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Relationship and Abuse Series

Episode 4


Happy New Week everyone, it’s a great new week filled with good opportunities. It’s another beautiful day to evolve towards refining and redefining relationships.



A Quick Recap…


In the last post I spoke about 3 types of abuse which are:

- Physical abuse


- Psychological abuse


- Sexual Abuse


These two are actually connected to the first 2 main types of abuse, which are verbal and non-verbal abuse.


Today we will consider another crucial one,


Financial Abuse: Before going deeply into financial abuse, let us quickly look at some of the causes of abuse:


1. Family crisis


2. Stress


3. Domestic violence


4. Marital conflicts


5. Single Parenting


Now I will go deeper into them,



Family Crisis: A family is made up of the father, mother and children. It is actually the bedrock of society. Without the family, society cannot exist, because the family make up the society.



1. Family Crisis is synonymous with Family Chaos. It could be as a result of a......... READ MORE HERE https://www.facebook.com/457102328449571/posts/pfbid02pGBk6kWdzxqyLHJ5LaJ3H7b7sG94wwxk3oEz1FRkD32MDpCgLz1PDA7vgeJfQg6jl/?d=n



Your Relationship Doctor,
Olanrewaju Folorunsho.



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Relationship and Abuse Series


Episode 3


Hello everyone it’s another day for your favorite series again.

Apologies there was no episode last week but today we are dropping it hot.


Before we begin I want to celebrate August celebrants from all over the world from one continent to another. You are highly recognized.


Now to our crucial and critical topic.


Today we will look at some of the global discoveries about types and signs of abuse.

So firstly let us look at the 12 types of abuse:

- Physical abuse: It is any intentional act causing injury or trauma to another person or animal by way of bodily contact. Children, in most cases are the victims or the recipients of this kind of act. It could be physical violence.

Types of Physical Abuse are:

1. Assault, hitting, slapping, pinching, hair pulling, pushing and kicking.

2. Rough handling

3. Physical punishment

4. Inappropriate or unlawful use of restraint

5. Misuse of medication

6. Involuntary feeding or withholding food

7. Making someone purposefully uncomfortable (opening of window or removing blankets)

8. Involuntary isolation and confinement

9. Unauthorised restraint, restricting movement (tying someone to the chair)


- Mental abuse or psychological abuse: Psychological abuse often called mental or emotional abuse is a form of abuse characterized by a person subjecting or exposing another person to a behavior that may result in psychological trauma, including anxiety, chronic depression or post traumatic stress disorder. It is a hired killer to people. E.g. cyber bully, enforced social isolation, preventing someone accessing services, educational and social opportunities and seeing friends, threats of harm, removing mobility or communication aids or intentionally leaving someone unattended when they need assistance, preventing someone from meeting their religious and cultural needs, Intimidation, coercion, harassment, humiliation, cursing. Preventing the expression of choice and opinion. Preventing stimulation, meaningful occupation or activites. Failure to respect privacy.


- Sexual abuse: Sexual abuse is a kind of molestation by one person upon another. It is often penetrated using force or by taking advantage of another. It could be......... READ MORE HERE https://www.facebook.com/457102328449571/posts/pfbid029FZzrAzcXEnWKtCuRVkzcrcBdStNDnMtYSVhQ4HpxsMQJy3JXN3UP6wfPXwczBzSl/?d=n


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Rozross:
Most modern men are abusive , just 3percent are left out

97% abusive men is quite huge.


I know abusive men are many but 97% is very high.

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Relationship and Abuse Series



Abuse can occur in two ways which are:

1. Verbal abuse

2. Nonverbal abuse


Verbal Abuse: this is the type of abuse that comes in the form of tones, sounds, or speech from the abuser. Which tends to undermine the abused. This is an action word that works on the emotional state of the abused causing the person involved imbalanced emotional state which can eventually cause damage to the present stage of the abused’s esteem if the person cannot develop an anti-abuse mechanism that counters, kick out abuse words and bring sanity to the receiver’s mental health. I like to call it the “Shock Absorber Strategy''.


It is from this verbal abuse that we have words such as:

- hate speech

- rivalry speech (this could be among genders and family)

- jealous speech

- antagonistic speech


At times, verbal abuse graduates from stage to stage.


Which includes:

- A habit of not overlooking minor mistakes

- Reaction (instead of response) to things

- Anger Issues

- Overbearing attitude

- Throwing tantrums

- Destroying things in a fit of anger

- Beating up the abused

- Sustenance of life-threatening injuries

- Even to the extent of killing the abused.


All verbal abusers shout and rant on their victims like a predator pouncing on prey.

As a predator, abusers are very selfish and inconsiderate.

The mystery of the whole thing is that......... READ MORE HERE �� https://www.facebook.com/457102328449571/posts/pfbid02KPfZpJbsxF1xWxAMD6CRiBa18VGPNWzD5LG3vH97jW9JD4M7oqkhfo6AKDCoSiNXl/?d=n


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Olanrewaju Folorunsho.

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Relationship and Abuse Series

The New Series



In this series you learn about Relationship and Abuse and how to prevent them, how to know if you are in a romantic relationship with an abuser and how to end such relationship with your full chest and move on with your life.



It’s such an amazing opportunity to wrap up the True Love Story of the Love Redefined Series.

I want to appreciate specially all the Facebook following leaders, protégés and luminaries who have been following and engaging the posts with like, love emojis on this platform. Including those who have been sharing their thoughts in the Comment section and those who shoot my DM with questions. I also won’t forget those who call in to make necessary enquiries about what we do.



To June celebrants, newbies, and people that need to be consoled, we value you globally. We say a big shout-out to you all.



Hmm



Let's take a look at the new series – Abuse it is so pathetic and negative in the entire globe as we see it ravages and becomes a rampart, making human beings behave indecently leaving victims brutalize and molested.



According to the English dictionary, it is an improper treatment or usage, which leads to unjust and all kinds of wrongful acts. It is like an acid to the human body, spirit and soul.



Abuse is a kind of resentment and rejection that every living thing – both humans, animals and even plants detest. If it were a drink or food, it should not be consumed for like poison it brings sickness and even death to both the abuser and the abused.



If anything should be legally aborted, I believe it should be “abuse”.



Abuse is demeaning, it makes its victims lose focus and value. It is a Killer Emotional Disease (KED) like an imbalanced diet it can lead to internal swelling like a tumour that demands an urgent emotional operation to set the person free from shackles. For it traps an individual and causes them trauma without end until another injection of love and positivity is received.



Today, I will share with you a very short but true life story. The story goes this way.



A farmer planted some seeds in front of his house and other seeds at the back of his house, (now the location is not the problem because both soils at the front and back of the house have the same pH value of 7.0 very ideal for most crops) and then he, decided to water both sides faithfully and wholeheartedly but he had an intention.



What was the intention?



He decided to use what we call sound code.


What is this sound code?


He started blessing the seeds at the frontal part of his house and cursed the seeds at the back of his house.


(Even though the plant at the front and the back of the house got the same quantity of resources, he cursed one and blessed one because he wanted to prove something, which in this case I will like to refer to as “abuse”).



In a few weeks, the seeds in front which he blesses every day grew to become great while READ MORE HERE

https://www.facebook.com/457102328449571/posts/pfbid02PR24iKkkRcoFhpTRivcmmh7Vy3QEqthfVgCBVVHt5G5AdRTbWUqGsAwfFDchyoTPl/?d=n


Photo Credit: RODNAE Productions from Pexels


Your Relationship Doctor,
Olanrewaju Folorunsho.

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Relationship and Abuse Series

The New Series



Hello ��!



It’s such an amazing opportunity to wrap up the True Love Story of the Love Redefined Series.

I want to appreciate specially all the Facebook following leaders, protégés and luminaries who have been following and engaging the posts with like, love emojis on this platform. Including those who have been sharing their thoughts in the Comment section and those who shoot my DM with questions. I also won’t forget those who call in to make necessary enquiries about what we do.



To June celebrants, newbies, and people that need to be consoled, we value you globally. We say a big shout-out to you all.



Hmm



Let's take a look at the new series – Abuse it is so pathetic and negative in the entire globe as we see it ravages and becomes a rampart, making human beings behave indecently leaving victims brutalize and molested.



According to the English dictionary, it is an improper treatment or usage, which leads to unjust and all kinds of wrongful acts. It is like an acid to the human body, spirit and soul.



Abuse is a kind of resentment and rejection that every living thing – both humans, animals and even plants detest. If it were a drink or food, it should not be consumed for like poison it brings sickness and even death to both the abuser and the abused.



If anything should be legally aborted, I believe it should be “abuse”.



Abuse is demeaning, it makes its victims lose focus and value. It is a Killer Emotional Disease (KED) like an imbalanced diet it can lead to internal swelling like a tumour that demands an urgent emotional operation to set the person free from shackles. For it traps an individual and causes them trauma without end until another injection of love and positivity is received.



Today, I will share with you a very short but true life story. The story goes this way.



A farmer planted some seeds in front of his house and other seeds at the back of his house, (now the location is not the problem because both soils at the front and back of the house have the same pH value of 7.0 very ideal for most crops) and then he, decided to water both sides faithfully and wholeheartedly but he had an intention.



What was the intention?



He decided to use what we call sound code.


What is this sound code?


He started blessing the seeds at the frontal part of his house and cursed the seeds at the back of his house.


(Even though the plant at the front and the back of the house got the same quantity of resources, he cursed one and blessed one because he wanted to prove something, which in this case I will like to refer to as “abuse”).



In a few weeks, the seeds in front which he blesses every day grew to become great while READ MORE HERE https://www.facebook.com/457102328449571/posts/pfbid02PR24iKkkRcoFhpTRivcmmh7Vy3QEqthfVgCBVVHt5G5AdRTbWUqGsAwfFDchyoTPl/?d=n


Photo Credit: RODNAE Productions from Pexels


Your Relationship Doctor,
Olanrewaju Folorunsho.

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#abuse
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Sonia is one those rare drop dead gorgeous ladies,


Beautiful at heart, intelligent and entrepreneurial,


She is what you will get when you whisk Ibukun Awosika, Ngozi Okonjo Iweala and Juliet Ibrahim together.


Sonia is every good old man’s dream,


And due to her amazing qualities she is most sought after amongst women,


The problem is most men try to take up masks of a ‘good man with a good heart’ just to win her heart.


All the gentle, good Sonia ever wanted is just a good, responsible, diligent man who will allow her pursue her dreams and help her fulfill her purpose on earth.


Unlike her twin sister Tonia who had a tall list of outrageous demands from her “husband to be” but ended up marrying a deceptive man who stripped her off her dream of public speaking, made her close down her business all in the name of “I don’t want to see men around you”


As a result it was hard for her to give know which of the men chasing after her is genuine for they all put up a “good man front”,

Some even go as far as joining the workforce in the Church she worships…… READ MORE HERE https://www.facebook.com/457102328449571/posts/pfbid02Q33MdoEMCrb4SesroA96hL3ZGJK1EthXLrhxNbLnfmzYYjcf7vkCEcb7nLgqsAVvl/?d=n

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The Final Episode � of Love Redefined…

The True Love Story is out on my Facebook page,

Click the link below to read the last episode

Here is the link to the last episode of the True Love Story

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The last episode of the True Love Story comes up on Saturday 12pm prompt…

Love Redefined Episode 63 will be live on my page.


For those who have missed previous episodes, I got you covered �


Check the-link below.


PS: Isn’t the sky beautiful? It’s dusk for Love Redefined, but dawn for a new and exciting series �


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Love Redefined 24B..
Now, Saturday is finally here and everyone is busy with one thing or the other. The food is being prepared, the smell of good aroma fills the air, while event arrangement is going on simultaneously at the party venue.

Elizabeth’s brother in-law Tom came in to lend a hand. A few hours later everything is finally done.

Tom’s girl-friend arrived as Tom was arranging, they hugged and started talking.

Tom; Hello babe, how are you doing?

Clara: Hi baby, someone looks busy. And you look sharp.

Tom: Really?

Clara: I hope I am the first and the only person to tell you this.

Tom: (Smile) That’s a green eyed comment, Clara. Is someone jealous?

Clara: I am jealousy jealous of course, I cannot let someone else have you. Or would you like..... (read more here https://www.facebook.com/457102328449571/posts/915318639294602/)

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Relationship Redefined 23 B…

Now it is the naming ceremony of Elizabeth…

Tito arrived at the venue a night before the day as she was permitted to have a day off from work to attend her best friend’s christening ceremony.

Tito and Elizabeth hugged passionately, telling each other how they missed themselves.


The last encounter they had was at Elizabeth’s wedding, another memory that made them nostalgic was of Elizabeth’s mum baby christening ceremony of her last child Anthony who is now a fully grown man.

How they ate to their satisfaction and had reserved drinks for friends who could not attend.

The songs played at the occasion as Elizabeth’s Mum was carrying her first grandson to be named on that same day.

They both laughed as they relish those great old memories... Elizabeth explained some of the things her son does like crying style and two fingers sucking, she and Tito had a good laugh about it.

Elizabeth’s mum intervene…..
She rescued her grand son from his naughty mother and her friend prepared the child’s bath and left Elizabeth and Tito talking.

Elizabeth now, so excited that Tito made it said,.... (read more here https://www.facebook.com/457102328449571/posts/910599906433142/)


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Love Redefined 22 B

The acronym for VALENTINE is:

V - Voice

A - Alerted

L - Love

E - Enjoyed

N - Now

T - True

I - Inviting

N - Never

E – Ending.

For those trying to recover and prefer to be alone, you are not lonely, the sky is your starting point. Keep working on yourself to become a complete person, for relationship becomes enjoyable when 2 complete people come together.

Is it a fresh hurt?
You need emotions healing medicine to speed up your emotional healing.
Remember that you matter in the matter and that break-up can end up in a make-up or make over for you or a fresh start into an unending relationship like one of the acronyms of Valentine.
You cannot be at a disadvantage but have a vantage. Think of the things that makes you happy and joyous, try to overcome your past and remember that you cannot stay in the past and experience a fearless future.

You are in control of your circle of influence, you may not be in control of your broken relationship but your intrapersonal relationship which has to do with you and you alone is still intact.

Take yourself out on a date on Valentine ’s Day with you and you alone, possibly a new relationship, which I call the interpersonal relationship might emerge with same sex or opposite sex.
Now remember that there could be group date emergence through this kind of meeting.

Be willing to be single and mingle with right people, as this will take you on a journey to the right place of influence, increase and fulfillment.

Connect with me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/olanrewaju.folorunsho.3532

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Relationship Redefined 22 A

Happy Valentine’s day following leaders!

We congratulate those celebrating birthdays this month and most especially those celebrating their birthday today Valentine’s day. You are highly favored and do enjoy individually with friends, family members and Facebook lovers this your special month from first day till the end of the month. As you celebrate your birthdays, make it a duty to touch a life or lives and be a blessing to them.

Today is Valentine’s Day don’t forget to reach out to those special to you. And as well have fun, organize a picnic, go to the cinema together, dedicate a song, poem for the poetry lovers, physical and online cards, for those beyond your physical reach create zoom meetings, telegram meeting, surprise them with a video call.

This is a great opportunity to mend that broken heart, emotional trauma, emotional gymnastics or emotional accident. It is time for healing.
Be apologetic to the people you have wrong, apologize from the bottom of your heart push the reconciliation with a special gift and take a 360 degree U- turn to become a better person. Make a decision to become a better person from this period.

If you are in a relationship give that.... (read MORE here https://www.facebook.com/457102328449571/posts/906198036873329/)

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Relationship Redefined 22 A

Happy Valentine’s day following leaders!

We congratulate those celebrating birthdays this month and most especially those celebrating their birthday today Valentine’s day. You are highly favored and do enjoy individually with friends, family members and Facebook lovers this your special month from first day till the end of the month. As you celebrate your birthdays, make it a duty to touch a life or lives and be a blessing to them.

Today is Valentine’s Day don’t forget to reach out to those special to you. And as well have fun, organize a picnic, go to the cinema together, dedicate a song, poem for the poetry lovers, physical and online cards, for those beyond your physical reach create zoom meetings, telegram meeting, surprise them with a video call.

This is a great opportunity to mend that broken heart, emotional trauma, emotional gymnastics or emotional accident. It is time for ..... (read more here https://www.facebook.com/457102328449571/posts/906198036873329/

Relationship Doctor,
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#relationshipissues
#relationshipchallenge

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Relationship Redefined 22 A

Happy Valentine’s day following leaders!

We congratulate those celebrating birthdays this month and most especially those celebrating their birthday today Valentine’s day. You are highly favored and do enjoy individually with friends, family members and Facebook lovers this your special month from first day till the end of the month. As you celebrate your birthdays, make it a duty to touch a life or lives and be a blessing to them.

Today is Valentine’s Day don’t forget to reach out to those special to you. And as well have fun, organize a picnic, go to the cinema together, dedicate a song, poem for the poetry lovers, physical and online cards, for those beyond your physical reach create zoom meetings, telegram meeting, surprise them with a video call.

This is a great opportunity to mend that broken heart, emotional trauma, emotional gymnastics or emotional accident. It is time for healing.
Be apologetic to the people you have wrong, apologize from the bottom of your heart push the reconciliation with a special gift and take a 360 degree U- turn to become a better person. Make a decision to ........ READ MORE here https://www.facebook.com/457102328449571/posts/906198036873329/


Relationship Doctor,
Olanrewaju Folorunsho.

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#loveredefinedseries
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#relationshipchallenge

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Relationship Redefined 23 A..

Hello friends,

Welcome to Married and Unmarried Matters Facebook Station!

As always it’s a pleasure connecting with you.

For those who are yet to join in for the Telegram podcast, we encourage you to join on time as the Telegram podcast has been on hold only for a limited number of time..

So click the link below here and I will see you inside…


For as many as seek mentorship with Olanrewaju Folorunsho, we will be glad to have you on our mentoring platform as part of our mentees.

For as many as have voted for the valentine special topics (Sex and Valentine or The Emotions Pub/Bar).

Sex and Valentine topic has won the day, so it means we will be on this topic, we decided to hold on a bit so that more people can get on the Telegram group.

So we are waiting for you to join..only one person has joined from Facebook but we need more people on board so we can hold it on Saturday 27/2/2021..

Also your Christmas/New Year gift is being worked on, it is a free ebook that will add a lot of value to your single life. It is titled “The Mystery of Singleness”.

Are you ready for our story for today?

By the way how was your Valentine’s day celebration? We would like to know how your day went and we want to learn how you had fun, the new thing added to you or you added to your relationship affair, precisely what you did or your spouse did to take your relationship life to the next level.

Did you get a proposal or you proposed to your long time lover, fiancée?

Where did you visit that you have not visited before?

Where is that new projected place you have in mind?

What day, week, month or year did you propose to walk down the aisle together to start that new family that will add value to our world?

We will be expecting your answers as soon as possible.

Well shall we go back to the True Love Story?...
Just get to your seat, fasten your seatbelt and listen to every other instruction from our pilot before we fly in a soaring mood – into the air..

Do the following:

1. Relax
2. Listen attentively
3. Check your relationship with this True Love Story
4. Pick your own lesson from it.
5. Unlearn Relearn
6. Apply these new things to your relationship for maximum enjoyment


Tito and Ben received letters each before we entered into the valentine’s season last week. Hope you enjoyed the Saint Valentine’s story and you are aware of what happened to him.

Relationship Doctor,
Olanrewaju Folorunsho.

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Relationship Redefined 21 B

Back to the True Love Story…

Elizabeth was delivered of a baby boy, with joy and ecstasy she wrote Ben and Tito inviting them to the child’s dedication.

So fasten your flight seat belt as we fly to the love zone where we will have the best time relaxing and reading through for a fulfilling weekend. Ben then decided to write Elizabeth back.

Dear Queen Elizabeth,

Congratulations on your safe delivery, I saw your letter today and decided to write back, and thank God for this wonder time.

What a beautiful year and month for you, next Saturday is going to be great (of course it will be great since Tito would be there too). I with drinks and serve it to attendees.

What’s up Queen?
So….you invited Tito to the party?
You have been a Queen Mother and you will be our relationship counselor if things work out, for you have contributed greatly to it.

Since you are on maternity leave, I now have the freedom to write and bump into your place for more counseling and direction on what to do.

I can’t wait to see Tito, you know she is the most beautiful thing….. sorry, I mean the most beautiful lady no, that is an understatement. The prettiest jewel I have ever met all my life. You know I have pretty siblings, but she is priceless!

Saturday here I come.

Cheers

Ben.

After enclosing the letter in an envelope he shouted

“Yes! At last, my late night thoughts of Tito is about to come true”.

Ben started rehearsing his proposal to Tito using a centre table, sited at one end he said

“Tito baby”

Moving to the other end he sounded like a woman and responded

“Yes darling”,

He quickly moved to the other side again and said,

“Will you marry me?”

At the other end of the table (Tito’s side) he responded on her behalf saying

“Yes I can’t wait sweetheart”,

Ben demonstrated how he will carry Tito in his arms.

To be continued…

Will Ben's day dream come true?
Will will know in the next episode.

You've got questions?
Hit the Comment Box below.

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Olanrewaju Folorunsho

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Relationship Redefined 21 A

Ever increasing week to everyone, love redefined has been a top notch effect to our lives and love life this special month of love (though love is always in the air as it is an everyday practice).

Lovers day is here again in 2021, red ribbons, paintings and designs are ongoing and cards are being exchanged. According to statistics 145 million Valentine’s Day cards are exchanged, and these numbers make the second largest holiday for giving greetings cards.

Are you in love with someone?

Maybe I should rephrase the question,

Who is that special person you want to celebrate this Valentine’s Day?

A man called Saint Valentine has many stories around his life as I will share one with you today before we continue our Love Story Series.

Before we continue, I will like to remind you that you need to vote for the topic you want us to discuss on Valentines’ Day Sunday 14/2/2021. The vote link is currently on my status and Facebook Timeline, do vote as majority carries the vote.

Valentine’s Story…

His name is Saint Valentine who lived in Rome, Italy in the 3rd century, Emperor Claudius, who was having a hard time getting men to join his military leagues. He believed that Roman men were unwilling to join the army because of their strong attachment to their family (wives and children).

In an attempt to end this problem, Claudius banned all marriages and engagements in Rome. Valentine realizing the injustice of the decree defied the ...... read more here https://www.facebook.com/457102328449571/posts/903495587143574/

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Love Series 3.0 C

Simply because the organisation in question could not apply human resource management skill which I call the Character Acceleration Principle (as principle produces principal). If I give you my time and you mess it up for me, tell me, why should I be willing to give it to you next time when you probably need it so urgently and promptly?

This is a food for thought for me, and every following-leaders out there.

Till we meet online next week.
It's me,
Olarenwaju Folorunsho,
Your Relational Doctor.

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Love Series 3.0 B

Are you aware that time can be "Bought"?
Apart from buying "Airtime", giving "Eartime" - that is totally paying attention with your "Ear", it can actually be "bought" with your "character" as we have two things that character can be attributed to, which are "character assassination " and "character acceleration".

Character Assassination as the name implies is ..... (Read more here https://www.facebook.com/457102328449571/posts/808591439967323/)

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It's an inestimable and blessing loaded day again to all our following leaders on the Married & Unmarried platform.
We appreciate you.
It's been awesome discussing the current topic "Love Series", and we look forward to seeing your contribution and question at the comment box.

How has the 50 characteristics or attributes of love been able to put you on track the more? Comment below

Remember we discussed love as patient and I told you that it means "Suffering Delay" but delay is not denial, it is all about denying instant gratification for a future glorification.
Waiting in love is not a waste of time if it becomes the weight in time.

With this new information, let us look at the acronym of time and then deal with the issue of time.

T - Total

I - Investment

M - Meaningfully

E - Engaged.

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Love quench Thirst...
Nobody rejects water H2O the oxygen and hydrogen combined. No matter the kind of mixture you take in your body, water solves the ultimate thirst and make you satisfied, starting from your tongue to your lips, cheeks, teeth before it gets to your throat and finally down to your belly.
Water is used for cooking, drinking, bathing, washing, cleaning, etc.
When it falls as rain, it quenches both thirst and heated environment. When it is poured on the body, it cools down the body temperature and washes away body dirt.
It is the hot temperature cooler.
When the air conditioner is having heat on the inside, it produces cold water like the refrigerator and freezer.

Oxygen on the other hand serve as a life giver or life sustainer. Any dead person does not breathe in oxygen anymore and that is why we call them dead.
Absence of oxygen situation..
This brings us to the crucial and energy converting aspect of love.

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Patience simply means Suffering Delay.
Suffering? In what sense?
This word does not necessarily mean suffering as in torment because it is fear that has torment.
It is not a way of being enslaved, as in servitude - to serve is good but to be in servitude is evil and love cannot entertain evil practices.

The word suffering is more understood as "allowing" or "permission". It is an intentional, not forceful word that causes one to be in bond, though love is a bond; not bondage.

What is the difference between a Bond and Bondage?
Let us look at chemistry here, for ❤ is chemistry, without it there can be no bonding.

Bonding is the coming together of two atoms of element to form a chemical.

Oxygen + Hydrogen gives us water.

Considering these two great factors without them, the whole world will be thirsty.

Are you aware that some people are actually thirsty for love in our world today?

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Hello following leaders, it yet a brighter day. I see everyone shinning gloriously this love series season.
This series is an interactive one, and so we urge you to share your thought in the comment box below and share the posts with family and friends if this series is of value to you.
Still on the Love Series, after considering some of the definitions of love, about fifty (50) of them, let us take some of them before we consider the three types of love, because these attributes are of great importance to our world and if we can get it early there are a lot of benefits attached to this knowledge. It will give a better understanding.
Consider the first attribute, which states that "Love is Patient".

What is Patience?
Comment below.

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50 Things to Know About Love

26. Love is the greatest bond (on earth and anywhere).
27. Love rejoices in the right, not wrong.
28. Love is not irritable.
29. Love fulfills all laws, it is the seal of laws.
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Till next week,

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50 Things to Know About Love

1. Love is patient - suffers long or suffers delay
2. Love is kind
3. Love is not boastful
4. Love is not rude
5. Love hopes all things
6. Love believes all things
7. Love bears all things
8. Love is a conqueror
9. Love never fails
10. Love never dies
11. Love makes things easy
12. Love bears fruit - it is fruitful
13. Love is truthful, it never tells lies
14. Love flows like a current in one direction from two love birds
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Introduction of Love Series

Hello leading viewers, friends, family members and well willing personalities.
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It is getting more interesting now, because after we have been able to outlist and look at Relationship and its Seven Levels. We are now going deeper into a new level, which the Love ❤ Series.

Have you been in or fallen in love with someone before?
How does it feel like to be in or fall in love?
I want you to comment below.

Love is real, reliable, reciprocal, roving, rolling, in the air always, causes a rigid personality to gradually become reasonable and flexible.
Love is a king, ruler, controller, causes disruptions of negativities.

The acronymn for the word LOVE is:
L - Living
O - Offering
V - Verified
E - Endlessly

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