than make peace with the 77-year-old, Jonathan’s office retaliated.

Getting on the wrong side of Obasanjo is the political equivalent of crossing a mafia don. You will pay. Obasanjo’s attacks on Jonathan intensified. In February, an irate Obasanjo quit the PDP and dramatically ripped up his party membership card on television.

Jonathan was naïve to think he could remain president without the support of PDP godfathers like Obasanjo. Although Nigeria is no longer under military rule, many retired millionaire generals call the shots from behind the scenes.

2. Playing fair
Previous Nigerian presidents were too cynical to expose themselves to the unpredictable risk of a fair election. The election victories of PDP presidents during the past 16 years have been partially “assisted” by electoral malpractice. That changed when Jonathan nominated Professor Attahiru Jega as the chairman of the Independent National Electoral Commission (Inec) in 2010. Jega vowed to reform Nigeria’s electoral process to ensure free and fair elections.

The former university lecturer exuded calm authority and integrity. He has painstakingly prepared for the task over the past four years by studying the rigging methods used in previous elections, implementing an elaborate system of voter registration, training thousands of electoral staff, and introducing biometric readers to identify voters by reading their thumbprint.

Jonathan created the environment for the emergence of these changes and gave Jega the freedom and authority to conduct reforms that led to a credible election. But by giving Jega a free hand to play fair, he allowed Jega to craft the weapons that were used to oust him from power.

3. Boko Haram and the Chibok kidnaps

Jonathan’s relations with party members at times resembled a football coach antagonising his star players
When Boko Haram kidnapped more than 200 schoolgirls from the town of Chibok in northern Nigeria, Jonathan failed to realise how much this would capture the public’s attention, both locally and internationally. His failure to speak about the kidnap for several weeks made him appear uncaring. These shortcomings were exacerbated by the behaviour of his wife, Patience, when she met the mothers of the kidnapped girls. Her ostentatious display and over-the-top emotions were mercilessly parodied.

Jonathan’s perceived casual indifference to the suffering of his people was compounded when he was photographed celebrating his niece’s lavish wedding just a few days after Boko Haram had killed 2,000 people in the town of Baga.

4. Bad management

Jonathan’s relations with party members at times resembled a football coach antagonising his star players into leaving for rival teams. His tendency to fall out with colleagues simultaneously weakened his party and strengthened the opposition. He quarrelled with one after another; leading several of them to leave the party in frustration and join the opposition All Progressives Congress (APC). The alliance between these and the opposition shoved Jonathan out of power.

5. Corruption and cronyism
Nigerians refer to their country’s resources as the “national cake” which must be shared by its citizens. There was a perception that Jonathan gave slices of the cake largely to members of his own community. Many powerful members of his government were from Jonathan’s region in the deep south of the country. Even Jonathan’s wife was appointed as a senior civil servant in his home state of Bayelsa.

There was a perception that Jonathan gave slices of the cake largely to members of his own community
Under Jonathan’s presidency many militant leaders from the oil producing Niger Delta area in the south have become very rich from government patronage and contracts. Some of them have been awarded security contracts to guard the oil installations they once protested against and attacked.

Jonathan has also pardoned a former ally accused of fraud and money laundering, increasing the cloud of suspicion hanging over his government.

These events caused deep resentment in other parts of Nigeria and created the impression that Jonathan ran a government that benefits those from his part of the country, the south, but not many others.

Jonathan even managed to get into a public feud with the governor of the Central Bank of Nigeria, the respected Sanusi Lamido Sanusi. In February 2014 Sanusi alleged that $20bn of Nigerian oil revenue was unaccounted for. Rather than investigating the claims Jonathan fired Sanusi for his impertinence at publicly hinting of government fraud.

Buhari’s victory is historic and unprecedented. However Jonathan was responsible almost as much as Buhari was.

IHate9ja1:
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fellis:
God.
Men are so childish.
So your wife is not in the mood therefore run after the nearest ashawo because how dare she not be in the mood when you want sex?
How dare she?!?

Men are childish biko. If una like vex. I haven't even seen one mature response from them since I started reading.
Women will definitely try to avoid sex with you once in a while because male sex drive is typically greater than female sex drive.
They will employ strategies when trying to avoid sex because they don't want to hurt your feelings by outrightly telling you they don't want to sleep with you. Simple reasoning you kids cannot carry out.
She doesn't want sex every single time you ask so you want to start cheating immediately instead of using your head.

stevikenna:
WHAT IS IT ABOUT CHILDREN THAT MAKES CLERICS ATTRACTED TO THEM
IN THE LAST FEW DAYS I HAVE SO MUCH ABOUT ALFAS SEXUALLY ABUSING MINORS
I ALSO REMEMBER THE NASTY CONTROVERSY ABOUT CATHOLIC PRIESTS AND CHILDREN

stevikenna:
WHAT IS IT ABOUT CHILDREN THAT MAKES CLERICS ATTRACTED TO THEM
IN THE LAST FEW DAYS I HAVE SO MUCH ABOUT ALFAS SEXUALLY ABUSING MINORS
I ALSO REMEMBER THE NASTY CONTROVERSY ABOUT CATHOLIC PRIESTS AND CHILDREN

totorimi:
If your wife is the ugly type, you know fat orobo and short walking anyhow, with big tummy, no problem don't bother your head. I am sure by now the man giving her the free ride must be praying for a deliverance but if on the other hand she is a stunning beauty like the Omo Sexy's of this world hmm my brother fight for your dear wife 'cos you may wake up oneday and she is gone for good to the man you thot was just helping her with a free ride.
Enjoy

hafees:
Ladies and gentlemen, i will like to ask if the woman will die of using public transport? The issue here is not about trust or insecurity on the man's part, its about what could happen. look at this:

If they spend 4 hours in traffic every day going and coming for a month=they are spending 39 days days together in a year.

the fact that they work in the same office does not matter, nothing can happen cus they might be in different department or too busy to talk, But inside the car alone?

I wont allow my wife go with a man evry day, and pls ask any man if opportunity of 'digging' a married woman they give lift happen wont they do it?
you know as women they siddon inside car, u go look yellow laps etc the guy fit misbehave. Beside your wife could develop this kind of likeness you know want for the guy. Why the guy dey call am come outside? he should be careful around another man's wife now.

prevention is better than cure

hafees:
Ladies and gentlemen, i will like to ask if the woman will die of using public transport? The issue here is not about trust or insecurity on the man's part, its about what could happen. look at this:

If they spend 4 hours in traffic every day going and coming for a month=they are spending 39 days days together in a year.

the fact that they work in the same office does not matter, nothing can happen cus they might be in different department or too busy to talk, But inside the car alone?

I wont allow my wife go with a man evry day, and pls ask any man if opportunity of 'digging' a married woman they give lift happen wont they do it?
you know as women they siddon inside car, u go look yellow laps etc the guy fit misbehave. Beside your wife could develop this kind of likeness you know want for the guy. Why the guy dey call am come outside? he should be careful around another man's wife now.

prevention is better than cure

queenesthr:
Even if he stops giving her the ride, they are still colleagues, right? They will still spend the day together in the same office, hope you catch my drift?