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Hello, I myself am in love with a married, however I know he'll will not leave his wife until his kids are grown. I've decided that it is not healthy for either one of us. We are remaining friends and if something should happen in the future, so be it. For now I am getting on with my life. I will not be the other woman and I made that very clear to him. He understands. It was very hard and broke my heart, but after a day or so I feel much better. I've known this man for over 20 years and turned him down 3 times, well now its too late. He is still very much in love with me, but I refused to break up his family. I told him I didn't think it would be healthy for him to call me or email me all the time if he wants his marriage to work. As with most of my friends, he is staying in it for the "kids". I think that is stupid, but I wouldn't tell him that. I am on to bigger and better things. I'll always love this man, but there are way too many others out there who are not married. So give him up, it will hurt, but you'll feel better in the long run. If he really wanted to leave his wife he already would have before he began an affair! Good luck and stay strong, Listen to the song "STAY" by Sugarland, Its great!