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firstking01:
You seem to me like an irresponsible man…you won't be a good husband i swear...flirting is in your DNA...at this your age and status you are still into using girls and dumping them....let me just control my anger cos if i wanna unleash whats on my mind you won't like it…you knew you won't take her serious why did you ask her out?...do you know if she na_ked and swear for you it will catch up with you?...where did she go wrong huh?, well, let me leave you in the hands of karma...you are very wicked.

Hmmm.... Resort to insulting someone at any given chance, its not like we ve met and we had issues. Why not drop ur point without those words?

Well, thanks anyway

CorGier:
I can't laugh.
But, OghenL you've got to give her credit, she really played her cards right.
Finally, you my friend are now in a serious relationship.

the tin tire me I swear

OK, let me go straight to the point.

I'm in my late twenties, and work with an oil firm in my state. Am not but I live a comfortable life and my monthly income(including other business+mmm) I get up to 700k a month. Am not yet married, not because I don't want to, but because am not just prepared yet. Once in a while i just do some unserious relationship(just to satisfy my urge) and most of them(better still, all of them) doesn't exceed one month.

Two months back, I ran into a girl(Vivian....not her real name) in the bank, while on a queue to withdraw some money(ATM) we exchange pleasantries and exchanged mobile num... NOTE Am not a womanizer, it's just that this girl was just too beautiful to ignore...
We became so close after a week, and before I knew it, we already in a relationship.. After a week, we had S... And I became tired of the relationship, buh, I decided to keep it cool since she's of good behavior. There was was this Friday, she called and said she wanted to spend the weekend, I agreed,
Fast forward to Sunday, was already expecting her to leave, buh she stayed,(I was curious because I really didn't planned for that) . Monday morning, she was still in the house, with d excuse of living that afternoon. I gave her my spare keys to luck the door before leaving, and should drop the keys with the gateman. I came back from work in the evening and was surprised she was still around, now, she'd already prepared dinner and cleaned the house. (I went to my room and saw more of her clothes, I was surprised because she came with just a hand bag on friday, so where did all these clothes came from? ) I decided to confront her, but, I don't wanno seem rude, so I kept my cool, and decided to ask her to leave the next morning being Tuesday.
I woke up few minutes past 7.. Went to the parlour. She wasn't there. Neither was she in any of the rooms. I went to the backyard just to find her washing my clothes (Oh God, this is getting serious) I told her to leave when she's done, gave her some money for transport, buh she rejected, before I could say Jack, she burst into tears like I'm being unfair to her. I left,
I came back from work to find out she'd left.(wow at last I said to myself) now, I got a call from my mum the next day, asking me to come home..(we live in same town, so it was just like a normal evening outing) I went there to see (Vivian) seating close to my mum. I was curious how she knew her. My mum asked why I would suddenly chase my fiance out of the house now that I have finally decided to settle down (A girl I didn't proposed to) I be came very angry and told her I would see her later.
Now this lady have been on my neck telling everyone who cares to listen she's my fiance. To crown it all, she'd become so so close to my sister and even visits her often to help her out in her shop. I just tire for all this things... I really didn't planned for this. My mum on the other hand is happy I've found a wife at last, Even when I told her she's not my fiance.

Nairalanders, pls I need advice... Is there any way I can ask her to stop all this? Like I CNT marry her. The last time I tried telling her she was wasting her time, she burst into tears and went to report me to my sis as usual. I need a solution to this .


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