deluckiest: For the past 6 years, my wife has been monitoring all my phone lines—MTN, Glo, and Airtel. She screenshots my chats, records my calls, and even gathers proof with pictures. Changing my phone numbers doesn’t help because she says as long as I use my NIN to register a SIM, she can still track everything I do, whether openly or secretly, unless she chooses not to.
I want to put an end to this, but I don’t want to get her into trouble with the law.
Has anyone gone through something like this? How did you handle it? Please share your advice.
IgboGoat: In reflecting on the hypothetical question of choosing between my mother and my wife, I have come to the conclusion that, in such an unlikely scenario, I would prioritize my mother. This decision stems from a few key observations:
1. Unwavering Support: Mothers consistently give to their children, regardless of their age or circumstances. For example, when I recently embarked on a challenging journey to pursue my master’s degree, my mother contributed significantly, providing financial support of approximately 2 million NGN and foodstuffs for my travel. In contrast, my wife did not contribute to this endeavor but instead focused on financial demands and obligations I needed to fulfill before leaving.
2. Differing Priorities: I have observed that my wife tends to prioritize her family of origin over our household. Her financial contributions often lean toward supporting her parents rather than addressing our shared responsibilities at home.
3. Constructive Support vs. Criticism: A mother’s nurturing nature often involves understanding her child’s weaknesses and helping them grow. Conversely, my wife has been more critical of my shortcomings and has, at times, shared these with her family members, which can feel undermining.
4. Unconditional Love: A mother’s love is deeply rooted and unconditional, while affection in marriage often seems conditional, influenced by circumstances or expectations.
These reflections highlight the enduring sacrifices and selflessness of a mother, making her irreplaceable in my life. While this is a personal perspective, it underscores the unique and invaluable bond between a mother and her child.
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This is a no-brainer...any man who doesn't choose his mother over a wife does not deserve to be born
seunmsg: Nduka Obaigbena should go and pay his debt to First bank or else Otedola go take him eyes see shege. Giving awards to APC government officials don’t solve his problems.
Otedola has already rushed to lodge his report with Headmaster in Dubai...he didn't leave anything to chance
franvincoop: A word of advice, dogs dey fear me, shepherd/bulldog/ekuke u name it. I mean all dogs, e dey like dem dey smell/see the dogmeat wey I dey chop all ma life. If u thinksay I dey lie, ask that guy man or Calabar girl for your area about 404. RIP Patricia.
For real, if you done too chop dog meat ya DNA go mutate, ya aura go change begin dey reflect am...and dogs being highly psychic animals dem go dey see am with their 3rd eye
AnonymousNarrat: True, no one forces a country to host, but the pressure to bid for the World Cup often comes from wanting global recognition and prestige. Unfortunately, many nations overlook the massive financial risks involved. What do you think— should countries focus on other priorities instead?
fergie001: Wike made this known in Port Harcourt on Sunday during a thanksgiving service for the speaker of the Rivers State House of Assembly, Martin Amaewhule.
The thanksgiving service was held at the Church of the Holy Spirit Anglican Church, Port Harcourt in honour of Amaewhule.
Leobankx: Lere Olayinka, the Senior Special Assistant on Public Communications and New Media to the Minister of the Federal Capital Territory FCT, Nyesom Wike has knocked a former Governor of Rivers State, Dr Peter Odili over a recent remark against his principal.
mrvitalis: I don't really understand this politicians who spends money to buy activists... It's useless
An activists losses everything that made u pay him once he accepts your offer... So it's baseless
Say Obi accepts money n declare for Tinubu he instantly loses all relevance
See Segalink today a no body on the space he once held so much respect
The godfather of Lagos buys everything and everybody, that's why his thirst for money is insatiable; his end goal (politically) is a one-party state in the image of Mobutu's Zaire, or Kim Il Sung's Korea, etc.
He does not care whether the public loses faith in the activist or not, just bring him into the fold and it's one less irritant to worry about. And then he uses the armed-services to suppress and if necessary disappear the dissenters who don't have a popular public-persona to protect themselves or to bargain with.
DatNiggaDaz: Face xour parapoism government & get the "South" out of your mouth.
Remember your folks broke the heads of people from the South during the last fraudulent election, telling to go back to their villages. There was nothing like South then & today there should also be nothing like "South"
Also Remember that you are teaching some peoöle fröm that same South politics.
When kasala dey develope head small small, this people will Remember the " South"
When the South needed your protection, you abused them, sent soldiers to burn öne of our community in Okuoma kidnapped our elders to Abuka where one lost hs life, while you Tinubu defenders where shouting "butn everything down".
If i dare hear that "South" again, I will come hard on you for real
Nothing like South again everybody answer I'm papa name
Infotubia9ja: You see you are a very stupid physiotherapist I must say.. Did you read what I wrote well you illiterate of a person..
Did they not write an exam to be given that certificate or did they just present their Nigerian degrees and got the job... You be really idiot. I no feel like insulting you so don't make me at all.
You dey UK dey make mouth. Lagos of abroad I bet na peckham u dey self dey make all this noise My friend relocate to a much better country before you start talking rubbish or do you consider backdoor UK as abroad.. My friend you better read well before you come open you smelling mouth and talk rubbish with me. Small illiterate.
Ol' boy you be very stupid guy o
(just stating the fact even though I don't really care if you're offended)
This is food that Northern Nigeria has been cooking for more than fifty years, it's just getting done now...
The entire Nigeria will join them in eating it unless we can find a way to split this country into its component regional nationalities. Unfortunately, APC is too busy stealing to pay attention to what's going on