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PastorKosi:
The Family You Marry Into Matters—A Lot

Many people believe that once a man or woman agrees to marry them, that’s all that matters. But that’s far from the truth.

The family you marry into plays a significant role in the peace and quality of your marriage. Some families are deeply problematic. From the moment you say “I do,” the real battle begins—fights, disrespect, abuse, and in some cases, spiritual attacks. Sadly, your own partner may even join forces with their family against you, leaving you isolated, broken, or forced to walk away from the marriage.

On the other hand, if you’re blessed to marry into a family that loves you—especially one where your spouse’s mother embraces you with a kind heart—you are one of the luckiest people on earth. That kind of love and support is rare and precious.

The signs are usually there during courtship. A lady once told me how her mother-in-law swore that she would never allow her to marry her son. She forced her way in, thinking love would conquer all, but since then, it’s been one spiritual and emotional battle after another.

Whether you’re a man or woman, please take this seriously: the family you marry into matters. Some families are just toxic—let me say it plainly, some are evil. And it’s even worse when your partner is either blind to their actions or lacks the courage to defend you.

For me, my wife is a core part of my life and my assignment. Anyone who disrespects or abuses her has automatically done the same to me. I don’t separate her pain from mine.

So choose wisely. Love is not blind—don’t let it blind you to the reality of what you’re stepping into.

Thank you for how you adore your wife and share in her pain

[quote author=Futuristica post=135657669][/quote]Please, do not be discouraged. Be a little bit emphatic towards her and watch how you will be rewarded

Futuristica:
Nope..she lost her womb in that pregnancy

Please take it easy with her.she is frustrated and not cheating. A woman who lost her womb is very emotional and easily triggered. Do ubkniw what that mean? Imagine if for any reason in that marriage u become infertile. Life is uncertain. This is time to show more live. This life is very uncertain as we can only pray and hope for the best. Everything is not about pride and stubbornness. That decil u know is better than the Angel you don't know. May God bless your home n restore peace and love

shortgun:
He was threatening her with divorce instead of looking for workable solutions to fix the marriage from onset. Women feel devastated, demoralized and frustrated in any environment where they are shown rejection....she will never give her best or even try!
A man in every home must know how to work on the psychology of his wife

Very well said bro especially if she too had at any point in time found out he cheated

Tochitee:
When IPOBs aka obi retards was cheering him on to destroy all lawmakers supporting wike then mugu was thinking he has absolute power . Now their time don come too now,body go tell you.MUMU MAN! You don’t use evil to pay back evil, you wait for the right time, if you break this rule,bigger evil will be meted to you.

Aturu

helinues:
Wike no get time for sme sme

Idiatt

yarimo:
Everyone in FCT is happy to have WIKE as FCT minister. Mr projects carry on sir

Mpama

PandoraObi:
Bitter grievingory Obi is embittered, disgruntled and bereaved, so the president should fold his hands and do nothing when militants have started bombing oil installation as Fubara promised he will still order his boys when time comes.

Anu

Obiedun:
Yes daddy, you can do your worst

Mpama

masterfactor:
Reuben abati should go and rest. Let him clear himself of the corruption charges against him, he has no moral to speak on this matter.

Mpama

papagiddy:
God will bless President Tinubu...He is a man of courage...May grace of God never depart from his life I'm Jesus's name..Amen....betrayals can never last...Haha! Agreement is Agreement...never bites d funger of the person helping you...Tinubus generations will never see shame in Jesus name.....Oga na master any day!!!

Mpama

Lifemanage:
Reason none of the major tribes wants to align with them

Ewu. How market for you in this Tinubu econony? Empty brain