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Juliearth:
He was a chronic Liar.

if i may comment, I'll say lying is part of the lifestyle of 98% of men. So for me i think if you trully love him, you can manage him and also try to change him. Always be encouraged by his good side, like they say everyone has their good sides no matter how bad they seem.

This is my personal submission oooo. I rest my crayon!!!

I have this neighbor who happens to be my friend but not close. He has come to borrow money from me more than three times promising to pay back on so so and so day but never returns it and infact he never talks about the money again and i also kept quiet. Now he met me again this morning asking me to borrow him 5k, promising to pay back tomorrow evening that his children have not eaten since yesterday. Sincerely i feel pity for him because of the children but i'm equally scared of giving him due to the previous ones he hasn't returned. Please guys what should i do? Honestly if i'm sure he'll return it tomorrow i won't hesitate to give him right now but i fear he'll repeat what he has been doing.

The funny thing about him is that anytime he doesn't have money, he remembers i'm his friend but once he has money, i'll never see him at all, he doesn't come close to me, his wife becomes his friend when he has money. I've been helping him and his family in so many ways that i don't want to mention. He has a car and i've never dreamt of having one ooo.

Indeed cheap publicity... The lady is so cheap and foolish for doing this.

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One major problem globally affecting marriage is the issue of DIVORCE.

Divorce should never be considered by couples because marriage is the union of two different people who come from different backgrounds, upbringing and have different views about life. The only exception where divorce is advised is when domestic violence or emotional abuse is involved.

Research has shown that over 70-80% of divorced couples live in regret for the rest of their lives and wished it never happened.

The chances of Reconciliation after Divorce is 95% especially when children are involved and that is why marrying or dating a divorcee is not advisable because it only takes a second for them to reconcile no matter what led to the divorce.

So whenever you want to date or marry a divorcee don't put all your eggs in one basket because at the end you'll get hurt and think you were lied to but the truth is that you were not lied to but the truth is that when he a man or a woman get the opportunity to reconcile with their spouse, they can't help it especially when children are involved.

Lastly, before you consider divorce, think deep and before you date or marry a divorcee, think deeper.

A lady came to complain about suffering from domestic violence and showed us wounds on her body that was inflicted on her by the husband and all sorts of things that we concluded he's a monster and we advised her to pack her 3 children and leave the marriage before he kills her.

Later that night my wife said let's not be quick to judge the man, she then suggested i get across to the man and hear from him first. So i called him the following day to hear from him. Guess what? Most of the things she spoke about were lies. One of the injury she showed me and my wife claiming he beat her was actually lies because he showed me his chat with her where she was telling him that she fell down at the balcony when she was doing some chores and got injured, she even snapped that same injury and sent to him while he was at work. He showed me alot of things that totally negate all she said.

Never you hear one side of any story and conclude, always hear from the other party too.