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HealthRe: Why Do Doctors In Nigeria Tell Patients Not To Eat After A Surgery? (photo) by Ojumakaka(f): 2:00pm On Jul 07, 2025
Brazino:
You haven't answered the question yet.

You only just rephrased my question
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PoliticsRe: Ex-Kwara Governor Cornelius Adebayo Dies At 84 by Ojumakaka(f): 8:58pm On Jun 25, 2025
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Science/TechnologyRe: South Africa Launches A World-class Dinosaur Exhibition Center - PICTURES by Ojumakaka(f): 4:48pm On Jun 24, 2025
I saw LAUNCHES I taught maybe they have joined the missile gang grin grin cheesy
RomanceRe: When Innocent Men Are Asked To Carry Baggage They Didn’t Pack by Ojumakaka(f): 10:24pm On Jun 20, 2025
Dpsychologist:
Mr ChatGPT i greet you. Do you go about calling it on everyone's thread.
You can edit your post well to match human written next time not copying and pasting what chatgpt wrote for you here disguising as intelligent writer
RomanceRe: When Innocent Men Are Asked To Carry Baggage They Didn’t Pack by Ojumakaka(f): 10:14pm On Jun 20, 2025
Dpsychologist:
So I came across this post online. A 22-year-old woman, pregnant and about to become a single mom, publicly asks for a “truthful, kind and funny male friend (boyfriend)” to help her overcome her depression, trauma, and “give her hope” to finish school. She even dropped her number.

Now here’s the thing: I’m not shaming single moms. Life happens, and everyone deserves love. But let’s call this what it really is — emotional outsourcing.

You made a choice, had a partner, got pregnant, and now the man is gone. That’s tough. But expecting a complete stranger (who had no hand in the situation) to step in as a therapist, motivator, and emotional punching bag? That’s not fair. That’s witch-hunting disguised as vulnerability.

A lot of innocent men are tired. Tired of:

Being emotionally ambushed with trauma they didn’t cause.

Being guilt-tripped into relationships to “save” someone.

Being labeled selfish for choosing peace over unnecessary stress.

Love is not a rescue mission. A relationship shouldn’t start with, “fix me.” It should start with, “let’s build together.”

Truth is, we all have scars — but it’s not your new partner’s job to heal the wounds left by the last one. That’s your responsibility.

If you're dealing with depression, abandonment, or trauma — heal first. Don’t bait someone into a relationship they’ll regret just because they were kind enough to reply.

Protect your peace. And if you’re a man reading this — you’re not evil for walking away. You’re wise.


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Thoughts? Have you ever been in a situation where someone expected you to fix their past? Let’s talk.
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PoliticsRe: Why Is It Only Online I Find Intelligent, Like-minded People, and none offline ? by Ojumakaka(op): 4:42pm On May 24, 2025
Thomthom:
You no get right to tell me how I want take use my phone wey no be you buy for me bros. Secondly shey you think say as you dey receive your own, others no still dey get their own for another corner ni. As you say you dey take your phone code cash out , na so some take dey use the same phone cash out on low key just different strategies. Small boy of 16 years buy I i-phone of 1.5m for my Koro Koro eyes unto update wey him secondary school friends drop for am. What I just like to say is leave and let leave
This is what I am saying , the small boy sharp by grabbing the update his class mate share give an . how would you feel actually sharing an update with someone dear to you and it start feeling like a burden to you because they can't make out anything from it instead draining your mental health. that's exactly what I am saying and i am speaking for myself and wondering why i haven't met someone offline who is that sharp enough so we work together except online where i have met significant amount of people even better than me in my various fields . but offline seems like i am living in a different world
PoliticsRe: Why Is It Only Online I Find Intelligent, Like-minded People, and none offline ? by Ojumakaka(op): 4:36pm On May 24, 2025
Thomthom:
But shey you think say as you dey receive your own, others no still dey get their own for another corner,. As you say you dey take your phone code cash out , na so some take dey use the same phone cash out on low key just different strategies
please i am talking about people around me or people i have come across . not the general public . Hence I added that i haven't met such persons who are tech savvy that much . and of course since they are people I have met or around me i can tell you they ain't earning no shit . they are either struggling with salaries or one menial jobs in which i have tried to help some to set them free for life but they ain't picking up . Like my kidbro is actually collecting some dolls kudos to my patience in tutor but he is slow in terms of grabbing the full picture . but i pray one day he might pick up . But it is very painful that even if I won't have a mentor physically let me at least have one mr knows all whom we can help each other and share ideas . it feels somehow being around people whose topic isn't aligning to urs in terms of hustling and you can't help it.
PoliticsRe: Why Is It Only Online I Find Intelligent, Like-minded People, and none offline ? by Ojumakaka(op): 4:19pm On May 24, 2025
MMempire:
All they think of is how to make fast money either by Yahoo or trending videos on social media. Most have smartphone but intellectually dull.
as in eh the thing taya me o . you see them buying big big phones. phones they can't even use to earn back the money they spent on buying it . meanwhile me , if i spent money on buying any phone , within few weeks or month i don use that same phone make back the money way i spend buy an times 10 .

coding or things many people use laptop to learn , i use phone learn and become expert on it even before i got my laptop .
PoliticsRe: Why Is It Only Online I Find Intelligent, Like-minded People, and none offline ? by Ojumakaka(op): 3:17pm On May 24, 2025
Zaheertyler:
Please how do you earn online
Happy weekend op
i am not here to teach anyone or advertise . pls don't make this post look like one . and don't you dare dm me . dont even waste your time . Just focus on the topic and contribute , if no then scroll to the next
PoliticsRe: Why Is It Only Online I Find Intelligent, Like-minded People, and none offline ? by Ojumakaka(op): 3:02pm On May 24, 2025
MMempire:
I present to you the current generation.
like emm . two people i am with right now na complete symptoms of malaria . infact i go soon relocate far away from them for my own peace of mind . small things just difficult for them . the one that made me shout for one this afternoon , just turn off something on WhatsApp settings , omo guy man say he don forget where to do that thing but this na things way i don explain over and over again and again since two months he joined me . and guy is just 26 years old o . but if you mention church and how to pray him go carry first position , talk about woman matter na expert there . like eh . over to my kid bro , for almost one year now i don dey try for that one no way , him own matter na no go area . As in eh the next thing in their mind na yahoo . it seems that's just what this generation knows about
PoliticsWhy Is It Only Online I Find Intelligent, Like-minded People, and none offline ? by Ojumakaka(op):
Honestly, I’m just tired. The people around me physically whether it’s neighbors, friends, or even family don’t understand anything about the online space at all. I make a living from this digital world, but anytime I try to carry one or two people along, it feels like I just gave birth and now have to nurse a newborn baby.

Most of them don’t get it at all. Even the simple stuff I’ll explain it over and over, and last last, they still won’t understand anything. I don’t even blame them too much. Not everyone will have online intelligence. But still, I keep asking myself why haven’t I met anyone offline who’s tech-savvy or even curious about this space?

Meanwhile, online I meet intelligent, sharp people who understand exactly what I’m doing. We reason together, share ideas, and grow. But offline, I feel like I’m always “Mr Know All.” but this things are just simple things . And most people around me? Just doing TikTok etc, they only know how to send "hello" "hi" gossiping, chatting and wasting time on nonsense.

Trying to help anyone offline feels like signing a lifelong contract with headache.

Sometimes, I just keep quiet because trying to carry people along is pure stress. They don't even know the use of the gadgets in their hands
PoliticsRe: Chicken Revenge-My Friend Killed One Chicken — Now The Rest Are After Him! by Ojumakaka(op): 3:42pm On Apr 22, 2025
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PoliticsRe: Chicken Revenge-My Friend Killed One Chicken — Now The Rest Are After Him! by Ojumakaka(op): 1:42pm On Apr 22, 2025
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PoliticsRe: Chicken Revenge-My Friend Killed One Chicken — Now The Rest Are After Him! by Ojumakaka(op): 10:04pm On Apr 21, 2025
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PoliticsChicken Revenge-My Friend Killed One Chicken — Now The Rest Are After Him! by Ojumakaka(op): 7:01pm On Apr 21, 2025
Make una come help us here o .... One of my guy that’s into poultry decided to kill one of his chickens for food. Normal thing now, abi? Since then, wahala start for an 😂🤣

Anytime he's passing by the remaining chickens, they go just chase an like where naija police dey chase yahoo boys . The war no be here o. Only him o! You know say e get when dem dey chase their owner for food but this chase different o . Other people dey waka freely, but the chickens don mark him own face gan gan . Be like they don blacklist am 😅

At first, we thought it was coincidence, but it’s been days now and they haven’t stopped. Chickens o! Who knew they had that kind of memory?
Now he’s like wanted man in their eyes. Even if he drop feed for them, dem go still chase am. Like say dem wan bite an self 😂No forgiveness. No peace. Just pure vendetta.

Na so the guy dey live like say he offend cult group. We just dey laugh but at the same time e funny and scary. Chickens with long memory? Who would’ve thought?

Abeg, anybody don see this kind thing before? How e go take settle this beef with the poultry gang?

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