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EventsBbnaija's Ozo Gets Brand New Toyota Prado SUV From Fans by Necdave(op): 11:10am On Aug 09, 2021
Ozoemena Joseph Chukwu, a former housemate of the popular Nigerian reality TV show, Big Brother Naija, has been gifted with a brand new Toyota Prado SUV by his fans.

The reality TV star was presented with the expensive SUV over the weekend by his fans popularly known as Superions.

The SUV gift is coming barely a week after he was presented with a house gift from fans.

He joins the list of reality TV stars who have been gifted with expensive gifts.

From Bam Bam to Tacha, Nengi, Prince, Laycon, Erica, Dorathy the list of reality TV stars whose fans have gone out of their way to spoil them with expensive gifts appears to be growing.

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CelebritiesIni Edo Shades Blogger Who Accused Her Of Dating Popular Monarch by Necdave(op): 12:07pm On Aug 05, 2021
Nollywood actress Ini Edo has sent a warning signal to a popular blogger who accused her of dating several high-profile Nigerians.

In a post shared via her Instagram page on Wednesday, August 4, 2021, the movie star expressed worry over people who are quick to put a label on people without getting their facts right.

"It is hard to understand or comprehend or accept that narcissists are such cold-blooded beings..people who derive pleasure in throwing labels at people without getting their facts right," she wrote.
"Accusing people falsely is an attempt at destroying that person's life. I have had to deal with this caliber of people from the minute I got into the limelight and I've learnt to live with it..but the truth is ..you may be destroying the lives of other people in an attempt to destroy mine."

"You choose to ignore the HUSTLE and focus on things only you imagine in your head and you sell it to gullible people like you to buy...This is not a war you want with me....Trust me."

The movie star's post came barely 24 hours after a blogger, reported that she is romantically linked to a popular Lagos monarch and a sitting governor.

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EventsBbnaija 2021: 4 Exciting Highlights From Season's First Diary Session by Necdave(op): 6:45pm On Jul 26, 2021
The game is officially on for the new 'Shine Ya Eye' housemates with Big Brother welcoming them for their first diary session

Housemates spoke to Biggie about their favourite housemates so far, possible alliances and their lockdown experience prior to joining the show. In case you missed the diary sessions, check out these five exciting highlights:

1. Yousef tells Biggie about his struggles with adjusting with other housemates
Yousef spoke to Biggie about feeling some of the housemates were dishonest about their true personalities. He named Boma and Sammie as his least trusted housemates.
Yousef also revealed that he did not feel like the housemates would relate to him coming from the North.
2. Cross had his birthday during their lockdown period
Housemates got to share their struggle with the compulsory lockdown experience that saw them go days without any form of external connection with the outside world. For housemate, Cross, it was a first in a lifetime experience as he celebrated his birthday alone.

3. Saga suspects Pere is the wild card
Big Brother, on Sunday, announced that there are two wild card housemates and tasked the house with fishing them out before the eviction show. Saga who had one of the lengthiest diary sessions detailed why he suspects Pere might be one of the wild cards.

4. Whitemoney says he does not know how to approach women
Whitemoney might be one of the smooth talkers this season but in his chat with women, he admitted to Big Brother his inability to properly woo women. He told Biggie that he only knew how to offer acts of service but did not not how to speak to them. Whitemoney's session ended with a request for crayfish.

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Romance3 Things You Should Not Be Scared To Do For Your Partner by Necdave(op): 5:47pm On Jul 25, 2021
And it looks like this is truer these days, where intent can never be ascertained, regardless of what people say, and where the most apparently great partners could just be putting up a show, only to reveal the scum dimension of their personality, somewhere down the line.

What this breeds is a fear and reluctance to go the distance with people. Even when the heart desires to love in an unfettered, unrestricted way, these worries nag at the back of your mind, making you love half-heartedly and cautiously.

1.Trust
Eventually you will just have to build this. It may take a while and you may have to place one block on the other till the trust becomes a huge, unbreakable wall but by all means, get there.

2.Love
Yes, we all say love is not enough to build a relationship that stands the test of time. But that does not mean it has to be absent. Don’t be scared to love and love hard.

3.Loyalty
So if everyone decides to be loyal and faithful and not cheat on their partner, maybe cheating’s hatchet will finally be buried. Right?

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TV/MoviesActress Lota Chukwu Lands Debut Lead Role In Cinema Film by Necdave(op): 7:12pm On Jul 20, 2021
Television star, Lota Chukwu has confirmed major milestones in her acting career including her first lead role in a huge budget cinema film.
The actress recently shared the exciting development via her Twitter handle where she opened up about being cast alongside veterans in the untitled romantic comedy
I’ve spent the last 3 weeks leading an ensemble cast, filled with veterans for a new big budget cinema film. Me as a big budget cinema lead, me leading an ensemble cast, me in a romcom… Thank you again 2021, I’m ready for all the blessings and firsts you keep bringing," Chukwu tweeted.

Popular for Africa Magic television series 'Ajoche' and 'Enakhe', Chukwu rose to prominence in Funke Akindele-Bello's hit series, 'Jenifa's Diary' where she starred as Kiki, a friend of the lead character.
The actress is also a budding director and producer.

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TV/MoviesActress Lota Chukwu Lands Debut Lead Role In Cinema Film by Necdave(op): 9:00pm On Jul 19, 2021
Television star, Lota Chukwu has confirmed major milestones in her acting career including her first lead role in a huge budget cinema film.

The actress recently shared the exciting development via her Twitter handle where she opened up about being cast alongside veterans in the untitled romantic comedy

I’ve spent the last 3 weeks leading an ensemble cast, filled with veterans for a new big budget cinema film. Me as a big budget cinema lead, me leading an ensemble cast, me in a romcom… Thank you again 2021, I’m ready for all the blessings and firsts you keep bringing," Chukwu tweeted.

Popular for Africa Magic television series 'Ajoche' and 'Enakhe', Chukwu rose to prominence in Funke Akindele-Bello's hit series, 'Jenifa's Diary' where she starred as Kiki, a friend of the lead character.

The actress is also a budding director and producer.

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SportsArgentina National Team Manager Sings Praises For Lionel Messi Following Perform by Necdave(op): 1:44pm On Jul 12, 2021
Following the match, the national team’s manager, Lionel Scaloni, spoke about Lionel Messi, who had a hand in all three goals. The 34-year-old wants to erase the only blemish that he has on his career, the lack of an international trophy with Argentina.

Scaloni praised Messi, even though he stated that the veteran forward could get tired of all the praise that goes his way.

"Honestly, I don’t know if he is going to get tired of everyone praising him every day; the best thing that can happen to us as football lovers is that he plays as much as he can, even the opponents enjoy it … little more what to say,” Scaloni said.

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SportsNot A Chance!' - West Brom Fans React As Club Set To Enter ‘bidding War’ With Sh by Necdave(op): 1:58pm On Jul 11, 2021
West Brom are set to rival Sheffield United for £5m Brighton defender Matt Clarke, according to the Sun.

The 24-year-old spent the last two seasons on loan with Derby County and hasn’t made a single first-team appearance since joining the Seagulls in 2019.

Now, Brighton are set to part ways with the former Portsmouth defender on a permanent basis, with both West Brom and Sheffield United interested in the player.

The ‘highest bidder’ will win the race to secure his services, and Albion fans aren’t confident the club will land their target.

“Albion entering an auction, not a chance! He’ll go to United,” one fan tweeted.

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Music/RadioBurna Boy Wasn't Happy When The Interviewer Said Wizkid Is His Competition. by Necdave(op): 1:30pm On Jul 11, 2021
Nigerian music star Burna Boy has downplayed the competition between him and another superstar Wizkid.

Burna Boy says Wizkid only sings about women Nigerian music star Burna Boy has downplayed the competition between him and another superstar Wizkid.

With a dominant run that came with a Grammy Award win and nomination, Burna Boy is considered the face of Afrobeats along with other superstars, including Wizkid.

But in a recent interview, the 30-year-old singer downplayed the competition between him and Wizkid.

The ‘African Giants’ singer seems unimpressed with DJ Whoo Kid’s suggestion that Wizkid is a competition in the Best Global Music Album category of the Grammy Awards.

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CrimeRescue Mission In 'hot Pursuit' After Gunmen Kidnap Scores Of Students In Northw by Necdave(op): 8:01am On Jul 08, 2021
At least 26 students and a teacher have been rescued after armed men raided a private secondary school in Nigeria's northwestern Kaduna State early Monday and kidnapped scores of people, said police.

Officials from the school in Kaduna's Chikun district told Agence France-Presse news agency that no fewer than 140 students were captured and taken to an unknown destination by the attackers.

Kaduna police, however, have said that the definitive number of abducted students has yet to be ascertained.

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CelebritiesNigerians Come For Actress Faithia Balogun For Daring To Appear In Movie by Necdave(op): 6:37pm On Jul 07, 2021
Nigerians have stormed actress, Faithia Balogun’s Instagram page to rain abuses and curses on her for daring to feature in Yomi Fabiyi’s movie ”Oko Iyabo”. Recall the release of the movie has caused outrage on social media? You will recall that those who watched the movie said Yomi used the names of Iyabo Ojo, Princess and others in the movie, and allegedly made it look like it is OKAY for young girls to be in a relationship with adults!!!

Many took to her page and cursed her calling her CLASSLESS. Others also said they now know why many people disrespect her.

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CelebritiesRichard Mofe Damijo Says He Broke The Specter Of Death In His Family by Necdave(op): 1:33pm On Jul 05, 2021
Nollywood veteran Richard Mofe Damijo popularly known as RMD has revealed how he broke the specter of death in his family.

The movie star made this known during a chat with Chude Jideonwo on his show 'WithChude.'

RMD who would be turning 60 on July 6th, said his parents didn't make it to 60 which is a big deal for him.

"None of my parents lived to be 60, so life for me is just about to get started. There’s been a specter of death around my life, that’s what I’ve been dealing with last year till this year. When I turned 59, it was a big deal for me, big deal for me! My mom died at 59, my father died at 57/58," he said.

“So, it was like, can I break it? When people see me and I go on a weight loss, people think that... you know, it’s health. Both my parents were diabetic and hypertensive, I don’t want to be that. I don’t want to be diabetic and hypertensive, I want to be healthier."

Atleast give myself a fighting chance to change that whole cycle. Yes I’m a Christian now, so I’ve broken that yoke but I have to also help myself.”

Becoming 60 for me is even a bigger deal, so when July comes and I become 60. You know how the Bible says old things have passed away, I will truly truly become a new man because that is when I’ll make a bucket list. So all these things that you think I’ve achieved or done, for me it’s nothing, like zero.”

“So I’m going to now sit down when I’m 60 and do a bucket list … and then we’ll start.”

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TV/MoviesNigerian Stars Mo Abudu, Ramsey Nouah Listed Among Oscar Academy Class For 2021 by Necdave(op): 8:58am On Jul 05, 2021
Top Nigerian celebrities, Ramsey Nouah and Mo Abudu were recently recognised internationally after they were invited to join the Oscar Academy class of 2021.

The Academy of Motion Pictures Arts and Sciences (AMPAS) named them among the 395 members that have been invited to join this year's class. The list included important and prominent personalities in the movie industry from about 50 countries in the world. It was released on Thursday, June 1, 2021.
Ramsey and Mo were chosen for different categories in the Oscar Academy class.

While Mo was named in the producers' category for her hit movies, Oloture and The Royal Hibiscus hotel which were released in 2020 and 2017 respectively, Ramsey made the cut for his roles in popular blockbuster movies, 76 (2016) and The Figurine (2009). This is quite an impressive feat and continues to put the country’s movie industry in a positive light.

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Romance9 Psychological Effects Of Being In A Long Distance Relationship by Necdave(op):
1) FEAR OF MISSING OUT(FOMO):
It is defined in the Oxford Dictionary as “Anxiety that an exciting or interesting event may currently be happening elsewhere, often aroused by posts seen on social media.” It is a real thing. We’ve all felt it, the fear of missing out sucks. It is amplified when you feel like you are missing out on the large chunks of their life. It becomes more saddening as the days pass by and you start missing out on the smaller instances. too. You begin to feel like you don’t really know the person and they are changing. It starts affecting you and your relationship. It has become so prevalent that some mental health professionals have termed it an epidemic among young adults. Also, a pervasive mental health syndrome for all ages. To get out of FOMO, the best thing would be to face it and fight it. Some steps that can be taken include admit your problem and practice mindfulness.

2) POSSESSIVENESS or INSECURITY:
It is a born feeling to know what the other partner is doing and where they are. This feeling of possessiveness or insecurity can be really difficult to overcome. You sometimes start panicking when the partner doesn’t reply back within a few minutes. Distance makes trusting difficult and aids towards possessiveness. The reality is probably very different, of course. But feeling the same for a long time may affect the health of yourselves and your relationship. The important thing to think is that whether you have anything to be insecure about? Are any of these things or people more important to your partner than you are? The answer is usually no. Therefore, always remember that your partner has chosen to be with you and there will be a hundred reasons for that. Try to be confident about all the things that make you special.

3) JEALOUSY:
It is an extreme case of possessiveness or insecurity. It signals that you do care about the partner but too much of jealousy creates a negative impact on the relationship. Also, being continually jealous and having an argument on the same may possibly ruin a perfectly good relationship. Just by letting your mind be filled with jealousy and suspicion can be disturbing. In this, you just give yourself some unnecessary worries. It is likely to lead towards arguments with your partner, who might feel sad and hurt that you don’t trust them. Well, you should learn this thing that if your partner is really planning to cheat on you, there is not much you can do about it. Also, worrying about the same beforehand will do more harm than good. That means that you have nothing to lose by trusting your partner and your relationship might go smooth.

4) STRESS:
For those who are in a LDR, stress seems to be a part of a gig. Just listening to the word makes your heart beat a little faster. Being apart from the person whom you want to be the most with is very stressful. And when you and your partner are stressed, misunderstandings and conflicts can arise very easily. You get annoyed easily and start arguing over very silly things more frequently than before. Just try to find out the biggest source of pressure or stress when you are struggling in a relationship with your partner. Try to work over those and things like having patience, motivation, learning yoga can be a way to achieve more out of the situation of stress.

5) ANXIETY:
Anxiety is no easy ride when you have to live with it especially due to a long distance relationship. It is not good for you as well as for the people who are closest to you be it your partner or your friends and family. You will have a lot going on in your mind in this state. Most of those thoughts will be comprised of hypothetical situations, which may or may not be realistic but may cross your mind anyway. You are constantly at the edge thinking what is going to happen next. You may feel unsettled as you are not really sure what’s next. The distance makes it so much harder than you get stuck in a loop of what-ifs and you may not be able to stop it. If your partner is having anxiety than that is a whole new story where you should be prepared to answer a lot of questions. Be prepare for comforting your partner. Sometimes there can be moments of silence whereas sometimes there can be anxiety attacks taking place. Things, like listening to music, maintaining a journal, taking deep breaths and visualizing a safe space for yourself can really help you to get out of the situation. The more anxious you are, the harder it’ll be to maintain a happy relationship.

6) LONELINESS:
It is usual to feel alone and lonely when you are in a distance from your significant other. These emotions of missing your partner every single day are very normal. Sometimes it is just the emptiness that you may feel and sometimes it is a loss of contact with the partner. This starts making you wonder whether you are close to your partner or not? You know that you are not alone and that your partner is there to back you up. But you feel, that connection is lost when you were together. Just hold on and fight with your feelings, it is just a matter of a particular thought or a day and it will probably go away. Things, like planning the future together, keeping alive the emotional and physical intimacy, having a communication schedule, can bring you far away from the point where you will feel lonely.

7) NEGATIVITY:
Research suggests that one of the factors which lead to the termination of Long Distance Relationship is negativity. No relationship can thrive from the steady stream of negativity flowing into it. Negativity arises readily if you feel any of the above-mentioned characteristics. It is easy to get lost in the negative aspect of a long distance relationship. Like feeling alone all the time, missing each other, dealing with jealousy and much more. The effects of these negative aspects are very drastic. Even a small amount of negative brain activity can weaken your immune system badly, making you more prone to illness. It can affect your intelligence as well as the ability to think. It may go unnoticed sometimes until something drastic happens. Things, like practicing kindness, setting your limits, focusing on your vision, surrounding yourself with more positive people can help you experience positivity.

cool DEPRESSION:
LDR can be one of the toughest journeys for a couple to experience. Depression can be one of the underlying emotion for most of the people in LDR. It darkens your thoughts and feelings, can last for weeks or months and can come and go. When you are depressed for long, you are dragging your partner and others as well into it and your partner also suffers from it. It just leaves your significant other with a feeling of helplessness and confusion. To fight with the same, you need to be aware of emotions. Things, like talking to each other or family or friends about it, assuring your partner, eating healthy, going for meditation, regularly exercising, can be done to enrich your life. If you still feel stuck into it for long, you may think of consulting a psychologist.

9) FEAR:
It needs to be taken care of at a very initial level in LDR so that the issues leading to fear can be resolved right there. Don’t curb it and then burst out one day when it has been transformed into some serious issues. It can lead to other psychological symptoms like stress, anxiety, depression etc. Insecurity and jealousy drive the fears like Fear Of Missing Out(FOMO), cheating, not being able to see or talk to them on a regular basis, the partner not having time and asking for space, future stability etc. Things, like writing down your fears and from where is it coming, avoiding excessive interference, establishing parameters, clarifying trust issues can avoid the fears and in turn its consequences.

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SportsToni Kroos: Germany Midfielder Announces Retirement From International Football by Necdave(op):
The Real Madrid midfielder, 31, made the announcement having played in Tuesday's 2-0 last-16 defeat to England at Wembley.

Kroos won the first of his 106 caps in 2010 and was part of the Germany side that lifted the 2014 World Cup.

"I have played 106 times for Germany. There will not be another time," Kroos wrote on Twitter

"I had already made the decision to retire after this tournament for some time. It had been clear to me for a while that I will not be available for the World Cup 2022 in Qatar."

Kroos said he now wanted to "focus fully on my goals with Real Madrid for the next few years" as well as spending more time with his family.

In addition to the World Cup triumph, Kroos was part of the Germany teams that finished third at the 2010 World Cup and reached the semi-finals of Euro 2012

He began his club career at Bayern Munich in 2007, making more than 200 appearances for the Bundesliga side before joining Real Madrid in 2014.

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