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Vizzim:are you telling me that or? |
Bluezy13:I'll surely be around tomorrow... see you thn my dearest friend |
frankkydee:we getting somewhere ![]() |
[b][/b] Bluezy13:well it's a Zulu name meaning my parents were expecting me . |
Bluezy13:I'm Nomfanelo. pleasure knowing you Alex |
Bluezy13:yeah sure it wouldn't ... guess you are my new found friend ![]() |
Bluezy13:than u should read the whole passage. Thank You ....I'm not single |
Bluezy13:But yourll not even ladies |
Yinkey6:summary for who for what |
Some of us women have spent and wastedsome if not most of our time trying to force ourselves into a heart that refuses to embrace us.This time and place hurts and it will hurt until we realize our worth as women. All relationships have bitter days but if those days outweigh the happy ones then something is wrong, you cannot spend your life begging for love from someone who came into your peaceful life and claimed they loved you but failed to prove it and in fact fail everyday and pretend not to notice. You get used to this life, the life of not being loved, you get used to rejection, you let it define you. Self-esteem snatched from your grasp and eventually you start believing that you deserve it and it is right. But the truth is it is not! No man alive should be able to UnCloth you of your confidence and happiness of being a phenomenal woman that you are. The effort invested in any relationship must be equivalent. Be careful not to become a slave in a relationship as you are trying to make it work. Remember.... Unlike marriage leaving this place is easy, you do not have to sign any papers or have to explain yourself to family or cry over lost bride price money or any nonesnse that wives use as a reason to hold onto a broken marriage. It hurts but what will hurt you more is seeing him finally leave you for the woman he loves genuinely after so much endurance and time wasted on a man who's actions spell out the symptoms of a unrequited love. A man who has no love for you in return, no love for you at all yet had been the first to utter the words. So you keep on holding onto them and hope that they'll be as meaningful as the first day they were whispered. You keep on praying for a miracle like a wife trying to keep a family together. Be careful not to burden yourself with pain in the quest of trying to be in a stable relationship. I don't know much but I do know that a man who truly loves a woman will never hesitate to let them know and feel that they are genuinely loved. |
shame I feel sorry for her |
[quote author=CplusJason post=50752211]Well, you might be correct but some of your country men maraud other nationals especially Nigerians in the street. Tho i have some good SA friends in Pretoria.[ /quote] And we sorry on they behalf |
davidflipcy5856:that and plenty other issues concerning this forum |
CplusJason:we all know where it all started but that doesn't make all of us bad people |
CplusJason:why should we be cat and mice all the time ![]() |
CplusJason:I don't think u understand what am trying to say . what I meant was people from different countries fighting each other in the name of which country is better and calling each other names. It's not attractive. |
[b][/b] so last night after tossing and turning ,something came to mind . why is it that people on this forum are always bashing and looking down on each other . You are not your country. your country doesn't make who u are , it's only part of u . After all we are all Africans can we put our differences for once and try and get along . ONE LOVE |
judeefcc:who cares what she called u . she's just tryna manipulate u into doing what she wants |
judeefcc:who cares what she called u. after all u no chicken |
This will only complicate things between url . the phrase "no strings attatched " doesn't exist in our vocabulary |
women are so easy to understand guys . url just don't pay attention |



Summary Pleease
Some of us women have spent and wasted
so last night after tossing and turning ,something came to mind . why is it that people on this forum are always bashing and looking down on each other . You are not your country. your country doesn't make who u are , it's only part of u . After all we are all Africans can we put our differences for once and try and get along . ONE LOVE