jimmynauty:
Newold auote me to share solution

TenQ:

Too easy if this is true.

Transfer custody of your bank account to your wife and make it joint signatory. Let her hold your ATM card and PIN.

You are entitled to weekly allowance from her not exceeding in total 20% of your regular income.

She manages your home with the rest with your consent!

If only you won't be stupid to request above your agreement!
If only you will seek deliverance and change your association.
If only you'll make your wife your best friend.

A word is enough for the wise!

oneMalik:
it's damn difficult to let go of your losses bro. I understand and that's why you kept going back thinking you can undo the shit by winning back at least your money , thereby sinking more and more and if care is not taken you might not rise again " God Forbid "

I have a very simple and hard to obey solution.


Thank you bro for your advice.

I guess i will keep on trying.

Debt?

Shamefully i am and i shouldnt have


See , someone went to jail and come back many years later while everything he had worked for has been lost.


you're still in your house , na only money and pride was lost , so thank God.

solution ; start looking at yourself like that person who is just been released from a prison while everything was lost and I know you wouldn't wanna back there to serve another term .

As a new comer you'll have to throw away pride and start afresh from the negative part of your finance cos am damn sure you're owing some debt by now..

that's the only way cos thinking you'll win is a big risk. GAMBLE WAS NEVER DESIGN FOR ANYONE TO WIN .

YOU LOSS THEY FLEX !

Barbiedollz:
Kindly drop your email address so I can reach you.

quote author=newold post=116115475]I decided to create a new account to make these post.

To make the long story short.

I never realised what i was getting myself into until i started googling and then discovered what i had gotten myself into. This has rendered me hopeless, almost useless, and broke.

Since 2020 until now, i have only laboured in vain. i became unable to take proper care and provide for my family not because i don't get paid from work (i do have a work which i do) though the pay does not come every time. Greed, wanting more i would say has lead me to these part that is about to break and destroy me completely.

I have a very loving and hardworking wife, who has saved me countless number of times. i have broken her hearts by these singular addiction. i have tried several ways to stop. but once money gets into my hand the first thing that comes to my mind is to feed my addiction.

Most times i cry alone in the house and wished i could turn back the hand of time. I have felt depressed, lost weights, and my confidence, and the suicidal thoughts as deep down i know i should be better, i should do better for my wife and child.

i lost everything to these monster, my car, my peace, my respects, even some friends.

since 2020 now, i have no savings, infact i empty my account in less than 24 hours because of my greed.

on several occasions i have used the money meant for purchasing another car since after i sold the other one. i spent the money to feed these my monster.

even when i WIN i lose it all back. just 3 months ago. i had lost almost #2m. these happen within 2 days.

I am slowly dyeing inside. when i look at my child and my wife and what my actions have put them through. and for the fact that i keep going back. i then feel there might be something else wrong with me.


I have followed some forums for help but i keep going back. please and please if you know how or what to say to me that will help my situation please do.


PLEASE FOR ANYONE WHO WILL BE READING THESE.

ALWAYS SAY NO TO GAMBLING.

IF YOU HAVE NEVER GAMBLED BEFORE. BPLEASE IS BETTER YOU DON'T TRY SO AS NOT TO EXPERIENCE WHAT MILLIONS ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE GOING THROUGH, INCLUDING ME