Kobojunkie:
1. Women also do that which you have stated in bold up there there so why do you presume you are the first to think of doing such?,

2. I don't convince myself of anything of such nor does the word "luck" and "relationship" go together in my dictionary so forgive me for really not seeing whatever moot point you are attempting to make with this response of yours.

Something about your person attracted those 4 girls to you yo begin with and even with you saying you have cut them off, it doesn't mean you will not still go out and attract others like them , maybe with better ability to hide their flaws next time. Rather than stone the gals what you ought instead do is look inside of you to change whatever is necessary so you attract better women next time. Coming here to accuse them as though they forced themselves on you somehow ain't going to help you any.

Am just trying so hard to be by u but
NO.

Samantha123:
In a scale of 1 to 10, how fluent are you in the Anang language?

6.
Lol


I tried??

Samantha123:
I thought you were.

I thought maybe you took my advice and went look for a nice Nigerian girl you can befriend and have countless chats with.

Omg lol.
What an advice
Tnx any way.

Samantha123:
I did.

But why are you back though?

Am I back?
Or was I gone??

Samantha123:
You're back.

I thought we were done.

Am I that addictive?

For what you just said no words for you yet

Hope u had a nice night?

Samantha123:
Why does it seems like Nigerians born abroad tend to look down on Nigerians born in Nigeria? I've noticed this mostly with some YouTubers on YouTube and it got me curious.

So, I was wondering if I could get more clarity from you guys.

Is it just me, or Nigerians born abroad look down on Nigerians born in Nigeria?

Holla !!!

Samantha123:
Nope.

I'm sure there are a lot of wonderful Nigerian ladies here who'll like to have those chit chats with you offline.

Just give them a chance Sir and good luck.

Lol.
Wat ever rocks your boat

Samantha123:
Okay, I wish you all the best in finding your Juliet.

Yeah thanks for ur wishes. And Same here too.
Nigeria is a very diverse nation. But don't u think this should be off this forum?

Samantha123:
No, we haven't connected, it just happens that I'm the curious type and I'm very good at holding long conversations with strangers without even asking for their names..

You should calm down with that compromise for resolution, go drink some water..

I know that there's a lot of tribalism in Nigeria, so when you finally decide to settle down, are you hoping to go for an Anang woman, or any Nigerian woman from any tribe is okay with you?

I am very much indifferent about that marrying from any tribe.
I am not the tribalistic type. Wat I look out for is very different from that.at my level of exposure and education all that shouldn't be at d front.
Once she's ok then d rest is a tory for another day.

Samantha123:
Nah! You guys value it too much.

Misbehave as in how?

Like I said am single and never married.
If any of us is married I mean officially then there are ethics we should abide with . "misbehaving" I don't mean wen married..marriage is sacred. And so it remains.
So long my sanity is intact..We value marriage as Africans we different from the western world no matter how we modernise things.i don't tolerate cheats. I am a very very very principled person. So wen I say misbehave it's not a liberty for nonsense. .
U are dermn so interesting, it's so good we connected..but do u accept compromise for resolution of any kind

Samantha123:
I thought you Nigerians value marriage more than everything.

So it's only fair that I ask about your wife and kids.

Smiles.
Not only Nigerians we all love and cherish marriage. But there is time for everything in life.u did very good asking. I remember u spoke about your status too. But it's always good we are guided that doesn't mean we not human and we can't misbehave .

Samantha123:
As for the world cup, I'm not a soccer fan and I can't predict something I don't put my full attention on..

Last time I watched it was back in 2010.

Tell me this, how's your wife and kids Sir?

Moso o mo botse.
. Hope u doing good this morning .
I AM SINGLE AND MINGLING
But am trynna work on that and close the page.
U didnt even ask if, u just said I should tell u about waaaaat

Samantha123:
I can predict the unpredictable...

You don't know what I look like, but you're trying too hard to get to know me.

Either you're slowly falling, or you're slowly trying to get me to fall, so that I can finally open the door and let you in.

What you don't know is that I can be very stubborn and I can stand until Jesus comes back.

Lmao
.
So u can predict well right? ?
Predict who wins this world cup and I will put my savings on that .

Yeah I have no idea of what u look like and then getting to know u I guess is human nature. Can u blame me for that??.
U really want me to fall from a cliff?? Cus it's obvious it's dangerous .
I don't think any one is falling here not even stubborn you .
And u don't want me in
Nairaland comrades are already hanging by the window and entrance keenly watchinh

Samantha123:
I know I might appear to be this innocent naive girl, but just know that my eyes can see everything and I'm very good at reading people, even those who are miles away..

Already you're blushing and I've heard that West African men hardly blush..

Lol.
But I know u can't see me lol.
U can't read me.
Plus am very Unpredictable from afar .
If West African men don't blush but u making me blush.
Tell me what that signifies Miss FBI
Plus I don't even know what you look like am just vibing with the reasonings from ur ends

Samantha123:
I thought I made myself clear last time.

I don't want any trouble.

Yeah Yeah yeah you did Miss.
But it's nothing though I don't really think any thing can ever happen. It's still fun in here though it's just d mode of chatting I was about.

Samantha123:
You know I can't do that, Captain Sparrow..

Hmmmm. Gat me blushing so hard.@capt.jack sparrow.
But I saw that coming
Y didn't u disappoint me??

Samantha123:
I don't really have a bed time, it just happens that sometimes I have other commitments to attend to, or I had a one hell of a hectic day.

Yeah some days are like that with me too.
I just cool off at home watching football or highlights. We can get off this platform probably solo??

Samantha123:
You know how 9 to 4 jobs are like.

Doing almost same thing every day, but I'm not complaining.

So, it was good, yours?

Ohh.
It sure demands a lot and could also be fun with d office chi-chat.
My day was awesome woth my job and nairaland on side reading crazy comments.
It should be past 10pm ur time?

Samantha123:
It's late.

How has ur day been??

Pierocash:
So he didn't have any savings in his account?

U are talking of savings.
Do u know what is called hard times?

Samantha123:
Hello nairalanders, I'm new here from South Africa, though I've been a guest for almost 4 years now. Since I didn't know much about Nigeria or Nigerians in general, I was a bit skeptical about being a member here, but my Nigerian friend whom I met 2 years ago made me realize that Nigerians can be good people to be around.

So I'm looking forward to being part of this nairaland family.

U there? ?

AfonjaConehead:

The answer is simp le nah

Wetin dey sound there??
U well??

Samantha123:
I don't want this thread to reach the front page because I'm so not in the mood of those nagging brothers of yours.

So, our discussion ends right here.

Deck all round ⚓

Samantha123:
How come you sound so different from most of the nairaland men?

A typical nairaland man would've started arguing and nagging.

Is it because of the tribe you're from? Or maybe you're just not feeling well?

Lmao.
It's just me. U sound so matured, well learned and really fun to talk with.
U kinda making me feel special with ur remarks.

Samantha123:
I can't really say that our men don't like you guys, they just don't like some of the things that some of the African foreign national men do when they get here and as a result, they're just trying to protect us from getting hurt.

As for the ladies being your fans, I've also heard about it like you did because I've never had a friend who had anything to do with a Nigerian man before or who had desires to date one.

Lol.
Alright. I know some of our people over there are a headache. But I really like ur orientation.

Samantha123:
I mostly come across Yorubas.

We used to attend Saturday school back in high school during my senior year and our Saturday school's life science teacher was a Yoruba.

I went to varsity and we had a Yoruba English teacher, our hostel assistant at the University was also once a Yoruba.

I've also came across some Yoruba deeper life pastors, but I don't attend that church anyway.

My friend here in SA is a Yoruba, and I've met a Yoruba medical doctor too.

And to be honest, apart from my friend, I don't know much about them because I was never friends with the others... So I can't judge based on one person.

Okay.
I hear a lot of stuffs like ur men don't like us while ur ladies are our fans.
Any thing like dat?

Samantha123:
Whaaat?? You're a what?

I'm so glad that I finally met someone from a different Nigerian tribe.

In fact, I'm excited.. .. I like meeting people from different cultures.

I've never heard of it, just like you've never heard of the Sepedi tribe.

Awwwn thank you.
So which of the tribes here have u met and what do u think about each of them excluding me cus we just started.

Samantha123:
If you say so, but some of them can lack some respect.

What tribe are you from?

Yeahh guys will always be guys lol.
I am Anang
We are southern nigeria precisely akwaibom state.A minority just like urs.

Samantha123:
Okay, I see.

Yeah
But just don't take what guys post here seriouse .We just out here to pass time.i can say that about my self though.

Samantha123:
Depends on what?

For me I think it depends on both parties based on their orientation and motives.

Samantha123:
Hey, I've been on nairaland for a while, even though I was a guest.

Already I know that Nigerian men don't believe in friends of the opposite sex, unless sex is involved.

I just can't stop laughing.
I know u don't mean all Nigerian men but I think it's everywhere if u ask me and it depends too

Samantha123:
I thought Nigerian men don't believe in being friends with the opposite sex.

Lol.
Ur assumptions though.
And why do u think so about us
Really funny tho