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I noticed this non inching reaction on my back, please has anyone experienced something like this. I'm currently applying KETORAL cream on it.

PerfectStranger:
If it was his fellow man that begged him for even #100k for business he'll say he doesn't have.

Y'all think money can buy a woman's loyalty and respect? You give her ill treatment and expect her to be your ride or die just coz you were foolishly spending on her lol jokes on u.

Some men think money is everything

Ibkay32:
Some Nigerian men really need to evaluate their priorities. How does it make sense to pay someone’s rent and cover other expenses during a relationship, especially when she’s not your wife or even your sister? Relationships should be about mutual support, not one-sided financial dependency. It's one thing to help out occasionally, but turning yourself into a sponsor in the name of love is questionable.

Men need to understand that providing financial assistance should be an act of kindness, not an obligation. If you’re doing these things with the hope of securing loyalty or affection, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment. A genuine relationship is built on shared values and mutual respect, not material exchanges. It's time to stop confusing financial responsibility with love.

exactly

Thanks for the statement

Ibkay32:
That's typical of some Nigerian men. If it were his best friend asking for ₦10 million to start a business, he would probably claim he doesn't have the money. But when it comes to spending on a woman, they suddenly find the resources.

It's ironic how priorities can shift depending on the situation. Relationships should be built on mutual respect and understanding, not transactional expectations. If he chose to spend money willingly during the relationship, it doesn’t mean it was an investment expecting returns. True generosity doesn’t come with strings attached.

This situation highlights how some people misuse relationships as a means of control or entitlement, which is unfortunate. It’s a lesson for others to set clear boundaries and avoid entangling finances with emotions unless there’s mutual understanding.

Samantha125:
There's no case here... ... He did all those things out of love and they would be regarded as gifts... Because I don't think there was any contractual agreement between him and her when he decided to pay for her house rent and other expenses.

He's just wasting his time...

Okay, thanks for the advice

I sure can but it has to be private 😔

A friend in distress! My friend (who'll be responding in the comments) is facing a shocking situation. After ending a 2-year relationship, her ex-boyfriend is now suing her for ₦10m in damages!

The backstory: He paid her house rent and other expenses during their relationship. However, she realized she couldn't continue due to his disrespect, poor communication, and other personal issues. Despite his proposal, she refused to marry him, leading to the breakup.

Now, he's taking her to court, demanding reimbursement for all expenses. Has anyone faced a similar situation? What advice can you offer? Share your thoughts and help my friend navigate this challenging situation!"

Who's the guy do you?

What?

MrCork:

shortgun:
Your grandfather is asking you to perform proper traditional burial rites for him...
After that you will experience tremendous success

Which is?

MrCork:
Question:
Wot did u smoke before the dream sir?(no oofencse)

Nothing sir, I don't smoke

IbrahimSkiba:
It means Your grandfather's ghost is going to leading to a place where you'll receive something big


Pray about it🤷

Really!

I was in a dream, the dream was all about my grandfather's burial. In that dream i was asked to go and bring the casket to church. I carried what i believed to be the casket but on getting to the church what i was holding was pure gold, they asked me to go and sit down in a chair in the church while i was still holding the casket that was small and pure gold, few minutes later some groups brought in the main casket to the church it was then i realized i was holding a small gold casket instead of the main casket, then i worked out of the church and opened my eyes from the dream.
And the this my grandfather died 2 years ago and he has been buried.

What could be the meaning of this dream?

This your urine MCs result, I no understand am oh.. there are some things missing there, by the way, you've got to understand that everyone has staphylococcus, it only becomes a problem when it gets to your blood stream. Be careful with all this road side labs in Nigeria. I can tell you that what's wrong with you is scabies, buy Benzyl benzoate the original one after one week it will clear off.

Okay

ForValour:
Tell her straighth away. Dont be afraid of hurting her. Be frank and tell her your mind as you feel it. If she feels offended, find way to pacify her but make sure she get the message clear.

Who will cook then?

MrBrownJay1:
accept her the way she is and be merry.... some people out there are just bad as some things, even when they try as hard as they can.

What's the best way to tell your girlfriend she's not good at cooking without hurting her, because she's a very nice girl. She's good in every other thing but her cooking skills is not encouraging, how do i tell her without hurting her?