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daretodiffer:
Read the title and the content of your post again You are welcome

''when a girl believes she's too smart?''... When A girl... Not when Girls. Do you have understanding issues? Funny enough, you said I wasn't too smart some time ago.... is this being smart?

Timbuktou:
I would advise you to take your brother's advice. It's not worth the trouble and I'm speaking from painful experience. Run as fast as your legs can carry you. When you're with a peaceful woman who loves you, your life will make meaning

thank you brother. I'm running for real. He even told me to run from her and I'm doing that

Phinity318:
Bros u don try, professional courses no dy reach eleven month even, if her behaviour can be noticed by a smart melancholic guy, I guess she Needs to see a psychiatrist for evaluation, she has Ego issues.

lol. Please easy on her. Omode n se.

GloriaNinja:
You even have a bad grammer, shame on your kindergarten days. "Spits", haver never come across a barbaric illiterate Like you. what a shame.

yes. He might have a bad grammer and you have never come across a babaric illiterate like him. But damn!!! if you can't spot your errors in the bolded words, you're a bad grammarian!

Vanillaskin:
Now I see why aunty Linda is still single.
Nigerian men are just too weak in the head that you guys can't handle an ordinary woman with a high IQ and understanding who criticizes you.
So when you meet a woman with money and power, you will just hide your tail in between your lags and quiver with fear, sad

lol. I'm not intimidated by a womans succes girl. A woman with a high IQ is something every guy wants including me. But IQ with stubborn needless arrogance? No way. I'm siaposexual..... So, i love intelligent ladies.. Not the ego infested ones

Timbuktou:
No need for thanks, my friend. I consider it my duty to shed light on issues when I can. It's important that guys know the difference between a strong-willed, passionate woman and a shrew.

strong willed and passionate... Yeah. She is strong willed and passionate but wants to lead. Would you want your brother to marry a wife who would always battle with him over stuffs cos she thinks she's right?

Phinity318:
These kinda ladies are mostly insecure, they are in competition with the male gender and would do anything to prove that they are smart, nonetheless if u get their weakness they are the most sweetest being.
Obviously u seem to be a smart and intelligent dude, IMO, u should date her,@least show hr life from a different perspective, she should stop surviving and start living.

Bro. Thank you for this beautiful comment but I've spent over 11mnths trying to help her change... It's not really easy. An elder bro of mine talked to her for the fist time when he saw her somewhere. He warned me to stay away from her except I wanna argue all my life. He's intelligent, you know, intelligent melancholic guy. He noticed this bad side and he even told her to stop acting like the boss since it was the first time they were talking and he's obviously older than her.

jojosweet:
for her to have dated u was a tragic misdeed to herself:why?, for u both to have had that experience and she flopped because of her flaw which with kindness firm and patience u would have managed and possibly changed. U ran to NL to kiss and tell(chant victory song) . Trust me she under achieved with u as a boyfriend.

smh. Did you even read the post? Did we date? Or are you just a feminist that wants to support a girl.

Sorry, I'm not one to exchange words with a girl. If you wanna insult, find another girl. Morestill, I'd say I underachieved myself by going after her for over 11months. Its not kiss and tell... I didn't tast nothing and not feeling proud that she's back... I fell sorry for her tho. But please. Don't jump into conclusion next time

iebanehita:
No ma'am.
There's a thin line between being confident and being co.cky.
The ex was being coc.ky.
The face that OP had to wait for 9mnth before dating her shows he values her and wants something long lasting. No need trying to show-off your intelligence to a guy.
He would definitely see it.

On the example he sited, the lady could have asked qns like:
--Who are your target audienc?
--What marketing channel are you going to use for the book? etc.. rather than outrightly pouring out unsolicited advice.

thanks for having my back bro.

henrimoto:
Two Captains can't control a ship, No matter how knowledgable both of them are, one must pave way for one.

Dont be sentimental with your comments here, the OP had been fair and tolerant to an extent, going by his write up. He cant bear with the issues anymore, that's why he called it with the closeness and emotional part of the relationship.

Isn't that reasonable and responsible enough? Or should he wait till when verbal and emotional abuse set in before he calls it Quit?

You sound as if it's abnornal for a woman to submit to her man.

Hey, as a woman with emotions, no matter your pedigree, if you really wanted to make the guy/man you claim to have soft spot for, you must be submissive to an extent.

Your being submissive to the guy you like/love doesn't make you a dummy. It's just as simple as that.

bro. Excatly. You're on point. Since october last yr... That's 11months of wooing. Ain't that reasonable enough?

daretodiffer:
Neverslbolt, you are not too smart sir. If you think this behavior is particular to women, you must have little human experience.

lol. Was it written in my post up there that the behaviour applies to all women? Please, read again. And thank you for the insult.

Ssthorm:
Overwiseness dusnt pay women bt does men? Lol boi....u also hv issues apparently,ur jst 20...u stil hv to grow. M nt sayn she's ryt bt...u hv egoistic issues goin on. N du u want a bimbo fo a wyf? Smh

lol. Bro. I didn't say overwiseness fits a man to. Generally, it doesnt.i'm siaposexual, but she wants to lead all the time despite her inability. Would you play second fiddle in a relationship as a guy?

tayorh:
One of the reasons i ended my previous relationship, she is always right, u cant correct her, egoistic, no respect, etc.. I pray she drops those habit, no guy will tolerate such a lady

true. altho I always display that I'm intelligent than the average guy she'll meet and she know

Idoko619:
Wen u meet a matured mind u knw.... Tanks 4 avoiding d unnecessary argument.

thanks bro

SlimHan:
Fine! you cant date her. okay, i ex left her and you did too. She's egoistic and all.... but did u think about telling her of the reason u left her? please do brother cos she will just keep on loosing potential guys who have plans for her without realizing what her fault really is. Thanks

i told her. Atleast I hinted it to her. if you tell her ''You're judgemental''... She'd say ''sorry, it's being sure of something'' see?

ClintonDal:
I can relate, I've dated such a girl for over 2 years. Now she's sweet and all but her one problem is always wanting to be right. Her ego is something else, it would literally take her days to apologize when she does something wrong.
I pride myself as a smart and intelligent guy so sometimes I just stare at her as she blabs away. I had to advise her,if she continues on that path she'd be heading for doom and truthfully that's where she might be now. Her close friend whom I still talk to told me she hasn't had a serious relationship after we broke up 3 years ago, that's bad.
It's okay to be opinionated and outspoken but not to the detriment of others. You can't be a know-it-all and expect everyone to like you.

honestly bro. This girl is the same. I wanted something really awesome for us but.... She ruined it all. I'm intelligent as far as others have commented but You wouldnt see me trying to lead all the time. this lady too won't apologise.. Ive never even heard her say ''I'm sorry''

Odgfidelity:
No man wishes to marry a lady who resist teachings and corrections. Ladies should learn to honour and saubmit to the leadership of the man. Then the man must be a wise man also, so that He will not be manifesting folly when wisdom should be displayed. A rule of thumb is that your woman will naturally follow your orders when she has proven that you are a wise man, and your decisions have produced undeniable results. I dont advice a lady to follow a fool!

true bro.

ephi123:
Hard to admit but the truth is you attract who you are.

lol. So you mean I'm cocky and all? Lol. i'll pretend I didn't see that

Trina0936:
Pls help me ask him! Its always easy to spot men easily intimidated by an intelligent woman

intimidated? Sweetheart, I'm sapiosexual. I love intelligent girls.

Josmila:
Every man has what he looks out for in a woman, she clearly can't submit to a man's authority, she's better off being single or a babymama. Move on bro

ive been off her for like 3 months now and moved on bro thanks.

Realhommie:
Lol... Guy 7 years no be beans ooooooo.

To see girl wey go fit dey patient that long presently be like finding oil in sambissa forest ooo.

lol. And it's possible o.