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BioOkay:
Relax Bro some people will make it in Class, while some will make it in life.

Las las your own no go pass you.

PlsBanMe:
Let it motivate you and not discourage you. Work hard. Try every job opening. Never give up. Even without connection, you can get a FG job. Of course, those with connection may get it first but if you don't give up, you probably will get in too. While waiting, sharpen your skills and get more qualifications if you can. Luck is preparation meet opportunity.

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Dexlomo:
This is what I was passing across earlier. We can't have a better Nigeria if we continue like this.

untoldtruth:
Even ordinary paramilitary sef you no go get without connect, na to just start hustling gan, maybe that road will lead to a brighter place

JobsLever:
Yes switch to desktop view.

OKOSISIBF:
Maybe nah that small pikin I normally see trump with that is typing all these nonsense

Snowx:
lol..funny..just one month you go gagaga..haha...guy that's not love oo..if you have dated for six months you may not be feeling this way ..I am telling you from experience

BetterNigeria0:
i swear to Almighty i can relate exactly how you feel, what you are going through right now is one of the saddest phase of my life. No advice can save you for now, enjoy the pain. But guess what? This experience will shape you to become a man in the future.

TheWolfen:
If u already made. Nah u she for marry nah. Women marry who is ready. Just focus on your job and upgrading your living condition. Women plenty and they will fall over u

franchasofficia:
You are making a huge mistake.


Redirect your energy to things that would improve your financial life.

The reason you are this worried about a girl you dated for just one month and she ghosted you is because you are struggling financially and you have limited access to women of your taste and by chance or luck or whatever you met this very lady who happened to be your spec physically or beauty wise and as she ghosted you, you have not been able to meet a girl as beautiful as she is or more prettier than her, hence you feel that you have lost a rare gem that you can never find again. That is the reason you are feeling suicidal, and you are committing a big fallacy.


Let me enlighten you, as a man, what makes you a man of value, the dream man of most women is your financial worth (ability to provide without stress) not your handsome look, not your 9 packs, not your intelligence, not the length of your Gbola or how good you are in bed. Focus on what makes you a valuable man; finance. Get it right and watch prettier, classier, hotter, better ladies become easily available to you such that you will be wondering what made you fell so badly for this girl of today. By then, you might see the girl and even feel ashamed that you once felt like committing suicide because of her.


The older a man grows in financial wealth, the better he becomes and the more he becomes more appealing to women.


You have not even seen women my brother, just work on improving your financial life and you will have the opportunity to travel around and see that God really created beautiful women beyond the ones you are seeing now lol.


To make you understand where I am coming from, I am a happily married man with kids. As beautiful as my wife is, when I visit some places and see some ladies and how gorgeous they are, I just smile and say wow God de create lol.


If I decide to marry again today, I will marry a lady prettier and hotter than my wife, with even good character join, and you know why? Because I am financially better today than when I married my wife and I have become the dream man of so many classy ladies unlike when I just finished NYSC that I was the dream man of few mgbekes and maybe some local beauties



In this beautiful life, you should only be worried about two things:

1.) things that affect your health negatively

2.) things that reduces your finances



With the above two things in tact, my brother the world is yours as a man so better wake up and face your job or business and start thinking of how to improve yourself to enable you get promoted, secure a juicer job or grow in your business if you are a businessman.

pansophist:
More sauce please, so I can answer properly.

1. How old are you and her?
2. Is she your first love?
3. Have you guys ever dated ? If yes, who initiated the break up and why?
4. By your own assessment, are you financially stable ?

More sauce please

immortalcrown:
1.
You dated her for only one month. Your love for her might have either increased or reduced if the relationship had lasted longer. Since the relationship lasted for only 1 month, do not act as if you have studied her for a decade.

2.
You are not even sure she would have accepted you if she remained single until you were prepared for marriage. Wow I like what you write seems like you are a psychologist?

3.
If she is actually so good, it is wisdom that guided you to recognise her value and date her. The same wisdom can still enable you to identify and date another girl that is either as good as or better than her. It might even be that she is not as good as you think but you are narrow-minded to have quickly concluded that she is so good.

immortalcrown:
Did you date her?

immortalcrown:
I will start with a question.

Why didn't you marry her?

Wallade:
I think it's Gonorrhea. Get medical help by checking into a hospital, subject yourself to investigation (laboratory tests) and get a clear understanding of the infection.

Orubebe01:
Na beta infection you don carry so.
This the solution. Quote me if you need it.

Mineisgrace:
Go to a general hospital and get a card. Don't be shy, you are not the first person to encounter it. Hopefully you will be the last

Cerebellum:
Not sexually active but you get gono, make me understand bro

pappydeewhy:
Your outburst is uncalled for.If you don't need the information, it's not a must that you comment. It's not as if you pay anybody for update.
Meanwhile for CDCFIB,they will contact the successful candidates for screening before the end of dis month.I was initially selected as part of the officers that would screen candidates for one of the service , we received signal to prepare for the screening last month. But the new date we re hearing is before the end of this month.Keep reminding your godfathers and more importantly you GODfather(Almighty).
Best of luck.

Kaczynski:
The seventh seal
Alphaville
Jean luc godard films

MadHeadLeft2:
Why are you ashamed of your job? The thought of cleaning up after others greatly troubling you is an indication of inflated self worth. If you were as good as you think you deserve you won't be working there.

But what do I know, if you think you can do more why don't you prove it and make a plan to get out of there.

You must strive and prove to yourself that you can do better, by being conscientious with your work.

Elusive001:
How are the people to whom you cannot tell what you do for a living be your friend? Pride or low self exteme is one major problem you may have.

The day you overcome it, that's the day you will understand that no legitimate job is to be looked down upon. There is dignity in labour. It is that day you will begin to open up to your friends more. Opening up sometimes makes way for information and commitments to help by people.

AKWATGOLD1:
@NotSidestory
There is DIGNITY IN LABOUR.
Your story is not complete because you roll out the challenges of your duties but you refused to roll-out when fuel attendant are KINGS & Queens where there is fuel scarcity. All the challenges faced at your place of work is just temporary. Almighty God shall soon pick your call and your will look back and say THANK YOU LORD ALMIGHTY for making you pass through the stages of life.

REUBEN010:
You should not be ashamed of the legitimate job that takes care of your basic needs. If you check well, there are many unemployed persons roaming around that wish to be in your position.
The only downside is that it consumes your whole time and does not give you some free time to scout for other job opportunities available within your locality.

Suggestions:
1. Look beyond the challenges and identify managerial skills you can learn from the current job. This will increase your chances promotion or securing better jobs.

2. Whenever you are not attending to customers, go online to learn a few digital or real life skill that relate to your goals in life. You will be surprised how much you can learn online. If real-life skills (fashion designing, welding, agriculture, electrical works, mechanical works etc.) are your preferred, check for those that are easy for you to gain free or low-cost practical experience maybe from a friend, family member, neighbor, acquaintance etc.

3. Look beyond the business challenges and maintain a positive energy and friendly countenance when attending to customers. A positive energy has a way of attracting good fortunes. Even when some customers are rude, try to maintain your composure and do not try to retaliate.
Some people have been able to get better job offers from their customers just by maintaining good customer relations.

NB: Do not always beg customers for tips because it passes you as cheap and irritating.