The lady in question. Should do all it takes to tell him how she feels. Because the guy might be valuing all what he has spent on her over the years by asking from one form or the other.

Bread winner or not is their relationship. Family always has their own way to solve them. At the end the lady won't appreciate his family, simply of her assisted loan taking from her boyfriend.

N.B: Talk about it. Sincerely work towards managing both families and their issues. Both of you can invest together and support each other needs.

Let’s take a leap back, when those ink-flowed on a sheet. With an influx of internet links to click. Hopes dashing and still hopeful that one day it comes. At this point it is clear, if the job is given and to what measure can determination shall allow. Congratulations! The offer letter has just be written and signed for a new job role as a Customer Service Representative, in one of the top banks in the country.

For a long spell at work, policies upon new campaigns are the drive for sustainability. That soon might affect anyone suggested to take up a new job role with or without formal information.

Note, the target must be met. Who do you blame for bending the rules on the new job role assigned? From observation it is often seen in the office, that colleagues have side interest on a particular unit; or cubicle regarding their functionalities. Only few huddle through the unseen deceit with their supervisors to gain it. Politics in nature not far-fetched, as it creates non co-existence between colleagues.

Be honest. Changing a new job role at work is not what it seems like. The type you poke on others but actually poking yourself. Worse still having no choice than to meet the day’s drill. The fact is to take the world out on your shoulders – what people may say or even think. Very well it applies to all facet of life.

Sadly, employers may fail to mentally train her staff to what is expected on the new job role. Thereby qualifying their abilities into years of experience or for some being passive to choose from.
Deal with it! A king is most welcome in another land. A career or favour might just be next in line for relocating.

1. Always remember the reason why your friend allowed you into his/her house. Be it a short time or long term period.
2. If your friend does not mind you providing food stuffs and other stocks in the house or tells you not to bother at all. Please don’t be carried away by that, but in your own strength financially or otherwise buy the necessary lack in the house without being boastful rather allow your friend to appreciate the item first.
3. Never get tired, always participate in the cleaning of the house even when your friend is around or not e.g. Toilet/Bathroom, Trashing the bin, sweeping/mobbing and dusting the gadgets etc.
4. Keeping late at night is one too many behaviors displayed, thinking his/her friend is cool with it. Despite your friend comes home late at night doesn’t imply you. So respect the privilege.
5. Be a helping hand in the kitchen whenever there is a meal to be prepared. As long as your mouth will engage in the eating.
6. Increase the volume of communication with your friend. By being friends before the invite is quite different while living together, know that moods change and of course there are happy moments too. Often create a healthy talk to boost your friendship.
7. Avoid unnecessary argument which only can be resolved through matured understanding and wisdom.
8. Play an important role in the life of your friend during your stay in the house.
9. Never get too hasty to know about his/her friends for they might detest you easily and your friend will frown at you even the more.
10. Forgive and forget all confrontations but remember there is a better side to life in the future. Be a good friend.


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