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Tommy34:
I'm a 22 years old boy who's been constantly torn apart from within, I have always been seen as the black sheep in the family, I mean everything I do comes back to haunt me. I finished secondary school 2013, took Jamb but didn't get through, then 2015 came and got a pre-degree form for Adekunle ajasin University located in Ondo. I scaled through the exams, got admitted but I need was to pass Jamb for the same year. I didn't make the cut off.
  I was so ashamed of myself but I believed I still had time, so I came up with a lie, what I was going to do was pretend I actually got admitted to the school, then with the money given to me, I would get another Jamb, pass it and be a student...
  Unluckily for me, I got found out by my cousin in school who told my family, now they are requesting for my matric number and password, which I don't have. I'm too deep in the lie to say the truth because I know I'm most likely going to be disowned (my dad has made that clear). Now I'm thinking about cutting ties, staying in school and try to come up with some money so I can really be in school and study.. only then can I tell them what happened.. I don't know, I'm pretty confused and would be grateful to any advice, I'm lost but I'm hoping to find my way..

I think your problem is consistent bad decisions, 1-starting from you not taking out time to study thoroughly for your exams, 2-not seeking help when you clearly need help (millions have passed JAMB, thousands of lesson centers all over), 3-lying about getting admission which is like deceiving yourself, 4- now you want to cut ties, another terrible decision in the offing which i want to strongly advice you against. please go home, knell down and tell your folks that you have been messing around (no bullshitting), understand that the intention of your parents is for you to be useful like your mates !!!! last but not the least, go closer to God (i suspect you have been running away from God)