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Technology Market › Re: 4 By 6 Bedframe N Mattress by neonly: 11:58am On Dec 28, 2025
Chai tunubu he don reach like dat why not dash it to d needy
Tunubu I der watch wth one eye open
Christianity Etc › Re: Did You Attend All Sunday Services In 2025? by neonly: 11:55am On Dec 28, 2025
All combine na 8 service I go make God help me
Politics › Re: Stop The US Military Intervention Now - Gummi Tells Tinubu by neonly: 9:56am On Dec 26, 2025
No wonder I was hearing a lot explosion yesterday at my backyard I thought it was knockout didn't know it was bomb that was landing in my dear country
Politics › Re: Sowore Reacts To Trump-Ordered Airstrikes In Nigeria by neonly: 9:47am On Dec 26, 2025
It a welcome move I must comend from d American since our intelligent has been compromised
But will d terrorist hear words it will just allow them to spread to city like Lagos pH this is best tym to move to Ghana honestly but Ghanaians don reject us
Family › Re: The Real Meaning Of Abusive Relationship/marriage. by neonly: 10:31am On Dec 20, 2025
Porksupplyib:
Often times , the society tends to misinterpret the meaning of "Abuse in a relationship/marriage".
What subconsciously comes to everyone's mind when they hear of "Abuse" in relationships is physical violence /abuse. And this is very wrong.

There are various forms of abuse in relationships and the verbal abuse is the chief of them all.

Words are weapons that inflict injuries without outward visible scars. And that is the problem. In many wrong relationships, many tend to be faced with this very form of abuse and keep it quiet. Tolerating it in silence.
Often times , verbal abuse leads to physical abuse. And thus should be addressed with as much effort as physical abuse.
Talking down on a partner, or using derogatory words, inflicts as much pain on the person as physical abuse. The only difference is that one is visible to the outside eyes while the other is not.

As an advocate for abuse-free relationship, I have seen that verbal abuse is about the highest cause of physical abuse in relationships/marriages. Both partners should learn to respects each other.

We cannot win the war against abuse in marriage or relationships if we fail to pay attention to verbal abuse.
Learn to curb your tongues people. Both gender are involved in verbal abuse. Although,
The gender that talks too much should please take heed more.

Much love.
The gender that talk too much had me cracking
Belief me they normally starts the verbal war and later start forming innocent
Anyway this gen z generation has collapse married institution finally
My fear now children born in this generation might never expirence really love and discipline in their parenting
Family › Re: Why Most Women Stay In Abusive Marriages In Nigeria, The Dark Psychology!!! by neonly: 10:22am On Dec 20, 2025
Psalmspsalms:
You could have shorten the write up. I believe most people wont have the patience to go through it all.. but it's worth it, I guess
I tell u my brother the write up long like jamb question
Politics › Re: Nigeria Secures Largest-ever Military Aircraft Acquisition In West Africa by neonly: 8:20pm On Dec 16, 2025
Oga we need F16,F35 , Stealth bomber etc not this old fighter jets
Food › Re: Can You Bear The Pain Of Not Being Served Food In An Occasion? by neonly: 8:13pm On Dec 16, 2025
I have gone to my ex inlaw party before
I even gave them money for drink but they keep refusing to give food choo
I just go buy food for fast food and drink sit-down and chop my food jeje
Honestly I was not pained but na them shame catch because fingers started pointing say dis guy no chop der food
Romance › Re: Red Flag Discovery Gone Wrong. Should I Still Continue This Relationship? by neonly: 1:37pm On Dec 15, 2025
Guy don't listen to most of the advice here if you like yurself u want to hear d honest truth
RUN
RUN
RUN
And don't look back ok
Otherwise u go cry after fathering another man child for 30yrs
Mind u her mother go dey bleam her for back without u knowing but she can't be against her daughter in public
Na bad family to go der again
Yes Nigerian girls are terrible but good ones still dey just relax
Romance › Re: Red Flag Discovery Gone Wrong. Should I Still Continue This Relationship? by neonly: 1:32pm On Dec 15, 2025
Baronthecelebri:
Don't go ahead with her, abort mission
Best advice since reading this post well make I continue to read comments
Politics › Re: FG Speaks On Blocking All Bank Accounts Without TIN From 1st January 2026 by neonly: 9:26am On Dec 15, 2025
FG is very unwise
U will see massive cash withdrawal from banks before the year end
People will prefer cash transportation
Tax collection are always done gradually not give a death line
Der will be panic
So if u have cash in banks keep them at home cause from January is going to be chaotic because of APC policy
Politics › Re: Kwankwaso Slams Tinubu For Allegedly Prioritising Southwest Development by neonly: 5:13pm On Dec 12, 2025
themanderon:
He should get lost. What did he do when Buhari was appointing his incompetent brothers everywhere?
Must everything about Nigeria always be about the northhuh
In as much dat I don't like APC
But let sence come in here
What der total tax revenue over der I mean how much do they contribute to d economy na oil money all of them they chase
Ole
Politics › Re: ‘Political Witch-hunt’ – Atiku Condemns Malami’s Arrest by neonly: 8:06am On Dec 12, 2025
Peterobiisathie:
We will always be grateful to Malami for the kidnapping of Nnamdi Kanu from Kenya
Dis nairaland no kill person with laughter
Properties › Re: A Lot Of People Are Not Interested In Real Estate Right Now And That’s Fine by neonly: 7:14am On Dec 12, 2025
Buying land especially in lagos right now it not a very good idea honestly
See d waves of demolishion going on eg bariga oworo ifako etc
Uncertainty has creep in people mind they fear of demolishion in d future
TV/Movies › Re: IMDB's 2025 Most Popular Movies: How Many Have You Watched? by neonly: 8:13pm On Dec 11, 2025
All d films are useless
Story line are terrible
I regret downloading to watch them
Politics › Re: Nigeria A Secular Nation; Don't Subject Christians To Sharia Law - Sultan by neonly: 8:01pm On Dec 11, 2025
This trump guy most really be powerful or is der another thing that wear not seeing
All of a sudden people head or brain is resetting
Thks Jehovah
Education › Re: WAEC & NECO Registration; How Much Did Your Child's School charge? by neonly: 9:43am On Dec 11, 2025
LagosG:
I'm trying to get a read on what schools are charging for WAEC registration. I know WAEC directly charges less than 30k and NECO hovers around 25k but some schools charge more than 100k for both.
Why?
As has today they charge 65k
But I want to ask you have they close the registration ASAP
Romance › Re: What I Recently Discovered About Women That's Shocking. by neonly: 6:42pm On Dec 10, 2025
Dis happened to me recently
I was introduced to one banie like dat to they cure konji
Na only for phone we talk ohh
Banie switch to video calls saw fresh man and good environment
Next day I saw her chart
Pls I need yur help my mind flipped wetin happen
Next chart
I have not eaten since morning pls give me any amount make chop
This someone dat just change her statue on WhatsApp oo loaded like six different videos
I just go mute on her
I since block her line
No time for broke girls
Business › Re: No Bank Is Allowed To Debit Your Account Over Loan Repayments Unless... by neonly: 7:03am On Dec 10, 2025
ACCESS BANK una don hear useless bank
Politics › Re: El Rufai Accused President Tinubu Of Waging War Against Muslim North by neonly: 8:16pm On Dec 09, 2025
Am not an APC fan but this man is sick
Technology Market › Re: Iphone 14 Pro Physical Sim @ 765,000 Each by neonly: 5:48pm On Dec 08, 2025
Dey play
With d way people advertise iphone on d internet now if u get half of that money na luck
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Some Churches Record Tithe Against The Payer?? by neonly: 8:15am On Dec 07, 2025
olaric:
This is nothing but pure ignorance. Tithes are recorded for accountability and for record keeping.

Every church does it; including the Roman Catholic Church.
Look is very wrong for churchs to record tithe
They use it has a way to know rich flowers in church pls spare me any excuses
Foursquare a good example though it depends on d branch
Family › Re: Female Names You Won't Give Your New Baby by neonly: 2:15pm On Dec 06, 2025
Bmaster:
Fear the below names,na them dey do hook up pass

bella
nancy
preshy
qween

I talked from experience!
U forget to add Racheal
Celebrities › Re: Sabinus Confirms Peaceful End Of Marriage (Video) by neonly: 9:21pm On Dec 03, 2025
It finish
Marriage is officially dead on arrival for a sane man
But u go loose pass
Man or woman
Make I dey read comments
Foreign Affairs › Re: Children Killed, 10 Others Injured At Mass Shooting In California, USA (Photos) by neonly: 8:31am On Dec 01, 2025
Am sure the person go bi a head slamhuhhuh??
Romance › Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by neonly: 5:32pm On Nov 24, 2025
Until we men learn dis Barney go dey take us for a ride
Sex doll better pass most of Nigeria. Girls
Politics › Re: Politics Should Be Business Of Responsible Individuals Not Rascals - Jonathan by neonly: 8:49pm On Nov 21, 2025
I think he was referring to wike
Politics › Re: Sowore Reacts To Fayose’s Insults Against Obasanjo: “When Two Deputy Devils Jam" by neonly: 9:41am On Nov 18, 2025
Obj not in Fayose level in all things
Education › Re: If You Used This Notebook In Secondary School,you're A Legend. by neonly: 1:19pm On Nov 15, 2025
Generation of zombies won't know this
Family › Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by neonly: 8:51am On Nov 13, 2025
I believe yur story na who never reach der no go understand
But it ok sha welcome to a life of freedom again
Nairaland General › Re: WIKE stopped by military man by neonly: 8:50am On Nov 12, 2025
yarimo:
busy body how is that your business if I jump from thread to thread
If I catch u

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