₦airaland Forum

nsiazu:
neo2smart, didn't hear from u.

So sorry, haven't been able to create another email account.

sampete:
Just stop giving him money to start with...

See how things go from there.

thanks dear, i'll take your advice into serious consideration.

nsiazu:
Maybe you can pm me because the decision you make now determines ya future.

hmmm...there's just one little problem, I can't access my PMS because I can't seem to remember the password to the email account I used in opening my Nairaland account. You can drop your email if you'll be so kind.

Rossikk:
It is actually the job of the private sector to 'support' such innovation, not the govt.

Who said

nsiazu:
99% of nairaland ladies will tell you to dump him because they always want a working class guy to date but the truth of the matter is that you love him and wants to have a family with him.
1st- Does he have an apartment now?
2nd- Ask him about his plans for both of you.
Give me and answer and let's move on.

To be frank, my answers to your questions won't sit well with peeps who are already castigating him.

please guys...you don't have to be sarcastic to convey your message.

Love aside, let's all just see this as a way of helping a fellow human being stand on his feets without knowing where the help is coming from.

I had thought of breaking up with him, then work underground to help him get a job...but what if he doesn't want me back when I return to him after he must have gotten a job, without him thinking I deserted him while he was jobless.

skarlett:
you don't mean it

I suppose he's not suitably qualified to get a job in the companies he's applying to without your help

Qualifications isn't the issue, He is sometimes over qualified for the jobs he applys to. He never seems to pass the interview stage.

skarlett:
True that

Well, since love conquers all there's no need for her to bother him with getting a job. They can live comfortably happily ever after on what she makes. She can even give him the money to pay her bride price sef, so they'll get married and everyone is happy

give him money to pay my bride price hmmm...I think I already know what he is going to say when I make such suggestion. Nothing far from "over his dead body"

skarlett:
Of course not



Love is wonderful




Its good you're really sticking by your man through thick and thin. Encourage him to apply for a job in the company of one of your contacts, let him not know you're behind the scene. When he gets the job, don't ever bring it up in any conversation that you helped him out. Note: let him be the one to apply

it won't work. He's gonna get suspicious when I encourages him to apply for a job in a particular company. All he wants is to get a job on his own without my help in any form. Problem is he isn't sending his Cvs to companies where I've friends.

This is very innovative...
if only the government supports them...

in all...you guys are saying I should dump him...can you really do that to someone you trully love?

Fine he is egoistic, but he also has some other good traits too, hence I fell in love with him.

What I really need to know now, is possible ways I can make him accept a job from my contacts. He is the very suspicious type. I've begged some of my contacts to send him job invites, but he somehow finds out I'm involved and he backs out.

I've a boyfriend, he is more or less my Fiance. We have been dating for two years now. He has so far refused to propose formally to me just because of the nature of my job. I'm hardly in the country due to the nature of my job, not my fault though. He isn't working for the now and he depends solely on my earnings yet he is not comfortable with what I do. I've tried getting a job for him, but he refuses to even get in touch with my contacts, claiming he is a man and must get a job by his own efforts.

I'm tired of waiting for him to settle down, but I deeply love him... I wouldn't want to leave him for some reasons, one of which is what his family would say when I do. I believe they would probably think I left him because he hasn't gotten a job. I'm really so confused on my next line of action.

Please advise!!!! I'm not getting any younger, not that I'm desperate oo...

What is this world coming to?

I don't know why crimes of this nature are always being perpetuated by close family members and family friends...

I expected as much.

They won't even be able to implement one quarter of a quarter of the entire budget sef...

tabithababy:
. Is it by force? Really, you shouldn't have served too as there would be no need for the NYSC discharge certificate. You are really selfish. Just shut up your mouth.

You are as stupid as it get.

It's idiots like you that get used and messed up by every dick and harry in camp. Rubbish. I regretted the one year i wasted doing service and you are saying i'm being selfish. Don't worry, they will soon fix a new date so that you can go get ur puci fvcked by guys...

eclipsehemmy:
. Now I refuse to bliv u a graduate. U work witawt nysc cert for dix Country. How Exemption is only given on special request. And you saying you served. I doubt it o

You are not making sense.

Believe it or not, who your believe epp

IRserveMyComent:
My dear tell me the type of job you will get in nigeria without a discharge certificate? When people with masters are roaming the streets jobless.

My sister, i've had and done several jobs without making use of my Nysc discharge certificate.

Mayflowa:
How do you get job or msc without nysc certificate?

There are so many things you obviously don't know...get into the real world first.

skywalker001:
I doubt it if u go 2 skul @all wit ur comment. Tel me d job u'r searching for without NYSC certificate nd mind u not dat dy ar eager to serve but dy wil neva move ahead without serving their father's land

In as much as i would love to banter words with you...i've worked in many capacities... without the use of an Nysc certificate.

You can always apply for an exemption letter/certificate if really you are not so eager to serve your father's land...mind you, wearing khaki is not the only way by which you can serve your father's land.

sirguy542:
i know is not by force to serve. But why did u serve?

Let me just say i was ignorant like most of you guys back then.

Santaglox:
What noncence re u talking about...?young lady...since u finished from school...if u even went to school at all... Hav u goten a jab.. Hw much do u hav in ur bk acct..if u don't knw what to say short up nd b watching ok..

see who go school. You can't even compose a good sentence. I pity for the future of this country.

ninodaniel:
idiot

you and your entire family are idiots!

is it by force to serve? Abeg, make dem go seat down for house joor, the one year i wasted doing service should have been used to search for a job or start an msc program.