₦airaland Forum

My 53 year old mom has Been dating a 28 year old Nigerian for 3 year now. He begged and begged her to meet him from a dating site and she declined and he just kept begging and now here we are 3 years later.hes been In America about 10 years now and lives with his mother and brothers all Nigerian.anyway I know he is using my mom for her money.ive done the math and my mom pulls in about 5 k after taxes a month and still lives paycheck to paycheck and has not a cent left after each month.ive never brought it up to her directly but indirectly ive asked where's all your money go and she says things but they don't add up. I live with my Mom so it's easy to see she's about 2,000 short a month. So unless she's flushing it down the toilet she's giving it to him.i know Nigerians are obsessed with money and I think he fakes being in love for the money but love is blind to my mom. A guy who's good looking and muscular whos almost 30 years younger likes her that's all she sees. What should I do?