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Romance › Re: Which Lagos Church Has A High Number Of Single Ladies? by Ojiniman(op): 5:01pm On Jun 20, 2019*

gbosaa:
Why don't you pray to God at your Christ Holy Church Odozi obodo international or seek the counsel of your church's prophets if your spiritual signal strength is very poor instead of nairaland. If you cant find your type at the Ojo/Ajangbadi and Okokomaiko branch, Can't your visit the Lekki, VGC and Ikoyi branch of your Odozi obodo church international?

Devil is a liar bro. You want to collect a babe from from RCCG, Winners and Christ Embassy churches, then push her into depression and misery at your Christ Holy Church Odozi obodo Ojo Alaba/Okoko and Ajagbadi.

Thank you so much for your opinions.

Point of correction. You have no idea what i want to do or what i plan to do but you are free to keep guessing and bashing me all day.

CHC has an Ojo branch at Alaba and two sub-branches in the area but no Okokomiko branch, sorry. That entire area has one thing in common. its all for illiterate Igbo traders at Alaba international market. All you will find in the church by way of women are their wives and housemaids or few waec holders that work as secretaries. All the matured girls are sent away to the Universities mainly in the east and before you know it they are married. This is one church were girls marry very early in life. Those Alaba boys rush them.

Secondly, CHC has no VGC or Ikoy branch only Lekki, deep inside. I will be going there next month. But that place is so far so i must cover my area of Lagos first. Which induces CHC IBA/Aboroko this sunday and CHC Agric/Baraccks next Sunday and CHC Festac...CHC Abulado...CHC Olodi Apapa and CHC Ketu.

Bro, the devil is indeed a lair even when he tell you there is more than one God or there is frustration in any church where Jesus is Lord.

God works in wonderful ways this i know. I have prayed to him well and made him a promise in this matter that bothers me so much. Like a fool i will wander around but in one place will i find what i am looking for and he will guide me there. Indeed and like Rebecca the girl who became wife of Issac was found fetching water at a well in a far away land so also will i find my wife doing something somewhere far from me.

My office is my palor and my business is online. I hardly leave home for months on end. God will never bring a wife to me in my bedroom, i must go out and find her and he will guide my heart to the well Where she is fetching water. Once i see her, i will know and he will prove it clearly that she is mine. The head of our church, as a young man, found his wife as a girl in the Choir of an Anglican Church. I have committed no crime just covering all angles so I will be satisfied, must be satisfied in the end.

When you go to a new generation church you hear this...

Pastor: "Brother Tunde, God will give you Canada visa within the next 3 months"
Church: "Amen ooo"
Pastor: :Brother Wasiu, God is bring you financial breakthrough soon".
Chruch; "Amen ooo"

Did Tunde apply for any visa? Not at all. Does Wasiu have any meaningful job? not at all.

Heaven helps those who help themselves, blessing the endeavors of their hands

Once again, Thank you.

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Romance › Re: Which Lagos Church Has A High Number Of Single Ladies? by Ojiniman(op): 1:37pm On Jun 20, 2019

Lipslikecandy11:
Brah...!!! Go cele(****no disrespect**) ..!! Dere girls re sucking for love...!!! Speaking from experience...

No disrespect taken bro. You just made a suggestion and i appreciate that. Unfortunately Cele cast for Lagos. Meaning its all over the place. Have you a particular branch in mind?

Romance › Re: Which Lagos Church Has A High Number Of Single Ladies? by Ojiniman(op): 1:34pm On Jun 20, 2019

noblealuu:
Which Deeper Life ...you're kidding me right?!

Leave am. He wan put me for wahala. Deeperlife why you must first register to do anything na him e dey suggest.

Romance › Re: Which Lagos Church Has A High Number Of Single Ladies? by Ojiniman(op): 1:33pm On Jun 20, 2019

catwalq:
Just tell an elder in your church to look for a wife for you. Or an elder in your family..

No, life is not that way anymore. Relive me when i say my family is the reason i am single in my late 30s. As for church elder, it's somehow. Bottom line, you never really get what you want.

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Romance › Re: Which Lagos Church Has A High Number Of Single Ladies? by Ojiniman(op): 11:28am On Jun 20, 2019

OboOlora:
Baba enter Harvesters for Gbagada, u go nack ur preek go pain u, Na aboniki u go use rub am

After service, just approach any girl walking that u can drop her off. Then stop by at coldstone n order pizza n ice cream, then ask her to follow u so u can enjoy it

Make sure ur AC is on full blast so her clit0ris would be having hiccup as u drive home

The rest as they say is history!

Ha!!!

I don retire for that kind thing oooo. I wan marry for keeps now.

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Romance › Re: Which Lagos Church Has A High Number Of Single Ladies? by Ojiniman(op): 11:25am On Jun 20, 2019

AwkaetitiBabe:
You quite funny. So many people go to church cos it's like a norm not because of God. Just have it in mind that you can meet your wife anywhere. Afterall we've heard stories of prayer warriors, choir mistresses turning into beasts after marriage. But be of good cheer, your God will surely meet you at d point of your need.

Met two nice ladies on the streets of Lagos over the last 1 year. One in a bus and the other at a bus stop.

The first turned out to be too demanding and the second was a LASU student that was more into runs. I'm just looking for a good wife to enjoy life with, bro. I didn't say i was a blind man that only sees inside a Church.

Romance › Re: Which Lagos Church Has A High Number Of Single Ladies? by Ojiniman(op): 11:21am On Jun 20, 2019

iPrevail:
This guy! So in your grande delusion you think you'll find a good girl to marry from a church? That's it?
Prostitutes, Runs girls, Olosho and their like are very religious sets.... Guess where they all convene on Sundays?

Pastor's hotel room, Facebook, Twitter and VI nightclubs

Not in interested in flat breasts or anything over 29, thank you.

Romance › Re: Which Lagos Church Has A High Number Of Single Ladies? by Ojiniman(op): 5:51am On Jun 20, 2019

nifemi25:
Going to church to find a wife isn't the best option.... Most of the olosho are church goers. Don't be surprised they belong to the user and choir department... Don't misquote me but if your heart keep telling you church is the only option. You can visit christ embassy at oregun or any celestial church. Good luck

Please, what would be the best opinion?

Christ Embassy in Oregon? Isn't that their headquarters of something?

Romance › Re: Which Lagos Church Has A High Number Of Single Ladies? by Ojiniman(op): 5:47am On Jun 20, 2019

Oluromantic:
Alaye enter facebook. Do that for 3 months, youl see d good bad ugly and best. You weh no dey go church, you say ur wife dey house of God. So what happens after marrying the wife... Bye bye to church abi? You funny o. You weh don time yourself to marry by next year putting God's timing one side, u suppose don target the church weh u need.. Honestly, if you get a wife from d church knowing it's just wife u came to marry not that you're committed and can't be after marriage and knows you want to marry within such a short time in spite of all the girls you've come across, then such a girl is marrying you for your our money. Smart and bad girls full church. It's better you kunkun marry a normal girl out there..Dem full social media.. I met my own on fb, her SU pic attracted me.

I attend Christ Holy Church international. A very small branch of it in the Ojo area of Lagos. What I want is not there. My church is a spiritual one where God shares out the spirit of prophecy to officals and members alike. If you have a habit of fornicating or committing adultery the day God will use a visioner to disgrace you you will find a fake church to start going to.

As I am now i have been without a "babe" for many years.

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Romance › Re: Which Lagos Church Has A High Number Of Single Ladies? by Ojiniman(op): 5:40am On Jun 20, 2019*

daddytime:
It is funny how you believe a church is the best place where you can pick a wife.

Little wonder, most night clubs now look like churches on their days, while the churches have started taking semblances of night clubs unapologetically, and is now home to those who feel their biological time is fast ticking away having done too much time at the night clubs.

I pray you to find what you seek young man.

Thank you, sir, and a big Amen to your prayer.

May I ask where you would have me pick a wife instead? Bank, market, a bus or perhaps my empty street seeing as i live in a peaceful estate area where people mind their business?

The women in a church are from all walks of life so, yeah, you may find old nightclubers with a problem with their biological clock but, alas, nice girls who have never been touched are there too. There are even those that come to sing praise to Jesus and those who have been deceived or raped by men.

In the spiritual church i attended last Sunday, I found only one problem. It was a small church and people were not many. The girls were too young and the one I liked, tall and light skinned, could not have been more than 21. She was in the Choir.

Churches differ, sir, and the women are there for different reasons.

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Romance › Which Lagos Church Has A High Number Of Single Ladies? by Ojiniman(op): 4:40am On Jun 20, 2019*

Hello,

I'm a single guy in my 30s search for a nice lady of Igbo extraction to get married to this year. I live and work at home in a quite area on the outskirts of Lagos and due to the current nature of my online work I do not move around so much and so finding a woman I like is quite the problem.

I want to solve that problem in the next months so i may be a married man before the new year.

Following some advice form an older friend, I wish to ask and know about any church in Lagos with a high number of matured single ladies so i might visit and find a good thing. I can visit any where in Lagos all i need is an address and time of service.

Additionally, can someone please advice me how Synagogue Church of All Nations in Ikotu may fit in here? Are there a lot of nice single ladies there like i keep hearing, Ikotu being so highgly populated? What are the best days to visit there?

Please, please, be civil and do not insult because i have insult no one and this issue is a real problem to me. I do know there are so many single ladies in this country now search for husbands and most go to churches to find pray and find solutions to the issue. I just want to know where to look for them. The nice ones that really know God.

Thanks

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Romance › Re: Edo Men Are The Best by Ojiniman: 1:37am On Jun 18, 2019*

Favor99:
Your a hater That’s what I think. Nothing I said was tribalistic or attention seeking Mtchew

Sorry to burst your bubble. What you think is crazy as is your brain. You are an attention seeker and a tribalist on steroids

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Romance › Re: Edo Men Are The Best by Ojiniman: 12:34am On Jun 18, 2019

Favor99:
You are bias! The girl said Edo men are the best and said something positive, and then the Igbo guy got mad and brought up Lawerence Anini in a way to tell her Edos aren’t good. Why would he bring up Anini? For what reason? It was in response to what she said.
He said that in reply to what she said.

You can pretend and act ignorant that you didn’t understand the motives or intentions behind what he said.

Once again I don’t insult other people’s tribes. But your people love insulting other tribes, especially my own.

Your the one arguing with me, the thread ended days ago, and then you brought it up again. You and your brother derailed the thread once and now your doing it again

He is correct. You're a tribalist and attention seeker. Both will never let you see well. You also have a knack for lying very confidently. My guess is that first guy you mention like he's your best friend saw all this at once and just left you to your crazy beliefs.

Lol

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Family › Re: Your Husband in The Labor Room During Childbirth? by Ojiniman: 11:12am On Jun 11, 2019

Hello, LesaSid

I picked this place to ask a very important question quietly. Are you married or in a serious relationship?

Christianity Etc › Re: Whcih Lagos Church Has A High Number Of Single Ladies by Ojiniman(op): 11:06am On Jun 11, 2019

essenceplus:
Careful not to show it too much o. E don dey enter desperate. Start from a church within your vicinity.

Only if you know the huge life changing opportunity I stand to lose this year If still single. Moreover, I'm just sick and tired of bachelorhood

Christianity Etc › Re: Whcih Lagos Church Has A High Number Of Single Ladies by Ojiniman(op): 9:49pm On Jun 10, 2019

essenceplus:
So what's the starting point brother

Seven is a holy number and it will be my lucky number in Jesus name. I will visit only 7 churches between now and August and I will find what I am looking for. I am just confused as to where to begin. Church plenty for Lagos ooo and many are fake. Can't afford mistakes.

Anyway, I opened this tending so i can find someone that can say that In so, so church there are many matured ladies. Address is all I need and then I go and visit once or twice with my eyes wide open.

My situation is the real definition of single and searching.

Christianity Etc › Re: Whcih Lagos Church Has A High Number Of Single Ladies by Ojiniman(op): 9:33pm On Jun 10, 2019

mkoabiola:
So na only church u fit see better woman.

Lazy youth....keep deceiving yourself

This lazy youth should buy a jeep before the year is out.

Oh, and I don't want slay queens or ladies with 200 ex-boyfrinds spread out from here to Facebook and Ikoyi nightclub 300. I know what i am doing.

Thanks.

Christianity Etc › Re: Whcih Lagos Church Has A High Number Of Single Ladies by Ojiniman(op): 9:29pm On Jun 10, 2019

essenceplus:
Come let me tell you a G.O of a church of the island go meet am make him give you on the cherries in his church. Not just going to church but connecting to get what you want.

I want to move into a new house, I want do a lot of things but put all on hold because I want to find that second half of me and build a new life around her if need be. What I mean is, if she is gainfully employed then I move to her area. My business is online, moving is no issues. All i need is light or good generator mechanics in the area. Lol

I will connect alright but I must first find that which i want to connect to.

Christianity Etc › Whcih Lagos Church Has A High Number Of Single Ladies by Ojiniman(op): 8:33pm On Jun 10, 2019

Hello friends,

Please, I would like to know which church in Lagos has a high number of nice unmarried ladies? I ask this as a bachelor looking to find a good woman for marriage.

There is a saying that heaven helps those who help themselves. I want to find a good woman i like and then pray to God to show me if she is mine.I'm Igbo and would love to find an Igbo woman between the age of 24 to 30. tall, light complexioned, educated and working.

I was told Synagogue in Ikotu is one good place to go, but then I have no clear Idea which days would be the best days to do that. Could someone please advice me on this.

No matter the Church, no matter the location, I can visit if i feel i can find what i am looking for there. I sure won't find that sitting in one place.

Thank you!

Christianity Etc › Re: A Brother In Need Of Help Desperately! by Ojiniman(op): 6:37pm On Mar 19, 2019*

budaatum:
I'm only going to address the above. What evidence do you yourself have for your "Naija no de3y read"? Are we not Nigerians here, reading what you yourself wrote and even writing too, or do we not proofread what we post? And even if we don't read, would we not be the 'Church' you would have been sent to preach the Gospel to, which is precisely what the Word is, and which can not enter ones life unless read?

No, I'm not judging you. I just do not think you see (sorry) what God has given you because you focus on what was taken from you. Jesusjnr might be able to explain to you better that the perfect God is working God's perfection in you. I'd also have asked you to consider what solite3 wrote here except I don't think solite3 understands what the Holy Spirit compelled him to write by the way he is responding.

When you find the Kingdom of God all other things are sure to follow, unless God is a liar.

I'm a published author on okadabooks (African online bookstore), Amazon (Worldwide), Smashwords (worldwide distributor) and D2D (worldwide distributor)

I began by writing fiction in my real name and publishing on nairaland here and then okodabooks. That i went bankrupt in 2016-18 despite being a bestselling author with quite a number of fans on both platforms should tell you a lot. I have never met an author who writes and sell his books strictly in Nigeria who has made enough money to buy a car or rent a good house and pay his bills.

It was another Nigerian author that saying 'Naija no dey read' introduced me to the secrets of publishing on foreign bookstores all of which are based in the USA. The white man reads, he'll read anything and as long as you are good in what your write he will buy it.

Here, a few Nigerians will read and buy, yes, but only if its sound like a Nigerian movie. If its educative you are wasting you time. If you write a blog post and monitor visitors to it via country location you will notice that while only 3 or 4 Nigerians will read it, dozens of Kenyans and South Africns will read it. After a while the Americans will come and if they like what they see they will keep coming.

Go and ask any blogger what i have said.

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Christianity Etc › Re: A Brother In Need Of Help Desperately! by Ojiniman(op): 8:56pm On Mar 17, 2019*

budaatum:
First, I am certain you were told to post details of your books here! Why did you disobey that instruction?

In all you wrote, this "church will not accept me until God heals me and God won’t heal me until enter the church", is just about the truest thing you wrote. From it, I deduce you haven't a clue what is meant by "church", and "enter", and "heal". But, you will. Nowhere in all of this does it seem you sought the help of doctors or professional help to overcome your difficulty! You listen to prophecies that seem to never come true yet still believe they might!

Words, are by what things are created, and you are a writer, a crafter of words, so I suggest you put your skill into those words. Do not limit yourself to what prophets tell you but listen to the voice from where the words you write come from. And in all things, Praise the Lord.

Contemporary Nigerian writers have a saying.... "Naija no de3y read". The same goes for the entire Africa, with the exception of South Africa and Kenya. They are the only reader nations in Africa and the market there is not even that much. So remind me again, sir, why i should post my book details here? I'm actually one of the best writers over in Nairalaqnds literature section, I promise i need no more Naija publicity.

All i need is what i have asked for here. This is even the second time i am asking for help, last time i got nothing. But what matters is i did try.

"From it, I deduce you haven't a clue what is meant by "church", and "enter", and "heal"."

You deduced very wrongly, sir. I have served at the alters of 3 different churches... and for a time been a visioner. If i didn't have a clue as to what i was doing would i be these? Or perhaps you deduced that i was a fool as well? Listen, in 22 years i have not heard a single sermon because of my hearing issues and my faith is not based on the bible. It is based on what i have seen with my own eyes in spirit... yes my prophetic gifts come and goes even as i am. The spiritual beings in whose presence i have stood before will terrify you and a mere mention of their name will ensure you life is never the same again. Ordinary people don't go there and still live. I'm supposed to be a dead man, that i am alive is a miracle in itself and i know who is responsible for it.

My writing skill was something given to me after my father's death. Until then i had no skill or certificate. I was empty completely dependent on my father. God told me to go and sleep in a particular church for one night that he wanted to give me a talent. I did and then began to have the urge to write. My first book had people screaming my praise... if you don't believe me email me and i will give a link to see for yourself.

As for your saying it doesn't seem like i have sought out doctors and professional help, let me ask you a simple question. When i a first son was brought down by such a problem do you really think that my father would not have moved heaven and earth to find a solution to it quickly?
I have been to so many hospitals and taken countless tests. The cheapest antibiotic drug i was put on cost 500 naira a tablet and the most expensive cost 2.5k... this was as of 1997. I was taking them daily without effect. The doctors didn't understand it. No one believed my story that the damage to my ear just happened without a touch. the doctors said i was lying, that i sued something sharp to damage my ears. I asked the a simple question, how is it that a sensible person like me will damage one ear with a sharp object then the other ear as well, they couldn't answer. They couldn't even detect any problems with my eyes and they were eye ear and nose specialists! Can you guess how much all this process cost?

Medical science is not the answer to my problem. It will go the way it came.... just like that.

If you wish to know any thing else ask. But please don't judge.

One last thing. About my being clueless as to what "church" is.
A lot of churches start the right way but all get derailed by greed and profit. In other words, your modern day church has become something of a money making business... this is part i hate most and wish to change if i can. In every church you will see pastors who care about your problem and those who care more about how much you donate every Sunday. If my father was a billionaire will the church not have given me special case? Will a Reverend have blocked me just like that? Maybe not. but you certainly misunderstood my comment .... "church will not accept me until God heals me and God won’t heal me until enter the church"
That comment was more out of frustration at particular people than anything else.

Christianity Etc › Re: A Brother In Need Of Help Desperately! by Ojiniman(op): 5:25pm On Mar 17, 2019

jesusjnr2:
Greetings bro!

I am able to empathize with your situation because i fully understand a times how long it can take for God to fully prepare a vessel, and for His appointed time to come.

But be very careful to think that the solution to your problem lies in you finding a wife, because it may turn out another walk in the path that God has not chosen for you, and hence not turn out very well as the others have.

Why not ask God who has chosen you to find you a wife Himself, and orchestrate a way for you both to meet, if it indeed be His Will.

For God who has chosen you would know the kind of woman that would be suitable for you to enable you accomplish the purpose for which He has chosen you.

It's not a coincidence the extent of divorces in the church and amongst church leaders, for they usually marry without God's consent and approval, and hence often chose the wrong spouse which God has not chosen for them and hence such results.

So at least seek His face first concerning this, so that whatever happens it would be that you had done the right thing.

May God give the grace and direction to accomplish the purpose for which He has chosen you.

Amen to you prayer!

There was something strange that happened when i was 16. That was a year after my hearing problem came. I was at my village when i becaem ill and one of my aunts who has since been accused of witchcraft took me to a prophet to find our my destiny. You know this was one of these men of God that starts everything in their parlor before taking it somewhere.

When we got there, the man consulted his God then told my aunt that she can never answer for me spiritually that only my father can. The woman i marry must be able to "answer for me spiritually" or she is not mine. All this visions i revealed above were recorded by my father or step-mother then explained to me. I never heard a thing.

The first day i consult God about my wife i will go with my step-mother and wife-to-be. If the woman is the right one, then i will consult God alone with her elsewhere again to see how much information he will reveal to her. God is not an office where anyone can just come and steal a file of information.

My true wife has to be able to open my file before God and read everything in it. She is the only one that can ever do that.

Simple!

I added this correction to my post above

Christianity Etc › A Brother In Need Of Help Desperately! by Ojiniman(op): 3:11pm On Mar 17, 2019*

Greetings everyone,

Please, I'm in desperate need of a certain kind of help and my circumstance is bad.

I've been 70% deaf for 22 years, beginning June 1997 at age 15. It was just 3 months to my departure to the US for advanced studies when I awoke one midnight with terrible pains in my ears. By dawn, blood and puss were pouring out of both ears and my perfect hearing was gone. The issue affected my sight in a strange way. I could see well enough to move around like a normal person but couldn’t read because when I look at anything directly it’s black, even the sun. This was how Satan shut down my life at a young age and then removed the two people that would have fought for me... my mom and dad. My mom died mysteriously when I was 13 and then months after my problem came, my father became bedridden with illness for 16 years until death.

From then on my family fell apart. I'm the first son and my heart is clean. When Satan shut me down, i didn’t block my younger ones, I sat at home empty and allowed my dad train them as best as he could. Today, my sister is happily married with 6 kids and my London based younger brother has two... me? Nothing! They never even remember I’m alive now. My extended family is worse; there’s witchcraft there and it’s the source of most of my problems.

The situation is complex but I’ve explained so all understand when I say I’m alone in this world and my only hope of survival is marriage to a God-fearing lady.

My sufferings are for a reason. In the early days when I was searching for cure high and low, I was given to understand by different prophets of God that I am a modern day Job and prophet Jonah rolled into one. I was chosen and sent into the world to do God's work but was set to walk another path, hence God allowed Satan shut me down and so I would remain until I agree to serve God and the He would remember me in his own time.

At that time, no matter how I prayed or the church I went, nothing ever happened. Ordinary pastors would bind and cast till they got tired but true prophets would say I was different and God would heal me directly in his own time. Some of these men even refused to pray for me, saying plainly that my power was much greater than theirs (3 of these men are church founders).
It took me 10 years to accept my calling due to its nature. For one thing, I didn’t want trouble all my life and for another I wasn’t to start a church but to join one here in Nigeria, a country I didn’t want to live in, but then something happened. At a crusade one day, God used a strange prophetess to reveal to the heads of the church that I was the one that would carry that church overseas. That was the day I accepted my calling. That women later gave me a warning that I must be strong because Satan will try to stop me from standing in life with all his power. This was in 2007.

To cut a long story short, the opportunity to join the church at that early time passed me by due to financial problems that had me looking for money left and right instead of staying put at the church where God wanted me in a gradual healing process that seemed to stretch for 2 years. I spent the next 8 years trying to attend the Church’s yearly interviews but was always blocked by the high-ranking Reverend in charge of the Lagos district who felt I was not physically fit for it. In other words, this church will not accept me until God heals me and God won’t heal me until enter the church!

In 2015 I got fed up and almost turned away from God entirely but a prophetess told me to go for the next interview even if I still had the hearing problem and God would heal me there. When my father died later that year, I sold some of his properties I inherited and moved into a single room accommodation close to a small branch of the church so I could worship regularly and get healed. I also worked as a usher at the church.

Nothing happened for 3 years until my money finished and I have to move back to my father’s house and my step-mother’s endless troubles.
That interview came up last year October and I dragged myself to another Reverend, the one in charge of the church branch where I attend revivals and special prayers, to sign my application so I would attend it. The man agreed at first and even told me to make corrections which I did, but then, on deadline day he suddenly refused to sign it cos I am not a regular member of his church. On that day, there was no one to fight for me, to explain to this man that I was suffering from acute depression/frustration and lacked the finances to even feed myself much less pay 300-naira transport daily to come to his church. Deaf and part blind as I was, so tired of life and begging people, all I did was walk away without a word.

Between last October and this January, it’s been a fight to keep from committing suicide. A fight I won because I am not a coward and I always had sense of responsibility to all the people God wants to use me to help in this world. I cannot die and leave them, who will help them? All these hard hearted men of God who refused to help me in my day of need? I had to live for them and for me. I had to stand up no matter how late in life.

About this time, God informed me through a strange dream that my place in this world and among the leaders of that church will not be filled by any other person. I saw my seat vacant in that dream in a meeting of the churches 5 top leaders.

And this is the story of how I went from age 15 to today at 39, single and empty.

After this last incident with this Resend who refused to sign my paper, I suddenly realized that I should have gotten married before at all costs. My wife would have fought for me to the end and even supported me financially and emotionally. Certainly she would have given me the advice of trusting God over man and going for the interview without the man’s signature…. put God to the test with faith and see what happens.

My #1 obstacle in marriage has been poverty; that inability to take care of a woman. God solved this problem in October last year, when after more than 3 years of writing and publishing books on Amazon, some started selling. In total, I’ve made nearly $400 now and by the end of April, I should have the money in my hands and any more I make.

I had nothing before but disaster and emptiness and now I have over $400 and hope. This money is strictly for finding a wife and getting a house close a church where I will worship God very quietly until he comes knocking on my door again. I didn’t ordain myself and collect all trouble God did. He will come for me in the day I have peace, this I believe. The only thing that can give me that peace now is a good wife I will love completely.

The Help I Need.

The help I ask is simple. With my hearing problem and long isolation from society, I have certain setbacks that render me helpless in areas like communication with other people. Some even think I’m stupid sometimes cos I am so quiet in public.
Wooing a woman directly is something I have never done and it’s so hard now. Still I must do my talking myself. I just need to find the woman, gentle of heart and willing to listen.

I would be eternally grateful if someone could assist me in finding a god-fearing working-class wife, preferably of Igbo origin like me – (25-33 years of age). My choice in women is tall *(big), full figured and fair skinned. I guess some would say the sub-conscious part of me misses my mother…. that was her image and I have never found any other kind of woman attractive.

I live in Lagos and, if invited, would willingly visit any church in the state with a good number marriageable ladies. (I even planned to attened Synagogue Church of all Nations soon)
That’s it. My desire to find a wife and peace. Now you will understand when I say I need all the help I can get because I have no one to help me.

Thank you
omegastar293@gmail.com
I omitted my phone number to remain anonymous. You can contact me by email and get it. I communicate well via texting on whatsapps.

Note: I have already been told to marry by two different prophets in 2017 but the financial thing kept me off. Now, when i do find this women i will consult God severally to know she is mine before marriage. I will not marry anyone who is not mine spiritually.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › A Good Lady/lifepartner Needed by Ojiniman(op): 11:22pm On Sep 04, 2017*

Hi,

I'm a 37 year old Igbo guy who wishes to get married as soon as possible in other to meet certain goals. I live in Lagos and would love to meet a woman who lives here too but if she lives in another state and I end up liking her ... well thins can be fixed.

I would like someone gentle and above average height...big in build. Independent and no more than 30.

I'm a very religious guy, straight and do not lie but I'm not frigid, I do love sex and happiness with the right woman is what i ultimately seek. I have never been married before and so prefer a lady who hasn't

Serious ladies only pls

Christianity Etc › Re: ... by Ojiniman(op): 10:58pm On Sep 04, 2017

Ranchhoddas:
Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries.
They are specialized in handling cases of this nature.

My late father took me to one such church Ojo cantonment Borracks, Lagos. That was the year this thing started....1995

Lots of prayers and not effect for over a month. I was in great pain then, and so we went back to the hospital.

Even now, if I wanted to try any such thing I would need someone to accompany me and do the talking... see things through and even help me with the fervent prayers this thing demands...a wife is still what i need. my relative are useless. I've thought this thing through eriously. I would do better with someone by my side.

Christianity Etc › Re: ... by Ojiniman(op): 10:37pm On Sep 04, 2017

ipobarecriminals:
forget hearing aid.Majority of HA are fake/substandard. I believe the OP have sensorineural hearing impairment.The only aid that can fix this type of problem. is cochlear implant and it is very expensive(U may wish to visit Dr simeon Afolabi of BSA)"Mind u,i dnt work for him"I have knw him for 25 yrs now".As for the spiritual aspect of this, anoint urself,ear.U may wish to visit other prophet apart from that one.All will be well

Sighs....

So tired. If this wasn't my life I would advice the person to give up!

Christianity Etc › Re: ... by Ojiniman(op): 10:36pm On Sep 04, 2017

Ranchhoddas:
Have you tried MFM?

Please, kindly explain the term....MEM

Christianity Etc › Re: ... by Ojiniman(op): 6:52am On Sep 04, 2017

Remisol:
I guess I somehow missed the wound in the ear part. If antibiotic isn't working, that means the wrong antibiotic is being prescribed. Did the So call Doctor culture the wound to see what organism is growing? 'Cos only after that is done can you start looking for solution. The antibiotic isn't working either because the wound isn't caused by a bacteria or the wrong class of antibiotic is prescribed.

Between 1996 and 2000 and attended 6 different hospitals, 2 native doctors and countless churches. Like I said, no stone was left uuturned by father but he is dead now and its just me, an adult but not quite due to this problem. You got a point though, if i had the money, the heart and opportunity, I would go to the US for treatment at least.

But I don't have any of that now so as the Americans would say, I'm screwed.
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Christianity Etc › Re: ... by Ojiniman(op): 4:09am On Sep 04, 2017

Remisol:
You know there are all kinds of hearing aids on the market that will help enhance hearing your ability. Have you consulted with a Doctor to try to obtain one?

Thank you for your gently words.

I have lived in hospitals due to this problem. In fact in now hate hospitals and the smell of medicine because of it. Hearing Aid? The first thing the doctors will trying to do is to force my ear drums to heal via a bombardment of expensive Antibiotics...I mean the kind that costs 1000 naira per drink.

Yes, sir... the wounds in my ears have refused to heal for 22 years and i live with pain day and night ... learned to ignore it.

Like I said, my condition is of spiritual origin not physical and so it resists medical cure.
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Christianity Etc › ... by Ojiniman(op): 3:24am On Sep 04, 2017*

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