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Hello,
I am a girl who had a relationship for 8 months with a co-worker who was engaged, he thought being 35 and single he needed to get married for his family and friends (culture issues), they fixed him up with a girl in a different country, we shared beautiful times and experiences that at the beginning they were not planned. I fell for him and he fell for me. I never asked him to drop the engagement but it was obvious what I wanted, towards the end given that he involved many people, his family and priests he did not have the guts to break it off. After a month of marriage he wanted to know if I still loved him, which I do. However he really has no courage to leave the situation. His friend kicked him out of the house where he lived in with him (the girl is still in the foreign country) once my guy confessed his situation and how he was not happy. The lack of support from his friend has confused him as to now not being sure what to do, it seems like he is looking for someone's support a friend but they all blow him off, except the female friends who tell him to get divorced. I can't take the situation anymore and though we are not messing around now am obviously still emotionally involved. I really feel that this man could be the one but the fact that he uses his fears as an excuse to not fix the situation makes me very angry. I forgot to mention that he told his now wife that he had a relationship with me for 8 months and that he was not happy with her, but the girl told him they should work it out, I guess he wanted her to say it was over to make it easier on himself. Any advice is helpful. Thanks.