Most of us never think too much about the dos and donts of intercourse. It is very important to keep your private parts healthy and clean. Most of the infections that occur down there is because of unhealthy habits that one follows. And here are 8 things that you should totally do after making love. By doing so, you are helping your private part stay healthy and away from any kind of infections.

1. GO TO TOILET AFTER INTER.COURSE
Number one: do a number one. During intercourse, bacteria can be introduced into your private part. It’s warm and moist inside there, which is the perfect environment for bacteria to multiply. If you don’t want to end up with a painful bladder infection, pee within an hour of having intercourse, which helps to flush out your private part. And of course, wipe from front to back to avoid faecal contamination.

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2. AVOID HOT BATH TUB SHOWER
Shower is good however avoid jumping into a hot bath tub. When your V (vagina) responds to stimulation, it opens a little more. And after intercourse, a hot bath tub shower can make you susceptible to more infections.

3. CHUG A PINT OF WATER
Just like with exercise, you may need to hydrate after making love. Dehydration affects your entire body, so if your mouth is dry, you definitely need to refuel with water. Chug a pint or two of water right after intercourse,it will hydrate you and help flush pesky UTI-causing bacteria from your bladder.

4. EAT FOOD THAT IS RICH IN PROBIOTIC
What you eat after having intercourse is very important. I know those chocolate chip cookies in the jar look tempting, but we advise you to choose your snack wisely. Your best option is fermented foods such as yogurt for instance. Kombucha and kimchi make healthy alternatives. Eating these as a snack after intercourse can restock good bacteria so that you don’t get yeast infections.

5. AVOID SOAP DOWN THERE
Not just after intercourse (although your V is particularly sensitive then), but always: don’t wash with soap. Your nether region is a self-cleansing organism and using soaps, douches or other products can interfere with its delicate pH levels. Soap can also lead to irritation and dryness – in fact, as a rule of thumb, if you wouldn’t put it in your mouth, don’t put it near your private part. After intercourse (and always), rinse only with warm, clean water.

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6. DITCH THE CUTE LINGERIE
Most types of lingerie are made from non-breathable fabrics like nylon or polyester. Slap them on after intercourse, and you’re creating the perfect environment for germs to grow. Remember, your V is warm and damp after getting down, and that’s when bacteria is likely to thrive, especially when trapped by non-breathable materials. Go commando or stick to cotton undies so your nether regions can breathe free.

7. AVOID WET WIPES
While it might be appealing to swipe yourself clean using wet wipes, the chemicals and fragrances can irritate your sensitive genital area, especially after intercourse. If you want to use something other than plain water to clean up, try mixing a little vinegar with warm water. Vinegar is cleansing and won’t disrupt your body’s pH levels. Dry gently afterwards.

8. PREVENT YEAST INFECTIONS BY BLOW DRYING YOUR NETHER REGIONS
You would be surprised, but many women are blow drying their private part after making love. It is very effective according to some doctors, although you must be careful. Blow drying is especially effective for women prone to UTIs and mycosis. Before blow drying, wash the your V with warm water. Use cold air setting to dry the area. Make sure you don’t overdo it and ensure the innermost V remains moist. Use a soft hand towel in the end.



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S3x against a wall seems like a lot of daunting task for most men, they are always bothered if they will be strong enough to make the style worth it for their partners but those worries are very unnecessary as you don’t need to try very hard to enjoy this s3x position. No need lifting your woman off the floor, you can both stand together and still make the s3x thrilling.

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Here are some reasons why you should try out s3x against the wall with your partner.

“This position helps you hit her center of gravity and stimulate her clitor!s giving you deep penetration into her vag!na”.

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“Make things a little interesting, by making your woman wrap her legs around your waist as you get closer, with her back against the wall, all you have to do is hold her as you try to penetrate her”.

“Intensify the act by not taking off all your clothes, you can rip off some but not all for a quickie, allow your woman to unB.utton your shirt without str!pp!ng”.

“When in a standing position as you thrust in and out, ask your woman to tighten her thighs as it helps in better friction and penetration”.

“S3x against the wall allows you to handle her bre3sts and kiss her neck more”.

The standing position against the wall is also perfect for 0ral s3x as well”.


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You may think you know all about effective protection, but don’t forget there are ways we don’t know that could lead to an accidental pregnancy. The following is a list of scenarios where an unprotected s*x can land you in hot water.

1. When the guy takes the rear entrance

2. s*x during periods
Research shows that a sperm can live in the uterus for five days. If you have s*x towards the end of your period and you ovulate early, you could get pregnant.

3. Pulling out before release
Just because he pulled out in time doesn’t mean you cannot get pregnant. Sperms can enter the v**ina even before the man ejaculates through the pre-release. The pre-release does not by itself contain sperms but can carry some left over sperms from a previous Release which lay in the urinary tract.

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4. Not leaving space at the tip of the condom
If there is not enough room for the ejaculated sperm in the condom, sperm may slip out or tear the condom.

5. During B.reastfeeding
Many believe that B.reastfeeding suppresses ovulation, which it does, but that doesn’t mean that you cannot get pregnant. Many couples have a second baby within a year of the first. Doesn’t this make it clear already?

6. When you are already pregnant
This is strange. And rare. But happens and is called superfetation. If you have unprotected s*x while you are already pregnant and ovulating, a second egg can get fertilized. This will lead to a second pregnancy.

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7. Dry humping Though dry humping doesn’t include penetration and ideally, no body fluids should be exchanged, there is still a chance of you getting pregnant. The man’s sperm can land anywhere near the op





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You might fret that your waistline and your wardrobe are the barriers to bagging a bloke, but the problem could actually be your personality.

It’s harsh but true. And to be fair, earlier this week we took aim at the eight types of guys that women really hate, so consider this gender equality.

Below are the eight types of women guys will always stay away from.

If you recognise yourself, don’t fret too much.

They’re not deal-breakers, but they are red flags. You don’t need to change your personality, but perhaps you could be more aware of the ways you’re cheesing off the other half of the population.

1. THE MAN HATERHATER
Why she’s so unappealing: This is the woman who is abrasive from the first moment she meets a man. Everything about the male gender angers her. He’s confident; she sees it as cockiness. He cracks a joke; she thinks he’s a cheeseball. His shirt’s untucked; he’s an unkempt slob who can’t be trusted.

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What to do if you are her: We get it. A man once broke your heart/cheated on you/did you wrong in general. He sucks, we agree. But he doesn’t represent all of the male race, so give us a break. You need to take a serious look at the cause of these feelings and change your tune.

2. THE BUNNY BOILER
Why she’s so unappealing: Everything’s a drama with this woman, and then it escalates to full-blown crazy. The term comes from Fatal Attraction, in which (spoiler alert) Glenn Close boils the pet rabbit of the man she’s obsessed with. But Bunny Boilers were around in spirit long before the term was coined, and you can bet they’ll continue to surface. She’s the girl whose love seems like touching devotion at first, but turns out to be a bit obsessive.

What to do if you are her: Cool it. Just chill right out when it comes to men. At least once in your life, there will be a man who’s just not that into you, no matter how much you want him to be. That’s life, and you have to accept what you can’t control. Put the bunny down.

3. THE PRINCESS
Why she’s so unappealing: On the surface, she’s not unappealing at all. In fact, in some men’s eyes, she’s just the ticket. But scratch the perfectly manicured surface (yes, the Princess even sleeps in make-up) and you’ll find drama, drama, drama. This high maintenance woman needs to be doted on like royalty. She gets everything she wants. And she won’t necessarily return the gesture.

What to do if you are her:

You probably just need to find the right man. There are blokes out there who will be happy to be your prince (read: slave). But he just wants you because you’re hot. And if you’re complicit in this arrangement, you shouldn’t be surprised when he drops you for a newer model later on.

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4. THE KISS AND TELL
Why she’s so unappealing: Call us insecure, but guys hate it when you talk about them to your friends. It’s our worst nightmare to think that you and your girlfriends might be gossiping about our relationship or sex life to people on the outside. Especially when we see these girls later and they have a knowing smile or a disapproving leer on their dial.

What to do if you are her:Understand that some things should stay behind closed doors. You and your friends are tight, we get that, and it’s human nature to talk about the major relationships in our lives. But some things are intimate and discretion is required. Next time you bring up your man with your girlfriends, ask yourself this question: Would I like it if he was talking to his friends about this? Also, try talking to your fella.You might be surprised by his insight.

5. THE WANNABE TROPHY
Why she’s so unappealing: A bit like the Princess, the Wannabe Trophy expects everything and doesn’t want to give much in return. She wants the man to pay for dinner, and he totally should if it’s the first date and he invited her out. But when the courtship continues and she’s still demanding the world, you’ve got a gold digger on your hands.

What to do if you are her:
Maybe get a job? The reason you want a man to look after you is that you’re crap at looking after yourself. But you can’t rely on a man forever, especially when your only commodity is your appearance. Stand on your own two feet and learn to be self sufficient.

6. THE CLINGER
Why she’s so unappealing: When we ranked the worst types of boyfriends this week, the Needy Guy was at the very bottom of the pile. The Clinger is his female equivalent. She is overly emotional, shares all her feelings from the start and needs constant reassurance about your relationship status. That means lots of text messages, phone calls and I Love Yous. Ugh.

What to do if you are her: Confidence is key. If your connection with a man is working, don’t fret if he doesn’t confirm it with an Emoji-laden text message every hour on the hour. Trust your instincts and give him some breathing room.

7. THE OVER THINKER
Why she’s so unappealing: What did he mean when he said I looked pretty today? What did he mean when he said my colleague Sarah seems like a nice girl? We’ve been going out for two weeks; why haven’t I met any of his friends? If you’re filling your mind with these questions, you’re over thinking it. And it’s a pain, because invariably you’ll go to the man for your answers, and he thinks your questions are psycho and unnecessary.

What to do if you are her: You are over-complicating men. Women have a propensity for cloaking their thoughts a little, whereas blokes tend to say exactly what they mean. So just open your ears and hear what he’s saying. You do look pretty, your colleague Sarah is a nice girl, and it’s only been two weeks, so chill out. There’s no mystery to what he’s saying.

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8. THE FRIEND HATER
Why she’s so unappealing: Even with ticks in all the other boxes, the perfect woman will be let down by her inability to get along with a guy’s mates. Just like you, men love their friends. So they don’t want to hear you badmouthing or criticising them for no reason. It’s the worst.

What to do if you are her: What’s your problem with his friends exactly? Do you genuinely think they’re bad for your man or are you just an uppity snob? Either way, you should probably rethink this relationship altogether. Like attracts like in male friendships, so your beau is probably not that different to the guys he hangs out with. And don’t try to steal him from his mates. You’ve got a lot going for you, but there are attributes in his mates that you will never be able to replace.




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Saying the words “I do” could be very frightening for some women. The reasons, why women are scared of getting married, vary from person to person.

Below are five of them.

1. Emotional and financial insecurity
These can be argued as two major reasons any woman would dread the idea of martians. The tendency for the blazing fire of love between them and their partners to dwindle over time scares women a lot. The questions – Will he love me still when I get bloated from the rigours of childbirth? What if some days we run out of things to say and the conversation dries up? What happens if he becomes financially unstable? – and much more worry many a woman.

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2. Fear of commitment
Till death do us part! The thought of having to succumb to the authority of a man, dedication to a long-term cause, giving birth and raising children, keeping up with relatives and in-laws, taking care of the home, the opportunities forgone to stick to one person; and combining all of these with work, makes marriage seem scary to some women.

3. Career pursuit
Some women are literally married to their jobs – so what’s the need for a man. They dedicate more of their time to their profession and climbing the ladder of success, often neglecting their emotional needs and those of their partners. For them, marriage will create a lacuna between them and work. Thus, they would rather remain single.

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4. Fear of the unknown
Unarguably, the future is plagued with many uncertainties, and nature or perhaps fate has forced the human to hope for the best but prepare for the worst. The fear of what the future holds is a withdrawing force for women.

5. Risk of divorce
Some women, because of their not-too-good experience in broken homes or the stigma attached to being a divorcee, would rather remain single than get married and risk breaking up



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The bedroom moves that men love: try these s*x positions tonight. Want to spice things up in the bedroom? Make his night and drive him crazy with these s*x positions that men love. Ultimately, s*x is about love and intimacy, so while the positions are part of the fun, the real payoff is the way various maneuvers allow you to connect and explore each other in different ways.

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1. Woman on Top

2. Missionary
This standard go-to is a favorite because it puts him in control, while still being intimate: your hips are free to do all the work, and you can lock lips and eyes with ease. And while he’s in the power position on top of you, the two of you can set the pace together. If you want him to go slower or deeper, put your hands on his hips and guide him. The best s*x is like a conversation, and missionary allows you to communicate with your bodies.

3. Reverse Cowgirl
This reverse variation of the woman on top position is the best of both worlds for your guy. It gives him the $exy view he gets during doggie style but it puts you in control. This position doesn’t allow for a ton of touching or eye contact, but it’s a nice contrast to some of the more classic, romantic positions. If you’re craving a connection flash a look back at him while you’re doing your thing—it’ll drive both of you over the edge.

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4. Doggie Style
This rear entry positions puts him in control, allowing him to call the shots and to go at the speed that’s best for him. Plus, it allows for deeper penetration, making him feel like king in the bedroom. Some women love the intense full feeling, but if it feels like too much, let him know. Communication is key to enjoying s*x and experiencing the full psychological benefits of physical intimacy.

5. Standing Up
Getting it on while standing up is probably not your go-to move, but it’s perfect for that sweaty, gotta-have-you-now s*x that’ll make him feel irresistible. Whether he’s bending you over the new kitchen table or you’re steadying yourself against the wall, this spontaneous position is perfect for a quickie.

6. Spooning
s*x while spooning is the ultimate intimate position, and a go-to for when you’re feeling lazy and affectionate. Not only does it give him total access to your bod, it also frees your digits up so that you can give yourself a hand, a move that’s sure to drive him wild. Make it even hotter by twisting your body and head slightly towards him so you can smooch while his hands roam. Afterward you can slip into an easy, snuggley sleep.

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7. lap dance
Pull up a chair and have him take a seat while you get on top. He’ll love the look and feel of you straddling him, and having you in control will help him last longer, too. A bonus? Unlike the standard woman-on-top position, this ones allows for you to stay super close, kiss, and make eye contact. Plus, he still gets to be aggressive with his hands, tugging on your hair, rubbing your back, and pulling you closer.
So, there you have it, give it all to your husband and enjoy a $exful marriage. And hey, to you the unmarried reading this sex is worth waiting for



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Have you ever looked at your bosoms and wondered if they’re normal? It turns out, they come in all different shapes and sizes. What’s more, they can bring you incredible pleasure, help feed a baby, and even tip you off to some potentially serious health problems. Seriously, they’re amazing. After reading this, we promise you’ll have newfound respect for this body part. Here, everything you need to know about your bosoms.

1. They Can Span Several Inches
The size of a woman’s bosoms and areolas can be as wide as a half-dollar or smaller than a dime, and either way is totally normal.

2. They Come in a Range of Colors
Pale pink, brick red, dark brown: bosom pigment has to do with a woman’s ethnic background and the hue of the rest of her skin. Just as bosom size changes when you have a baby, so does bosom color, and that shift in shade is often permanent.

3. They’re Capable of Much of Pleasure
bosoms are an erogenous zone for many women, and a 2011 study from the Journal of s*xual Medicine backs this up. Researchers using MRI imaging found that when bosoms are stimulated, a pleasure center inside the brain lights up the same way it lights up after stimulation of the cli**ris and v**ina.

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4. bosom Orgasms are Not Fiction
The same 2011 study that showed a link between bosom stimulation and the pleasure center of the brain also raised the possibility that bosom stimulation alone could result in climax, something s*x researchers previously estimated that only a “small number” of women could experience.

5. They Sometimes Come in Threes
It’s not uncommon for a man or a woman to be born with three bosoms (or four, or five, or seven, as one 2012 study details). These extra bosoms, known as “supernumerary bosoms,” resemble a mole or mark. They never develop into actual br**sts, and they can show up anywhere on the body, according to the National Institutes of Health.

6. bosoms Are Supposed to Be Bumpy
Look closely at your bosoms and the surrounding areolas; they kind of resemble the bumpy, crater-filled surface of the moon. “Those bumps on the areola can be hair follicles, ducts, or oil glands that produce lubricating fluid. It’s totally normal to have them.

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7.But Sometimes a Bump Is Bad
News A rare form of chest cancer called Paget’s disease can present itself as a red bump or rash on the bosom or areola. It’ll look like an angry skin change that doesn’t go away. If you spot this and it persists for a few weeks, have your doctor take a look.

8. They Don’t Love the Gym
Working out is super-healthy for your body as a whole, but it can be rough on your bosoms, which often get dry, chafed, and even bloody as they rub back and forth against your sports bra. Dabbing on some petroleum jelly before a treadmill session will soothe irritated skin.

9. Nursing Can Do a Number on Them
Soreness, pain, cracking, bleeding—these are just some of the consequences of having a hungry newborn attached to your bosoms several times a day, says Dweck. These symptoms tend to disappear as a new mom gets the hang of it, but if your bosoms continue to suffer, get an assist from your pediatrician or a lactation consultant.

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10. They Can Leak Milk
Nursing moms, you might want to keep an extra blouse in your purse or glove compartment. It’s a totally freaky phenomenon, but many B.reastfeeding women have found themselves suddenly leaking milk as soon as they hear the cry of a random infant or baby nearby.

11. Discharge Can Be a Warning Sign A little discharge that comes out after you’ve squeezed your bosom is probably no big deal. But a white, creamy discharge that’s released on its own could be a sign of a non-cancerous growth in the brain. Green or black discharge can tip you off to a benign duct problem. And bloody discharge might mean chest cancer. If you experience the latter, bring it to your doctor’s attention.


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A month or two after HIV has entered their body, 40-90% of the people experience symptoms that resemble flu symptoms, and this is known as acute retroviral syndrome (ARS).



But, in some cases the HIV symptoms don’t appear for years, even decades after the body has been infected.

These are some of the signs that may indicate you are HIV-positive.16 Signs You May Have HIV

Fever

One of the first signs of ARS might be a mild fever, up to about 102 degrees F.

In case you experience the fever, you may also often experience other generally mellow side-effects, such as sore throat, swelling of the lymph organs, weakness etc.

Fatigue

One of the inflammatory responses of your overwhelmed immune system is the feeling of tiredness and lethargy. Fatigue can be an early sign of HIV, but a later one as well.

Throbbing muscles, joint torment, swollen lymph hubs

Lymph hubs are part of the body’s insusceptible framework and are usually kindled in case of a disease. The most part of them is placed in the armpit, the neck and the crotch.

ARS is often confused for the seasonal cold virus, mononucleosis or another viral infectivity, even hepatitis or syphilis.

Sore throat and headache

According to Dr. Horberg, sore throat and headache are frequently recognized as ARS only in context.

One should be aware that the body still hasn’t produced antibodies to HIV, so an antibody test may not pick it up (the antibodies of HIV can be seen in a blood test from a few weeks to few months). One should find some other test options, like the one that detects viral RNA, usually within 9 days of the infections.

Skin rash

Skin rashes can be both early and late HIV/AIDS signs.

Nausea, vomiting, diarrhea

Around 30% to 60% of the people in the early stages of HIV deal with short-term nausea, vomiting or diarrhea, Dr.Malvestutto says.

Weight reduction

Called “guides squandering”, weight reduction is a sign of more propelled illness and can vary between a minor weight reduction to extreme looseness of the bowels.

Dry cough

Ron first noticed that something was wrong with him because of the dry cough. But, he thought it was some kind of allergy. According to Dr.Malvestutto, this cough is typical for patients of HIV who are very ill and could be going on for weeks, with you not seeing the way in which it would be resolved.

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Weight reduction and the hack might be a forecast of a genuine disease caused by a germ that wouldn’t cause any troubles if the invulnerable framework was working properly. Other opening diseases include toxoplasmosis, a parasitic contamination that affects the mind; a kind of herpes infection known as cytomegalovirus and yeast contaminations, like thrush for example.

Night sweats

Around 50% of people get night sweats in the early stages of HIV infection, Dr. Malvestutto explains. In the later stages, they become even more common and aren’t related to exercise or the room temperature.

Nail changes

Another sign of HIV contamination are nail changes, such as clubbing (bending and thickening of the nails), staining (dark lines or chestnut lines, placed vertically or on a level plane).

This is mostly the case because of some infectious disease, like Candida for example. According to Dr.Malvestutto, patients with worn out insusceptible frameworks are feebler to contagious contaminations.

Yeast infections

A fungal infection common in the later stages is thrush, mouth infection that is a result of Candida, which is a kind of yeast.

According to Dr.Malvestutto, it is one of the commonest funguses that cause yeast infection in women. Most frequently, they appear in the mouth, or the esophagus, and cause difficulties when swallowing.

Perplexity or trouble concentrating

Another sign of HIV-related dementia can be subjective issues, which appear mostly in the later stages of the disease. Perplexity and trouble concentrating aside, the AIDS-related dementia may also include problems with the memory and the behavior, like bitterness or irritability.

Cold sores or genital herpes

Oral herpes (cold sores) and genital herpes are an indication of both ARS and HIV in the late stages. Having herpes can also represent a risk factor for contracting HIV, since genital herpes may cause ulcer and thus make it easier for the HIV to enter the body during sex. Also, people who have HIV usually have more severe herpes outbreaks more frequently because their immune system is weaker.

Shivering and shortcoming

Deadness and shivering in the feet and hands are also a sigh of HIV, in its later stages. The symptom is called fringe neuropathy, and it can also happen to people with uncontrolled diabetes.

Dr.Malvestutto explains that at this point the nerves are quite harmed. This can be treated with the help of over-the-counter distress relievers and anti-seizure medications, like Neurontin (gabapentin) is.

Menstrual irregularities

HIV disease in its late stages increases the risk of menstrual irregularities, like fewer and lighter periods.

There’s a link between the HIV infection and the earlier menopause (47 to 48 years for infected women and 49 to 51 years for uninfected women).

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A mature relationship will not keep you up at night, it helps you sleep peacefully, life may give you a whole pile of problems but a mature relationship would not add to those problems but will help you through them. Here are a few things to differentiate between a mature and immature relationship;

1.Mature relationships fulfill all your needs

When your relationship gives you so much more than you could ever expect and you do not compare your relationship with others, looking for flaws or comfort, that means it fulfills all your needs; it does not make you feel something is missing and you don’t feel the need to constantly analyze it.

2. Mature relationships keep you driven

All the initial obsession in a relationship and wanting to spend more time with each other subsides eventually but immature relationships make you believe that nothing else matters other than your relationship whereas, a mature relationship makes one adjust to the reality of the matter they know that you can’t have a good life just based on love, you need to have the right resources to live the kind of life you want and to have a secure future together.

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3. Mature relationships argue in person and not over text messages

Mature relationships settle everything face-to-face rather than complicating things by fighting over text messages, where there is almost always a risk of miscommunication. It is a respectful thing to do and it is important to argue over the issue in person.

4. Mature relationships respect and promote individuality

You are meant to be together but you are two parts of a whole and you don’t have to become one person. You are not meant to act alike when you are with each other because you are two parts of a whole. A mature relationship is a result of two different mature people who accept and appreciate each others individuality and do what they can to support each other to become the best that they can be. They believe in each other and push each other to do what they most truly desire.

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5. Mature relationships are free from insecurities

In a mature relationship trust is always intact irrespective of past relationships, previous interest or even if you have admirers. You will never feel insecure of anyone from each other’s past because you both know that what you have is irreplaceable and no one can do anything to change that unless you allow them to.

6. Mature relationships progress at their own pace

In a mature relationship there is no rush, you two do not have to worry about how fast or slow things move as long as it’s what you want. You allow the relationship to grow in it’s own time. While immature relationship troubles you with not taking the next step soon enough.

7. Mature relationships are between two complete people

People who are aware of themselves and do not need anyone or anything to define them are capable of having a mature relationship. They do not depend on each other or any other person to make up for what they are lacking, they are in a relationship because they want to be one and not because they feel that something is missing

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8. Mature relationships accepts your past Matured relationship embraces your past and help you deal with it, they understand that we all make bad choices and decisions at times but that doesn’t mean we are hopeless and it makes it easier to overlook the past. You learn to focus on the good.

9. There is no reason for doubts in a mature relationship

You don’t have to worry about your partner’s loyalty and commitment or the future of your relationship because you know that if they are with you right now it’s only because they see you in their future as well and the way they treat you, you need not doubt their intentions. You feel a kind of reassurance in such relationships.


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When you commit your life to someone you don’t just commit to the good times, because the bad times are inevitable. There will be rough seasons and challenges that every relationship will face. Some of those challenges will push you to your limits and test your love. Some will have you thinking that you are better off being by yourself. Some will have you reminiscing on how much better life might be if you were single again. Some will have you wanting to call it quits and walk away from it all.

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Love ain’t just black and white; Ain’t that simple ; It gets hard to tell whose wrong or right; When it’s dark with us; I swear I barely see the light; Should I stick it out? Are you worth this fight? Are we worth this fight? – Mary J. Blige Mary J Blige asked the key question that many people in relationships ponder every day: “Are we worth this fight?” Well in order to determine if your relationship is worth the fight, there are a few things you should consider.

Is it just a bad season?

Relationships are just like years… and years have seasons. In some seasons you are happy and connected and enjoying each other. And in other seasons, you’re feeling disconnected, less intimate, and stressed. The problem is sometimes we only focus on the cold, barren seasons, instead of realizing that spring is right around the corner! The only way to get out of a bad season is to do the actions that you were doing in the good season. What you focus on is what will grow.

Remember why you started.

As we progress and get further away from the newlywed phase, we tend to forget why we made the choice to be together. Usually it was for love, lust, or because we saw this person as our better half. We wanted to build a family, we had relationship goals, and we wanted companionship. Like with any plan, you have to continue to remember WHY you started and keep establishing goals to work towards the plan together. Getting stagnant causes stress and decreases purpose.

Have you really put in the work?

The reality is that many times we just give up too easily. The second you aren’t “feeling” your spouse anymore you think it’s time to run, not realizing that for anything to grow you must invest in it. I meet couples every day who are on the brink of calling it quits, but haven’t been to one counseling session, haven’t read any books on relationships or done any relationship building activities. NEWS FLASH…relationships are about more than feelings; they’re about actions. You won’t get a return unless you invest in each other, yourselves, and the relationship.

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Is it really bigger than you?

Many relationships start off with folks making vows about sacrifice and commitment, but too often when feelings fade we tend to forget about all of that. Furthermore, many of us say we want to build a stable family ‘for the kids’ but that goes out the window the minute we start getting some outside attention. Ask yourself are you really making the sacrifices needed or have you gone back to a selfish mindset?

Is the grass really greener?

Often people search for that initial new relationship high because we want that feeling we had when the hormones were raging and everything was cute. Like a fiend we keep chasing it and because of that sometimes we get fooled into thinking that just being with someone new will solve all of our problems. Well, the truth is that the same seasons are bound to come with the new person too. So you must decide whether to put the effort into fixing what you’ve invested in or do you keep just searching for that newness time after time, person after person?

Have you accepted your role in the situations?

Time for a gut check: Have you truly done some self-reflection and accepted the role you’ve played in the relationship issues? Most of us find it a lot easier to blame than to take any accountability. You don’t have to be perfect, but at least be accountable because that’s where the growth and rebuilding starts. I’m not saying that every relationship can be repaired and put back on track but I am saying that I think we should at least put some real thought and effort into it before calling it quits. Sometimes your relationship truly is worth the fight, but you have to have your gloves on and be in the ring to tough it out!




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When you commit your life to someone you don’t just commit to the good times, because the bad times are inevitable. There will be rough seasons and challenges that every relationship will face. Some of those challenges will push you to your limits and test your love. Some will have you thinking that you are better off being by yourself. Some will have you reminiscing on how much better life might be if you were single again. Some will have you wanting to call it quits and walk away from it all.

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Love ain’t just black and white; Ain’t that simple ; It gets hard to tell whose wrong or right; When it’s dark with us; I swear I barely see the light; Should I stick it out? Are you worth this fight? Are we worth this fight? – Mary J. Blige Mary J Blige asked the key question that many people in relationships ponder every day: “Are we worth this fight?” Well in order to determine if your relationship is worth the fight, there are a few things you should consider.

Is it just a bad season?

Relationships are just like years… and years have seasons. In some seasons you are happy and connected and enjoying each other. And in other seasons, you’re feeling disconnected, less intimate, and stressed. The problem is sometimes we only focus on the cold, barren seasons, instead of realizing that spring is right around the corner! The only way to get out of a bad season is to do the actions that you were doing in the good season. What you focus on is what will grow.

Remember why you started.

As we progress and get further away from the newlywed phase, we tend to forget why we made the choice to be together. Usually it was for love, lust, or because we saw this person as our better half. We wanted to build a family, we had relationship goals, and we wanted companionship. Like with any plan, you have to continue to remember WHY you started and keep establishing goals to work towards the plan together. Getting stagnant causes stress and decreases purpose.

Have you really put in the work?

The reality is that many times we just give up too easily. The second you aren’t “feeling” your spouse anymore you think it’s time to run, not realizing that for anything to grow you must invest in it. I meet couples every day who are on the brink of calling it quits, but haven’t been to one counseling session, haven’t read any books on relationships or done any relationship building activities. NEWS FLASH…relationships are about more than feelings; they’re about actions. You won’t get a return unless you invest in each other, yourselves, and the relationship.

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Is it really bigger than you?

Many relationships start off with folks making vows about sacrifice and commitment, but too often when feelings fade we tend to forget about all of that. Furthermore, many of us say we want to build a stable family ‘for the kids’ but that goes out the window the minute we start getting some outside attention. Ask yourself are you really making the sacrifices needed or have you gone back to a selfish mindset?

Is the grass really greener?

Often people search for that initial new relationship high because we want that feeling we had when the hormones were raging and everything was cute. Like a fiend we keep chasing it and because of that sometimes we get fooled into thinking that just being with someone new will solve all of our problems. Well, the truth is that the same seasons are bound to come with the new person too. So you must decide whether to put the effort into fixing what you’ve invested in or do you keep just searching for that newness time after time, person after person?

Have you accepted your role in the situations?

Time for a gut check: Have you truly done some self-reflection and accepted the role you’ve played in the relationship issues? Most of us find it a lot easier to blame than to take any accountability. You don’t have to be perfect, but at least be accountable because that’s where the growth and rebuilding starts. I’m not saying that every relationship can be repaired and put back on track but I am saying that I think we should at least put some real thought and effort into it before calling it quits. Sometimes your relationship truly is worth the fight, but you have to have your gloves on and be in the ring to tough it out!


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Take it from a single woman; love is hard. You put yourself out there day after day, person after person and all you want is the perfect fairytale romance you see in the movies. It can’t be that difficult to find, right?
It actually can be and the urge to give up on all love and lead a loveless life is all too easy. But don’t give in. Without love, the world just doesn’t feel right. If you still need a little more encouragement, take a look at these 10 reasons why it’s essential to maintain hope and stay open to love- no matter what.
1. There is someone reaching out to you right now
In the quest for perfect romantic love, it is easy to overlook the love of friends, family and those around us. When you are tempted to throw in the towel, take a second to reflect on all the love in your life; it should only take a minute to realize you have it in abundance.
2. Love is greater than fear
The fear of putting ourselves out there and being hurt or rejected is sometimes overpowering, but love is the greatest emotion of all time. Fear may feel like the better option (rather than choosing to love and maybe get hurt) but that is just a façade. Don’t give up dreams.
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3. We were made to love
No matter what else you believe, you must believe that humans were created to love. We search for love, we long for it and we do our best to give it to those around us. As much as you may want, you can’t give up on something that is innate to who you are.
4. You must love yourself
If you truly love yourself, you will love love. You may think life will be easier and more fun when you find the man of your dreams, but before you can fully love another, you must be comfortable with yourself. You must adore yourself, you must know your own worth and you must love yourself.
5. Love is greater than romance
Don’t get hung up on the lack of flowers and chocolates in your life. Love should be appreciated for its depth of caring and timelessness, not for the romantic gestures that make you feel momentarily special.
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6. Only love can heal a broken heart
The answer to a broken heart is not to swear off all love…because only love can make you whole again. That love will more than likely come from those closest to you, not a random knight in shining armor. Find and appreciate the love you have in your life to heal your heart.
7. Your true love is out there
I know it doesn’t feel like it, but he is out there. He is going through the same process as you. He is putting himself out there, getting hurt and struggling to pick himself back up again. When you both learn to love yourselves and commit to loving someone else just as unconditionally, then you will find each other. But until then, remember…
8. Love has its own timetable
Try as you might, you will never be able to control love. It will come when you least expect it and sometimes leaves when you feel you need it most. But rest assured; love will always be there in the end to lift you up, even if it’s not in the form you hoped for.
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9. All good things in life require work
Love, just like everything else in life, requires work. It is hard work to put yourself out there time after time, but without the work there will be no reward.
10. Love will never give up on you
You can shun love and push it away as much as you want, but no matter where life takes you, love will always be there. It will be there when you don’t want it, when you don’t expect it and it will be there to lift you up when you feel you can’t take one more step.
All is not fair in love and war, but I promise you, if you choose to maintain hope in love, you will be happy.


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Here are the seven tests of true love. If you’re asking yourself, “Does he love me?” see how your relationship measures up first.
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1. Does he ALWAYS treat you with respect?
If his respect for you is inconsistent or only occurs sparingly, your relationship cannot flourish. In love, you cannot pick and choose the time and place to be kind, considerate, and respectful. Being considerate and respectful one day and rude and inconsiderate the next is not an option. Your partner either is all of these things or he is not. It’s really that simple.
2. Do his actions match his words?
We all know the axiom “actions speak louder than words.” To know if he really loves you, you only need to observe his behavior. Does he talk to you with affection, care, and respect, but then bumps you out of the way when you order lunch or dinner? Does he tell you how much he loves you, but ignores you completely when you tell him what you would like to do that day?
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The truth is, actions really do speak louder than words! Never fool yourself into thinking hat his actions don’t matter. Put simply, he IS what he does. Ignore this notion at your peril, because it is actually the best test of whether he is capable of really loving you.
3. Are you an equal partner?
When someone really loves you, they treat you as an equal partner — as a person with an equal voice (and equal value) in your relationship. If he makes all of the significant decisions in your relationship and expects you to follow his directives as a second-class citizen, then he does NOT really love you. In a successful marriage, both partners share equally in the relationship.
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4. Can you trust him with your life and sacred honor?
Can you honestly say, “I trust him more that life itself”? Is your trust in him unequivocal and honestly without hesitation? Bottom line: one of the underlying qualities of a great marriage is complete trust in each other. If you don’t trust your man without question, then you really need to reconsider any long-term relationship with him.
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5. Does he tell you he loves you?
Does he declare his love and adoration for you often and without prodding? Does his love for you come naturally and consistently? When you love someone, you tell them. And don’t fall for that old line that goes like this: “I don’t need to tell her I love her because she knows.” This notion is just plain wrong! You need to hear it (we all do). If he doesn’t tell you that he loves you, then your relationship has a problem.
6. Can he imagine life without you?
When you are in love, you cannot imagine life without the one you love! So try this question on him: “Honey, do you love me more than life itself? Can you imagine life without me?” If his answers make you wonder about the depth of his commitment to you, he doesn’t truly love you.
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One thing we know for sure is that someone in love cannot envision a life without their someone special. If your guy suggests otherwise, he is not the man you should commit your life to.
7. Is he ALWAYS there for you?
In the end, a man who really loves you will always be there for you through the good times and the bad, through thick and thin. Love has no conditions. A man deeply in love with a woman wants her when she is at her best or her worst. And being there for you is something he does in a way that makes you feel good (versus feeling guilty). He makes you excited about where your relationship is going. He raises you higher than you could ever be without him.


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Whatever the reason may be, you can relax in knowing that you won’t have to second-guess yourself if you know her motives for the evening. Will she sleep with you or not? Here are the signs that she is ready to get the deed done.
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1 She touches you in intimate places.
Hold up. I’m not saying that a woman will immediately grab your groin when the moment presents itself!
However, a woman can show that she is interested in taking your relationship to the next level if she openly touches uncommon areas of contact like your ears, neck, thighs, your torso or your feet.
The last one’s touched using her own feet, of course.
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2 She licks her lips over and over.
It could be a provocative plea that she is voluntarily doing or it may be a reflex reaction to the thoughts that she is currently having about you.
Not only is it seductive, but it’s a pretty good sign that she may be open to sleeping with you if you just ask.
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3 She keeps mentioning s*x.
A woman will never mention s*x on her own accord unless she is willing to put it on the table.
By casually mentioning it in the conversation, she may be subtly saying that she is open to having s*x at some point while you’re dating.
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4 She wore an uncharacteristically provocative outfit on your date.
Any woman has the right to wear whatever she wants. If she wants to go unclad on your date because it’s her usual thing, it doesn’t immediately mean that she’s willing to sleep with you right then and there.
If, however, she usually dresses conservatively then suddenly wears a tiny red dress with a plunging neckline, she is probably starting to entertain the idea of hopping into bed with you.
5 She invites you inside her place.
It’s highly possible that this is her way of saying that she’s ready to sleep with you. Women usually leave it to the guy to ask if they can come up to their place and promptly reject them if they don’t feel like sleeping with the guy.
If they invited the guy themselves, it is usually an acknowledgement of their plans to finally seal the deal. Just remember that you may only get a make-out session or a glass of wine for your troubles if it pleases her.
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6 She seems a little too enthusiastic about your good-night kiss.
A passionate make-out session at her doorstep could serve as your opening. Not only is she in the mood, but it seems like she is ready to eat you up before you even get through the bedroom door.
Do her the courtesy of asking if she’s interested and take her to a bed where you can provide her needs privately – that is unless she wants to do it in public.
7 She seems turned on by a lot of things.
If she sounds more sensual than usual, you can bet that she’s ready for an intimate night with you. You can hear the ecstasy in someone’s voice when they are turned on and can see it in the way they move.
Her skin will feel really warm and her pupils will be dilated. Don’t ask to give her physical exam, but do pay attention to her the whole night.
Yes, a woman may seem ready for s*x; however, you should not presume that it’s a done deal even with the signs we’ve mentioned. It’s better to feel for the moment and ask when the timing is right.
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It’s okay if they don’t feel like it. You might have another chance in the future if you treat her right and don’t push her to rush.
Once you know that a woman is ready to have s*x with you, asking her won’t seem like such a daunting task. You will feel more comfortable knowing that the chances of her agreeing will be higher once these signs become obvious.


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Whatever the reason may be, you can relax in knowing that you won’t have to second-guess yourself if you know her motives for the evening. Will she sleep with you or not? Here are the signs that she is ready to get the deed done.
READ MORE https://boewap..com.ng/2017/04/ways-to-know-ladies-who-have-no.html
1 She touches you in intimate places.
Hold up. I’m not saying that a woman will immediately grab your groin when the moment presents itself!
However, a woman can show that she is interested in taking your relationship to the next level if she openly touches uncommon areas of contact like your ears, neck, thighs, your torso or your feet.
The last one’s touched using her own feet, of course.
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2 She licks her lips over and over.
It could be a provocative plea that she is voluntarily doing or it may be a reflex reaction to the thoughts that she is currently having about you.
Not only is it seductive, but it’s a pretty good sign that she may be open to sleeping with you if you just ask.
READ ALSO https://boewap..com.ng/2017/04/ways-on-how-to-make-woman-run-after-you.html
3 She keeps mentioning s*x.
A woman will never mention s*x on her own accord unless she is willing to put it on the table.
By casually mentioning it in the conversation, she may be subtly saying that she is open to having s*x at some point while you’re dating.
READ MORE https://boewap..com.ng/2017/04/sign-on-how-to-know-that-your-partner.html
4 She wore an uncharacteristically provocative outfit on your date.
Any woman has the right to wear whatever she wants. If she wants to go unclad on your date because it’s her usual thing, it doesn’t immediately mean that she’s willing to sleep with you right then and there.
If, however, she usually dresses conservatively then suddenly wears a tiny red dress with a plunging neckline, she is probably starting to entertain the idea of hopping into bed with you.
5 She invites you inside her place.
It’s highly possible that this is her way of saying that she’s ready to sleep with you. Women usually leave it to the guy to ask if they can come up to their place and promptly reject them if they don’t feel like sleeping with the guy.
If they invited the guy themselves, it is usually an acknowledgement of their plans to finally seal the deal. Just remember that you may only get a make-out session or a glass of wine for your troubles if it pleases her.
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6 She seems a little too enthusiastic about your good-night kiss.
A passionate make-out session at her doorstep could serve as your opening. Not only is she in the mood, but it seems like she is ready to eat you up before you even get through the bedroom door.
Do her the courtesy of asking if she’s interested and take her to a bed where you can provide her needs privately – that is unless she wants to do it in public.
7 She seems turned on by a lot of things.
If she sounds more sensual than usual, you can bet that she’s ready for an intimate night with you. You can hear the ecstasy in someone’s voice when they are turned on and can see it in the way they move.
Her skin will feel really warm and her pupils will be dilated. Don’t ask to give her physical exam, but do pay attention to her the whole night.
Yes, a woman may seem ready for s*x; however, you should not presume that it’s a done deal even with the signs we’ve mentioned. It’s better to feel for the moment and ask when the timing is right.
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It’s okay if they don’t feel like it. You might have another chance in the future if you treat her right and don’t push her to rush.
Once you know that a woman is ready to have s*x with you, asking her won’t seem like such a daunting task. You will feel more comfortable knowing that the chances of her agreeing will be higher once these signs become obvious.


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Whatever the reason may be, you can relax in knowing that you won’t have to second-guess yourself if you know her motives for the evening. Will she sleep with you or not? Here are the signs that she is ready to get the deed done.
READ MORE https://boewap..com.ng/2017/04/ways-to-know-ladies-who-have-no.html
1 She touches you in intimate places.
Hold up. I’m not saying that a woman will immediately grab your groin when the moment presents itself!
However, a woman can show that she is interested in taking your relationship to the next level if she openly touches uncommon areas of contact like your ears, neck, thighs, your torso or your feet.
The last one’s touched using her own feet, of course.
READ ALSO https://boewap..com.ng/2017/04/something-men-really-does-not-love.html
2 She licks her lips over and over.
It could be a provocative plea that she is voluntarily doing or it may be a reflex reaction to the thoughts that she is currently having about you.
Not only is it seductive, but it’s a pretty good sign that she may be open to sleeping with you if you just ask.
READ ALSO https://boewap..com.ng/2017/04/ways-on-how-to-make-woman-run-after-you.html
3 She keeps mentioning s*x.
A woman will never mention s*x on her own accord unless she is willing to put it on the table.
By casually mentioning it in the conversation, she may be subtly saying that she is open to having s*x at some point while you’re dating.
READ MORE https://boewap..com.ng/2017/04/sign-on-how-to-know-that-your-partner.html
4 She wore an uncharacteristically provocative outfit on your date.
Any woman has the right to wear whatever she wants. If she wants to go unclad on your date because it’s her usual thing, it doesn’t immediately mean that she’s willing to sleep with you right then and there.
If, however, she usually dresses conservatively then suddenly wears a tiny red dress with a plunging neckline, she is probably starting to entertain the idea of hopping into bed with you.
5 She invites you inside her place.
It’s highly possible that this is her way of saying that she’s ready to sleep with you. Women usually leave it to the guy to ask if they can come up to their place and promptly reject them if they don’t feel like sleeping with the guy.
If they invited the guy themselves, it is usually an acknowledgement of their plans to finally seal the deal. Just remember that you may only get a make-out session or a glass of wine for your troubles if it pleases her.
READ MORE https://boewap..com.ng/2017/04/reason-why-men-could-not-have-sex-with.html
6 She seems a little too enthusiastic about your good-night kiss.
A passionate make-out session at her doorstep could serve as your opening. Not only is she in the mood, but it seems like she is ready to eat you up before you even get through the bedroom door.
Do her the courtesy of asking if she’s interested and take her to a bed where you can provide her needs privately – that is unless she wants to do it in public.
7 She seems turned on by a lot of things.
If she sounds more sensual than usual, you can bet that she’s ready for an intimate night with you. You can hear the ecstasy in someone’s voice when they are turned on and can see it in the way they move.
Her skin will feel really warm and her pupils will be dilated. Don’t ask to give her physical exam, but do pay attention to her the whole night.
Yes, a woman may seem ready for s*x; however, you should not presume that it’s a done deal even with the signs we’ve mentioned. It’s better to feel for the moment and ask when the timing is right.
READ ALSO https://boewap..com.ng/2017/05/things-woman-need-to-do-when-you-are.html
It’s okay if they don’t feel like it. You might have another chance in the future if you treat her right and don’t push her to rush.
Once you know that a woman is ready to have s*x with you, asking her won’t seem like such a daunting task. You will feel more comfortable knowing that the chances of her agreeing will be higher once these signs become obvious.


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You’ve probably realized by now life isn’t all rainbows and B.utterflies. And if you haven’t yet, you soon will. By the time you reach you late 20s and early 30s, the baggage starts to add up.
As you get older, you begin to accumulate stuff. Not more expensive kinds of face cream, that’s just physical baggage. The emotional Sh!t weighs much heavier. Your experiences, good and bad, start to take their toll.
By the time you reach 30, you pretty much accept that you’re screwed up beyond repair and that any potential mate is likely to be as well.
A complicated divorce? Baggage. Death of a parent? Baggage. An inconceivably manipulative ex that left him with an inferiority complex? Let’s not get started on that one.
If humans were half as efficient as machines, we’d erase the hard drive and start fresh. But that wouldn’t make us human. And as much as we’d all love our romantic partners to come without complications, the chances of that happening are close to zero.
While therapy, yoga, mindfulness and wine can cure most of the above nuisances, if you’re dating a man with kids there’s not enough chardonnay in the world to make it go away.
So be sensible, and don’t launch headlong into your new relationship with Pops until you’ve thought it through first.
Here are seven things you need to know about dating a man with kids:
1. You’ll Never Be His Top Priority
Having kids changes people in ways you’ll never understand until you have your own. This love is totally unconditional.
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Basically, your man has experienced a more intense kind of love than you and they were here first. This means you’ll never be his top priority.
If you’re used to your boyfriend putting your needs first, prepare yourself. He will leave you high and dry because his kid is complaining of a headache, or his ex can’t pick her up from school. On her day. Just when you’ve had a Brazilian.
2. You’ll Never Be Rid of The Ex
Speaking of exes, you’ll never be rid of his. You can’t because there are soccer practices to organize and parent/teacher conferences to go to. You’ll probably feel like he talks to his ex more than you and she might even haunt your dreams.
You can’t get mad about it because he’ll just pull out the kid card, so try to stay calm and keep your pangs of jealousy under control.
3. You Have A Constant Spy In The House
Dating a man with kids, or living with him, is like having a constant spy in the house. Before you know it, the fact that you burnt the enchiladas last night will go viral.
Your fights will be documented and dissected by his ex and her cronies at the gym. And forget about walking around Nakked or having $ex when you want to.
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You’re living in a prison of your own making. If you don’t want to be labeled as a child molester, keep your clothes on at all times, even in the shower. You will be burst in on in the bathroom and giggled at, and have your B00bs compared to Mommy’s.
4. You’ll Have No Authority
Having zero authority over his kids won’t seem like a problem in the beginning. After all, they’re not your kids. As you marvel over this new world of parenting, all you’ll care about is getting them on your side.
As the relationship progresses and you spend more time together, it’s hard to keep up the charade that you’re as enthusiastic about his children as he is.
Prepare yourself for the moment you try to teach them manners or ask them to turn the volume down. You’ll swiftly and sharply be reminded that you’re not their mom. You pretty much have no say over the remote control in your own home.
5. Your Opinion Won’t Count
As long as they can play the “you’re not my mom” trump card, your opinion will never count. Of course, you’re still expected to provide dinner, buy them things, babysit when you really don’t feel like it and get emotionally involved.
You know when your girlfriend puts you in the impossible position of answering honestly about how she looks in her new dress? Remember that now. Don’t be tempted to give your opinion, even when it’s asked.
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6. Your Vacations Will Never Look The Same Again
Expecting your vacation to be romantic and full of moonlit walks on the beach is just wrong. It won’t happen when you’re with a man and his children.
Your vacations will suddenly turn into kids’ camp. Instead of lying by the pool, you’ll have to be in it, participating in constant water sports or risk the backlash of moody children.
7. People Will Mistake You For The Mom (You’ll Secretly Like It)
It’s pretty cool when you’re out and people praise you on your beautiful children. It can be fun playing mom, knowing that you can give them back at the end. But if you secretly like it, watch out.
It won’t be long before all that role playing will make you ache inside and want kids of your own. When that happens, the loving, doting father you’re dating will declare how much he hates children and how he doesn’t want another.
You can’t help what the heart wants, so if you fall in love with a dad just please remember this: Spend more time acting like the adult than trying to best friends with the kids, and don’t give up on your friends or social life.


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