mansakhalifa:
Based on all my years as a history student,I have this to say: This sort of thing has always been common place in those parts-at least since the days of the triangular trade a.k.a.trans-Atlantic trade,when people auctioned their children off for kegs of rum and other western goods. It never really stopped. Who has read a book called Black Cargoes?

HarkymTheOracle:
Reunion is when u get up in the morning nd tell ur wife u r going to work. u meet ur neighbor to make love with her. Her husband comes and knocks on the door. U go under the bed. The husband enters nd his wife says she want to go to market to buy food items. The husband takes advantage of his wife's absence nd calls ur wife. Ur wife arrives nd they make love. Suddenly his wife who had gone to the market is back and knock on the door. You're still under the bed. Ur wife rushes to hide under the bed. This is REUNION.���

MadCow1:
150k.. Not bad for a small winch.

Jahblessme:


Gosh!! where do i start from What kind of local story is this?

1. Your wife should have discussed with you first before her sister visited you both-she was very wrong but everything after that made you look so petty.You were counting water used to bathe and asking your cousin helper to report to you first? If she wants to eat eggs will that also be reported to you?Do you also measure yam with ruler in your house?
Your actions have sown a very bad seed - belittling your SIL & your wife.I do not blame your wife for being very angry but she should have cooled off first and expressed her annoyance to you without flaring up.

Just a quick question OP,if your sister visits and your wife tells your little cousin to report to her first before doing anything she asks for nko?How would that sit with you?Just know your wife will never forget,be ready for your siblings to recieve the same hot soup

Yes,you should have been told before her sis landed ,but the deed had already been done.You should have controlled yourself instead of acting like a miserable being.What did your SIL do wrong?she probably thought she was coming to visit human beings who would treat her well not knowing her husband is a hot water measurer
Best approach would have been to discuss the issue with your spouse quietly.See disgrace!



Your wife raised her voice,you raised your own too,asked her to leave your room.'Yoour Room'??!!! i thought you both are married? I cant even believe what i'm reading here.
In the same sentence you talked about not wanting to be a woman beater.I do not see any reason why beating should come into this abi you normally beat or you were raised by a beater?Violence should not be an option.ah ahhh!!!


Both of you displayed shameful behavior and i don't blame your SIL for leaving,you disgraced her infront of your cousin helper,you disgraced your wife,your wife as disgraced you & you have made her feel unwelcome. Tueh
She will go and tell the story to family members who already don't like you and you will officially enter hate list with tattered reputation.

Please do the world a favour and delay this wedding till you both learn to behave like adults.


If you want to be the leader of your home you must learn to conduct yourself with dignity and self respect.You have to lead by example.
Discussions can be had without raising of voices.If your wife starts to shout,tell her you won't listen till she calms down and addresses you like an adult.I also expect her to do the same to you.That way you both will learn to trust each other and start building your little unit,she will also stop seeing the need to tell every little deed to her family as you will become her best friend and confidante.

Normally you should be in honeymoon phase but you people are already acting like cat and dog.
Good luck o.






By the way the way you worded little cousin and 2 big pots are you trying to imply that the girl is too little to do chores in general or specifically chores for SIL? If she is little,ideally she shouldn't be in your home doing housework.

Richy4:
You did what u feel was right @ that moment...

Your sister inlaw was a classy young woman too I must say, she left when she was supposed to..Maybe She never knew her coming will be a problem,maybe she felt her sister will sort u out...But she got it wrong.. Some ladies would have stayed even when they knew they were not welcomed..

If u have a younger bro, or Sis, just expect a cold welcome from your wife anytime they step into your house..it will never be forgotten...

U mistakenly broke an unwritten code that most women held with high esteem especially from the Eastern part of Nigeria....They always want to show that they are comfortable in their husband's house and their relatives are welcome to stay for sometime..I guess that was why she was mad @ u

Just say u were sorry bro.. with a peace offering like earring, or perfume etc.

Fabulocity:
Nice one! Stories like this excite me. I'm sure he's all those silly men that are always too busy for their family, always jumping from one business meeting to another and coming back late while neglecting his marital duties. I'm sure the poor woman has been sex starved because these type of men complain of being tired the few times they're at home and I'm very certain he hardly satisfies the poor woman. Serves him so right! See how he has been thoroughly humiliated. Ordinary driver was straffing the wife of a big man He should continue to ignore his wife oh, this one na ordinary bricklayer that'll give her the D







Pls don't quote me, there's no light yet

nkemdi89:
Wish you the same dear.

LordOfNaira:


And you will all shout and scream when they abuse your own gods. Those deities are worshipped by some people. Please, be respectful.

Amberon11:
I reside in PH, you?

Anuoluwapo23:

Rorachy:
I'm not crazy o.

Amberon11:
Yeah im serious.
Would be a good idea but how'd that go?

Tilda30:
Slaying slayer.

Yomzzyblog:
Cool FM OAP, Daddy Freeze took to Instagram to celebrate his fiancee, Benedicta Elechi who turned a year older today.

He shared lovely photos of her and captioned it;

“Happy Birthday to the most wonderful person I have ever met. Everyday with you is a blessing, you turned my sorrow into joy, my tears into laughter and my pain into pleasure. You are my personal chef, my confidant, my best friend, my mummy GO, my partner in crime and the fuel that keeps my engine running!
–
All my love to you today and always ♥️”

Happy birthday to her!!

Source: http://www.yomzzyblog.com/2017/08/oap-freeze-celebrates-his-fiancee-as.html

Henrypraise:


E be like say na everybody nai u knw ooo.

Pple who wants a better Nigeria will still come out to castigate Bovi, whereas Bovi has said d truth, there ar too many freeoney flying around in Nigeria, pple don't labour for money, de want free money, if only our politicians n entertainers can stop throwing free money around except for genuine reasons which dis ceremony kini is not among...

subtlemee:
This is harsh..there are better ways to decline helping somebody

NwaAmaikpe:


I pity the man who chose to ridicule himself by asking Bovi for a favour.

Abovi Ugboma is unrepentantly stingy, he hates to help people.
This same guy turned down Debbie Rise's request to perform for free in his show, and the same fool was begging Olamide to perform for free.
He only associates with people he thinks have made it.

Even his blood brother Tome is wallowing in penury at one bank in Ughelli Effurun.
Bovi can NEVER help anyone in need.

Stingy fool who thinks helping people depletes him.

ladyF:
These comments sha. Shey you people did not see the part where he has been beating her?



Anyway sha...

It's LadyF again.

nkemdi89:
Maybe I will upload mine too.

ReneeNuttall:
My wish for 2018,A marriage blessed with a set of identical twins.Amen

makydebbie:
Sure.

ekestic1976:
It's an appropriate word, handsome is, in proper Queen's grammar, sir! I wonder how many classical English novels and poetry you've encountered? I should suggest that you do less of internet surfing!

Winnyluv:
English sef

Benjom:
The 30 Billion crooner. Abeg, employ me as your media aide to help proof-read your grammatical constructions before they go live.

Tilda30:
money money money.

Tilda30:
money money money.

Amberon11:
We have the same birthday yaaaaaaay!!!

AuroraB:
Please, who watched the video? Is it horrific? I see an effigy already

folashade96:
We need more topics like this. I have been having a really bad day and it's good to take my mind off things talking about the stuff that interests me

Amberon11:
You were born on Nov 6th?