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Thanks a lot boss

dreamxhaser:
@og316 and Joeeee240,

Let me answer your question.

Well, I learned a lot about women's nature and psychology in this thread. So, this will be more of a summary and how I use them.

There is no set pattern to use them; just be aware of them when you put on your "red pill glasses." Then, as a man, you use logic (while keeping in mind that women are emotional) to determine your next step.

But in most cases, what my friend and I do is:

1. During our first conversation, be it a call or physical (excluding chats), we make sure we give off that aura of "I don't give a f***." If the mission clicks, good; if it doesn’t click, still good.

We also make sure to control the conversation flow. Yeah, what I’ve noticed is, once you give women the privilege to control the flow of your conversation, that’s when you start hearing things like, “my man must do this,” “my man must do that,” “I don’t like that.”

Be the boss; control the conversation. Don’t just shut her out, let it flow naturally.

2. After you have established control, then you use their game on them. How? Well, you’ve got to set your standards, but it should be done in a way she won’t notice you are trying to manipulate her. Make her feel like you are the prize, and she can’t easily get you.

What I usually do is try to make her insecure and destroy her ego.

Example: If she’s fair-skinned or, let’s say, under 20 years old, during the conversation, I will say something like, “I don’t usually date light-skinned women because of reasons I can’t mention,” or “I find girls under 20 kind of childish.”

Then, you top it up with something like, “But your vibe is kind of different, but I’ll still be observing you,” or “I hope you prove me wrong though.”

This creates some kind of orientation in their brain that they have to prove themselves to you.

After that, don’t think much about it; don’t be needy or clingy; be patient. With women, it’s always about patience. I usually continue the vibe on chat until the next time I feel like calling them.

I will continue with the next phase/steps later. I am kind of busy now.

Bro can you kindly teach me you and your friend game?....i really wanna learn this game

dreamxhaser:
@ Groupoid continuation of the first

Bro, I became so obsessed with her that she started to treat me like trash. Man, even with my money! She really gave me a hard time. I was so mentally low that it affected my education and my hustle.

I was no longer improving myself; I was regressing financially, my social life was dying, and my game was dead.

I started to see her as the only option I could get.

Then, later, I started to realize this woman was probably running some underground scheme (allegedly). You'd expect me to man up and leave her! Well, I didn’t. In fact, if I mentioned what this girl did to me, with my own money, you guys would all laugh at me.

My other friend, on the other hand, had become so good with women that he was sleeping with them left and right without spending a dime. The good thing was he was always there and preached how I should go back to exploring more.

So, I started to go back to exploring more, but those women were still using me. I wasn’t getting them like I used to; my game was dead, and they all saw me as a pushover.

But my friend, who had gotten so good at the game, started to teach me a thing or two. Then, I came on this thread and learned some things about women's nature. I applied it, and guess what? They were all accurate.

I continued to develop, this time with more red-pill knowledge. Man! I've turned into a bad boy like this! I swear, if you give me 10 girls now, I will mess with their mental state and sleep with 7 of them easily without having to invest much.

Though I now have another girlfriend! What I did was to make sure that girl loves me more than I love her. The girl is so obsessed with me, man! She treats me like a king! No "billing" or anything. I didn't really care for the girl before. But from what I’ve gathered here, go for a woman who loves you more than you love her, like she has genuine desire for you from the start. Well, that’s the case with my new girlfriend.

Also! I’ve improved myself so much that my ex is now obsessed with me. Lol, it’s obvious. In fact, it’s just a matter of time before she slides into my DMs.

What you should understand is… Money is very important because it helps you command respect and maintain your style, especially after a breakup.

But you see that game! Man, if you don’t know the game, women will milk you and dump you.

Bro, chase both game and money! Don’t go for a relationship now; just chase the bag, improve yourself while testing the waters with these women and sharpening your red-pill skills. I know what I’m telling you. Money is necessary but never enough!


Special Thanks to all the mentors here! You’ve saved a brother

Wow....d post you quoted is exactly my life story except i was already shy and reserved growing up
as a child but now it is worse...I avoid going out and social interactions like a vampire avoids sunlight

trium:
A lot of introverts are on Nairaland. You will know them by their posts. I remember when someone on this thread posted about introverts:

Alright no wahala boss

ElasmoBranchii:
Yeah so I'm not ready to share the post yet. I'm still working on it but the least i can say is it's playful banter. It's kinda of like what you do with your guys but with girls you might have to tone it down a little.

The difference between it and an insult is the tone of your voice and also you say it with a smile.

That's how I build rapport with girls I approach, and with girls in general.

When I share the post you will understand better.

At the bolded, could you please explain how

ElasmoBranchii:
Yeah I think that's it. I even have a post that I have worked on and saved that explains my own way to covertly communicate the IDGAF attitude.

I just want him to explain what his own way is so that we can learn and understand better and maybe add to ours.

Lol...i like dis ur perspective...Truly d guy no get her time...he dey deal with family issues.
When he get her time, he fit end her and her generations but i doubt the plot will go that way.

Emekus92:
We all know she won’t back down.

When she or her family get killed hope you won’t say it’s a cruel writing.

The jackal knows her he don’t just have time for her. If she goes to Spain and he finds out then he will have her time

Guy e be like you hate d character pass me

pu7pl3:
Yea, bro and she needs to lose one more thing...her life

Nahhh i will still blame him...his client escaped assassination by luck d first time and am sure they must have briefed him about hw d jackal waited patiently for two days inside one cramped spot just to finish his job....you should expect that kind of person at any time....am not really blaming him for udc death like you said his gay lover sentenced him to death through motivational talk, just the whole security was just shabby....only d guy that was in water with perform him duty

Remmedy:
I don’t blame the guy

Bro nobody expected it to happen at his home

Everybody expected it like outside maybe during the launch .. the guy to me was good ..

It was UDC gay lover that caused his death
Always undermining the chief security instructions

Even in the day of the launch the Mumu was encouraging UDC to go swim even against security advice … say na routine

bolu96:
Precision has always been his modus operandi. Remember when Bianca was reading the news of the crime boss killed. They use the word precision and skill which gave her a clue that it might be the Jackal.

Patience is a strong suit of him.

A man as patient as the jackal is a dangerous man...D guy fit wait 10yrs to kill you

Lolz....i agree say d guy stubborn but the head of security knew what he signed up for.
He can't stay underwater for long na, he has to catch his breath na why d jackal dey count ten secs for him...Guess all dat previous swimming no teach am any lesson or tricks
As for bianca, i no like d character at all...i thought she would match him aura for aura or at least something close but am not feeling d character at all and she sef no help her self with that annoying trouser she keeps wearing.
Ur last paragraph na wetin pain me for the UDC guy...he don get the feeling from last night till morning say something go happen and he no wan swim until d boyfriend come motivate am to his death...all dis motivational speakers if dem neva kill one others no go rest

Jarchi:
Make head security go chop head stray from one of the best because he wan protect one mumu client he has always warned about his dangerous adventures. Stay under water mumu no hear, instead make he use dead security as bulletproof he dey ride solo for one of the most precise sniper, asin sniper. But why them no get sniper for roof? That him Agege Judas wants him dead.
Why couldn't he release it earlier, must it be that day? Learn from Musk who does and fix weird time. Man has no time for impossible, if you can't then go let me find someone who can.

That Bianca has taken it personal. They killed the operation but you still want to pursue it at the detriment of your family and career with no back story to tell us why she is persistent. It makes no sense to me. Now Alvaro don give you work again. If she no die for this series, I no go happy.

Jackal has made no mistake, you think the force don't know about him? Them classified his document still hide some details, even when Bianca tell him oga, oga whey don know B4 just dey look her. He easy to dey run international flight with different passport without all these secrets agency knowing? Man has backup for his family, na him life and extended family go chop blow.

Always listen to you, life is personal. If you listen to your heart abi na mind or spirit, you no go misroad like UDC

First, the security team already noticed a boat and knew that the owner of the boat has never stayed to fish on the water at least they could have sent like two jetski to make sure all is well before allowing UDC to go swim but i guess na tvshow and d plot must move forward sometimes by foolish decisions of people like the head of security....Now that i think of it, in real life people do make foolish decisions all the time.

Achilles100:
Seeeee, that's what I have been saying, person dey tell me say make I go write my own story. Lmao.

Anyone with a working eyes and functioning brain knows there is much more he could have done to help UDC even though it might not stop the death.

Baba already had a feeling say he go die....that why he didn't want to swim at first until his husband abi wife ginger him...some people na akoba dem be

OhBritannia:
The day of the jackal episode 9 is a solid 8/10 for me.
This is a peak and a very intensed episode.
The killing of Udc was inevitable, immediately he got into the water, that was it!! There was no escaping at all.
If not for the little disturbance that the jackal encountered, all it could have taken to kill Udc was a single shot.

My own concern is that the jackal has made a mistake by killing the Spanish gangster his brother in law wanted to introduce him to, that has now shifted the eyes of international police and Mi6 to Spain and the location and definitely his brother in law will be interrogated.
I will like to see how he will get out of that one and coupled with the fact that Udc securities are giving him the chase of his life.

Perhaps he already planned a way out with his wife ( she loves him too much to leave him) so i guess we will have to find out in the episode finali next week.

Make that head of security just go retire...D guy no sabi work at all

Achilles100:
The Day of the Jackal

See as Alvaro werey don out the Jackal for wahala. After all the money he stole, he still wants to introduce Alex to gang life. I know Bianca isn't even going to Croatia, na straight to Spain and that Alvaro go fork up for the interview. Too sure. Too bad for Alex, blud wanted to maintain work/life balance but not anymore.

Now that ending:

While the execution from Alex was flawless, the response from the security team is questionable

After identifying that there is a gunman on the boat, if they had sent out all or should I say some of the speed boats and jet ski they had, not sending one by one, that would have thrown Alex off, just as they did when the delivery boat for supplies came.


As a security personnel, part of the job is to take bullet for your client, Oloshi head of security dey tell UDC to stay under water as na fish e dey. Baba dey fear for his life, but as soon as UDC collect bullet, na den Baba remember to dive inside water.

Hii Guys does anybody here know if OOU university accepts 2.2 for direct entry into pharmacy?

Good evening guys, I plan on using direct entry to enter for pharmacy in OOU University but I finished with a 2.2 and I am not sure if they they accept 2.2....I just want you guys to advice me if I should still proceed with the direct entry or I should just write utme afresh.....I would really appreciate advice from you guys.
Thanks

Thanks Rizzputin i really appreciate your response but how can an average guy inspire lust in girls....sorry if my question looks dumb

Rizzputin:
Good game is simply seducing a woman effectively & fùcking her in as little time and with little effort/resources as possible by STIMULATING her emotions

As a man you have time & money as your main resources. If you spend long amounts of time or used money to have sex with a woman... then that is by definition bad game.


Now there are the stages of game:

---First. At this stage, you successfully seduce her & fùck her

---Second. This stage, you keep her coming back for more. This is where you retain girls and put them on rotation.. the more girls you have the more enjoyable a rotation. The more times a woman fùcks the more invested she is


--Third... Keeping one or more multiple women loyal to only you in relationships for long periods of time (anything more than 5 years). This is the pinnacle of game. The ability to keep one or more woman loyal to you both physically and emotionally while you enjoy the pleasures of other women. Anything below 5 years doesn't count. Below 5 years is honey moon phase. Things are still going reasonably well... and things still feel novel. From 6 years onwards that's when the real game begins.

2 years is when most men fall off. 6th year about 80% of men fall off. By the 9th year only less than 5% of men can keep a woman loyal, devoted and excited.

To continue....

Good game requires you ACTUALLY meet women (online, during day, at night, social circle, events, schools) etc. The more experience you have with women, the better your understanding

Good game also requires your meet to fùck ratio should be solid. Meaning if you meet 10 women, you should sleep anywhere from 4 to 7 of them consistently. And they must be good looking. Fat girls or ugly girls do not count. Very Low status girls do not count too.

Regarding your question around learning game... you want to be able to create and maintain sexual tension... you want her to lust over you. BECAUSE if there's no lust then there's no love

90% of the time when a girl says "I'm no longer feeling my bf anymore" or "I no longer find him sexually attractive" it is BECAUSE her lust for him has died.


Recently, I met a girl a church good girl who promised God she'd never give blow jobs or fùck till she's ready (fiance or husband). She showed me her book where she wrote everything. And said she has kissed before and she takes these things very seriously.

Fantastic. Of course, I knew when a woman has immense lust for you... She'll do ANYTHING.

After we spent some time together, guess what she was doing? She sucked my dìck soo hard and her excuse was "I don't know what came over me" After we bleeped (she was a virgin) she cried that she has broken her promise to God. She was crying so much I had to console her and let her know sooner or later it would have happened and she's not a bad person.

Of course, after the whole consoling we fùcked again and made real love( one of my sweetest love making experiences)

I'm telling you this because lust is what she wants to feel towards you.

Female intimacy gadget industry is about $20 billion. Why? Because majority of what women fantasize about is how to get fùcked & used in the bedroom.

Once you inspire lust in her... She'll be grateful for you

Alright thanks a lot bro

Philosopher1979:
Lack of understanding of game is the root of simping. It i
Check pukkalo's profile on nairaland.
He teaches game in his writings

Abeg is there anybody that can teach or explain game to me or refer me to sources that can....that seems to be one part of the redpill I don't understand

Okay so hw can we influence their emotions to our own benefit

Rizzputin:
Guys women are driven by emotions. Not your money. Not your cars. Not handsomeness. Women love emotions and it's one thing they can never get tired of

That's why horniness, anger, tests and drama are things that WILL NEVER go away.

The more you make a woman feel, the harder it is for her to leave. Making her feel starts from when you first meet her

Boss abeg come teach me game

Rizzputin:
First of all, "hello" is a terrible conversational starter. Most girls will ignore you and rightfully so. Tonight I'll post a comment here on the various mentality checkpoints a woman has before she bleeps you.

Second, a HUGE part of game is curiosity, intrigue and being DIFFERENT. If you can do these effectively, women will beg for your dìck

So what can guys do

Philosopher1979:
The issue is
Most women are aware of the game even before it started.
See they started toasting most girls between the ages of 13 to 18.
My nusc girlfriend said she was first toasted at 13.
Pick up artistry does not surprise girls. If u try it on a random girl on the street you will hear stiff like "sorry, I'm busy". If she like you she might just say "OK let's talk". They are aware before u even start toasting them.
A 24 year old simp trying to toast a girl is at a huge disadvantage. That 22 year old girl u are simping for has 4 boyfriends, gets toasted 10btimes a year and is just looking at ublikebu are no big deal. She is too experienced and if u don't have game, she will just exploit the guy.
If u are trying to toast a girl, she might just give u let us go straight to the point vibes. The game is rigged and most girls are too experienced.
When I talk to most girls
Me: hello
Girl: look I'm busy, I don't have time. Please just allow
Me: okay let's just have your number
Girl: she gives me her number or she just says don't bother u are wasting your time.
.I pity a 24 year old simp toasting one 23 year old girl with 4 boyfriends. She might reject him or just exploitvhim for money.
Girls are too experienced for most guys tonhandle
Also, most girls have an idea of the kind of guy they want. Some firms like tall guys so a short guy maybe wasting hus time.
Girls have too much experience. We guys don't know game and have to grow into it. A girl that met u us already thinking. CN I give him sex when will he asl for sex, should I just exploit him. OK let me entertain myself. Let's hear him entertain us.
Most guys are too naive and inexperienced with all sorts of blue pill .over.
A girl that does not like u might just ask for 70000 naira to see if she can exploit u and manage u if u have coins or hust try anything. Most guys are at the mercy of the girl thy are toasting. She can try anything and the guy will be afrid

I wanna join too bro

Martinez39s:
@Rillycool

I will do the same with you. The group has been existing for a couple of years now, and most of the members have known each other for a long time. You will enjoy the group with time.

I will reach out to you and JESHAL007 tomorrow.

Understood but hw can i learn this game or get more understanding on what attracts women to men

Philosopher1979:
The solution is game or more appropriately understanding what attracts women to men. The issue with us guys is that what makes no sense to us is attractive to ladies. Things like romantic text messages.
Now game us in two stages
1. Why as expounded by ubunja. Ubunja goes into female psychology and makes us know how they think.
2. What as expounded by pukkalo. Pukkalo just tells you simple things to do in order to get laid without spending a fortune on ladies.
Now let me tell you an example of what and why.
You have heard that ladies like traveling to meet guys on Facebook for sex. That is pukkalo of what
The reason is that women love sex but they don't want to be shamed for it or have their reputation damaged. As a result, they prefer being dirty and sexy with strangers or travelling to far places for it as those people are strangers who won't tell anybody. This is why women love men who don't kiss and tell. That is. Men who will commit immorality with ladies but be very secretive about it. Men like that get a lot of pusdy. By the way this is how paternity fraud can happen. I men a married woman can find a man who is discrete and engage in an affair for years. This explains the why of ubunjA. Also if you can make a lady realize you won't shame her for expressing her sexuality to you, you will go far with her sexually. Pukkalo calls it making a lady sexually comfortable.
So just get simple tips. Ladies are not complicated. Just get the what and why

So what do you think is the solution or make person just forget girls

Kipaji:
I will address this issue.
The redpill forgets that most women just don't give a shit about most men.
Most men don't have any woman checking for them. A lot of men don't have any woman showing attraction to them. Asking these men to go for women who have passion for them is basically asking them the impossible because they don't have such women.
It is wise that a man must choose the woman who chooses him. But what if NO woman chooses him? What is he supposed to choose?

And before you say "just improve yourself, bro", check this out.
Firstly, look at the men women are going for (besides golddiggers/prostitutes going to rich men for money or services). Look at the men women are craving sexually. Are those men self-improvement maniacs? Most are just regular guys around the block. Most never went on any self-improvement journey. A lot of degenerate drug addicts. Secondly, if by improvement yourself you mean wear finer clothes and get richer, the best you will get are gold diggers thay will use for money before going back to the men they truly want to Bleep.

Of course, one should self-improve. I am all for self-improvement. But as far as sex comes, I don't think it has much of an impact. Improve for yourself, not because you believe it's going to get you more sex (the girl you are dreaming about is currently being bleeped by a guy who doesn't even know what self-improvement is).

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Girlliving:
Naaaaa

I think she was looking for a fight but didn’t expect it not to go in her favour

am happy those Victoria and kassia burnt her well.

Tonnyray:
Unscathed indeed.
They roasted her.

Lolz....am sure she will go and cry in biggie diary room.

creolehunt:
You know this for real?

We only see a fraction of what the cameraman shows us.

What is clear is that theres been bad blood between Onyeka dmd Victoria and Onyeka has been waiting for the opportunity to vent

Since the night of the open nomination the beef was already there

fitzmayowa:
Kassia started it she wanted to get under her skin and it worked, Onyeka was not smart enough to see what was been pulled in front of her and she fell for it.....

onyeka was actually the one that started the matter playfully in her usual sneaky way by saying the person that said the gist was a coward and she kept repeating it till kassia came.