Some of us women have spent and wasted
some if not most of our time trying to force
ourselves into a heart that refuses to embrace
us.This time and place hurts and it will hurt until
we realize our worth as women.
All relationships have bitter days but if those
days outweigh the happy ones then something is
wrong, you cannot spend your life begging for
love from someone who came into your
peaceful life and claimed they loved you but
failed to prove it and in fact fail everyday and
pretend not to notice.
You get used to this life, the life of not being
loved, you get used to rejection, you let it define
you. Self-esteem snatched from your grasp and
eventually you start believing that you deserve it
and it is right. But the truth is it is not! No man
alive should be able to UnCloth you of your
confidence and happiness of being a
phenomenal woman that you are.
The effort invested in any relationship must be
equivalent. Be careful not to become a slave in
a relationship as you are trying to make it work.
Remember....
Unlike marriage leaving this place is easy, you
do not have to sign any papers or have to
explain yourself to family or cry over lost bride price money
or any nonesnse that wives use as a reason to
hold onto a broken marriage.
It hurts but what will hurt you more is seeing
him finally leave you for the woman he loves
genuinely after so much endurance and time
wasted on a man who's actions spell out the
symptoms of a unrequited love. A man who has
no love for you in return, no love for you at all
yet had been the first to utter the words. So you
keep on holding onto them and hope that they'll
be as meaningful as the first day they were
whispered.
You keep on praying for a miracle like a wife
trying to keep a family together. Be careful not
to burden yourself with pain in the quest of
trying to be in a stable relationship.
I don't know much but I do know that a man
who truly loves a woman will never hesitate to
let them know and feel that they are genuinely
loved.

Summary Pleease Summary Pleease

Yinkey6:
Summary Pleease Summary Pleease

summary for who for what

In the first paragraph, women...












In short; Summary pls

Bluezy13:
In the first paragraph, women...








n short; Summary pls

But yourll not even ladies

Nomfanelo99:
But yourll not even ladies

Sometimes, ladies issue interests men.

By the way, you are cute with pink lips without makeup.
Are you single??

Bluezy13:


Sometimes, ladies issue interests men.


By the way, you are cute with pink lips without makeup.

Are you single??

than u should read the whole passage. Thank You ....I'm not single

Nomfanelo99:
than u should read the whole passage. Thank You ....I'm not single

The passage is for the ladies, I only happened to come around.

Nevertheless, it wouldn't hurt if you could still have a friend beside. would it??

Bluezy13:


The passage is for the ladies, I only happened to come around.

Nevertheless, it wouldn't hurt if you could still have a friend beside. would it??

yeah sure it wouldn't ... guess you are my new found friend

Nomfanelo99:
yeah sure it wouldn't ... guess you are my new found friend

Hehehe...
Guess not. I am. Friends know each other's names. I'm Alex.

Bluezy13:


Hehehe...

Guess not.
I am.
Friends know each other's names.
I'm Alex.

I'm Nomfanelo. pleasure knowing you Alex

Nomfanelo99:
I'm Nomfanelo. pleasure knowing you Alex

Pleasure knowing you too.
Nomfanelo, may I know its meaning??

Nomfanelo99:
I'm Nomfanelo. pleasure knowing you Alex

see friendshiping....

[b][/b]

Bluezy13:


Pleasure knowing you too.
Nomfanelo, may I know its meaning??

well it's a Zulu name meaning my parents were expecting me .

frankkydee:








see friendshiping....

we getting somewhere

Nomfanelo99:
[b][/b] well it's a Zulu name meaning my parents were expecting me .

and how proud were they at your looks.



Anyways, nice having you around.
I should turn in.
Hope to see you again tomorrow.

Oh, would be a pleasure to PM you for "assurance's sake", don't you think

Nomfanelo99:

we getting somewhere

Ok ooo,you will surely get somewhere now. continue!

Bluezy13:


and how proud were they at your looks.



Anyways, nice having you around.
I should turn in.
Hope to see you again tomorrow.

Oh, would be a pleasure to PM you for "assurance's sake", don't you think

I'll surely be around tomorrow...
see you thn my dearest friend

Nomfanelo99:
I'll surely be around tomorrow... see you thn my dearest friend

alright, and you too

Nomfanelo99:
than u should read the whole passage. Thank You ....I'm not single

Not sure he asked if yr single

Vizzim:


Not sure he asked if yr single

are you telling me that or?

Nomfanelo99:
are you telling me that or?

It depends on how you decode the message.

Nomfanelo99:
[/b] well it's a Zulu name meaning my parents were expecting me .

and what are you doing on Naira land ??

Warhawk:
and what are you doing on Naira land ??

I don't think that's any of your business though. not being rude or anything

Nomfanelo99:
I don't think that's any of your business though. not being rude or anything

well it is.. This is a forum for Nigerians!!

Warhawk:
well it is.. This is a forum for Nigerians!!

Thank you for the heads up... but I'm still not bothered

Nomfanelo99:



Thank you for the heads up... but I'm still not bothered

ignore him dear

davidflipcy5856:
ignore him dear

trying to

I think the op made a lot of sense

Akinlekanwr:
I think the op made a lot of sense

thank u

Hmmmmmm, dearest nofanelo u have to be careful o because naija dudes ain't gat no chill at all, esp in dis ressession. Lolz.......... By d way, nice write up though, I concur!

darbeelicous:
Hmmmmmm, dearest nofanelo u have to be careful o because naija dudes ain't gat no chill at all, esp in dis ressession. Lolz.......... By d way, nice write up though, I concur!

lols I know them very well