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cos they have no choice. good guys are very few!
you did not answer my question so i'm going to rephrase it.


the head of the niger delta militant, soboma has been killed. how true is that?

watin the oracle tell you?

obviously food is not the problem. what is realy wrong

na lie. . . no be seun em de fear, na me em de fear

mishoo:
You no go go solve your GF problem in your thread ?? You dey do Poke-nose, abi??

i see you like a elder, i beg see if you go fit help me out.

there must be an error on my computer then. what is displaying here on my screen as your user name is infourmer and not informer. do you think the error is from my computer?

poor-quality writing, art etc.

ashara!

cos them say make we be the last person to post her, does it mean we can talk trash here?

cos you are the infivemer infourmer, are you not?

thanks man!!!

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boom shakalaka!!!

ok, why can't you just answer the question?

I think u are lucky,am nt in love,do u think its bad?

are you asking me?

thank you LadyB, for your prompt response.
but as you can see i don't know my heart anymore, right now there is no other girl in my life. this girl has done alot for me she has also suported me through some difficult time and she has done wonderfully well to take away my loneliness, but i also know that doing just things is not enough for me to spend the rests of my life with her, what i need is not just things but true love and sincerity.

please put yourself in my shoes and tell me what you would do.

thanks again.

you either use the power of fear of the power of fear uses you.



it is no use walking anywhere to preach unless our walking is our preaching.



in the middle of every difficulty lies oppotunity.



judge each day not by the harvest you reap but by the seeds you plant.




when you focus on the vision of what you want to accomplish, and you feel joy, enthusiasm, happiness, etc. that means that the vision is correct for you.

just to make money is not a strong enough mission. the mission of a business should be to fill the customer's need.



investing is a plan, not a product or procedure.




financial intelligence is the ability to convert cash or labour into assets that provide cash flow.



the starting point of all achievement is desire. keep this constantly in mind. weak desire brings weak resuls, just as a small amount of fire makes a small amount of heat.

borrowing is easier in the short term but harder in the long term. don't luxuries until you've bult the assets to afford them.



the poor and the middle class turn cash into trash or liabilities. meanwhile, the upper class buys things like stocks, real estate, and businesses, turning cash into assets.



every time you owe someone money, you become an employee fo their money. if you take out a thirty-year loan, you've become a thirty-year employee.

if you want to be financially free, you need to seek work for what you'll learn, not for what you'll earn.



there is gold everywhere. most people aren't trained to see it.



nothing is more tragic than to see people who have sold them selves short on what's posible for thier lives. take the time to discover possibilities, and the lesson will be priceless.




before you ever buy luxuries, use what money you have to make more money.

and what is yahooooo?

We are in this relationship for three years now, and since then she has occupied every available space in my heart. She is also very loving, caring, understanding and available.

She had me believed I and her father is the only men in her life also the love of her life. I believed I’m the first and only man who has given her the forbidding fruit.

Before our relationship took full swing, she introduces me to her parents, amazingly and unusually they accepted and supported our relationship. They are very nice to me and very corporative too.

But now all have changed, I’ve lost those strong feelings I had for her.

I was playing with her phone one day, when I came across a txt message that hits me with shock and confusion. It’s a txt from a guy, he was flirting with my girl, and talking about love _{(what does he know about love?)}. I confronted her immediately but she denied it “three times before the cockcrow”. It took me time but I finally let go, we reconciled and where happy thereafter.

After awhile, she started receiving wired late night phone calls. The worse of it is one day when she received a call that aroused my suspicion, when I asked her, she lied about the person that called and said the person called with a business line. But when I checked her phone I noticed she has been communicating with this same person and with that same number she claimed not knowing. I also notice she stored the number and three to four other number without any name.

I was really mad, so I broke up with her temporally. I must confess those two weeks of separation were really hell to me. She apologist and my best friend advise me to listen and reconcile with her which I did, and we were back together again and even stronger then before.

After 6 months our happiness was tattered again. last Friday, the 17th of this month, I saw a txt message again on her mobile phone, if I may paraphrase it, it goes like this: “. . . I love you so much. . .my love for you cannot be expressed by words. . .can you still make it this Sunday? . . .can’t wait. Love you so very much.”.

This txt got the best of me, but because of the ‘self control’ program I’m currently undertaking, I calmly ask her to explain. She denied knowledge of the sender and suggested it must be a junk txt. _{(can you believe that?).}

Yesterday, she did not go to the church for some obvious stupid reasons she gave me. By 12pm yesterday she came to the house all dressed up ready to go out. I asked what she is up to, and she said he mom wants her to go to Rumuola to get something for her that she wont spend more than an hour. Because friends and neighbors are in my house watching football, I don’t want to ask too much question, so I let her go and also gave her money to buy food stuff when she is coming back.

She left my house around 12:15pm and did not return even until 4pm when I called her, she told me she was on her way to the house. At 5:10pm I repeat the call again, this time she told me she is in the bus heading to the house, I could not control my Vexation so hang-up the phone.

She finally arrived at about 6:10pm, at that point if I talk to her at all, I may lose my temper and hit her, so I left the house and when I returned, she has prepared dinner but I could not eat the food even till this morning.

I thought I loved her, but obviously I’m not sure what love is anymore.

Last night I saw so many things I was blind at before. I realized she can not even cook very well; I enjoy foods I prepare twist more than hers. Her handwriting is too bad to my liking, she make lots of typing errors when sending txt message, she would not wear trousers even if I insist . . .so on and so forth.

Fellow nairalanders, this is not a make up story or the like. These things really happened to me. I need help.

I always know that there are serious minded and great thinking personalities here in this forum.

I need advice on what to do now. Should I stick to her or should i let her go?

P.S. leaving her may mean disappointing not just her but her parents and brothers. Sticking to her, if she is not right for me means disappointing myself.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-66504.0.html, pictures, laughs, cries, happy, vex

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=73183.msg1403710#msg1403710, game, fun, information

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=73183.msg1403710#msg1403710 motivation, inspiration, education, information and participation

do you think informer will like to reveal his identity?

THERE IS A THINKING STUFF FROM WHICH ALL THINGS ARE MADE AND WHICH IN ITS ORIGINAL STATE PERMEATES, PENETRATES AND FILLS THE INTERSPACE OF THE UNIVERSE.

A THOUGHT IN THIS SUBSTANCE PRODUCES THE THINGS THAT IS IMAGED BY THE THOUGHT.

A PERSON CAN FORM THINGS IN HIS THOUGHT AND BY IMPRESSING HIS THOUGHT UPON FORMLESS SUBSTANCE, CAN CAUSE THE THING HE THINKS ABOUT TO BE CREATED.

IN ORDER TO DO THIS, A PERSON MUST PASS FROM THE COMPETITIVE TO THE CREATIVE MIND, HE MUST FORM A CLEAR MEANTAL PICTURE OF THE THINGS HE WANTS, AND HOLD THIS PICTURE IN HIS THOUGHTS WITH THE FIXED PURPOSE TO GET WHAT HE WANTS, AND THE UNWAVERING FAITH THAT HE DOES GET WHAT HE WANTS, CLOSING HIS MIND AGAINST ALL THAT MAY TEND TO SHAKE HIS PURPOSE, DIM HIS VISION, OR QUENCH HIS FAITH.

SO THAT HE MAY RECEIVE WHAT HE WANTS WHEN IT COMES, A PERSON MUST ACT NOW UPON THE PEOPLE AND THINGS IN HIS PRESENT ENVIRONMENT.

you can't help but get older physically. that doesn't mean you have to get older mentally.



the words 'i can't afford it' close your mind, while the words 'how can i afford it' open your mind.
the human spirit is powerful - it knows it can do anything.



once you become aware of your passion, you can determine your mission and begin to feed it. this in turn will feed the drive what will make your dreams come true.




the poor and the middle class work for money. the rich have their money work for them

all of us have the power of choice. i choose to be rich, and i make that choice every day.



change your mind, change your life.



money is just an idea.




there is nothing more powerful than an idea whose time has come, and there is nothing more vulnerable than someone who is still thinking old ideas.

whatsoever thing ye ask for when ye pray, believe that ye receive them and ye shall have them - (Jesus Christ)



any habit may be discontinued by building in its place some other and more desireable habit.
^{(remember, if you fail to build a more desireable habit to replace the old one, the old/bad habit may come back to reclaim its former position)}



there is never any time but now, and there never will be any time but now.



teach and you shall recieve.

the answer to prayer is not according to your faith while you are talking, but according to your faith while you are working.



you can do it if you believe you can.



do, everyday, ALL that can be done that day.



no man has a chance to enjoy permenent success intill he begins to look in a mirror for the real cause of all his mistakes.