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Bridge they constructed without safety measures on incoming vehicles from abakiliki, I was returning from ebonyi at midnight on heavy rainfall only to crash on this yeye bridge, no signs no warnings just a big hole in the middle of the road.
Spits on the government!!!

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Trump on Iran:

The current Iranian leadership are very rational people. They are nice to deal with; they are strong and smart people.

They are not radicalized, and they are looking to help their country. pic.twitter.com/L7citKNPi5

— Clash Report (@clashreport) June 16, 2026

don humble this man pkatapkata

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Trump on Iran:

I don't believe in regime change. I've watched regime changes for years, and they never work.

It has to just happen. pic.twitter.com/odSL1kcUoO

— Clash Report (@clashreport) June 16, 2026

getting humbled he realized

23jerryking:
Being a soldier has to be the hardest job on earth. You die for nothing. I mean, what was the point of the war? School children killed, Indian sailors killed in a strike against a vessel. Soldiers died too, in the end the people who started it are signing papers and shaking hands.

I’m pain even though it has nothing to do with me, imagine how the loved ones will feel.
For the dead soldiers it’s a complete betrayal from trump

No sane person comes to unknown persons crib just like that except hookups, give them hookup vibes and do transactions

Deity will be so ashamed of them even if they were to be real, an insult to deity.
These monarchies are highly corrupt and part of the reason for insecurity in the first place

Fake story
Buuuulssssssshhhhhiiiiit

ibedun:
Thank GOD!!! Young Nigerians don begin to get sense.

This scenario is responsible for nearly 90% of the economic and social problems besetting this country. Nigeria made 8.5 babies in 2025 (quoting Dangote, Rwanda) whilst the entire continent of Europe made a total of 6.4 babies (a big portion are children of immigrants).

Totally unsustainable and seriously irresponsible. We don’t have any factories and we are no longer farming. We have mass unemployment and mass poverty mixed together. Everybody blaming “government”.

I pity any foolish man who puts himself into this situation. And most of these men die before they hit 60-65 due to stresses and hard life.

Someone sees it too, most of these men die early and leave the wife and plenty kids in abject poverty(this is according to my vicinity), life is something meant to be enjoyed from day 1 to the end cause it already came with it’s own natural pain, struggling and suffering but instead we are choosing to add more to it

Society conditioned people to think marriage and having kids is an achievement and if you don’t get married or have kids no one will be with you in your old age

I may break this rule if I don’t make it, no kids and dying alone is far better than generational suffering

Look Nigeria for example, high poverty rate, high population, no employment, life has no value, and it keeps getting worse

Tales by moonlight, your story is hard to swallow

People are slaving and dying while politicians are enjoying luxury Lifestyle and nobody is absolutely doing anything
We sit quietly and watch calamity happening in our own eyes, I’m wondering if this life is even real

Nothing except being unbeatable in arguments according to people though

Ok I think the government should look more on creativity and not just funding infrastructures they cannot maintain or manage properly, can an average person even afford that

Protest doesn’t solve anything

We’re holding ourselves down, a country that should have been divided into uncountable number

Na economy go still dictate his selling price and that’s where the problem comes
Either he has frozen store for chicken storage or farm feed materials himself in a vast land, if he hopes on buyers after they’re ready to be sold then he’s screwed

France 1
Spain. 2
Argentina 3
Norway 4

Portugal will be out of group stages after a penalty miss by Ronaldo

Fake stats
There’s nothing real about hiv, if there is then half Nigeria’s population would have been gone since it started

Football will shock you to the core and you’ll shiver down to your spine

If you’re to do this then forget about it, you’re never getting married, just don’t get the one that’ll send you straight to grave

Thought men are warned every day on nairaland about issues with women, you are suppose to get her pregnant before advancing into marriage

oarowosola:
Honestly, you guys are funny as hell. Some of the roasts had me laughing, some were annoying, but overall I enjoyed reading the comments.

But one thing I need people to understand is this, I didn’t come here because I was looking for relationship advice. At the point I made that first post, my mind was already made up. I was already mentally done with the relationship long before I even typed anything.

The reason I shared the story was mostly because I was exhausted mentally, and I also wanted people to see how extreme certain situations can get in relationships. Sometimes people think you’re exaggerating until you start explaining the details.

Truth be told, this breakup didn’t happen overnight.

I had already been thinking about ending things for a very long time. The only thing holding me back was the fact that she is actually an amazing person in some ways. She has a soft heart, and I knew breaking up with her was going to hurt her deeply, so I kept trying to find the best possible way to do it without completely destroying her emotionally.

But the events of that final weekend just pushed me over the edge.

The way she left my kitchen after staying over, combined with everything that happened the night before, was what finally made me snap internally. It wasn’t that I suddenly realized all the issues that day. No. Those things had been building up in my mind for months.

Before I eventually sent the breakup message, I had already started emotionally withdrawing from the relationship. I stopped calling as much, stopped texting often, and stopped engaging the way I used to. She noticed it too. She kept asking what was wrong, and I would just say I’m fine, even though she knew something was clearly off.

Eventually I realized I couldn’t keep dragging it out forever. I didn’t want to keep pretending while mentally checking out. So I finally sent her a message telling her I was no longer interested in continuing the relationship.

At first, she was shocked.

She kept asking how someone could end a relationship of over a year through text without explanation. She asked if there was another person involved. She begged me not to ignore her. She said she was trying to stay calm because she was outside in public.

Honestly, reading those messages affected me because despite everything, I’m still human. I’m not heartless.

So instead of completely shutting her out, I told her we could talk later because I was busy with work at that moment.

Later that night, I finally picked up her call.

And for the first time, I explained everything fully.

I explained how draining the relationship had become for me mentally. I explained how uncomfortable I constantly felt because of the difference in our lifestyles, hygiene, responsibilities, communication patterns, effort, and overall approach to life.

I explained the incidents that stayed in my head for months, the constant untidiness, the dirty environments, the financial imbalance, the times I felt taken for granted, the moments I cleaned her entire house just to prove that basic cleanliness was not impossible.

And no, cleaning her house was never a sign of weakness or simping to me.

I did it because I loved her.

I genuinely believed maybe if I showed her how simple it was to maintain a clean environment, things would improve. That was all. But instead, things kept repeating themselves over and over again.

I also explained how frustrating it felt to constantly give financially, emotionally, and physically while feeling like the same level of thoughtfulness wasn’t being returned consistently.

By the end of the call, she broke down crying and started apologizing repeatedly. She begged me to give her another chance. She promised she would change. She promised she would work on herself and become better.

And honestly… I softened.

Maybe because deep down, despite everything, I still cared about her.

So I gave her another chance, but I made myself very clear.

I told her this wasn’t about pretending for one week or acting differently temporarily because she got called out. I told her real change has to become natural. Cleanliness, responsibility, effort, and self awareness cannot be something you perform temporarily just to save a relationship.

I told her:

“Please change for yourself, for your future kids, and for me too. Don’t just act differently now and later return to old habits. Let it become part of you naturally.

As a lady, I honestly expected you to even be correcting me on certain things, not the other way around. I’m putting a lot on the line emotionally, and I don’t want to regret my decisions later in life.

I’m not saying this like I’m doing you a favor. There are billions of men better than me, just like there are women better than you. Nobody is irreplaceable. But while two people are trying to build something meaningful together, both people should be actively working on themselves.

You are free to call out my own flaws too because I’m not a perfect human being. Relationships are supposed to be about growth, accountability, and complementing each other. The moment two people stop growing and start merely tolerating bad patterns, the relationship slowly becomes exhausting instead of peaceful.”


So yeah… that’s the full update.

Some people roasted me in the first post. Some understood me immediately. Some thought I was overreacting. Some thought I was being too soft.

But at the end of the day, nobody truly understands how emotionally draining a relationship can become until they experience living inside that reality themselves.

Previous thread https:// www.nairaland.com/8677133/cleaned-girlfriends-house-instantly-wanted

You’re very madth if you think she’s gonna change, in fact she’ll revenge you when the time comes, bossing her around in the name of trying to change her. People don’t change they pretend as long as they’re kept in check but how long can you boss her in check



If she truly wants to change it shouldn’t be with you, it’s a game over on your side

The matrix doings, they don’t want him anymore in their country

taxiappguy:
And this, ladies and gentlemen is how Nigerians think!

It’s not mentality, it’s the reality

monex:
Your first instinct is to stereotype and demonize the late victim. You are despicable !!!

But We’re living in demonic society

Stayingalive:
you know something about this

You’re the culprit

Hookup gone wrong, the sex ministry section should do something about this

We’re not scared anymore, their game has been exposed, corona vanished in thin air, it’s all game plan, conspiracy + propaganda = agenda achieved, it’s obvious Nigerian government must participate in Ebola fraud crisis and containment

Neoteny:
Sigh

This is why Africans will never achieve anything.

I guess when the Spanish Flu wiped out 1% of the global population, or the Black Death killed almost all of Europe it was still a white conspiracy.

And how was it contained? Propaganda and conspiracy to spread an agenda for their benefit while eliminating their enemies

They are tired of government propaganda, that’s how coronavirus disappeared in thin air, the so called mighty killer hiv is no where to be found even though they keep telling us how dangerous it is and many people are living with it.
Ebola is just another fiction virus, these people are in society experimenting a biological weapon in Congo using innocent people and telling them lies, variants kee una dia

content creators with fake stories but it sounds real though

Anatomy of weak men written by weak men