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My ex was really toxic, she doesn't know how to address me when she's angry...I can use anger to burst her eyes one day and I didn't want that so I walked away..it was like she will die but omo I ran for my sanity

Scrumstudy:
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essentialone1:
I totally agree with the Op. The advantages of Masturbation are far more than it's Disadvantages:

Advantages of Masturbation
1. Masturbation prevents or reduces patronizing Prostitutes and Hook up girls unless for SVCs.
2. Masturbation prevents or reduces having sex with your housemaid, your neighbours wife, your female neighbour, your workplace colleagues, your tenant, your students, your subordinates, your brothers wife, etc.
3. Masturbation prevents or reduces Adultery and Fornication, just to summarize Number 2 above.
4. Masturbation increases your Focus on Wealth Creation, Education, Career Progression, etc.
5. Masturbation prevents being embarrassed publicly for Sexual Assault or Sexual Harassment. Masturbation also prevents being jailed for Sexual offences like Rape. It prevents being Sacked from Job, or lynched to death because of Sexual offences.
6. Masturbation helps you to build or regain your social respect, as your sexual urges won't make you to toast any and every lady around. Whether you like it or not, most of you guys are referred to as Chronic Womanizer, behind your back.
7. Masturbation helps to increase Marital Fidelity, as you won't use the excuse of my wife is sick or unavailable, to sleep with every available hole.
8. Masturbation helps to increase Marital Bonding and prevent Divorce, as 85% of Divorce cases filed by Ladies are based on their Man having sex with other ladies.
9. Masturbation improves your relationship with the other gender, as your discussion with them won't always begin and end in Sex, no matter how sexually attractive and appealing they are.
10. With Masturbation, your mind can actually forget that ladies exist, and you get to focus on your Life goals and achievements, because at the end of the day, apart from Sex, what else can ladies really offer you? Nothing. But with Masturbation in the picture, what else do you really need ladies for? Nothing.


However, as every other addictive behaviors, avoid getting addicted to Masturbation. Masturbation is advantageous. But addiction to Masturbation is disastrous too.

You are right..
I usually think masturbation would destroy lives but hearing from my friend's perspective,,I am shocked,, never heard of such thing before hence why I came to ask

bigpriik:
tell me one person you know that maturation has killed or destroyed

Most of them come out to tell their story but we don't believe..
Even VDM wey dey openly talk vile said it's not good

If this is true, I am Beginning to like Tinubu these past few months

Which child did he train to school?
The one that can't spell GENERAL?

bigpriik:
nothing wrong with masturbation only Africans who have contributed nothing to world development sees something wrong with it,personally I see no difference between sex and mastirbation they are both about friction in the penis

I am not expecting anything less from someone with such a moniker..lol

Racheal45:
Bro ur own good
Most people addicted to masturbation are actually jobless

Really?
Does masturbation makes people jobless?

emoboy4u:
Weird how people don't see that this is an AI generated imagination of OP

I don't know why images cannot be uploaded here from my end...can anyone help?
I told my friend that I posted this convo of us on nairaland, he is here currently to read through the comment...

When he responds or say something I will subtly reply then you guys will know he's the one..

And yes he's safe and aware of what I am doing..
I just want to drive in my point..

If you don't want a gf, then there are FWB everywhere, rather than self servicing yourself...

Besides any man that has control over his urge conquers 90% of his battle...I have a gf and yes I haven't touched her yet, I don't masturbate, I don't even watch porn...

Me wey dey sort my life out with anger...
I have videos to create and edit for my YouTube channel, have pending jobs from clients to do and also go to the gym and to church...

So tell me where's the time?

If I have nothing to do, I have lots of books in my mini library to read.

Aydot99:
Op no lie ooo. You are talking about yourself here.

Why should I do that?

Kimo21:
Follow his footsteps now who is holding you? Why bring it here? Shebi he is doing well so follow him

So does me asking questions means I am right or wrong or he's right or wrong?
Sometimes someone ask questions to make learn more...
I didn't agree at all and with him and so decided to share if I am only one "Archaic and Beclouded" as he termed

Bendeco02:
Infection bad. That's the only thing that speaks to we men in the language we understand

😂😂😂

Even while I don't agree with this my older friend but I have seen serious changes in his life..
He said masturbation had helped him erased his mind from women and helped his focus big time..

He moved out of the house I knew him from to a much bigger apartment..
His workspace is tempting....his phone is always on DND, and this guy will sit on his work chair for hours coding and helping his life...

He told me he Will marry because once a man has money, he have 50% respect first from a lady and then his own standard will be high that all those hungry girls won't be able to reach..
He said he will settle for a big player like himself where she's independent too and is busy with her life while he's busy with his..

Bendeco02:
For me, the only advantage of masturbation is that you never contact or exprience infection.

You see that thing called STD, it's very bad.

Some people has end up getting HIV because they want to satisfy their gbola.

Most of these fresh looking girls you see are bank of infections. They can still pass some skin infection to you even as you use CD.

Before you nack any girl, observe her skin and toto area well. Don't just dive into anything

While still at school, a roommate of mine Abdullahi Nak one banny like that,, she give am sweetie...the guy con give us sweetie too..all of us wey dey inside room...we almost died...

After God rescued Abdullahi...baba run away from ladies...he said this is the 5th times he's having different infections from clean girls oh...and he always use protection according to him..
I have never had sex in my life anyways...

july21st:
He feels safe now.
By the time he will realize he is not it might be too late.
He shouldn't be too comfortable not being in a steady relationship with a woman if his intention is to get married anytime in the future.

I personally understand what he's saying...there's mo lady out there that just won't knock you out of focus or becomes overbearing..
My own is a working class, I will say she's understanding butttttttt I can't talk what my eyes have seen...
Sometimes I feel like running away...

I asked him if he don't plan on getting married..he said yes but there's a time he seff knows it will be time...
By then there would be no need to service himself anymore..he now got the bag so can concentrate on family and the rest..according to him

I have a friend, 25 years old, who once told me something that left me speechless.

He said, “Masturbation has saved me… not destroyed me, like people say.”

At first, I was confused. Saved him? How?

So, I asked.

He looked me in the eye and explained:

“I’m 25 and I’ve never had sex. Anytime I get Hot, I just help myself. People think it’s weakness. For me, it’s strength. It keeps me focused.”

He told me about how he tried dating before. How it always ended the same way—distractions, manipulations, emotional games. Instead of giving him peace, relationships drained his energy.

So, he made a decision. He cut it all out. No more chasing. No more drama.

“Since then,” he said, “I’ve had full concentration on my work. And because of that, I’m doing really well.”

And he wasn’t lying.

He’s into tech. He’s building something huge—an app that, according to him, will shake up Africa. He even told me the idea, and honestly, I was shocked. It’s bold. It’s powerful. And the crazy part? He’s already done with the web app. Right now, he’s building the bridge for expansion.

I sat there listening, half inspired, half confused.

On one hand, I saw his confidence, his focus, his progress. I saw someone who didn’t let urges, relationships, or society’s pressure derail him.

On the other hand, I wondered—was he truly right? Is masturbation really what saved him? Or is it just his discipline, his choice to put concentration above pleasure?

Maybe what saved him wasn’t the act itself… but the mindset behind it.

Maybe he simply refused to be controlled by others, and chose to control himself.

And that choice—whether people agree with it or not—gave him peace, focus, and direction.

Now, I’m left with the question: is he correct? Or is it just his own way of surviving in a distracting world?