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Thank you for the advice

Good afternoon everyone, I pray you can offer some good advice on an issue bothering me. I've been in a relationship with a lady I care deeply about for months now, and we intend doing our introduction this month. However, I've noticed some behaviors that are causing me concern.
She stays in touch frequently with her exes, including one named Attah, who frequently sends her love messages. In fact, they call each other on a daily basis, yet she claims nothing is between them. Although she deletes these messages and uses disappearing chats on all of her chats, I'm uneasy about her communication with them. Whenever I complained she would tell me I am insecure. I've addressed this issue with her multiple times ( more than ten times), but she keeps calling and chatting with them citing the fact that her exes are not enemies.
Another issue that bothers me is a text conversation I saw between her and her cousin. The cousin advised her to collect money from four different guys (total strangers) before allowing anything to happen between them. She apologized and attributed this to her past, and I chose to forgive her due to my love for her.
Furthermore, there's a guy who's currently asking her out, and she allows him to visit her. She even calls him and demands favors from him. I have asked her to seize communication with him yet she persists and this morning, I mistakenly saw a new month text from the guy referring to her as my love. I've reported my concerns to her mother and she advised her but unfortunately, there's been no change.
I love her so much, but the red flags are giving me concern. I'm torn between my feelings and the uncertainty surrounding our relationship. Should I end the relationship or I am only being insecure as she asserted.

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