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You accept video recording as evidence now, but would reject it wen it comes to party defections.

SoftSport:
Do not despise small beginnings, president Tinubu helped turn leaders like Sanwo-Olu from nobody to strong governors.

If these people are not Govs, others would be Govs in their places.

Meanwhile, these people and others are also instrumental for Tinubu becoming president. In fact, FASHOLA was extremely instrumental for Tinubu to win second term, when Obasanjo tsunami swept all southwest Govs.

Every great people receiving helping hands in one time or the other before they become great in life.

BondRiv:
NJC's role is clearly defined and it pertains to judges. It has no business taking such a responsibility.

That roles were written by human beings, it can also be re-written by human beings, if they think see, the one wrote before not good for our democracy.

seaenergy:
I didn't finish reading the bullshit, before I see hand written of the northerners, who believe they are more political calculative than the south to use amending some INEC section to remove Tinubu come 2027. They are not smart instead the southern politicians always feel less concern on issues that need to be caution.

If this is all former kaduna governor, kwankwaso and Atiku can come up with, then they need to replant because it fails before arrival. Mamudu most go by November and allow southern INEC chairman to makes amendment and conduct 2027 election for Tinubu and do Tinubu will come 3031. North should go and seat down. Every body knew that all this their rubbish is about 2031 not 2027.

Your own problems is not to remove Tinubu, and less concern about doing things right.
Even if sitting president want to turn country to hell, so far he is Ur tribe, so be it? Are you for once thinking about next generation or you think you will leave this country for ever? Even if you would leave, are u not think to leave in a saner society?

If Tinubu dies today, will you follow him or will you stop northerner to reach thr?

yemmit90:
Who then should select, appoint or fire INEC chairman?

How do you solve the issue of conflict of hierarchy and political alignments among the electoral officers?

Even at that, won't he/she get approval from Senate, an arm of government that you and I know that is highly corrupt?

How would you check his/her assess in carrying out their duties since they are answerable to no one?

How do you prevent the issue of bribery and favouritism in this institution?

@ Ur bolded

Is it only sitting president that can appoint and fire INEC chairman?

You think, NJC cannot take such responsibilities?

Meanwhile, in Ghana here, they are assuming such roles, .... Federal electoral chairman and state chairmen, by promotions, rather that appointments after every five years.

With that, the chairman of INEC may oversee 5 different electoral circles before he retires. That would insulate him/her significantly from dictate of sitting presidents as we are witnessing now.

Freshtruth:
Lamba

But Goodluck Johnathan you mumu sha

Is Jonathan that Mumu or those thinking for themselves alone while in power? Anybody who doesn't know power is transient is a real Mumu.

Where is Buhari today? Does he still hold the power? The way they respected Jona around the world, did they have 1/10 of such respect for Buhari?

Person who think about legacy and for future generations is the wise, while those who think for themselves are Mumu.

Wen a president would put someone who has ambition to become Gov or president in critical ministry in his government, what would you expect? Nothing but to amass the money meant to turn around the country, to his campaign funds.


Billions of dollars that Buhari borrowed for railway transportation, how far has Amaechi networked trains in Nigeria?

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Hello, Is it shameful for a woman to beg a man for sex in the middle of the night?

I mean a man that’s not her husband.[/color]

If it's not ur boyfriend either, it's wrong, .....and wen you beg and he turns you down pls let him sleep in peace, it's not always every time man is in the mood to sleep with woman.

Meanwhile, still doesn't know why many of you ladies, always degrading your esteem when you see fine boy/ fine man.

Lifestone:
Husband ran away since 2006, unfortunately with a sickler child. I'm a practical person and have faced life challenges in life. Remarrying should have been her option, maybe she listened to people like you. Nothing unusual. I'm sure the Man had gone ahead to raise a new family and a happy person today

I doubt if you can YOU READ BETWEEN THE LINES, perhaps, YOUR AGE STILL SMALL TO COMPREHEND what that guy is telling you.


He said, did you think life is easier as you are saying?.....why can't she remarried and birth another baby blah blah blah? Easier to say than do!


Meaning,... you think she didn't attempt?

When you grow up you will understand, philosophy of life.

Igirigimercenar:
Please count we Igbos out of that North vs south contest please

It should be North vs southwest contest

Who made you a spoke man of Igbo?

So kwam 1 is now a Christian, no wonder, his songs lately have similarity with Christian song. ........Ade Ori Okin.

ruggedtimi:
So na Atiku/el rufai be their fear..not the voters...SMH

Had voters ever been their fear? Even here on faceless forum, can't you see they enormous support tyrant is getting here?

Politicians know exact people they are leading, hardly they different from slave.

Numerouno94:
We have situations where a bank will ask for the NOK b4 funds can be released to the family. Some banks will insist that only the NOK can initiate the withdrawal process.

*In court next of kin must involve in letter of admistration, you are taken to the bank.

*In bank, next of kin must be involved, before your money is released.

*Also, wen any worker dies during the active service, next of kin must be available before any termination benefit paid, be it private or public.

So, those who are putting their close relations as next of kins know exactly what they are doing. Though, it's advisable not to use minor in other to make the process fast.

Meanwhile, how many Nigerian writing will? Or even sharing property according to will?

If I'm Tinubu, the same measure should also place on the import from USA.

Sharia is meant for only Muslim.

......... religion of peace.

I guess tyrant gave you ultimate power to wipe out the whole state.

Number 3 is out of it.

SPARE THE ROD AND DESTROY YOUR CHILD.

These little kids,many a times, they need cane for them to behave normally, don't use it to brutalise, but to chastise.

Chilipepper:
When you're narrating this kind thing in a public space, always share your own bad attitudes too so that people will know how to give a balance advice. Haba na! A lady you married, given birth to children can be all these bad at a go.

The list above is just 3, he only splits it to make it big.

Lack of sex.
Not taking care of children.
And bad behaviour.

Negroid001:
This is why 2 wives is the best

As if 2 wives not having issues.

As if 2 wives problems not bigger than this.

Always reasoning myopically.

busariabeyx24:
Why I Want to Separate from My Wife

Our relationship has become emotionally unsustainable for me, and after long periods of silence, inner conflict, and attempts to make things work, I have come to the difficult conclusion that separation is the healthiest path forward—for both of us. There are several deeply rooted issues that have contributed to this decision, and I believe it’s important to lay them out clearly.

1. Lack of Intimacy and Weaponization of Sex
Intimacy has all but vanished in our relationship. What’s more painful is that she uses sex as a tool—to control, punish, or manipulate. This has left me feeling undesired, unwanted, and emotionally abandoned. Intimacy is not just physical, it's also about connection, vulnerability, and shared closeness—and we have none of that left.

2. Emotional Abandonment and Loneliness
While she often chooses to go out and spend hours with her friends, I’m left alone in the house, feeling isolated and neglected. Even when we’re in the same space, we’re disconnected. Her priorities have shifted away from our relationship and family, and I feel like a ghost in my own home.

3. Neglect of Parental Responsibilities
Despite being a trained teacher, she makes no effort to support the children academically. Their homework, school needs, and learning challenges fall entirely on me, even though I’m also the primary provider. It hurts to watch our children miss out on guidance that she’s perfectly capable of giving.

4. Communication Breakdown
We barely talk. When we do, it's either transactional or tense. There's no emotional sharing, no joint planning, no meaningful conversation. We exist like two strangers under the same roof.

5. Disregard for My Input and Support
Time and again, I’ve offered her advice that could have helped her avoid unnecessary stress or mistakes, but she disregards me—only to later face the exact consequences I warned about. It feels like my voice has no value in her life.

6. Encouraging Poor Habits in the Kids
She not only neglects the kids’ school work, but she also encourages them to go to the next neighborhood to play or hang out—at times when they should be studying or resting. It undermines my efforts to instill discipline and focus in our children.

7. Lack of Respect for My Hustle
She shows no interest or concern in how I make money, the pressure I’m under, or the sacrifices I make to keep the family going. There’s no appreciation, no empathy, just entitlement and expectation. I feel invisible, like a machine that’s supposed to produce without rest or recognition.

8. Misplaced Priorities
Her life seems to revolve around eating, watching TV, and spending hours gossiping with friends. There’s little to no effort toward improving our household, our relationship, or our children’s future. That kind of passivity is damaging, not just for our marriage but for our family as a whole.

9. Manipulation by Friends
She allows her so-called friends to influence how she treats me, even to the point of disrespect. Rather than defending or standing by me as a partner, she lets their words shape her actions against me. This betrayal by proxy is incredibly painful.

10. Ongoing Emotional Disregard
As I write this, she has been outside gossiping with a friend for over three hours—leaving me inside, emotionally abandoned once again. This isn’t an isolated event; it’s a pattern. I’ve begged for her time, attention, and partnership, but she chooses others over and over again.

Not until couples involved in marriage learn how to manage each other, marriages would keep scattering everyday.

Meanwhile, epistle you wrote up there, anybody going through that should know, the woman left him long time ago,........ur title not in tandem with reality, ...you are not the one to leave the marriage, she already left you... if you ready to accept reality, you urself knew she has another man in her life, but you dnt want to be humiliated, that's why you didn't include it here.

And if he is doing yahoo stop codedly? Or if he ventured into yahoo after marriage?

etrouble:
Shey Ogun wan kee you ni? Must you come here if you are mentally unstable? Have the mods too become religious fanatics ni? Or why would the mods allow his id to be registered on Nairaland in the first instance?

Ogun ke?, It can never completely finished from the body, why cant you go back fully to ur family gods. I mean "isense".


Here is a clown that ready to die for gods oo

DevilsEqual:
And the US want to throw in a woman into this mix

Jokers of the century

Abi oo, since its the woman that would go and fight the war.

Clown of the century

SultanOfAbia:
This is the best time to bleep married women
I have been enjoying 2 of them this period
Paying for her last childs SS1 school fees
Since her husband no fit

2nd married woman, is literally a lioness no wonder she born 6 children for her man.
This one wan finish me with sex, she go even leave her shop and track me at my house for knackings.
I only paid for her daughters textbooks and uniforms.
U see we live in a scratch my back I scratch yours world right now..
I don't mind helping as long as you help me
God bless all married women this period

Be sleeping with married women and helping them sponsor children, while several progress things in ur life that you suppose to used ur hard earned money to fund continuing lying aground unattended to.

After 10 years of sleeping with diffrent married women, while their chidren would be progressing, your own life would remaing stagnated.

My only problem is that, its ur mama, papa and other siblings that you be accusing of witchcraft by then.

Land, house, cars, get married, advance ur self in academic, buying of shares, travel abroad are the good things that, an inteligent guy would be dreaming and doing, but for clown and mad cow, he would prioritise friviolity.

They have been sleeping with married women from time immemorial, your own wont be first neither would be last.

Sex capital is in every town and city, but it requires MONEY, TIME & ENERGY, if you can afford the above listed factors, you will do it untill you are tired exhusted.
Its only that such world is not open to everyone to see, even thou it happens among us and in open space.

In sexual world the more you look the less you see.

The extent of which Ndigbo angry wherever they find themselves globally is worrisome.

The reason, still unfathom to me.

Typicool8:
USA will be the laughing stock of the whole world if Kamala Harris wins cos America will be so weak

Comming out from the same delusional guy that always complaining in his home country about Tinubu tyranny.


I think its you guys that usually say, its women who dont know what they want.

malali:
My dad is actually not rich. But i own Oil E&P Companies.

Ur daddy is not rich,yet, someone who is risking his investiment to rescue a colapsed country ,you are posting trash, to surpot nonsense, claiming concerned nigeria.

Offcourse, since u dnt see beyond Nigeria and ur percepective is grosslly bias and myopic.
I will indulge you to study, 2 most advnced economies and how they are surporting their own citizens, to fix personal business, which they know,it would be a beneficiary to the country in the long run.


Chech below and see what President Bush did for "General motors" during his time, and create time for urself to read several stimulus packages that Bush predecessor, Obama did after Bush left office.

malali:
Akinwunmi Adesina,

Your passionate defense of Dangote’s monopolistic tendencies is misplaced and ultimately detrimental to Nigeria's long-term economic health. Let’s be clear: the open free market should determine winners and losers, not subjugation or forced patronage.

Monopoly and Market Distortion

You argue that monopoly exists due to high barriers to entry or high capital costs. While this may hold some truth, it does not justify the creation or maintenance of monopolies, especially not through governmental favoritism. Dangote has benefitted immensely from the Nigerian state: free limestone, free land for cement factories, some of the cheapest non-unionized labor in the world, unlimited tax concessions, and numerous import waivers. Despite these advantages, what has been the result? The cement business remains a monopolistic cartel. Do Nigerians enjoy cheap cement today? The answer is a resounding no. Dangote was one of the first to hike cement prices, exercising his market dominance at the expense of Nigerian consumers.

Dangote Refineries and Energy Sector Monopoly

Now, you suggest we should hand over the energy sector, crucial for 300 million people, to a single man. This is both dangerous and short-sighted. Dangote’s decision to build a $19.5 billion refinery was his own business choice, and with any business venture comes inherent risks. He should have anticipated the possibility of buying crude at market rates and selling refined products in an open market. Expecting the NNPC to capitulate to his demands reeks of entitlement and undermines the very principles of fair competition and market dynamics.

Misplaced Sympathy and Entitlement

Your attempt to elicit sympathy by emphasizing Dangote’s massive investment ignores the fundamental fact that he should have considered market contingencies. Dangote should compete on equal footing with other businesses, not seek special treatment. Throwing a tantrum and trying to manipulate crude sales and petrol procurement from the NNPC signals a disturbing sense of entitlement.

Economic Independence and Fair Competition

Nigeria’s energy sector, like any other, must remain open to fair competition. Your call for protectionist measures to favor Dangote is a call to undermine the very fabric of a free market economy. The energy sector should be driven by innovation, efficiency, and competition, not by monopolistic practices.

A Call for Economic Justice

The days of allowing a few individuals to dominate critical sectors of our economy must end. We have seen what happens when monopolies are allowed to flourish – prices soar, quality suffers, and innovation stagnates. It’s time for Nigeria to embrace a truly competitive market, where every player has an equal opportunity to succeed.

Adesina, you call for support and protection of local industries, but true support lies in fostering a competitive environment where no single entity can dictate terms. We must not surrender our economic future to a few individuals. The Nigerian people deserve better – they deserve fair competition, better prices, and improved quality of goods and services.

Nigeria's economic landscape should be determined by open competition and market forces, not by entitlements and monopolistic control. It’s time for a new era of economic justice and fairness, where the interests of the many are prioritized over the privileges of the few.

Sincerely,
Malali.

Thank you for your long epistle and ur understanding on the issue, but sir, when will ur daddy would start his own refinery, iron still, bitumen, railway and other gigantic and capital expensive companies?

We want him to benefit alot from govt surports like Dangote and by extention, for nigeria's youths to be able to have job opporunities.

We dnt want people to be japaing" to sahara desert again, where they exploit nigeria citizens