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Mariangeles:
I understand you.
In as much as your son needs you, and you want to be there for him, you don't want to show up empty, right?
That is why you need to equip yourself, and you don't need distractions at this point.

Still, you need to know where your son is every now and then, for him to keep seeing you at least.
He needs you as much you need to be needed by him.

Alright Sis, thanks a lot for your kind words. May God crown our Efforts with Blessings. Amen. 🙏

owobokiri:
It takes a peculiar brand of madness to state that the fnumberd of Anglicans is anywhere close to that of Catholics in any South-east state.
No time for petty arguments here..
Take care

Its well brother.
Do have a nice day.
Thank you

owobokiri:
Cant open.
I think I need to fix my email link to this site.
I seldom get mails from here

So which one do u receive from?

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owobokiri:
Tacky post..
Classless, you!
You can do better, bro...

Please do not waste your precious time responding to that guy. Maybe you don't know him

owobokiri:
In the 80s when he was a military dictator, he actually supported a mallam from Niger Rwpublic over an Easterner for a United Nations positions being contested by Nigeria too!
I didn't make this up. Google it...

Didnt you see all my DMs to you?

This 40character thing wouldn't allow someone to make just a simple comment and pass

Mariangeles:
Since she left, let her go.
Focus on finding your feet again, then you can go for your son.

If you keep going after her, you will lose focus.
Don't worry about your son. He is safe.

I thank you for your understanding. I'm not too disturbed or worried about her but my son. That little boy needs a father around him

dingbang:
Mom ke... Is there no father figure in the house?

The dad is late and there's no father figure that she looks up to, and can listen to.

Foodqueen:
Have you spoken to her mom?

What did she say?

The mom is stylishly in support of her moves

I've heard similar things like this about these IPOB guys.
Cannibalism prevails among them and it's so so bad

I'm seeking your collective contributions on this matter:
I got married two years ago. I didn't really marry this lady. We dated for almost two years and one thing led to another, she took in. When she informed me, I thought she was just joking but I later discovered she wasn't joking. Immediately I noticed it was true, I began to pant. Fear gripped me so firmly. I began to worry. This was because, I was struggling in all aspects of life. She wanted to abort it but I kicked against it. I didn't want to have bloodstains on my hands, I'm not a murderer and will never be. I was convinced that the pregnancy was mine because she didn't give me any reason to believe she was disloyal to me.
She couldn't break the news to her mum out of fear, so I went to her house, sat her mum down & dropped the bombshell. At first, she was disappointed but later had to accept the reality of what had happened. She was 23 at the time and now she's almost 25 while I'm 28+. She's already done with her ND and I'm also done with my Degree. We lived apart. But as advised by the doctors during her antenatal period, she was asked to go live with me so we can be having regular sex to lubricate her vagina and make for easy delivery during labor, considering it was her first pregnancy. Immediately she put to bed, after two months, I lost my job. And since then, life has been quite tough so much that we can barely survive. Its even much worse that I don't have parents or older ones. She packed out to her mum's place and now she's threatening to travel from there to an unknown destination, probably to live with another man. She said I have not lived up to my responsibilities, and while she prays that God helps me, she can no longer bear the suffering.
If she does this, then I may be in trouble. This is because of my baby Boy. Her new man may lay claim to the baby if the new guy takes responsibilities for the child.
I'm really confused here!
To FACT-CHECK her claim:
I have actually not lived up to my duties but she knows how hardworking I am. Getting a job isn't easy at this time and we all know. However, I have continued to hussle relentlessly but I'm yet to succeed. When I was working, she lacked almost nothing that she ever needed or wanted, at least to the Best of my knowledge..

It is what it is.

Nlfpmod

owobokiri:
In the 80s when he was a military dictator, he actually supported a mallam from Niger Rwpublic over an Easterner for a United Nations positions being contested by Nigeria too!
I didn't make this up. Google it...

I'm not doubting u Sir. Even though I wasn't born in the 80s , I believe you wouldn't just come out to say what is not true. We all know how tribalistic and nepotistic they are

You mean, on Paper right?
But in reality, the opposite seems to be the case Sir

owobokiri:
Non of Buhari and Tilimgbu will ever nominate anybody from the former Eastern region for such position, because of their RABID TRIBALISM ofcourse

Tinubu would have looked for, and nominated one former local government chairman in osun or one of his commissioners when he was a governor

Buhari would have chosen one retired Fulani herder from Sokoto to take up the position.

Justnation:
Jonathan is a good and detribalised leader.

This is what PETER OBI would have done also.

Tribal leaders we have today would have nominated their own irrespective of competency.

Vote PETER OBI , forget tribal sentiment

exactly.
OBI might even better than Jonathan in terms of administration.