₦airaland Forum

I keep telling women from my tribe not to marry outside our tribe due to d distrust and d deep hatred our neighbours have 4 us but some of them wont listen ..some of these women think say na by education but dey dont know how deep rooted this distrust and hatred is but they will learn in a hard way
...na so ffk wife take hear am..no be person tell am

It will shock u to know that 98% of Nigerians going to church especially white garment church and protestants are just there to gain financial and spiritual powers..no only catholics and cms dey go church to worship God with d hope of going to heaven when dey die..but for other churches they have d same motives as ritualists

Onegai:
Prove this legally that the Nigerian Constitution states what you wrote concerning unmarried parents

I speak from my knowledge of the law

https://lawyers-ng.com/articles/child-custody-for-unmarried-parents/

If the Judge sees that one parent is just sending money and doing eye service for the welfare of the child, the primary caregiver will get full custody, period. Several men in this situation have found out the hard way and then resort to immature tantrums for the rest of the child's youth (they'll waste time to pay school fees, delay signing for passport etc). The mother will reveal all to the child and once the child hits 18, the nonsense will stop and the man will become a stranger, then start blaming the mother for his own misdeeds.

...the law is not emotional..just pray make u no meet ur match..u go cry blood

Why always Obi??.. Apc why??

Onegai:
(could have sworn that all the wisdom-filled gurus here and offline said that marriage na scam, men don't benefit and baby mama is the way. Anyway, that's bad advise for you: very sweet to espouse for others to foolishly fall into).

Dregs,

I'm pretty sure she didn't want to be a Baby Mama. She wanted to be a wife and a mother but you had other plans. So now she's pissed at you.

It is horrific to be alone with a very sick child and be imagining the father of that child having the time of his life somewhere else. You send money, well that takes precisely 5 mins versus days and weeks of sleepless nights with a sick baby. Yes, you worked hard to make the money, but wouldn't you have worked hard to make that money if you were not a father?

So sending money ain't it.

Now, before you get even further bad advise about forcefully taking your child from her or ignoring her and moving on with your life because the child will look for you when she/he grows up, please stop right there.

Firstly, apologize to her. Single Parenthood is hard and unless you're paying every single bill and sending extra money, she too is handling bills plus a child, all by herself. Apologize sincerely to her for putting her in this situation.

Secondly, be polite and respectful in your conversations with her. Always acknowledge her sacrifice.

Thirdly, any plans you want to bring your child over to you, better factor in the Mother. Ask her if it will be okay, explain the pros and cons of the child coming to you. And give yourself sense: how old is this child? Because you shouldn't take young children from their mothers unless their lives are in danger. If you want the child to relocate abroad, better ask the mum if she wants to relocate too. If you want the child closer to you, plan on renting a place closer to you for her mum.

If the Mother won't give you the child, there's nothing you can do. Legally, na she own the pikin.

..u are a big lier. Legally the both parents own the child..stop deceiving people with this ur biased judgement

Rip to her.. 123456789012

Akara is a highly rated food in yoruba land to d extent that they use it to perform burial ceremony

What Nigeria's oil money can't do doesn't exist..after lobbying the US government with billions of dollars by the Nigerian government one can't be suprised to hear this from mr Trump

liasmiram2567:
Why won't you? Are all Lebanese terrorists as you claimed ? You all that support this virus that is called state of Israel will sure born in hell.

death to all terrorists if u are one of them death to u too

I support Israel...kill all terrorists..come to nigeria and wipe them out too

Shikena:
He is just another Nigerian politician with every right to his aspiration but contrary to what the younger ones are told he is bringing nothing new to the table, that's why many call him packaged fraud. No amount of insults can change that reality.

..obi changed d political dynamics in anambra state..Imagine someone sharing vehicles to schools,hospitals, traditional rulers and vigilantes during his last tenure he didn't even stop at that obi also shared computers to all d schools in anambra state..omo dat guy is extraordinary nigeria doesn't know wat dey are missing

Yes that was during his last year in office I mean he gave out cars to traditional rulers,community vigilantees ,schools he also gift computers to schools..check d year ..I am an anambrarian and I know

Release maazi nnandi kanu them make him d head of the south east development commission most of our politicians go retire

The man might be saying d truth...his godfather (tinupoo) might be pocketing it

Women and thier over sabi attitude..why she no contact d person dat bought dat car 4 her?

It means they used ur account details to collect ransom from d kidnap victim's family now u have to transfer d money back to them so when dss track d money them go arrest u first

U can't be a Muslim and reject sharia law..yoruba Muslims must abide and submit to the sharia and accept d authority of d caliphate

Na lagos Island be this..nothing u fit tell me

Mariangeles:
So, what do you want?

If God asked you now, what do you want that I should do for you, what would you say?

...men deserve better..imagine all d sacrifices without any gain

Mariangeles:
Without "burden", there's no sense of purpose.
So, what are you living for?

...i wont blame u cos u dont know what men face on daily basis

Financial burden, emotional blackmail etc

Na soludo brother..dem no dey get sense

We thought buhari was clueless until Tinubu came

The lion of ubima should leave adc for dat useless greedy old man and pick a Senate form to represent his people

Igbophobia:
Life has a way of humiliating the proud, especially when they think they've got it all organized, like that they have the world in their pocket. This reminds me of El Rufai who helped rig Tinubu in. Who would have told El Rufai that he would end up in detention under Tinubu he bought and sold for?
You see why supporting evil for self-interest is bad? Like El Rufai like Omo Agege/ Many more to crash...soon

..u forgot to include abubakar malami

Money that emilokan and his useless cabinet will gulp within seconds