₦airaland Forum

OkaNaUbe:
gay porn??. Yuck!

When we have fine, ukwulicious and slim, tall and short, educated ladies tempting to touch?

What you like may not be what someone else likes. O so ndi, o wee ndi.

Many gay guys are actually repulsed at the sight of a vagin.a. On the other hand, straight men's body undergo chemistry when exposed to a vagina. Different stroke for different folks

thecommunist:
is it necessary to come out openly as GAY? Heterosexual people dont come out to declare their sexual orientation so why must homosexual ppl? why cant you gay your nonsense gay in private, must you drag your family into this...this is one selfish child.no thoughts whatsoever of what the poor mother is going through. i mean...this is Nigeria and we are not yet at the stage of accepting homosexuality, think of your family now. if your parents were based in a society that would accept it and wont ostracize them , fine, but they are in Nigeria for petes sake, think of them now!. i think sex is overrated, homosexual or heterosexual.
we should learn to keep our sexuality private.

Not necessary but some lgbt people choose to come out as a way of disseminating awareness to heterosexual people that lgbt people exist and to increase their understanding of other people different from them (straight people). Some heterosexual people in Nigeria have never met nor known an lgbt person before nor understand the true meaning of sexuality. With more and more coming outs like this, Nigerians will start to get more and more comfortable with and understanding of the diversity of human sexuality.

kingthreat:
Sexuality is a choice you retardéd cumdrinker. No one is born gay. I wish your father was born gay, i wont have to reply your trash.

If sexuality was a choice, can you tomorrow automatically start liking and being sexually attracted to guys? Would you tomorrow wake up and get sexually excited at the sight of another attractive guy?

Do you remember making a conscious decision many years ago to be attracted exclusively only to girls and not guys?

Bobrisky, Paul is as straight as an arrow. He's a no-go area.

filleSouriante:
Please am really confused here. How come this gay dem used to know from childhood?. All of them b saying they be fighting it since childhood. [b]I tot being gay or lesbian is a life u choose deliberately [/b]and not because you don't have what other straight guys have

Not so. You see, for us it is a different experience. For most gay (not bisexual) people, we realize very early at as age 8, 9 or 10 that our feelings for the opposite sex are dead but with the same sex it is automatic. We are no different from straight people only that we don't naturally like what heterosexuals like. Forcing a gay man to marry a woman is like forcing you to marry a man you have no feelings for. You manage the situation/marriage and you two may become best friends at best but the internal happiness/satisfaction will not be there.

Hello LagosNIV,

Good evening. I have been a silent follower of this thread and first want to say thank you for assisting many people here with their questions. I have an issue that has been bothering me. Few months back I had my F1 visa interview which an agent helped me to prepare for. My visa was originally granted but later denied few weeks after because the visa officer discovered that the bank statement, which the agent gave to me, was a fake one. The embassy returned my passport to me blank.

In my excitement and out of trust I trusted the agent but he spoiled my dreams of studying abroad and I have since learnt my lessons not to use an agent again. The embassy did not tell me verbally or give me anything in writing saying that I have been denied permanently/subject to lifetime ineligibility. Am I possibly subject to lifetime ineligibility? Please what are my chances of reapplying again, this time by myself? If possible, how soon can I file for a waiver?

Thank you sir/ma.