₦airaland Forum

TheChameleon:
I agree with you wholeheartedly.

face me and stop manipulating my words, ashiere eda and bastard, o ma shofo plus onye ara

BlindAngel:
As I'm talking to you right now, they are saying all manners of words, that I disrespected them and the they won't pity me with the list they'd give me.

That aside, to be brutally honest with you, I didn't mean to disrespect them, I have tried all manner of ways to walk out of this marriage but I don't see that happening. Maybe this will be the deal breaker, I won't do any of what they mentioned, absolutely none. I believe it'd make them hate me and by God's grace I pray and I'm praying hard for them to talk about returning my bride price to me.

are you from the north? Its very common there! I divorced my wife too, she and her family wahala too much

stainzvill:
You're not attracted to her physically but u burst nuts inside her ...That aside, u nor handle the situation maturedly

mugu

Ginaz:
You should have respected her a bit, the outbursts are not needed in this critical time that her dad is dead. She needs you for comfort and peace , you can tell the family the extent you can assist financially without degrading her worth before her people.

You did wrong. Despite you don't love her , she's a human with feelings. I can't imagine being reminded how I'm not needed constantly by my husband, she's going through a lot.

Be kind or rather seek a divorce if you can't stand the marriage anymore.

sharap

kevwemike:
Guy wat is wrong with U? Why are U talking like a child, U don't like the girl but Ur dick like her pussy to the extent U got her pregnant, and U are here saying that she force u into the marriage, u dey here urself? The truth is that wat the family counted for U is the right thing to do as in-law , just try and do the needful is Ur in-law.

mumu shey you be simp kwanu

BlindAngel:
Good evening Nairalanders, few months ago I posted here regarding how my wife forced me into marriage that I wasn't in anyway ready for because she got pregnant. I posted about the regret I'm still battling until date, because the love isn't there from my own end and I'm also not in anyway attracted to her physically. I have told her severally that I want to option out of the marriage and not doing again but until date she has refused to let me go.

Back to the main point, my wife lost her dad this morning. Her deceased dad has two wife's and several concubines that gave birth to lots of children, my wife doesn't know some of her half brothers and sisters.

So I went to their family house this morning to console them. The eldest son of the family (her half brother) told me and another in law that we'd be the one to pay for mortuary expenses and casket, and when the burial is getting closer they'd give us a list of things to buy and we'd both bring one goats each.

To be brutally honest I wasn't mad because of this latest expense, I got furious immediately and right on the spot because of the pressure my wife pressured me into getting married to her, by now I'd have been totally free of these unnecessary expenses. More than 19 of her sisters, both biological and half sisters that has given birth, no single expense was listed for their man that they got pregnant for and has a child for. But I and the other in law that paid dowry are the one going through these unnecessary expenses.

So immediately he told me about everything, I charged at my wife right on the spot, right in front of her mom, her brothers, her sisters and some of her friends that came for condolence visit. I got so furious and started shouting at the top of my voice, I reminded her how she forced me into marriage that I'm not in anyway prepared and ready for, both physically, psychologically, emotionally, financially. (I have been reminding her regarding this almost on a daily basis and whenever we are quarreling.

I reminded her how she threatened me with suicide and our of fear of the unknown I wasted almost 4m in getting married to her. I told her that I'd have been free of these expenses if not for her pressure.

Immediately she burst into tears, and started crying endlessly.

Her mom and sisters started yelling at me and I yelled back at all of them. They told me I met her a Virgin and now she's no longer good for me (truly, the whole family thought that I was the one that took her virginity) My wife and I agreed to keep it a secret, but the constant remainder from her mom and sisters made me let the cat out of the bag, I told them that I didn't met her a Virgin that she has already started having sex when I met her, they didn't believe me but with my tone, I know they'd.

I also made mentioned that I'm not buying any goat or paying for mortuary or taking any list from them. That it's their dad and they should take care of every responsibilities, after all he has uncountable children, why putting some of the expense on me? I walked away, and switched off my phone until now that I'm just putting it on.

I know that I acted wrongly and allowed my anger to get the best part of me. But I was furious because no single bill went to her sister's baby father's, absolutely nothing was listed for them. I got furious because these expenses won't be on me right now if not for her pressuring me into marriage that I want ready for. I was furious because I and the other in law that they billed became the scape goat by doing the right thing by getting married and not leaving theirs daughter In ruins, where as those that got their daughter pregnant without getting married to them were totally free from these unnecessary bills. I'm in so much pains and regret right now.

divorce her she doesn't love you!

TheChameleon:
Tinubu or Peter Obi wouldn't abandon you.

God already has abandoned you permanently.

e no go better for you and your useless god i will burn you all in hell fire

lordknows123:
If this happened in the UK, the soldiers would be arrested and charged with manslaughter, potentially facing many years in prison for it.
But naija na lawless country

sharap no be the same oyinbo dey spoil our country, you be westernised fool

Chucks13:
Google is you friend Mr man.

Even if she is a who-re I'm happy and proud of her because her son was a senator, a governor and the president your mama wey nor be who-re oya tell us who you be?

slavery no dey tire you, who ya own mama too

fabianiyobosa:
Not a fan of Tinubu but this is way out of line.

ogun kee you dere tinubu slave wey dey disguise

madridguy:
Habibatu Mogaji.

will you sharap the real one from iragbiji, mr onijekuje, na wetin go kill you be dat

TOPMAN4LIFE:
Jesus doesn't need to come from my village before l have a relationship with Him,
Anyone who is of the Holy Spirit will have a good relationship with Jesus Christ
Bible says in john 4:24 that "God is Spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.”
You are just fighting a lost battle..
Jesus is Lord

inshort e no go better for your jesus and jehovah

geoworldedu:
Ori baba ati iya to n yo idin yen. Barawo bansa.

dake jare odanran, onye beri beri

TheChameleon:
Future Obidients...

Should have been flogged to reset their brains. 🧠.

A University in SE is like a Primary school in the West and like a Polytechnic in the North.

Glorified miracle centers. Mmesoma with her piggy 👃 🐽 🤥 exposed them well.

how much were you paid to cause divide and rule? I hope tinubu won't abandon you when you set nigeria ablaze!

wellmax:
Just like Tinubu.

eru amoda

D00msDay:
"Go back to ur country" If na white tell black this one for America or Europe now blacks go they shout racism.

I don't care who is at fault. But that statement "go back to ur country" should b totally condemned. Well, if u see nothing wrong wit it, it simply means ur no better than the white racists around the world.

This kind girls sabi dey rude. I dey encounter some of them for malls, markets etc. Very rude and ready to shout at any slightest provocation. Na them go offend u, still turn around to play the victim card wen u finally lash out.

I no dey support rubbish because u b black like me, or u come from my state, or from my village, or u b my relation.

calm down no be oyinbo start am make dem enjoy their poison

ENEJI16:
If you look at it very well, she might be a yoruba woman. All these their entitlements for nothing. Na all these ones don apply for japa visa tire

awon nyanmiri and aje okuta ma momi

Godfullsam:
She refused to 'gree for any body'.

Most whites always think they are special humans and should be treated as such.

can you blame them, the gods made it so, i am disappointed in our own gods for allowing it

EmperorCaesar:
If places and tech advancement were swapped, you'd realize Blacks discriminate worse than Whites(Not a fallacy of hasty generalization).

They dont see humans. They see Tribe, region, country and Skin color.


Those socalled "Pan-Africanists and Nationalists" are just deceiving themselves. Every single humans have that sentiment in them by default

Vinicius Junior people. Attack others and cry foul when they retaliate

sharap oyinbo slave who start am first? Ekpa and oloriburuku

Zico5:
I pity those people that are taking these herbal mixture. Many of them are kidney and liver destroyers. Easy does it in life

and oyinbo medicine is any better? Oyinbo slave 😂

Izuchukwu70:
Daddy Showkey did not invent Galala dance

so who did or made it popular?

PheelzAlmighty:
Hardwork stopped paying off a long long time ago💔
Cheating, connection etc is the new deal

Unfortunately, the only reward there is for hardwork is MORE WORK Go ahead and argue with your shadow.

because it's a scam to enslave people while the evil ones leach on them....

suckprick:
Very pointless. I don't even understand who started this nonsense talk of work smart, not hard. Even in the so called smart work, if you no work hard on it, nothing for you. Wether you are a freelancer, a crypto trader, forex trader or even yahoo boy. You still need to work hard to make money of it. So it should be work hard and smart to make it.

na scam which hard work dino or yahaya bello dey do?

Revealpanda:
With her MIGHTY 4Head

oloriburuku you sabi create right?

lexy2014:
what belongs to you?

ask yourself federal parasites and British tools!

flokii:
Please loud it.. Yorubas need to wake up before it gets too late.
Once they are done destroying their region, their next target will be Yorubaland. EndSars attack on Lagos State is a pointer to that.

I don't know why Yorubas are just careless . Igbos that can't talk in South East will come and be threatening peaceful Yorubas in Yorubaland yet we claim we have leaders. It's a pity

oloriburuku ni e plus shege banza plus otu nnegi