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well i mean even though i tried to be there and show that i care in my little way he still felt lonely and neglected. For example due to work and other commitments i travelled alot and while i texted and called him constantly it was more annoying than anything for him especially since things were working out for me and he was going through a stressful period and he ended up falling for a girl that had all the time for him and told him what he wanted to hear

@ busybody thank you if you can find the link please send it to me

that is what i don't understand we have been friends (after the initial anger and request that i needed space which was for about three months or so) we both have dated different people and now that he knows i am single again he is making moves like he wants us to get back although i try to stay clear of all the lovey dovey conversations. I just feel bad about everything

Thank you guys maybe it is fear but how much time will i need? we have been broken up for more than a year already!

hi guys i am confused (if that is the right word to use). Well here is the story: My ex whom i was totally committed to and invested alot of time and energy in cheated on me a while ago. The cheating is out of character for him and in a way i can understand why it came about.
Now he wants to get back with me. I still like him and i know he is sincere and genuine but somehow i can't bring myself to date him again even though i know it would be for the long haul this time and we can possibly have a happy marriage. So what is stopping me? is it psychological? is it my instinct? i just don't know!
i can feel his pain cos i know he is just as confused as i am as to why i am pulling away and i think this is stopping him from expressing himself fully.
Anyone have an idea what is wrong? btw i am newly single