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Hello I have started searching for Job openings in hospitals. But I don't have any experience searching for a job. I have called some hospitals and have been given the HR email or contact information. How else can I go about it? Do I go hospital to hospital to ask questions physically? Is there something about job search I may not be aware of? Any advice will be appreciated. Thank you

Drone95:
You can get a carer job, if you are more determined the money you get there can be used to obtain a diploma in medical imaging/ultrasound in colleges of health tech, sonographers earn nothing less than 80 to 200k

Okay thank you. I will try to look for agencies or clinics around with job openings

SmileDance:
Where did you study to be an healthcare assistant

At a career college in Lagos. It is not a ND

Hello everyone. I don't have much money to further train in school. I am not sure what I want to do. I am contemplating learning tailoring but wanted to know if my diploma can get me any good job. Will places like yaba psychiatric hospital employ someone with my certificate as an assistant nurse? What can I do/ learn now? Are there also any online courses I can take that can help me? Any advice will be appreciated.

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DrAda:
Strange... Adas are the ones who give orders and others follow.

I am not the firstborn. I have older siblings but I am the first female child so I can't give orders to my seniors. My younger ones are treated as last born babies of the house so I can't do much there. Some people misunderstood my use of first daughter to mean I was a firstborn but I'm not.

I feel so tired of being a first daughter. It feels my life is full of running errands and doing things for everyone but myself. I feel like a servant. I don't know who I am or my what I want to do in life. Im at home all day doing nothing but serving others. I feel so sad and tired of it whenever I remember I will still have to do it all again tomorrow not knowing when this will all end.

I see my siblings moving forward in life and I only have a Highschool certificate. My father didnt train me in school and frustrated all my mother's attempts to further my education. Yet all my siblings were put in school. I don't even have the time or mental space to run a business.

I want to leave and be on my own. I want to be able to hear myself. I want to wake up in the morning not thinking of what others will eat or errands that need to be ran. I don't want to think of lunch or dinner or worry about anyone else but myself. I don't even want to hear my name because it is always followed by one request or the other.

This holiday season I kept on thinking about how much I didn't want any family or guests to come visit because it would only mean more work for me. I would be the one living in the kitchen running around like a maid. It makes me feel so ashamed and less than. When people at home remember my running around they then start with the praises "Oh what would we do without you?", "Our second mother." "So hard working, what a strong girl." I don't want any of those praises. They make me feel worse because I don't do any of this by choice. I don't care for compliments for something I have no option but to do. Would any of them still say good things about me if I decided I was tired of living like this, of being at their beck and call? I want to be left alone. Because of these feelings I don't have any desire to have children. The thought of living like this again taking care of children makes me sad and I feel tired at the thought. I feel drained physically, emotionally and mentally. Sometimes I wonder if this is how it feels for all children and if I am just not cut out for this.