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dkidd:
Courtesy demands U call her people to inform them of the new development and that Ur decision is firm.

Do a DNA test on all the kids

Do a general health check on urself

Near God very well.

Never take her back no matter what

You will make it

I really appreciate this alot... I'll do as stated

ravensckar:
This OP is dumb beyond belief!

So, you told a Naija woman to pack her stuff in your absence? To make matters worse, you didn't inform her parents and family members that she had left your house? You're really naive!

It's like you don't have anything going well for you in life. What if she goes missing? How would you explain it if her people demand to see their daughter? All these kids of nowadays always dicing with danger thinking it's "hardness". E be like sey you never sleep for prison before.

To further show your naivety, you even fell for the temptation of fighting a woman who has nothing to lose. She would have killed you or herself in the process. I pity you!

You asked her to pack out before you return from work? Werey even gave ultimatum. You're lucky she didn't destroy all the things you have in that house. Try that nonsense with my wife and she'll burn your certificates, land and car documents or even clothes. Las las, she go tell you sey na devil.

In summary, never understimate the daughters of Eve, they will destroy your life and shed crocodile tears afterwards. If you're ever going to divorce your wife, do it with caution & wisdom so that you wouldn't be burned in the process.

#My_Two_Cents

I fought her because you needed to see the way she jacked me, tore my native wear and slapped me. Thank God i came back before she left, she would have gone with alot of my properties.

KillahPriest:
call her parents and inform them of the latest developments immediately. No do like say you dey beg sha o

thank you, I'll try to do that since most comments suggest so

Juliearth:
I hope you are not Odafe360 That fellow used this same pattern of yours to gather pity party and launched a scam campaign afterwards.

Oga or Madam, I don't know if it's a man or a woman behind this account but did you see anything related to scam in my post? Many of you have succeeded in making the internet so toxic for people to even express themselves.

Meektunz:
My candid advise is even if you wanna make a police report, make sure you call her parent first because even if you go to report to the police they'll still ask if you've informed her parent and if you say no, they'll still advise or force you to inform her parent because that's the right thing to do...Shalom!!!

Thanks alot, I really appreciate your advise.

Kobicove:
It is better for you to inform her family that she has left your house cos if anything happens to her where she is they will accuse of using her for money-making ritual or something

You're right but how about making a police report about her leaving so that I'll be on a safe side?

olawaleatanda:
did Odafe360 scam you

If yes I think he's the OP

Please stop dragging or mixing my person with another. Did you see anything related to scam in my post? I'm a well known web designer. Please if you don't have anything meaningful to comment then you move.

olawaleatanda:
oga both of your stories no clear jare

But still seun will move it to frontpage for his own selfishness

Please what is not clear in what I posted before and now? Please if you don't believe me it's okay. Right now i need sanity please.

Some days ago i posted about my unrepentant cheating wife and plans to chase her away https://www.nairaland.com/8447833/want-send-wife-packing/2#8447833.93

Today i woke up and told her to put her things together before i come back from work cos I'll be taking her back to her parents then she started telling me that it won't pain her cos she has money now and that she has been planning to rent a house before now, so i replied her and said it's good. Then i left to work and after some time while i was at work my mind was telling me to close earlier than usual and i heed to my mind and closed and headed home. Immediately i got home she had already chartered a cab and was packing her things, so i entered the house and checked her load that she was arranging then i found out she had packed alot of foodstuff palm oil, groundnut oil, rice, beans, spaghetti soaps, detergent etc. Then i quietly started packing them back to the kitchen and told her this are my properties, the next thing she did was to slap me and hit me and i got angry and beat her. After some time of dragging she left and i told her to leave the kids which she did. Right now i got to find out through my house help who is staying with me that she didn't go back to her family house but rather she went to her cousin's place to stay cos she overhead her phone calls with her cousins when i left for work.... So as it is now, nobody from her family knows she has left my house.

Shame is part of the reason she doesn't want to go back home and offcourse none of her elder siblings supported all her cheating acts that i've been complaining to them about and she got angry and stopped talking to them cos they didn't support her.

John360comng:
Women cheating on a man is not the same as a man cheating on a woman.

Although, I do not condone your cheating but you must understand that once a woman decides to cheat on you.

There is no going back unlike you the man. Once, she cheats on you the man. You have lost her forever. She can never be the same with you again. If her love was 100% with you. It is now reduced to 20% and this can’t be undone no matter how much you all reconcile so if your wife cheats on you.

Don’t hurt her but don’t take her back. She has made choice.

Hmmmmm, this is deep.... The reason i agree with you 💯 is because anytime i catch her cheating, she'll cry and beg for forgiveness as if she would never ever cheat again but give her few days or at most 2 weeks, she's back to cheating.

bluebay:
Eve the Bible said the only reason to divorce is infidelity. Truth being told , if you catch your wife sleeping with another man, do not waste time in sending he packing because that woman cannot stop cheating and if she does, the everlasting dent is always there whixh you’ll live with for the rest of your life . Please let her go for your mental health .

Let me tell you how I found out about the last cheating 4days ago. I noticed she changed the password of her phone and then I was suspecting her, then i confronted her and lied that i found a way of unlocking her phone and I saw everything she's doing with men. Then boom she exploded and said yes she's doing her own for money, that I made her the monster she has become, that she doesn't even know how she ended up with me...... She said alot of things bro. But at last she apologized by herself yesterday but mehn, at this point I wanna send her out of my life for good bro. The only thing hindering me is the children's school and it's third term

kevotek1000:
Most men cheat for fun of having sex and that's all no affection or love attach to it. But when a woman cheat on her man, it will go beyond having sex for fun, the life of the husband would be at risk, because she will see her husband as a standing block between her and her cheating partner. Remember women don't cheat for fun, and when they are in love they can do anything. Think twice about Forgiving her, now that you have the chance because tomorrow maybe too late. I recommend you run DNA on your kids if you have any to check for ( OMO ALE).

Let me tell you how I found out about the last cheating 4days ago. I noticed she changed the password of her phone and then I was suspecting her, then i confronted her and lied that i found a way of unlocking her phone and I saw everything she's doing with men. Then boom she exploded and said yes she's doing her own for money, that I made her the monster she has become, that she doesn't even know how she ended up with me...... She said alot of things bro. But at last she apologized by herself yesterday but mehn, at this point I wanna send her out of my life for good bro. The only thing hindering me is the children's school and it's third term.

I've caught my wife cheating more than 3 times but I forgave her. There was a time I caught her sending nude to someone and I still forgave her. After that I still caught her cheating again but right now I'm finding it to forgive but she's still in my house, it keep ringing in my head everyday.

At this point I honestly wanna send her packing. What do you think guys? I wouldnt say I'm a saint. I've cheated before and she has caught me severally in the past too but that was in the past which i've stopped like 4 years ago.

Nazgul:
How old are your kids?

7 and 4

Anytime my barber comes home to cut our hair me and my two kids, he usually applies dye on all of us. Today my kids came home and told me that their headteacher said they should tell their parents not to put due on their hair. I'm so angry so angry because when you even go to more expensive schools, you'll see kids on dread and different styles. I've decided to go and see the headteacher tomorrow but if she insists then I'll stop it. What is your take guys?

The Catholic world is filled with excitement as Pope Leo XIV, the newly appointed leader of the Catholic Church, has a remarkable connection to Nigeria. Before ascending to the papacy, Pope Leo XIV served as a priest at St. John Catholic Church in Mararaba, Nasarawa State. This humble beginning in Nigeria’s Nasarawa State marks a unique and inspiring chapter in his life journey.


Pope Leo XIV’s service at St. John Catholic Church was a formative period, where he built strong relationships with the local community and deepened his spiritual commitment. His time in Mararaba helped shape his pastoral approach, emphasizing compassion, unity, and patience.

The Nigeria Catholic Network reports that Pope Leo XIV visited Nigeria multiple times between 2001 and 2016, attending key meetings in Abuja and other locations to support the growth of the Augustinian order. These visits strengthened his bond with Nigerian Catholics and highlighted his dedication to the Church’s mission in Africa.

Charly Boy, a well-known Nigerian entertainer and cultural icon, expressed his amazement and pride, saying, “Wow! A man who once served in Nasarawa is now the Pope. That’s a powerful message for all of us.”
Pope Leo XIV’s rise from a priest in Mararaba to the leader of over a billion Catholics worldwide is a story of faith, perseverance, and destiny. His journey continues to inspire millions around the globe.

Westwood2580:
I think u referring to me. Exactly everything u said is happening to me. Emaciated and lean. It's very hard to quit

you need to stop soonest please... It's not difficult to stop. I'll create another thread today in how to stop masturbation.

columbus007:
I think it's high time the efcc starts taken those who flaunt foreign currency for questioning.

come and arrest me then.... Anuofia

This is really two headsvare better than one. Kaii Nigeria

I did a survey about house agents that took me over a year to achieve.

The reason why house agents are exploiting people and also advising Landlords to add house rents any how is because 95% of those house agents either live in their old family house, a house their father left for them or they stay in funny houses that looks like a poultry, thereby do not cause them any significant money because of the condition of the house.

Finding a house agent who stays in a good house is like a camel passing through the eyes of a needle. I swear to God, if you see the kind of houses that house agents live in, even if they give you for free you won't take it. So they do not understand the pains of people than to be exploiting them.

The corpse of Saint Teresa of Jesus, who died nearly 500 years ago, has been displayed to the public for the first time since 1914.

Saint Teresa, also referred to as Saint Teresa of Avila, passed away 440 years ago in 1582. In August, her body was removed from a church in Spain, astonishing experts with its remarkable preservation.

Images show St Teresa’s remains laying in a silver coffin encased in marble, her face still ‘clearly visible’ and her limbs ‘incorrupt’.

Crowds of faithful gathered to view the body of the holy woman at the Basilica of the Annunciation of Our Lady of Mount Carmel in Alba de Tormes, Salamanca, Spain.

The saint is hailed as one of ‘God’s miracles’ due to her near perfect preservation, and when her coffin was opened last year, experts were able to understand the health conditions that plagued her during life.

St Teresa’s body was exhumed by Marco Chiesa, the General Postulator of the Order, at the Diocese of Avila in Spain on August 28.

Church officials shared the news on social media at the time, where Catholics said: ‘Her body is still incorrupt. Look for God’s miracles.’

Upon opening the tomb, a team of doctors compared photos taken of St Teresa’s face and foot in 1914, and the postulator said it was ‘difficult to make a comparison’ because the images were in black and white.

They did not release images of the saint from 1914, but said they plan to eventually share them.

Father Marco Chiesa explained that ‘there is no color, there is no skin color, because the skin is mummified, but it can be seen, especially in the middle of the face. It can be seen well. The expert doctors can see Teresa’s face almost clearly.’

St Teresa is the patron saint of chess players, lace makers, loss of parents, people in need of grace, people in religious orders, people ridiculed for their piety, and those who are sick.

She was a Spanish nun and became the first woman to be elevated to doctor of the church in 1970, an honor given to deceased saints for their significant contribution to the church’s doctrine.

St Teresa was canonised – meaning she was declared a saint – in March 1622.

Since her body was last exhumed, it has been described as ‘incorrupt,’ meaning it hasn’t undergone the normal process of decomposing after death.

Researchers want to uncover how St Teresa’s body has still not deteriorated and hope that it can provide information about how to preserve relics in the future.

Chiesa confirmed they’re still in the early stages of analyzing St Teresa’s body, adding that it is too early to release the details about their additional examinations.

The Diocese has taken stringent measures to protect the saint’s remains, including requiring a total of 10 keys to access her coffin.

Three of the keys are held by the Duke of Alba, another three are possessed by the city of Alba de Tormes and the Discalced Carmelite Father General in Rome has an additional three.

The 10th key – known as the King’s key – is also needed to access St Teresa’s remains, with three needed to open the outer gate, three to open the tomb and four to open the coffin.

Her remains were relocated to a locked room where a team of doctors and scientists will conduct visual examinations and take photographs and X-rays of the remains.

The samples were sent to a lab in Italy and is expected to take several months before the data can be gathered and released to the public.

‘The Order sees fit to do this work and it will be the specialists who, after their exhaustive work, will give us conclusions,’ Chiesa stated.

‘We know, from similar studies, that we will be able to learn data of great interest about Teresa and also recommendations for the conservation of the relics, but that will be at another stage.’

While studying her body, experts have also observed a health condition called calcareous spines on her feet, which they said were indicative of her religious commitment.

Calcareous spines are sharp bones recognizant of endoskeletons found on starfish and sea urchins.

St Teresa also suffered from convulsions, stomach problems, dizziness and loss of consciousness.

She defended her mystical experiences in her memoirs where she related her symptoms to having a connection to God.

‘We know that the last years were difficult for her to walk, in the pains that she herself describes,’ Chiesa explained, adding: ‘Sometimes, looking at a body, one discovers more than the person had.

‘Analysing the foot in Rome, we saw the presence of calcareous thorns that make it almost impossible to walk. But she walked [to] Alba de Tormes and, then died.’

In 1582, when St Teresa was about 67 years old and sick, she set out for Alba de Tormes to visit an old friend alongside Anne-of-St Bartholomew.

Chiesa said that despite her affliction, St Teresa’s ‘desire was to continue and move forward, despite the physical defects.’

While on the road, she grew exhausted and gravely ill and three days after St Teresa and her companion arrived at the local convent, she said to Anne: ‘At last, my daughter, I have reached the house of death.’

St Teresa’s coffin was last opened in 1914 after Father Clemente de los Santos, the superior general of the Discalced Carmelites at the time, said he wanted to see the bodies of the founding saints during his visit to Spain.

At the time, the Diocese of Ávila stated the body was still ‘completely incorrupt,’ just as it was when it was first opened in 1750.

Juliearth:
"Hello" is actually a code in telephone communication. It isn't just about breaking the ice, but making your caller know that you are ready to talk. In actual sense, the receiver is expected to break the ice. This serves as a confirmation of call receipt and readiness to talk.


For instance, if you are in a noisy environment and an important call comes in, you may not want to leave the noisy environment completely before picking because the call might go off. Thus, you may pick and continue walking and once the environment is sane enough, you say "hello".

I have a rule that whoever you are, even if i offended you previously and i later call you(perhaps to apologize) then you pick and start waiting for me to say hello first, I swear with my life, i'll never call you again because i see that as the height of disrespect.

I've come to realize after several survey that relationship/marriage requires constant forgiveness. No matter what you must encounter hurdles that tests your ability to forgive. Don't let the act of u forgiveness make you loose what might be God's plan for you. If you decide to end your relationship/marriage as a result of unforgivenss, you don't have any guarantee that the next one would be good. Think well

Daniellano:
Did you add considerable amount of weight cos I remember I once had a debate with my friend regarding weight loss due to masturbation but he debunked all of it

yes ooo my brother, very well.

suckprick:
While I am not a doctor, I dispute the fact that masturbation makes one to loose weight. I was a chronic masturbator but I didn't loose any weight. There are whole lots of disadvantages and destructions it does to the body but loosing weight isn't one of it. I can tell you that your weight gain is as a result of freedom, happiness, peace of mind, optimism and positivity from breaking out of that addiction called masturbation. Anybody masturbating should stop it immediately. You are destroying yourself.

masturbation makes you loose weight... Don't lie and deceive others

I've been masturbating for over 10years and honestly i've tried so much to stop but it wasn't possible at all....

Last year October, 2024, i miraculously stopped masturbating and guess what? I instantly started to gather conspicuous weight. It became clear to me that masturbation drains alot from one's body. Anyone telling you online/offline that masturbation has no negative effect is a liar.

Honestly i Wish i could share a picture of me before(when i was masturbating) and now after i've stopped, you'll be shocked. There was a time a very very close friend of mine asked me if i was okay because of how ematiated i was, he advised that I go to the hospital to check myself but deep down me i knew it was masturbation.


Stop masturbation

There was a day i was going to get my clothes from my tailor then boom i came across a group of hausa guys washing their tiger nuts so they could start selling. I swear the kind of water i saw them using hmmm, till today I never got appetite for tiger nuts again.

It is called online respect.... I can't even remember that there's anything called Facebook.

Rexymania:
I no fit do that kind mistake

my brother, if anyone told me I'll ever make this mistake, I'll say it's impossible. I'm really pained.

I went to greet my mother in-law and along the way i separated the money i wanted giving her from the money i kept for myself, so when i was leaving i deep my hand into my pocket and removed the money which i just gave her... So immediately she collected it, i realized it was the wrong money i gave her but i couldn't collect it due to shame, i felt so bad and angry. What would you have done if you were in my shoes?

Juliearth:
I appreciate your courtesy, but being in that situationship was synonymous to paddling punctured and damaged canoe over the North Atlantic ocean.

well, I understand you plight... But an inevitable truth is that everyone has their good sides and bad sides.

bukatyne:

this one wey you dey laugh, what do you think about what i said?