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untoldtruth:
As per how? Go to the medical centre nearest to you and get a proper medical cert o
The thing is, your friend no go really come to you with problem like this as per no be you born nam, that aside, how soon is this soon that your friend aka notsidestory want to soon the rest of his life on, soon? Shey you know say civil service na 35 or more based on changing of DOB ko? NotSideStorySoon, you better not let me vex for you, gemme the FRSC slot and keep your soon manager, I go they send you urgent 2k every week, what do you think, reply soonest?

Gabicon20:
First thing tell ur friend say that filling station wen e want steal money from as manager no be government work na ONE MAN get am, the man must have worked with many managers and understand the game...e no go tail b4 the man go catch am ....e go sack am still lock am join.
That been said the FRSC recruitment may take another one year to conclude, within that time your friend must have been promoted to a manager and try the manager runs firsthand, he will be able to compare both and make his choice without much advice sha.

Jaguarpetter:
He should collect the FRSC and make sure they post him to the Filling Station and then he will be shuffling dey two work, if they make him manager then he can tell FRSC to go to hell with their uniform but if not, he can continue with FRSC and turn even State Commandant of FRSC and by then he would build his own filling station and be the CEO since na filling station get money pass.

I wish him and you all the best because he would now make you manager then 🙏 but know that 'SOON' to be manager can be 20years time.

Gabicon20:
lolz 😂😂
Hope say u no de create content here abi Nairaland self don begin pay content creators 😄

untoldtruth:
There used to be a time when there was steady helping on this thread, they were chased off by Gaslighters, name callers and naysayers and someone entering email to threaten arrest and thunder and fire, everyone is just trying to see his own front, to include charity join they'll heap curse and threat untop good intention again? Who can tolerate that? Try to look towards private first make you take something hold body first make depression no catch you. @PlsStayAlive is an example of abandoning looking for government job to search private and now the company he found work with have relocated him out of Nigeria gan, don't give up on private first, sometimes private work don't require connection, Na skills them they look for.

Allow the push please, it's useful to someone else, look elsewhere not strictly FG, elders on this thread are trying but country is hard, na money I dey offer to buy slot and for 3 years I haven't met one genuine offer but I no still complain for people wey owe me nothing.
Look elsewhere so you don't limit your chances and Goodluck.

BioOkay:
Relax Bro some people will make it in Class, while some will make it in life.

Las las your own no go pass you.

PlsBanMe:
Let it motivate you and not discourage you. Work hard. Try every job opening. Never give up. Even without connection, you can get a FG job. Of course, those with connection may get it first but if you don't give up, you probably will get in too. While waiting, sharpen your skills and get more qualifications if you can. Luck is preparation meet opportunity.

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Dexlomo:
This is what I was passing across earlier. We can't have a better Nigeria if we continue like this.

untoldtruth:
Even ordinary paramilitary sef you no go get without connect, na to just start hustling gan, maybe that road will lead to a brighter place

JobsLever:
Yes switch to desktop view.

OKOSISIBF:
Maybe nah that small pikin I normally see trump with that is typing all these nonsense

Snowx:
lol..funny..just one month you go gagaga..haha...guy that's not love oo..if you have dated for six months you may not be feeling this way ..I am telling you from experience

BetterNigeria0:
i swear to Almighty i can relate exactly how you feel, what you are going through right now is one of the saddest phase of my life. No advice can save you for now, enjoy the pain. But guess what? This experience will shape you to become a man in the future.

TheWolfen:
If u already made. Nah u she for marry nah. Women marry who is ready. Just focus on your job and upgrading your living condition. Women plenty and they will fall over u

franchasofficia:
You are making a huge mistake.


Redirect your energy to things that would improve your financial life.

The reason you are this worried about a girl you dated for just one month and she ghosted you is because you are struggling financially and you have limited access to women of your taste and by chance or luck or whatever you met this very lady who happened to be your spec physically or beauty wise and as she ghosted you, you have not been able to meet a girl as beautiful as she is or more prettier than her, hence you feel that you have lost a rare gem that you can never find again. That is the reason you are feeling suicidal, and you are committing a big fallacy.


Let me enlighten you, as a man, what makes you a man of value, the dream man of most women is your financial worth (ability to provide without stress) not your handsome look, not your 9 packs, not your intelligence, not the length of your Gbola or how good you are in bed. Focus on what makes you a valuable man; finance. Get it right and watch prettier, classier, hotter, better ladies become easily available to you such that you will be wondering what made you fell so badly for this girl of today. By then, you might see the girl and even feel ashamed that you once felt like committing suicide because of her.


The older a man grows in financial wealth, the better he becomes and the more he becomes more appealing to women.


You have not even seen women my brother, just work on improving your financial life and you will have the opportunity to travel around and see that God really created beautiful women beyond the ones you are seeing now lol.


To make you understand where I am coming from, I am a happily married man with kids. As beautiful as my wife is, when I visit some places and see some ladies and how gorgeous they are, I just smile and say wow God de create lol.


If I decide to marry again today, I will marry a lady prettier and hotter than my wife, with even good character join, and you know why? Because I am financially better today than when I married my wife and I have become the dream man of so many classy ladies unlike when I just finished NYSC that I was the dream man of few mgbekes and maybe some local beauties



In this beautiful life, you should only be worried about two things:

1.) things that affect your health negatively

2.) things that reduces your finances



With the above two things in tact, my brother the world is yours as a man so better wake up and face your job or business and start thinking of how to improve yourself to enable you get promoted, secure a juicer job or grow in your business if you are a businessman.

pansophist:
More sauce please, so I can answer properly.

1. How old are you and her?
2. Is she your first love?
3. Have you guys ever dated ? If yes, who initiated the break up and why?
4. By your own assessment, are you financially stable ?

More sauce please

immortalcrown:
1.
You dated her for only one month. Your love for her might have either increased or reduced if the relationship had lasted longer. Since the relationship lasted for only 1 month, do not act as if you have studied her for a decade.

2.
You are not even sure she would have accepted you if she remained single until you were prepared for marriage. Wow I like what you write seems like you are a psychologist?

3.
If she is actually so good, it is wisdom that guided you to recognise her value and date her. The same wisdom can still enable you to identify and date another girl that is either as good as or better than her. It might even be that she is not as good as you think but you are narrow-minded to have quickly concluded that she is so good.

immortalcrown:
Did you date her?

immortalcrown:
I will start with a question.

Why didn't you marry her?

Wallade:
I think it's Gonorrhea. Get medical help by checking into a hospital, subject yourself to investigation (laboratory tests) and get a clear understanding of the infection.

Orubebe01:
Na beta infection you don carry so.
This the solution. Quote me if you need it.

Mineisgrace:
Go to a general hospital and get a card. Don't be shy, you are not the first person to encounter it. Hopefully you will be the last

Cerebellum:
Not sexually active but you get gono, make me understand bro

pappydeewhy:
Your outburst is uncalled for.If you don't need the information, it's not a must that you comment. It's not as if you pay anybody for update.
Meanwhile for CDCFIB,they will contact the successful candidates for screening before the end of dis month.I was initially selected as part of the officers that would screen candidates for one of the service , we received signal to prepare for the screening last month. But the new date we re hearing is before the end of this month.Keep reminding your godfathers and more importantly you GODfather(Almighty).
Best of luck.

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