franktech:
From your conversations it shows that this boy doesn't want you again. Can I tell whose fault it is? No.

It is really sad whenever I see a girl passing through this kind of situation� Our girls are supposed to be happy and having the best of life but unfortunately the economy is bad. Therefore as a lady if you want to get married or have countless suitors, you must have a good job or be an entrepreneur

One thing I can sense is that you do not have any value apart from maybe breast and toto. Probably no job even. Secondly this makes you to be too demanding. This boy on the other hand may be rich or poor but honesty if I am him I will not get married to a useless woman.

In Abroad you will see women that are web programmers, Uber drivers, owning all manner establishment that they started from scratch. Surely I say to you, as a lady in Nigeria, if you can at least be earning 40k as a youtuber,blogger,programmer,event planner,Uber driver, architect,contractor, business infact any job apart from restaurant,masonry,hotel and mortuary this is because African men are yet to accept that as a job for a decent lady.

Do you think for example Linda Ikeji will be looking for a husband? Impossible right?. Well you may not be Linda Ikeji bit if you can have a blog and be earning 40k monthly revenue I assure you that every year you will be counting your suitors. Sampling breast and nyash does not only make you look senseless, it also shows that you are not a wife material and only good to Bleep and go especially when you are demanding join am.

I am yet to get married and I will be looking for a girl that has a join and actively earning. If she is an entrepreneur, perfect. Not hairstylist type of entrepreneur though. Also I will check if she is showing nyash and bobi on Facebook for sale. I am not looking for a woman that will help my business or depend on her for finance but I would want to have less burden to carry incase my business fail and also security for my kids incase I am not there for them again.

If you have the qualities that I mentioned above you will not have to be kneeling now to beg him for whatever. Infact he will be forced to quickly get married to you because he will see all manner of suitors coming.
You will not asking what his plans are. Instead you will be telling him that you are under pressure by your parents to get married to one of the suitors.

Women of value are like wine, the older the better. Ask Okonjo Iweala

I know you gonna say it's my fault

I do have value and I've been supportive to him & his business in my little way.

De way you view me is so wrong cause I'm not a demanding type. Don't even know how to ask a man money.

I love my career & I'm working very hard to get it.

Thanks for your advice

Ekpeitut:
Nne, they say time wounds all heels .I meant to say heals all wounds.(me trying to crack a joke at a funeral)

Matters of the heart are delicate and in as much I don't fancy your bare it all approach to total strangers I 'd like for you to be more discreet with the information you throw out here. Find your happy place by looking inwards and draw closer to your creator.

Thanks sir

Lalami3232:
You're just 25 like you said and you're already in a 7yrs relationship. From the look things, no be that guy even disvirgin you, he inherit ur puna from someone else.
Let me advise you like I would advise my sister if only I had one. See eeh, that guy no go ever marry u cus he no trust you 1%. He dey look u like cheerful giver. Besides, he no respect you, maybe because u no dey add value to E life. But let me tell u something, he would always come back to have a taste of the puna be once inherited, na so such guys dey be. Focus on ur school and add value to ur life, good guys like us would definitely come knocking if u have something good to offer aside beauty and puna. Forgive me if I'm been too blunt here but u need a brain resetting advise for u to seat up. Cry all u want, starve yourself for all u care but make sure that no guy puts u in such a situation anymore. Close ur puna workshop from henceforth and add more goods to ur brain workshop. U would smile at the end if u follow my advise. But if u don't, then I see ***********************

I appreciate your advice

zexy2030:
It hurts but be silent. No calls no text but no girl can bear this if he is their first love.

Thanks. Gonna try

Angelacruz:
Move on dear...tym will heal

Thanks dear. I'm really trying to

iRepNaija1:


OP, I read the first exchange but not the next one. You need to move on. The only reasons you have not done so are because of your feelings for him and the seven years you invested in the relationship. If a man wanted to move forward with you, he would've done so already. Period. My advice? Stop talking to him. In fact, don't even announce it. Just stop sending messages right now. If he reaches out, don't respond. Just even block him. I'm very serious.

Focus on yourself. Get into hobbies, reconnect with friends and family, focus on your job. Just start becoming the best version of yourself without ever considering reaching out to this man. This distance is for your benefit, not his, because, going forward, you need to relearn how to live your life without him in it. He's already shown you through his speech and conduct that he doesn't want you. He's even gone so far as to blame you when you ask him about the state of your relationship. He's even goading you to be the one to end it.

I know it's going to be difficult but you need to do this. There are so many other people you could be meeting right now who will know your worth and show their love. Good luck.

Thanks for your advice, but it's not that easy for me here. Can't even think right

I'm losing my mine

StacyO:
@neweramify

First,I have to say the guy might be 31 but, he's way way immature.


Secondly,you're trying so hard to make him accept you. He'll surely use that against you,please stop forcing yourself on those who don't love you.

However,Ima from the look of things will most likely black mail you with the sex issue between you both.

Cause seriously,from the chat that guy looks like an ardent fan of Okafor's law.

Sorry to say.


It seems you are the one investing so much into the relationship sef.





Lastly,cut every forms of communication with him. Forget about him totally,it might not be easy but trust me,within few weeks or months, you'll be fine.
Block him on every social media handle. You're still pretty young for all his wrinkle gents at this early stage.




Forget the whole infatuation.



It's better late than never.






Anyway,follow this link on nairaland. I'll update it cause of you.


https://www.nairaland.com/6366975/hidden-truth-need-know-lady

Thanks Ma.
I appreciate your advice and encouragement.

Yusufisraelj:



Pls walk out of this relationship, someone is enduring you and you are staying, telling you you can leave and you are staying.

It's obvious he doesn't fancy you, he thinks you are needy and clingy, and you've shown him by coming back to him after three months of being away.

To really heal from this guy bkos 7 years no be beans, you need to stay off relationship for over 6months never to do anything with him and more to work on yourself.

Kai mehn, if you marry this guy you will suffer. Read this https://www.nairaland.com/6359885/balanced-living-system-making-life

Thanks for your advice sir.

thorpido:
You didn't write his response.

I've done that now

chinchonglee:

Lemme ask u girl
Do u have a job?

I'm schooling, I'm in my final year now.
Sponsored by my parents

Have a small Business

[2/19, 12:34 PM] ~sprout�: This has nothing to do with your statement ''I don't have any intention''
(for you/this relationship).

Uncle mbok shift.

[2/19, 12:35 PM] Ima: Ok

[2/19, 12:35 PM] Ima: Suit urself

[2/19, 12:35 PM] Ima: Please stop dropping me message

[2/19, 12:35 PM] Ima: Am curving out time to attend to ur chat

[2/19, 12:36 PM] Ima: Am cooking

[2/19, 12:36 PM] Ima: Am so tired and I don't need this right now

[2/19, 12:36 PM] Ima: Thanks for making my day

[2/19, 12:36 PM] Ima: I really appreciate

[2/19, 12:36 PM] Ima: Good bless u so good

[2/19, 12:37 PM] ~sprout�: And bless you more for thinking asking what your future plan with me is, is an unnecessary question.

[2/19, 12:37 PM] Ima: I never heard before that singlehood kills

[2/19, 12:38 PM] Ima: God will be gracious unto me

[2/19, 12:38 PM] Ima: Remain bless

[2/19, 12:38 PM] Ima: Cheers

[2/19, 12:38 PM] ~sprout�: Yes he will hun

[2/19, 12:41 PM] Ima: Everything I said always comes from my heart but urs always comes because of anger

[2/19, 12:41 PM] Ima: Thanks so much

[2/19, 12:41 PM] ~sprout�: Thanks for making me understand

[2/19, 12:41 PM] Ima: U started getting me angry in the morning and I ended it very well

[2/19, 12:42 PM] Ima: Never mind

[2/19, 12:42 PM] ~sprout�: For the rest of your life hun

[2/19, 12:42 PM] Ima: U said before that u don't love me and it was because u were angry

[2/19, 12:43 PM] Ima: U last tell me that u feel that I don't love u again simply because I was harsh with u but u never ask me why I was harsh

[2/19, 12:44 PM] Ima: Everything u do seems right and mind worst

[2/19, 12:44 PM] Ima: Is ok

[2/19, 12:44 PM] Ima: This save me right

[2/19, 12:44 PM] Ima: Maybe I will learn from us

[2/19, 12:44 PM] ~sprout�: Cause you throwed me out of your house like one that doesn't have a home, got your house keys from me all for nothing.

[2/19, 12:45 PM] Ima: Is ok

[2/19, 12:45 PM] Ima: Ur always good narrating to make one looks bad

[2/19, 12:45 PM] Ima: Good for u

[2/19, 12:46 PM] Ima: U can even keep blaming me for everything

[2/19, 12:46 PM] Ima: Good almighty will judge us one day

[2/19, 12:46 PM] ~sprout�: Sure he will hun

[2/19, 12:47 PM] ~sprout�: Such a great man you are

[2/19, 12:47 PM] ~sprout�: God bless you for everything you've done for me

[2/19, 12:47 PM] Ima: Please if u know that ur no longer seeing me as ur boyfriend please we should not keep communicating

[2/19, 12:48 PM] Ima: Our communication should end now

[2/19, 12:48 PM] Ima: Thanks

[2/19, 12:48 PM] Ima: I wish u well

[2/19, 12:48 PM] ~sprout�: Make you Excel in life

[2/19, 12:49 PM] ~sprout�: Favor you in all your endeavours

[2/19, 12:49 PM] Ima: I don't need ur prayers

[2/19, 12:49 PM] Ima: Just leave me alone

[2/19, 12:49 PM] ~sprout�: Guild you not to go the wrong part

[2/19, 12:50 PM] ~sprout�: His grace shall speak for you

[2/19, 12:50 PM] Ima: Thanks for making me feel that I don't love u enough and for not seeing my love for u simply because ur blind

[2/19, 12:50 PM] ~sprout�: Where men say there is a casting down, you shall say there is a lifting up

[2/19, 12:51 PM] Ima: To be frank u should not do this because is not necessary

[2/19, 12:52 PM] ~sprout�: Guild you not to declare ur intention to the wrong person

[2/19, 12:52 PM] Ima: U have gotten what u wanted and I believe u should be happy with it

[2/19, 12:52 PM] Ima: Same with u

[2/19, 12:54 PM] ~sprout�: What ever wouldn't make you go forward will go backward

[2/19, 12:55 PM] ~sprout�: What ever wouldn't let you go up will go downward

[2/19, 12:56 PM] ~sprout�: Anything seeking your downfall will end in the grave

[2/19, 12:58 PM] ~sprout�: Your life time shall be stories of advancement for you

[2/19, 12:58 PM] ~sprout�: Every day of your life shall be a day of forward movement

[2/19, 12:59 PM] ~sprout�: No day will meet you where the previous day left you

[2/19, 1:01 PM] Ima: So u know all this prayers and u never pray for me before

[2/19, 1:01 PM] ~sprout�: I pray all your great and hight expectations be met and beyond

[2/19, 1:01 PM] Ima: Y now

[2/19, 1:01 PM] Ima: Please stop

[2/19, 1:01 PM] Ima: I don't need this right now

[2/19, 1:02 PM] ~sprout�: Everyone looking for you will find you up there

[2/19, 1:03 PM] Ima: Thanks but is enough

[2/19, 1:03 PM] Ima: If u don't have what else to say please just stop chatting me

[2/19, 1:03 PM] Ima: Read those chatting again from start to know who is at fault today

[2/19, 1:08 PM] ~sprout�: So shall it be, in Jesus name I pray. Amen �

Please, in your next relationship, try and make your intention known to the gal.

Remain blessed

[2/19, 1:10 PM] ~sprout�: Don't call me cause, you will make me hate myself.

Please just do that for me.

[2/19, 1:11 PM] Ima: Lol

[2/19, 1:11 PM] Ima: I won't even do that

[2/19, 1:11 PM] Ima: U Left me first time and now second time and u expect me to call u

[2/19, 1:11 PM] Ima: Never

[2/19, 1:12 PM] Ima: I hate u like never before

[2/19, 1:14 PM] ~sprout�: Always making it look like I left you when you threwme out of your house

That's not even the point

[2/19, 1:15 PM] Ima: I knew that u can never change, anytime we have a fight u end the relationship

[2/19, 1:15 PM] Ima: Suit urself mbok

[2/19, 1:16 PM] Ima: Ur asking me unnecessary questions and I answered u according to the mode that I am

[2/19, 1:16 PM] Ima: U believe asking me that kind of questions on phone is the right thing

[2/19, 1:16 PM] Ima: Madam is ok

[2/19, 1:16 PM] ~sprout�: I don't hate you but I wish you well.

Seriously, I don't have a place in my heart to hate, no matter what.

[2/19, 1:17 PM] Ima: I believe u wanted something I will use to relieve me

[2/19, 1:17 PM] Ima: I wonder y u came back at firi

[2/19, 1:17 PM] Ima: First

[2/19, 1:19 PM] Ima: How I wish I saw the handwriting on time I won't have waste my time and effort receiving u back into my life

[2/19, 1:19 PM] Ima: Thanks for hurting me once again

[2/19, 1:19 PM] Ima: Am grateful

[2/19, 1:21 PM] ~sprout�: Bless you

[2/19, 1:22 PM] ~sprout�: Please you said I have few of my clothes at your place, is it true?

[2/19, 1:25 PM] Ima: Don't worry I think there is any point for that

[2/19, 1:25 PM] Ima: I don't want to see u again

[2/19, 1:29 PM] ~sprout�: See who?

Wanted to send someone to come get it if truly I have any of my cloth there

[2/19, 1:30 PM] Ima: Don't worry

[2/19, 1:30 PM] Ima: No need for that

[2/19, 1:30 PM] Ima: Have a nice day

[2/19, 1:31 PM] ~sprout�: There is, I wanna make sure non of my property is in your place, like my cloth or pant

[2/19, 1:31 PM] Ima: Madam are u deaf

[2/19, 1:31 PM] ~sprout�: Very important

[2/19, 1:32 PM] Ima: I said I should not bother

[2/19, 1:32 PM] Ima: U have anything left in my house

[2/19, 1:32 PM] Ima: Enjoy ur life

[2/19, 1:32 PM] Ima: Please don't bother my life again

[2/19, 1:33 PM] Ima: Thanks for making my look confuse

[2/19, 1:33 PM] Ima: Me

[2/19, 1:33 PM] ~sprout�: These shall never be my portion.

[2/19, 1:33 PM] Ima: Sure

[2/19, 1:33 PM] Ima: But please leave me alone

[2/19, 1:34 PM] Ima: Please

[2/19, 1:34 PM] Ima: U can use this time to chat with the person that had made u to change ur mind from me to him

[2/19, 1:34 PM] Ima: Please just let me be

[2/19, 1:34 PM] Ima: Ur not making me to think now

[2/19, 1:35 PM] ~sprout�: If you come across any of my thing at your place, just let me know. Will send someone to come get it.

Thank you

[2/19, 1:35 PM] Ima: I can never chat u again after today

[2/19, 1:36 PM] Ima: Ur my ex now so u will remain my ex for the rest of my life

[2/19, 1:36 PM] Ima: After today we're done

[2/19, 1:38 PM] ~sprout�: Not a love chat dear but

Hello,
I came across your cloth/pant at my wardrobe. Send someone to come get it.

That will do

[2/19, 1:39 PM] Ima: It won't work out

[2/19, 1:39 PM] Ima: Ur history in my life after today

[2/19, 1:40 PM] ~sprout�: It's not a predicament

[2/19, 1:40 PM] Ima: Sure

[2/19, 12:09 PM] Ima: Lol

[2/19, 12:09 PM] Ima: So u feel that this is break up

[2/19, 12:10 PM] Ima: Is ok if u feel so

[2/19, 12:10 PM] Ima: But I strongly believe that this is want u wanted

[2/19, 12:10 PM] Ima: I wanted ur freedom so that u can get rich like other ladies does

[2/19, 12:11 PM] Ima: But trust me a time will come that I will look for me again

[2/19, 12:11 PM] Ima: Thanks so much for seeing this as a break up

[2/19, 12:12 PM] Ima: For ur information I didn't track ur phone and I don't even know how u think I can stood so low to do that

[2/19, 12:13 PM] Ima: I don't blame u, I blame nature of ladies that after some years there will end up saying had I know

[2/19, 12:13 PM] Ima: Is what ladies us to do so I don't blame u for being among

[2/19, 12:14 PM] ~sprout�: I wish you well dear. I pray you Excel in all your endeavours

[2/19, 12:14 PM] Ima: This is not necessary

[2/19, 12:14 PM] Ima: Ur free

[2/19, 12:14 PM] Ima: I guess I was gaging u

[2/19, 12:15 PM] Ima: And u have gotten the answer to ur questions u always wanted

[2/19, 12:16 PM] Ima: Remember that there is another 3years of sex from another man

[2/19, 12:16 PM] Ima: Maybe more than that

[2/19, 12:16 PM] ~sprout�: Believe me I'm never gonna regret this.

[2/19, 12:16 PM] Ima: Learn to stay where you are

[2/19, 12:16 PM] Ima: There is no perfect place

[2/19, 12:17 PM] Ima: I know

[2/19, 12:19 PM] ~sprout�: Staying single is better that being in a relationship with a man for 3yrs/7yrs without planning or having any good intention with you.

[2/19, 12:20 PM] Ima: Believe what ever u believe

[2/19, 12:20 PM] Ima: Learn not to ask unnecessary question

[2/19, 12:21 PM] Ima: Ur asking a man that is in a relationship with u for that number of years and u believe he doesn't have plans for u

[2/19, 12:21 PM] ~sprout�: It's my body hun... Know this and have peace

[2/19, 12:21 PM] Ima: I didn't have plans for us and I eventually accepted u back in my life after u left for three months

[2/19, 12:21 PM] Ima: Hmmmmm

[2/19, 12:21 PM] Ima: This is so pathetic of ur thought

[2/19, 12:22 PM] Ima: But am not surprised because out of ur desire u got a wrong impression

[2/19, 12:22 PM] Ima: Enjoy the rest of ur day

[2/19, 12:23 PM] ~sprout�: Stay in a place you are not valued or what exactly?

[2/19, 12:23 PM] Ima: Beb don't worry

[2/19, 12:24 PM] Ima: Do what is good for you

[2/19, 12:24 PM] ~sprout�: Bobo juice

[2/19, 12:24 PM] Ima: I new that this is exactly what ur up to since morning that I made mistake to chat u up

[2/19, 12:25 PM] Ima: U can call me what ever u want

[2/19, 12:26 PM] Ima: Sorry I can survive without a woman in my life

[2/19, 12:30 PM] ~sprout�: God shall bless you for keeping me for 3/7 yrs without having any good intention/future plan with me.

[2/19, 12:30 PM] Ima: I won't blame u, I blame myself for engaging in this kind of business that my girlfriend think that I don't have time for her or feels that I don't love her simply because am stress out or tired anytime she needs me

[2/19, 12:31 PM] Ima: Am bless u for asking me unnecessary question just because u had other options to follow

[2/19, 12:32 PM] Ima: But trust me that those options will one day disappoint u

[2/19, 11:17 AM] Ima: I only keep that as my secret for that long

[2/19, 11:18 AM] Ima: God almighty knows that I wasn't in any relationship at Abuja except talking with victory on phone everytime

[2/19, 11:18 AM] Ima: I stayed all my life simply because I choose to stay

[2/19, 11:19 AM] Ima: I only engaged with sex with blessings because my friend offered me a place in his house to see her that faithful day

[2/19, 11:20 AM] Ima: I stayed celibate till I return 2018

[2/19, 11:22 AM] Ima: I stayed with a family member with her family so I couldn't engaged in dating girls or taking girls to her husband house

[2/19, 11:22 AM] Ima: I respect that

[2/19, 11:22 AM] Ima: I think am done here

[2/19, 11:22 AM] Ima: Have a nice day

[2/19, 11:23 AM] ~sprout�: Through out your stay in Abuja (3years) you had sex with just Blessing and it happened once.

Uncle, fear God naaaa
At least when you wanna lie, lie with conscience

[2/19, 11:24 AM] ~sprout�: You even lived with her (family) and that thing happened just once����

[2/19, 11:25 AM] Ima: Are u drunk

[2/19, 11:26 AM] ~sprout�: Do I look drunk?

[2/19, 11:26 AM] Ima: Didn't u hear me saying that I squated with one woman her family

[2/19, 11:27 AM] Ima: Please I don't want this conversation to continue please

[2/19, 11:27 AM] Ima: Let just end this here thanks

[2/19, 11:28 AM] Ima: If u don't feel like doing anything with me again u can wake away

[2/19, 11:28 AM] ~sprout�: You told me a family friend, never mention to me that it was your girlfriend's family �

[2/19, 11:29 AM] Ima: Thanks

[2/19, 11:30 AM] Ima: I don't strength for u

[2/19, 11:30 AM] ~sprout�: See eeeh all this talk talk no even answer my question.

What is your intention toward our relationship?

[2/19, 11:30 AM] Ima: Please I beg u with God name

[2/19, 11:30 AM] Ima: I don't have intention

[2/19, 11:30 AM] Ima: Just let me be

[2/19, 11:30 AM] Ima: I want to be focused please

[2/19, 11:33 AM] ~sprout�: You don't have an intention toward de relationship, meaning you just with me without a future plan?

[2/19, 11:36 AM] Ima: Ur putting pressure on me and I don't like it

[2/19, 11:36 AM] ~sprout�: Why then do you remove people numbers from my phone to call them when you don't have good plan for us?

[2/19, 11:36 AM] Ima: Asking me unnecessary question

[2/19, 11:36 AM] Ima: Y should u ask a man that kind of questions

[2/19, 11:36 AM] Ima: I stayed with u for this long and ur asking me this now

[2/19, 11:37 AM] ~sprout�: What is wrong with they questioned?

[2/19, 11:37 AM] Ima: If u think ur tired of staying with me please just leave

[2/19, 11:37 AM] Ima: Maybe u have seen someone that promise u marriage

[2/19, 11:37 AM] Ima: I don't do that when am not financially stable

[2/19, 11:37 AM] ~sprout�: Did you see this ☝?

[2/19, 11:39 AM] Ima: I have been seeing ladies that struggling with a man for a better future of the both of them instead ur asking me stupid questions

[2/19, 11:39 AM] Ima: Go and marry who is ready

[2/19, 11:39 AM] Ima: As for me am not ready for marriage now mbok

[2/19, 11:39 AM] Ima: If that is what u wanted to hear

[2/19, 11:42 AM] ~sprout�: Who is talking about marriage here?

Asking you your intention toward our relationship is not a marriage proposal ni

Telling me your intention has nothing to do with you having money to marry or not.

[2/19, 11:45 AM] Ima: What intention are u talking about then

[2/19, 11:45 AM] Ima: Please tell me

[2/19, 11:45 AM] Ima: Ur just confusing urself

[2/19, 11:46 AM] Ima: If u have seen another guy u can date him,stop using pressure on me

[2/19, 11:46 AM] Ima: I have a lot of things that is disturbing me right now, don't be part of my problem instead try to be part of the solution mbok

[2/19, 12:08 PM] ~sprout�: You don't have any intention.

That's OK

I know it's coming out from the bottom of your heart

But why was it so hard for you to say?

Why did it take so long?

I have loved you so so much that I refused to see all those things you did to me 2015-2018.

I'm not gonna die

This only gonna make me adjust.

See eeeh.... What God cannot do does not exist.

I'm sorry, I can't continue in a 3yrs (7yrs) relationship with a man that has no future plan with me.

This will hurt me most but it's necessary.

When ever you are OK, do well to untrack my phone.
Yes, what you used in monitoring my message, chats etc �

I wonder what gives you the confidence to feel, I don't know this.

Thank you

Yusufisraelj:





Does your life depends on this guy? You are 25, you start again but heal first.

Stay away from this guy else you mess yourself up.

Enough of the private conversation, you are beginning to reveal too much, is do.

Thanks for your advice sir.

Gonna post everything so ladies can learn.
I know how I'm feeling and I don't wish this on anyone.

[2/19, 11:00 AM] Ima: I stayed all my days and year in Abuja only for u to be thinking that I came to Abuja to be mazing around

[2/19, 11:01 AM] Ima: Mind u I only squated with someone at Abuja till I return back to uyo

[2/19, 11:02 AM] Ima: I only dated blessing because I started doing my Pgd at nasarawa start university which we usually see once

[2/19, 11:02 AM] ~sprout�: Vicky nko?

[2/19, 11:03 AM] Ima: Am not saying this to make u happy,but am only telling u to be sincere if ur to judge who between the two of us that went wrong

[2/19, 11:04 AM] Ima: I dated Vicky for two years but she never see me in person except on video call

[2/19, 11:04 AM] Ima: U have are number

[2/19, 11:04 AM] Ima: I never Bleep her ever since we dated

[2/19, 11:04 AM] Ima: U have her number u can ask her

[2/19, 11:05 AM] Ima: But u entered into relationship with Ime and u got Bleep for complete 2 years

[2/19, 11:06 AM] Ima: Simply because u think that I was doing same when I was at Abuja

[2/19, 11:06 AM] ~sprout�: Lol so you stayed 2015 - 2018 November without fucking since your were not in a relationship?
�����

OK why did you stopped calling me?

Why did you stop picking my calls?

Why wouldn't you return my missed calls?

Isoorit

[2/19, 11:06 AM] Ima: Beb please leave me alone mbok

[2/19, 11:06 AM] Ima: I don't blame u

[2/19, 11:07 AM] Ima: I didn't go to Abuja to be in relationship

[2/19, 11:07 AM] Ima: I went there with the intention to make it in life

[2/19, 11:07 AM] ~sprout�: �‍♀️�‍♀️�‍♀️�‍♀️�‍♀️
My love, I am not 10years old oooh

[2/19, 11:08 AM] Ima: It was only victory that makes me feel that I was in a relationship because she was there only person that call me as at that time to check up on me

[2/19, 11:08 AM] Ima: Please leave me alone

[2/19, 11:09 AM] ~sprout�: But you just said we broke up, didn't you want me to enter into a relationship after breaking up with me?

[2/19, 11:10 AM] Ima: Instead u were busy fucking ime for two years day and night

[2/19, 11:11 AM] ~sprout�: But what happened when I called you?

[2/19, 11:11 AM] ~sprout�: I see

[2/19, 11:14 AM] ~sprout�: Fucking fucking fucking

Is that your pains?
Is it about the Bleep?

You that was not fucking, uncle, I salute

[2/19, 11:14 AM] Ima: I dated blessing for 3 months and I Bleep her only once simply because I didn't have time

[2/19, 11:14 AM] Ima: But u got for for 2years

[2/19, 11:14 AM] ~sprout�: �������������������������������������������������

[2/19, 11:14 AM] Ima: Please leave me alone

[2/19, 11:14 AM] Ima: Am done

[2/19, 11:15 AM] ~sprout�: You that I know������

[2/19, 11:15 AM] Ima: Bye

[2/19, 11:15 AM] ~sprout�: Ima that's by that way

[2/19, 11:16 AM] ~sprout�: I didn't bring up this topic for us to fight

[2/19, 11:17 AM] ~sprout�: I was only asking what's your intentions towards this relationship?

[2/19, 11:17 AM] Ima: I don't want to do this again

[2/19, 11:17 AM] ~sprout�: Do what exactly?

thorpido:
How old is this guy and what does he do for a living?

31

ojun50:
How Old is he and how old are you? Are both families awear?

I no even spend 8month or date 8month wey I take marry my wife.

will be 25 and he will be 31
yes, his family knows me except his mum. my family knows him too

[2/19, 9:51 AM] Ima: Am a busy person right now

[2/19, 10:01 AM] ~sprout�: I didn't leave you, you sent me out. Bringing all my things I left at your place to my parents house made me feel you needed breakup.
You got your house keys from me for no reason, now you are always making it look as if I left you.

You sent me out you know that.

After taking that move, did you look for me?

No, instead you wer always apologizing on phone as if my you brought my things through phone, nor got your keys through phone.

Besides, this happened last year and we reconcile. what has it got to do with me asking you your intention toward us.

Why do you like bringing up our our past (fight) when ever I ask important question like this?

I will be 25 this year and I wanna know your intention toward this relationship.

Am I asking for too much?

I know this is not de right way to ask but whenever I'm with you and I ask you your intention toward us, all you say is ''I don't have what to say''

Beb, can you come out plain!

Whatever your responsed will be, I'm gonna take it as God's will. No to ways about it. Cause what will be will always be.

Just answer my question for 7yrs or love sake?

We are matured here,

No one gonna die.

Please answer so it will not look as of I'm putting pressure on you.

[2/19, 10:05 AM] Ima: I can't answer that question

[2/19, 10:06 AM] Ima: I only tell u that if u know that am not good for u then u can choose to wake away

[2/19, 10:07 AM] Ima: I actually know that u have ur reason of doing what ur doing now, maybe u have been seeing someone u believe might be better than me and u feel that u need to be with him

[2/19, 10:08 AM] Ima: That is y ur behaving this confused

[2/19, 10:08 AM] Ima: But do whatever will make u happy

[2/19, 10:08 AM] Ima: As for me I will be ok with ur decision

[2/19, 10:19 AM] ~sprout�: Asking my boyfriend for his intention toward our 7years relationship means I'm confused.

Funny and sad.

This your response, does it show any sign of commitment or seriousness with me.

Do you also want me to be committed after seeing dis your responsed

[2/19, 10:19 AM] Ima: Is optional dear

[2/19, 10:20 AM] ~sprout�: I know why you feel I'm confused, lol
Believe me I know what's going on

[2/19, 10:20 AM] Ima: I keep saying that u have every thing in ur own hands so choose the one that will suit u

[2/19, 10:21 AM] Ima: Mind u, my relationship with u is not 7years

[2/19, 10:21 AM] Ima: Is 3years plus

[2/19, 10:22 AM] ~sprout�: 2014 - 2021

[2/19, 10:24 AM] Ima: September 2014- November 2015 which we broke up.
We continue again December 2018 till now

[2/19, 10:24 AM] Ima: So calculate

[2/19, 10:33 AM] ~sprout�: But you used to say we never broke up, that you only went for service/ work, that we never pronouns breakup to me.

That's why you came back to me after staying years at Abuja.

Said you don't believe in long distance relationship bla bla bla.

[2/19, 10:35 AM] ~sprout�: OK now since you are saying its 3years, what's your intentions towards this relationship. 3 years self no be moi moi.

[2/19, 10:36 AM] Ima: So when I left for my service did u wait for me

[2/19, 10:37 AM] Ima: U never instead u entered into numerous relationship

[2/19, 10:45 AM] ~sprout�: Lol
You went for service, stopped calling me in the name of I don't believe in long distance relationship.

When ever I call you, you wouldn't pick neither will you return the calls.

You made me depressed.

We're you expecting me to wait since 2014 -2018 with those your behaviour.

I'm not surprise you are blame me of not waiting, even when you stopped only mist of communication.

[2/19, 10:48 AM] ~sprout�: Thanks God for my roommate cause I don't know what would have happened to me if she was not there to encourage me.

[2/19, 10:49 AM] Ima: My dear all those are not excuse

[2/19, 10:49 AM] Ima: Reason this urself

[2/19, 10:49 AM] Ima: Are u being sincere

[2/19, 10:52 AM] Ima: So stop saying that we were in 7years relationship, calculate it very well before u tell someone

[2/19, 10:53 AM] ~sprout�: I don't even wanna talk about this, cause people that knows me, know I don't double date. I don't Bleep around.

I don't want anyone to harass me in future in the name of that your wife, I don Bleep am.
Not doing it's because I wanna be faithful but because I value my body. It's the right thing to do. For myself respect too.

[2/19, 10:57 AM] Ima: I don't blame u sha

[2/19, 10:57 AM] Ima: U got Bleep by Ime for too years

[2/19, 10:59 AM] Ima: But through out my staying in at Abuja I only enter in relationship with Blessing March 2018 which we later broke up after 3 months

~sprout�: my love, remember the questions I asked you last time I left your house?

Your response to me that day..... Does it show any sign of commitment or seriousness with me?

~sprout�: How do you want us/me to be in a relationship I don't know what the future holds?

When ever I ask you your intention toward us, you will tell me you don't have anything to say?

Like how?
~sprout�: Let be realistic here

[2/19, 9:13 AM] Ima: Ok

[2/19, 9:15 AM] Ima: Beb I keep telling you that if u know that am not right for u u should serve me the stress and do the right thing at the right time

[2/19, 9:21 AM] ~sprout�: This is what you keep saying

We are both matured here.

[2/19, 9:25 AM] ~sprout�: We have been together for 7 yeas now and this is all you can say

[2/19, 9:26 AM] Ima: What exactly do u want me to do

[2/19, 9:26 AM] Ima: I will do this u will complain that am not doing it well

[2/19, 9:26 AM] Ima: How do u even want me to love u

[2/19, 9:27 AM] Ima: Is as if my love is not enough for u

[2/19, 9:27 AM] Ima: And I can't kill myself

[2/19, 9:27 AM] Ima: If am no more good for u please let do the needful

[2/19, 9:28 AM] Ima: Because am tired of all this were ur feeling everytime

[2/19, 9:28 AM] ~sprout�: asking your intention toward our relationship now mean your love is not enough for me?

[2/19, 9:29 AM] Ima: U left me for three months and u still return back to me and I still keep ur place for u in my life

[2/19, 9:29 AM] Ima: Yet ur still complaining

[2/19, 9:29 AM] Ima: What exactly do u want from me

[2/19, 9:30 AM] Ima: And I can't kill myself then

[2/19, 9:50 AM] Ima: If u feel I don't love u enough please just go to someone that will be able to love u the way u want

I'm trying to send screenshots of our chat but it's not uploading. maybe I'm not doing the right way

Greetings

Please I need your advice

I've dated this guy for 7 years now, asked him his intention for the relationship and here is his response.

Am I asking for too much?
Please am I overreacting?
Does it worth breaking up?

If I'm your sister, what will be your advice to me?

Please help cause I'm losing my mine

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