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Mrs, Eve:
Obenda,

Let me just say this and I will leave you to it. Inkie can't speak for nobody but Inkie. Mrs. Eve can't speak for nobody but Mrs. Eve. Tpia can't speak for nobody but Tpia. So when you said if you represent African women why not share thoughts? That was some of the dumbest poo I ever heard. We are part of a woman's group but we ARE INDIVIDUALLY DIFFERENT. Got it?



There was a icon on that " representing Africa women", got it? But probably irony is not one of your gift. I started this topic just out of simple and sincere curiosity and because here where I live ther are nt so many bw to relate to ask. I thought that here in Naiaraland I could get back some feedback, wether positive or not. Instead I am faced with people that feel this topic very unwelcomed, i realise that each one of you, except few ones, are just thinking that I want to hook up some ladies here or stir some fight.

Well it is not like that.

You was irking my damn nerves.



I am sorry but it is not my fault if you aren't capable of see irony in my text, even if it is signalled by icons. Actually, reconsidering your extensive list of qualities in your ideal guy I relaise that irony and self-irony are missing. Something that I find indispensable in people, not only women.

Inked_Nerd:

::[/b]sighs[b]:: I understand what you're saying but there is no straight froward answer. For example , the stuff tpia1 mentioned aren't necessarily the things I may like in a caucasian man. Let me give you another example, I was on the train and I saw this tall handsome cauasian man with reddish blond hair and green eyes and I was immediately attracted to him. When i left the train and met my friend in the street, a causasian guy who was average height with with blond hair and I was also attracted to him [lol, he was trying to ask me out but I was totally oblivious  ]. Do you see how different the two men are? Personally for me, I have no preference what I look for in a causasian man. For you to be asking us women such a specific question makes no sense. I'm sorry if this isn't really answering your question but its the truth. What one African woman may like may be displeasure to another just as what you like as an Italian man may differed from what another Italian man may like. Its quite obvious that you don't represent all of Italy so why would you expect one of us to represent all of African. My personal tastes vary from men to men. For me, this is my ideal guy [regardless of their ethnicity], I like a man who possesses the qualities of a renaissance man--He’s self-assured, focused, disciplined, and responsible, yet knows how to let loose and have fun. His intellectual and career interests are balanced with cultural and physical activities. Comfortable in jeans or a tux, this action man throws himself into his pursuits and is willing to fail. In touch with and expressive of his emotions, he exudes compassion and warmth as he crosses social and ethnic boundaries. Gathering eclectic and diverse admirers, the Renaissance Man knows what qualities he’s looking for in a woman and is unlikely to be swayed.

Inked_Nerd:

Ok, I'm a bit confused here are you asking us women of Nairaland what we like as individuals or are you asking us to answer for African women as a whole? 

tpia1:
@poster

any clint eastwood type is ok.

jack black will also do.

are you trying to create a new tribe or what.



anyway, look here in hollywood:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-16765.0.html

Inked_Nerd:

A couple of us have given you an answer. Seems like you were looking for a more specific answer. Look, we're all different so our answers will vary--we're not robots or clones that just spit out one specific answer. All I can say is, if[b]/[/b]when you meet an African woman, just be yourself. If at some point in time she mentions where she's from then perhaps you can do some research on her county's culture to help you get to know her better [culturally speaking].

Uyi Iredia:
no ! there are interesting ladies on Nairaland >>> that you don't meet them doesn't mean they aren't there >>> the thing is that you are new >>> post around and get attention >>> when you bring up this kind of topic >>> you'll be suprised at the response >>> PEACE

190:
[color=#dd0011]Yeah yeah go 2 london,
Its not far away,

Not Nairaland[/color]

Uyi Iredia:
why don't you try hookin' up a lady on Nairaland >>> first hand experience is really what counts

@ topic >>> i do no think there is anything unique that BW need to see in a white dude >>> i surmise they look for what any lady wants trust and affection

obenda:
There are not black women here to socialize with. period.

Carolece:
It doesnt really matter what people may think here. What you should do is make social friendship with a black female there and ask those questions of her.