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Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 7:18am On Feb 12, 2021 |
jasman1:Noted.thank you |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 6:19am On Feb 12, 2021 |
simplepee: Yes boss..thank you |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 6:19am On Feb 12, 2021 |
Adeboyefa: That is my fear oooo...I dont want trouble. See ehn, being a Nigerian is enough trouble. |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 6:17am On Feb 12, 2021 |
candygebs: Hmmmm...another perspective. Can I just have all what I want in peace? the funny thing is that it's not even much at all. I want a man that can treat me right, respect me, take care of my children. Shikena |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 6:14am On Feb 12, 2021 |
lefulefu: I highly doubt that.i agree that he is a little too into me but not to that extent |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 6:12am On Feb 12, 2021 |
simplepee: Ok thank you. I won't |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 6:11am On Feb 12, 2021 |
Meto1234: The boys are 6years and 4years. He suspects the 6 yr old is not his but he is yet to a DNA |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 6:09am On Feb 12, 2021 |
SweetCunt97: Trust me, I have considered it too. But it's not just something I can put my mind on. I would need a backup plan |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 6:03am On Feb 12, 2021 |
extol1: Ok..lol! |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 6:02am On Feb 12, 2021 |
ImaIma1: True. Maybe I am being a little shortsighted but the issue is, I dont want stress. I am short fused and have a low tolerance level on some issues. So that seemed to be a better option seeing that I dont have a viable alternative. |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 3:23pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
Denique: Hmmmmm. Thanks a lot. I appreciate this 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 3:18pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
Mikester: Thanks for your advice sir. God bless you |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 3:13pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
Denique: Your no 1 point is the crux of the issue. I am scared I am going against God's word by proceeding to marry him. You know divorce is very controversial. At the same time, I am not sure if I will find someone as great as this guy. This guys treats me right! Just how I want and like it 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 3:08pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
thebosstrevor1: Lol! Ok |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 3:01pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
Mikester: Hmmmm...word! Well according to him, the wife left on her own accord. She was keeping late nights without any justification neither was she remorseful. That caused lots of arguments and friction in the marriage. He claimed he was never violent with her and even went to her family house to beg her to come back but she refused. Calling him 'done and dusted" About the obsession part, me I dont know oo. He just seemed to like me very much. Too much perhaps..he calls me 'raw gold' Well, I would like my child to have some semblance with him in some areas, although not all areas |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 2:50pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
InfernoNig: Yes that's why I need counsel from people that have been through a similar situation b4. |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 2:45pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
Mikester: Hmmmmm..maybe...but he has been a good good friend and lover. Also, he can afford that amount of money without neccesarily breaking the bank. |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 2:42pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
pcguru1: Lolzz .I want to be in love..I want to be comfortable.. I want my man all to my self. Gosh, I am not perfect but i deserve it. In spite of my imperfection, I have worked so hard for it..so hard. Look I just wannna be happy thatz all |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 2:33pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
Sunnymatey: Hmmmmmm..thanks for your advice |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 2:32pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
Womanizer: What to do now... |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 2:31pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
Kobicove: Well, I dont know that one ..but you feel I can get someone else right? |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 2:28pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
OlayemiAshraf: Lol! You feel so? |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 2:27pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
InfernoNig: My heart says Yes but my mind says No |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 2:26pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
UncleKoboko: Lolz..abi make I forget everything? I feel like running away.. |
Romance / Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 2:24pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
pcguru1: Hmmm..thanks but is the wahala that comes with it usually worth it? |
Romance / Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Nousername4356: 2:14pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
Hello Fam, Happy sunday to you all. I am in a dilemma right now and I dont know what to do. I have been seeing a particular man for about 2yrs. All seems well with him except for the fact that he is legally divorced with 2 kids. He is all any lady could dream of but family and friends strongly advised me against marrying him. They say that it's wrong wrong choice for me, that his exwife would always be in his life since they have 2 male children together, that the exwife could even resort to fetish means,that being in Africa doesnt even help matters, that I would be at a big disadvantage. This man loves me, adores me, respects me and puts me first in anything. I met him at one of my 'lowest' moments in life and he was like heaven sent.My church is not in support, my family and frnds feel I am too young to put myself in such a tight situation. His exwife is very quarrelsome and I dont like stress.I am scared, I dont want trouble. I dont even have that kind of tolerance level. However He is still persistent, has been for over 2years now..still promising me that nothing would go wrong. He is even offering me N10m to at least be his baby mama if I am not willing to marry him in the interim. All the while, he has respected my body when I told him I wasnt willing to have sex with him. I am 27. I am thinking of forgetting everything all together, I just am not sure of what to do.... |
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