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My wife and I have three kids. I knew that I wa AS b4 Marriage. But my wife told me she was AA and foolishly, I did not go for further test to confirm it. I was happy. We had our first baby a girl with AS. I did not check d GT of my 2nd baby girl thinking she would either be AA or AS. I had my last born a girl too. Very healthy untill she was almost 3 yrs old when she fell sick and was groaning in pains. We had to go n check her GT. She turned out to be SS. That forced me to check the 2nd born's GT too and she came out SS. I have to give them extra care. I didn't plan to have more than 3 kids irrespective of their sexes but with this situation, I only have one healthy child. I intend to try another chance but I am scared. I need advice on how I can escape another child with SS. An option is get a baby mama outside without the knowledge of my wife and face the consequences. I discussed issue of adoption with my wife she disagreed. My wife is in her late 30s while I am 41. Pls, I need candid advice. Grateful