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Again, I am a feminist.
Without that been said, I dont totally agree with what you said. Again it might just be your personal opinion, but the society has deter =mined and set standards for us for so long that we now confuse what the society want with what we want.
There are certain unrealistic standards that has been set for both men and women and dont let define who you are or what you consider right. A good man does not have to be loaded or rich. For a family to enjoy love and everlasting peace, both individual that came together to create that family have to put in the work and 100 percent commitment for that family to be successful and for the family to continue enjoting peace and love.

Again, have your standards, but dont let the society or people deceive you and tell you that because a man is not loaded, therfore he would not make a good husband.
Ladies, the power to make and break men lies in your hands. If you want a successful home and wealth, nurture and teach your man how to be ambitious and you will enjoy your hard work.
Again, I no that there are men that a natural born suckers and feeders that rely on a woman to get by in life, does ones can not be taught, so run.

WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! See standard. Chai!!

Whoever taught you this must have been smoking something.
I completely disagree. Why do you think it is right to place such unrealistic burden on a woman. Really, sometimes, I look at Nigeria and wonder if we would ever progress and stop acting ignorant. The only reason why most Nigerian marriages have not come to an end is because women are scared of the stupid and unrealistic stigma, if not, the divorce rate in Nigeria would be worse than the rates we see in the more developed countries.

Women that sit back and tell themselves that it is ok to receive insults from a man and fight for a relationship were the man has checked out is completely delusional. For a relationship to work, both individual need to realize that it is a partnership and no one individual is more superior than the other.

What fucking makes a man superior than a woman. Absolutely nothing. Like Beyonce said women run the world because they go through it all and still go about their business like nothing happened. So is it fair to say that women are superior beings to men, since they keep all the shit intact and still manage to act sane.

Listen gents, if you are looking for a woman that will worship you and respect you, be your maid and your fool, then you are going to have to marry your moms because they are more than willing to do it all for you.


10. The only reason why a woman nags a man because most men act like over grown babies, who think that their wives are their mother. Like I said, go marry your mom and then you dont have to listen to a woman tell you to do the right things because your mom would do it all.

9. I will look good and charm if you stop trying to kill me with your unrealistic burden. If you want your wife to look good, tell her in a nice way, make appointments for her to get weekly pampering. Help her and not place unrealistic demands on her. Let her go out and hang with friends and relax. Get you butt of the chair and make breakfast, lunch or dinner, while she naps. Do something Positive please.

8. Be unpredictable: NEWS FLASH Guys, women also want an unpredictable man that sweeps them off their feet, makes them feel special. Just like you have blood running through your veins, so do we. Please wake up.

7. Organize the house and be a good maid: SERIOUSLY!!! What century do you think we are in. BE a good maid. I agree that a home needs to be clean and organized, but where you born disabled or you think it is a woman's job. If that is the case, women can stay home and be good maids. Men go out there, toil and ensure that their needs are met, ensure they drive the latest cars, they are up to date on their fashion, their bills are paid, and they are overly comfortable than how they were in their parents house. Bopys, how unrealistic can you be? Really BE A GOOD MAIN? Son, go marry your mom.

6. All positive quality: well, you have to be same way too. IF you want love given to you, you have to reciprocate that love because RESPECT IS RECIPROCAL. You can not except to receive without given. What sort person are you? Keep setting yourself up for failure.

1-5. Like a said, marriage is not one sided. It is a patnership and the burden does not fall on one person to make it work. Two people have to be willing to stay married and be selfless towrds themselves for the unity and sanity of a home. Men, who believe that a woman is less of a human is a LUNATIC.
Women, the burden of a successful marriage should not be on you because it takes two for it to be a success. Dont let a man treat you like you are inferior. Stand up for yourself, make your opinions heard, but most of all ensure that you do it for the right reason.
No man is superior to a woman just because she is a woman. Guys please wake up and begin to act like educated people.
You cast the American and European system, yet, you want to have what they have and not get updated. Put on your shoes and catch up to the rest of the world.